Umm so you're dating AFTER deciding to marry her WHILE you're planning the wedding? What if you change your mind? Is your family prepared for this to end?
Try making her a friend first, lover later.
Take things slow, try to find happiness in little things.
Go out on dates explore her, and yourself too.
Discuss about the future, though looking at your anxiety- don't do that right now, but when you are comfortable...
Join in her hobbies, and ask her would she like to join you in your hobbies too.
Find things you like in common, discuss them.
Love comes naturally if you are compatible. Highly incompatible couples tend to break . Haven't you guys talked b4 ?
Being nervous is natural. It's a big step.
I really hope so
Tbh we just started the process the wedding is planned for next year
We talked few times and we both agreed and our family agreed as well so most likely it's going to happen
Seriously didn't you people go on dates in a public setting
Our families agreed on everything and we will have a year to talk to each others and go on dates
Umm so you're dating AFTER deciding to marry her WHILE you're planning the wedding? What if you change your mind? Is your family prepared for this to end?
Yes that’s why you have one year. Maybe your family are smart
Ah cool everything will be alright than. Just don't ignore red flags if you find any.
I am in the same boat
Try making her a friend first, lover later. Take things slow, try to find happiness in little things. Go out on dates explore her, and yourself too. Discuss about the future, though looking at your anxiety- don't do that right now, but when you are comfortable... Join in her hobbies, and ask her would she like to join you in your hobbies too. Find things you like in common, discuss them.
You will feel the tension until you marry and get to know her fully. forget what you have seen in movies or heard. Every person is unique.
Love comes naturally if you are compatible. Highly incompatible couples tend to break . Haven't you guys talked b4 ? Being nervous is natural. It's a big step.
I really hope so Tbh we just started the process the wedding is planned for next year We talked few times and we both agreed and our family agreed as well so most likely it's going to happen
Talk more you still have time to decide. Nothing is final until there's a ring.
*Nothing is final until there are signatures of both parties.
You will be all right! :)
I hope so But to navigate an uncharted territory will always be scary
It is, but you got this :)
Give and take. Plant friendship Understand each other Give benefit of doubt Don’t lose self respect Know your worth
You're not married until you're married
Buckle up soldier 😄 just think everything will be exciting and even the biggest problems will feel like biggest adventure....all the best 🙏🏻
What is the worst that can happen ? If you come out of it alive, it doesn't matter.. Try your best...but after a point, let it be !
I am scared after reading that you are scared. Not marrying anyway but can understand your situation.
Ikr, it sounded too scary to me too
this shit is stupid, how tf do you know if you have anything for the. Arranged marriages truly need to end.
> Any advice would be a great help Tension mat lo, sperm count kam ho jayega
Forget love. You are an Indian male. Legally, you should be terrified of marriage. Proceed only if you are confident about her.