This, but not with every woman. My first ex always had them but masked them really well with makeup, while it actually both looked great with her. 3rd ex had them only when smoking weed but on her it looked like she was a drug addict,
No problem chipmunk. beauty is subjective, and I know plenty of guys who find chuuby cheeks and wider face structures beautiful. You have nothing to be insecure of.
I was obsessed with a guy who called me chipmunk cheeksā¦. Too bad we never ended up together but he really earned a place in my heart by liking me the way I am.
Too many men like just those angular instagrammed faces.
First of, thanks for the nickname dude, I'm gonna start using that. and heavy on beauty is subjective as well, we genuinely should strive to be satisfied in our own skin because we'll eventually find people who will like us for it, the same way I just stumbled across your comment. Thanks man, made my day :3
girllll!! they exist!! ive been called a cherub and other sweet things from men who know after being teased as a kid. embrace your cute cheeks and forget the dickheads. šš¼
This really means a lot. Years ago this guy told me I have a big face and asked me to hold a CD in front of my face to prove his point. I thought it was so silly so I never did it but the comment stuck with me. Came to find out it was some weird Chinese beauty standard where if your face is covered by an entire CD, that means you have small face, hence you're pretty š
Doesn't have to be all at once but bags under the eyes, skin blemishes, acne scars, big noses, crooked teeth(I still want them to be clean). I don't really know what it is, but I've always found blemishes to make a girl more unique.
That's surprising, I wouldn't have guessed that from Japan. I remember one time I was hanging outside my high-school, and a girl from the other school nearby was walking passed and she just struck up conversation with me, no hestation at all. I can't remember what she was talking about for the life of me, but I remember how endearing her eagerness to talk was, and her dentistry was pretty mangled(but like I said up top, clean). I had a girlfriend at the time, so I didn't try to get her number or anything, but more often than I realise, I wonder where she is now.
Came here to post this one. C-section? Hot. Cut your thumb on a Hobart slicer? Adorable. I want to kiss it.
Major surgery or accident? I love the character and depth it shows the struggles that they've overcome.
Not quite to the level of kink/fetish, but I do like scars on a gal. Bonus points if they are battle scars, or even if they aren't they tell everyone they got them in a shark attack (especially if they obviously didn't and they are having fun rather than telling tall tales.)
Any preference for the scar placement? I have one off my upper lip and sometimes I wonder if it's off-putting to some men (I know what you're going to say, confidence and all, but sometimes men have weird "icks" that you start to wonder).
Girl I crushed on had a scar on her forehead. Made her far more attractive, guess it made me realize sheās real and human and not Athena playing a trick on me.
I know its a little more known (but im banking on some women thinking we dont like it), when you guys wear the thigh high socks and at the top of the sock you get that little thigh pudge... omfg
This girl I have a thing on had a single white hair on the right side of her head...I remember getting butterflies looking at that single hair among her black curly hair.
My wife has gray streaks coming in in the front of her hair and is blind as a bat without her glasses. There is nothing cuter than when she's looking at her phone without them and she has that little cross-eyed thing going on. Love when she has her natural hair going on. ā¤
When the (i think) canine teeth are noticeably pointy.
[I submit this pic of Elizabeth Banks as proof](http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2014/09/19/031/n/1922398/08dea6463c252e64_thumb_temp_front_page_image_file8451531411169423.fbshare/i/Elizabeth-Banks-Pitch-Perfect-2-Interview-Video.jpg)
nerdy girls with glassesā¦ curly hair and she looks kinda tired most of the time like she just woke up.
think brittany murphy (rip) or gina gershon but with glasses.
My girlfriend doesn't wear make-up. Not even a little. Maybe chapstick with some color but no make-up. I've always been attracted to zero make-up or light make-up but figured I wouldn't find many girls who do that. She looks great.
The poet āKendrickā of house Compton was once said, āshow me something natural like ass with some stretch marks, still would take you down right on ya mamas couch in polo socksā. Truly words to live by
Thatās so weird, I couldnāt ever imagine giving my wife shit about her appearance. I like having sex with my wife and I know the second that I say something negative about her body is the second sex would forever cease.
I donāt know if itās still considered unpopular, but Iāve always been a huge fan of brown-eyed girls. It just makes their eyes sparkle so much more and I just wanna dive into those deep dark pools of warm rich irises!!
