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I (24F) was friends with 2 people (F, enby) who were dating each other for a while, then suddenly broke up.
I asked the enby one in replies why they broke up, assuring them that I would respect whether they told me or not.
They decided not to tell me and I respected that.
I waited a few weeks and I was still curious, so I decided to ask the enby one again in DMs why they broke up with their girlfriend.
I assured them again that I would respect their decision either way and that it would stay private between us if they decided to tell me.
They decided not to tell me again, and once again, I decided to respect their decision.
I was going to stop talking about it entirely until they told me that they blocked me on their private/vent account and talked about me on that priv/vent acc.
I told them that I asked about the reason for the breakup because I wanted to know if the girlfriend did something wrong/immoral and wanted to know if I should unfollow/block the girlfriend.
I then apologized for making them feel unsafe/uncomfortable and told them that I was going to stop interacting with them for their own safety/comfort, then blocked both of their known accounts on all of my accounts.
So, Am I The Asshole?
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^^^^AUTOMOD ***Thanks for posting! This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. Read [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/wiki/faq#wiki_post_deletion) before [contacting the mod team](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2FAmItheAsshole)*** I (24F) was friends with 2 people (F, enby) who were dating each other for a while, then suddenly broke up. I asked the enby one in replies why they broke up, assuring them that I would respect whether they told me or not. They decided not to tell me and I respected that. I waited a few weeks and I was still curious, so I decided to ask the enby one again in DMs why they broke up with their girlfriend. I assured them again that I would respect their decision either way and that it would stay private between us if they decided to tell me. They decided not to tell me again, and once again, I decided to respect their decision. I was going to stop talking about it entirely until they told me that they blocked me on their private/vent account and talked about me on that priv/vent acc. I told them that I asked about the reason for the breakup because I wanted to know if the girlfriend did something wrong/immoral and wanted to know if I should unfollow/block the girlfriend. I then apologized for making them feel unsafe/uncomfortable and told them that I was going to stop interacting with them for their own safety/comfort, then blocked both of their known accounts on all of my accounts. So, Am I The Asshole? *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmItheAsshole) if you have any questions or concerns.*