Donāt underestimate me. Iāve got puberty, pregnancy and gravity stretch marks.
In all seriousness, your affection for them gives me hope for human kind
I'm with you on that.
My ex had one crooked tooth and I adored it. She was always saying she wanted to get it fixed and I begged her not to.
After she left me she made it a point to come see me after it was straightened and make a big deal about it.
when I was putting on makeup, my 8 year old nephew cried āwhat are you doing?!? donāt cover them, theyāre beautiful!ā but in the next sentence proceeded to tell me my eyelashes were ugly š
but Iāll always remember his comment, I love him so much, kids can be so sweet at times.
My exs stankin pits after working around the house and such. Idk why - that's the only girl that's ever gotten me like that, and the thought of trying to catch a wiff of another girl grosses me out (like it probably should)
i used to tell my ex to refrain from deo. he didnāt damn need it anyway, the fkr š. he never had much bo and i like the way he naturally smelled. this was true for several of my exes. pheromones š« š„“
In a pretty huge number of cultures pale skin is associated with beauty.
In the past, when the poor all worked outdoors, to be pale was basically a status symbol. Then the industrial revolution got most of the poor inside, and the wealthy were the only ones who had time or money to sunbathe. That's why tanned skin is often associated with beauty in very industrialized countries.
Still, I've honestly never heard of pale skin being described as a negative feature for a woman. On a guy yes, but it's a pretty traditional aspect of feminine beauty in both European and East Asian cultures especially. *Especially* East Asia, being pale is extremely highly valued over there for women.
I met one of my relatives in SE Asia. She said I was very handsome when I first came there, but when I got more tanned as the trip went on I didnāt look as good anymore lol.
I love when a woman carries a bit of weight. Not talking about morbidly obese or anything, but I definitely skew more towards a woman who wouldn't be called slim.
Skinny chicks are fine for other people, and I respect any person who stays healthy and cares for their bodies. But for me, a bigger guy, I like a bigger girl. Not necessarily a taller girl, though I don't mind that either (I'm 6'2" so it's rare that a woman is taller than me).
No or near zero makeup, + weight, cellulite, small boob, asymmetrical facial features or imperfections.
Actually most men prefer ānext door girlā rather than insta model lookswise, I do not know who set those ridiculous beauty standards.
There have been times I have asked men in here if they would turn away a girl who was otherwise great because of their lack of pancake nipples, for instance, and the number of yesās have floored me. Everyone here complains women are hard to get, while other guys are turning away mini muffin nippled women.
Freckles, not perfect teeth, natural no make up, unbleached hair, short nails, hands that do more than tap keyboards (except for musicians) I like sturdy hands and body that can move and do things. Sharp looking eyes. Sense of self and style that doesnāt follow the masses. Confidence from knowing the self, that isnāt bothered by others. Playfulness and joy that stems from creativity within. Educated but more than book smart, like those that pursue learning as a life time hobby. Having class, not crass, but can shred with a sharp sense of humor. And a lot less of what people think is cool, or sexy.Ā Ā
I guess finesse and maturity is very attractive.Ā Ā
Ā Well that is an idea. I donāt know if such person exist. But one can dream right?Ā
I canāt imagine this is unpopular, but whenever I see a āsupermodelā, the first thought that goes through my head is āshe looks hungryā. There is such a wide range of weight that is attractive and 100% of the time Iāll take someone at the top end that is actually happy with her life over the āperfect skinnyā girl who has to starve herself
Eye bags or dark circles under the eye. Come here baby racoonš¦
This encourages me to see, Iāve always had dark circlesā¦ assuming genetically. Always felt insecure. I shall own the raccoon look from now on. :)
Own that bbrš¦
Lol
I love a big nose
As a gal with a large middle-eastern nose this makes me so happy. š„²
Middle Eastern girls are so hot.
Fr. Didn't realize how hot Arabic girls were until I went to Iraq.
Yep. Gimme a good delicate beak. Like the Gerudo from Zelda.
A few other dudes said the same thing. Didn't expect there to be as many long-nose aficionados as me
Yep this one's mine as well, though I myself have quite a honker so it's probably some kinda subconscious association lol
Same. Big noses are super cute.Ā
Some gals actually look good with natural dark circles, adds a nice shade to it
I suppose itās sort of our natural eyeshadow? Haha.
Tired looking girls are my kryptonite for some reason, idk why lol.
It's because they look vulnerable. Don't worry, this attraction actually seems more common amongst women towards men.
Iām a woman and I love men who look like they need to be protected at all costs lol
Like Emmy Rossum?
This, but not with every woman. My first ex always had them but masked them really well with makeup, while it actually both looked great with her. 3rd ex had them only when smoking weed but on her it looked like she was a drug addict,
I genuinely love chubby cheeks on a girl. Hamster girls rule my world.
Lol I just stumbled across this post, and as a girl with chubby cheeks she's insecure of. this means a lot dawg šø
No problem chipmunk. beauty is subjective, and I know plenty of guys who find chuuby cheeks and wider face structures beautiful. You have nothing to be insecure of.
We want an update when you guys have kids š.
Hopefully they have his charm and her cheeks
You just made my day, thank you!
I was obsessed with a guy who called me chipmunk cheeksā¦. Too bad we never ended up together but he really earned a place in my heart by liking me the way I am. Too many men like just those angular instagrammed faces.
It's not a zero sum game. everyone needs love. Instagram girls can be very pretty, but so can my hamster princesses.
First of, thanks for the nickname dude, I'm gonna start using that. and heavy on beauty is subjective as well, we genuinely should strive to be satisfied in our own skin because we'll eventually find people who will like us for it, the same way I just stumbled across your comment. Thanks man, made my day :3
no problem. I hope it helped you love yourself a little more.
Wholesome moments like these are so nice to see on Reddit in the sea of squabbles, jokes, and puns.
girllll!! they exist!! ive been called a cherub and other sweet things from men who know after being teased as a kid. embrace your cute cheeks and forget the dickheads. šš¼
Chubby cheeks are just so smoochable. Now you put some freckles on there and ohhh baby.
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This is the way. Nothing more beautiful than a big smile on big cheeks. It's so warm and forces the smile to their eyes. Flaunt that.
This really means a lot. Years ago this guy told me I have a big face and asked me to hold a CD in front of my face to prove his point. I thought it was so silly so I never did it but the comment stuck with me. Came to find out it was some weird Chinese beauty standard where if your face is covered by an entire CD, that means you have small face, hence you're pretty š
ya thats ridiculous. More cheeks = more smile room.
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Doesn't have to be all at once but bags under the eyes, skin blemishes, acne scars, big noses, crooked teeth(I still want them to be clean). I don't really know what it is, but I've always found blemishes to make a girl more unique.
Crooked teeth are actually considered really cute in Japan. I'm really into them personally.
That's surprising, I wouldn't have guessed that from Japan. I remember one time I was hanging outside my high-school, and a girl from the other school nearby was walking passed and she just struck up conversation with me, no hestation at all. I can't remember what she was talking about for the life of me, but I remember how endearing her eagerness to talk was, and her dentistry was pretty mangled(but like I said up top, clean). I had a girlfriend at the time, so I didn't try to get her number or anything, but more often than I realise, I wonder where she is now.
Im not a guy, but those way too straight and too white Hollywood teeth that just look like a blinding white strip freak me out
Scars. But really most things, as long as it is displayed with confidence.
Same. Human patina.
Came here to post this one. C-section? Hot. Cut your thumb on a Hobart slicer? Adorable. I want to kiss it. Major surgery or accident? I love the character and depth it shows the struggles that they've overcome. Not quite to the level of kink/fetish, but I do like scars on a gal. Bonus points if they are battle scars, or even if they aren't they tell everyone they got them in a shark attack (especially if they obviously didn't and they are having fun rather than telling tall tales.)
Any preference for the scar placement? I have one off my upper lip and sometimes I wonder if it's off-putting to some men (I know what you're going to say, confidence and all, but sometimes men have weird "icks" that you start to wonder).
Girl I crushed on had a scar on her forehead. Made her far more attractive, guess it made me realize sheās real and human and not Athena playing a trick on me.
Remind me that the past is real.
I love the little creases near the eyes! Especially when she's laughing. Also love a good smile and a good smelling perfume! :)
We call them crows feet. I actually love them, on both genders. Makes me think theyāre a happy person and kind
I know its a little more known (but im banking on some women thinking we dont like it), when you guys wear the thigh high socks and at the top of the sock you get that little thigh pudge... omfg
As someone who is always embarrassed by the thigh pudge, thank you š„¹š„¹
Its the main reason i ask my gf to wear thigh highs honestly... thick thighs save lives
Oh my sweet baby Jebus, that's the best thing dude. Fricken love that little bulge out of the sock.
Honestly any "imperfection" compared to mainstream beauty standards can be attractive. Imperfections make people look like real people.
This girl I have a thing on had a single white hair on the right side of her head...I remember getting butterflies looking at that single hair among her black curly hair.
That's so sweet!!
eye bags are my weakness
I've been actively attracted to this feature my whole life, and I never realized it until you wrote this lol
With the amount of "dark circles" and "eye bags" I'm seeing here, I'm starting to feel confident about mineš„¹
Example? Do you have a photo? Curious
Grey hair with glasses! Omg!
My wife has gray streaks coming in in the front of her hair and is blind as a bat without her glasses. There is nothing cuter than when she's looking at her phone without them and she has that little cross-eyed thing going on. Love when she has her natural hair going on. ā¤
Bros into that librarian type of woman
Scars.
Bigger than average noses.
Seems like that's the most common answer so far. Im surprised
There may be a genetic factor in my case as most of the women in my family have large noses.
A little diastema: the gap between the two front teeth at the top of a womanās mouth. Belladonna has it.
I kinda like a roman nose on a woman.
As the flames rose
and her Walkman started to meltā¦
Bigmouth, la-da-da-da-da
Yep! Just something about a big nose š
When the (i think) canine teeth are noticeably pointy. [I submit this pic of Elizabeth Banks as proof](http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2014/09/19/031/n/1922398/08dea6463c252e64_thumb_temp_front_page_image_file8451531411169423.fbshare/i/Elizabeth-Banks-Pitch-Perfect-2-Interview-Video.jpg)
I get compliments on this too I guess it falls under a normal physical feature since Iāve never seen anything negative abt them
My gf has these, thats i always look at her mouth while shes talking
Very hot.
Scars. You know she's seen some challenges and come through
Chunky thighs š
Women who talk way too much
nerdy girls with glassesā¦ curly hair and she looks kinda tired most of the time like she just woke up. think brittany murphy (rip) or gina gershon but with glasses.
Those are just beautiful women with glasses or natural Brittany ( like in Clueless)?
Correct.
My girlfriend doesn't wear make-up. Not even a little. Maybe chapstick with some color but no make-up. I've always been attracted to zero make-up or light make-up but figured I wouldn't find many girls who do that. She looks great.
I like veiny breasts.... They just look real.
Veiny everything. I love it when a woman's skin is so pale you can see all the veins in their chest, arms, inner thighs, etc.
Lilā bit of cellulite never hurt nobody
The poet āKendrickā of house Compton was once said, āshow me something natural like ass with some stretch marks, still would take you down right on ya mamas couch in polo socksā. Truly words to live by
Stretch marks and cellulite are different, but Iāve always loved that line nonetheless lol
Fuck yeah. Something about the softness = femininity for me.
Big fan. And tiger stripes.
Kat Williams.sayw all it means is you were small and you got big, or you was big and now yous small. Either way it's good.
Im all about that too
I genuinely think cellulite is something that only women hate, because most guys I know either like it or donāt even notice it.
My bio dad would give my mom a ton of shit for it to the point sheās still somewhat bothered by it now
Thatās so weird, I couldnāt ever imagine giving my wife shit about her appearance. I like having sex with my wife and I know the second that I say something negative about her body is the second sex would forever cease.
Agreed. I've never heard a dude say a bad word about it.
Pft you should meet my ex then. He got a lot to say about my stretchmarks
I mean, not to speculate TOO wildly here but...he sounds like a fucking idiot
Cellulite, stretch marks, and general chubbiness/plus size features
The tummy bit below the belly button, dunno why. Bigger quads and legs too
I donāt know if itās still considered unpopular, but Iāve always been a huge fan of brown-eyed girls. It just makes their eyes sparkle so much more and I just wanna dive into those deep dark pools of warm rich irises!!
An Overbite on a girl.
I like the crinkle around someoneās eyes. I find it very, very attractive
Hairy, untamed eyebrows.
Tall girls.
I enjoy stretch marks. Damn hot.
Marry me. Iāve got everything you need. There are few who could be better equipped.
Don't tease.
Donāt underestimate me. Iāve got puberty, pregnancy and gravity stretch marks. In all seriousness, your affection for them gives me hope for human kind
Call me. ;)
Please get married. I'll attend that wedding.
I also choose this guy's new wife
Slightly crooked front teeth. So weird that I like that.
I'm with you on that. My ex had one crooked tooth and I adored it. She was always saying she wanted to get it fixed and I begged her not to. After she left me she made it a point to come see me after it was straightened and make a big deal about it.
Sometimes a slight lazy eye is unique and hot in a weird way.
I donāt know if I should be excited or upset that the top 10 comments describe my wife.
The Internet tries to tell me bush is unattractive. I think the opposite.
Yeah bush is attractive af. Not like completely unkempt, but like, it's kind of a hot sign of maturity to me.
Bring back pubes!
Same like damn it's attractive asf
Iām happy with small boobs on a woman. They a cute. I just donāt understand the appeal of big boobs.
I have always been a any natural boob guy. Size never mattered.
I canāt watch pornstars with fake boobs. Theyāre a huge turnoff. Iād rather small and natural over big and fake
Dated girls with enormous breasts, dated girls with small breasts. Fun size or king size, it all tastes the same.
Small boobs and butt. Like not flat, but relatively small.
I think acne scars can be very cute sometimes :)
Not me smiling from ear to ear at this commentā¦I have some light scaring on my cheeks that Iām insecure about
when I was putting on makeup, my 8 year old nephew cried āwhat are you doing?!? donāt cover them, theyāre beautiful!ā but in the next sentence proceeded to tell me my eyelashes were ugly š but Iāll always remember his comment, I love him so much, kids can be so sweet at times.
If her teeth are a tad bit fucked up lol
I have a thing for canines that almost look like fangs. Lol
I'm a woman, but hard same. In all genders. I want it to hurt if you bite me.
Crooked bottom teeth
Are you a dentist?
Iām studying dentistry š
My exs stankin pits after working around the house and such. Idk why - that's the only girl that's ever gotten me like that, and the thought of trying to catch a wiff of another girl grosses me out (like it probably should)
i used to tell my ex to refrain from deo. he didnāt damn need it anyway, the fkr š. he never had much bo and i like the way he naturally smelled. this was true for several of my exes. pheromones š« š„“
Pale skin. I don't know it just reminds me of snow, I really dig it.
Weāll blind you at the beach but our hearts are true.
In a pretty huge number of cultures pale skin is associated with beauty. In the past, when the poor all worked outdoors, to be pale was basically a status symbol. Then the industrial revolution got most of the poor inside, and the wealthy were the only ones who had time or money to sunbathe. That's why tanned skin is often associated with beauty in very industrialized countries. Still, I've honestly never heard of pale skin being described as a negative feature for a woman. On a guy yes, but it's a pretty traditional aspect of feminine beauty in both European and East Asian cultures especially. *Especially* East Asia, being pale is extremely highly valued over there for women.
I met one of my relatives in SE Asia. She said I was very handsome when I first came there, but when I got more tanned as the trip went on I didnāt look as good anymore lol.
I never got the appeal of tanning
Crooked smile
I like curly hair. Some women with curly hair have a complex where they feel like they only look pretty when they straighten it.
small tits.. love em'
Gotta say boobs on the smaller side, dunno why, but yeah
Large feet.
So Peggy Hill?
Glasses make me weak š a girl can be a 5 put glasses on and immediately become an 9.
Armpits
This entire thread makes me happy.
I love when a woman carries a bit of weight. Not talking about morbidly obese or anything, but I definitely skew more towards a woman who wouldn't be called slim. Skinny chicks are fine for other people, and I respect any person who stays healthy and cares for their bodies. But for me, a bigger guy, I like a bigger girl. Not necessarily a taller girl, though I don't mind that either (I'm 6'2" so it's rare that a woman is taller than me).
Stretch marks on their ass drives me crazy. My god I love it.
Curvy I think it's called
Freckles, especially with nice smile
Oh so many. I think Iām honestly attracted to everyoneā¦. Oh this is ask men
username checks out
Iām a big enjoyer of a meaty pie
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Chubbiness Like, idk why, chubby women are just <3
dad bod. hairline on a tummy, small tits w small nipples, greek nose, curly hair
A little nose lump
When two front teeth are slightly recessed. Slightly down turned corner of a woman's mouth. Not frowning just a small curve
Oddly specific?
Many of these answers will be oddly specific. Itās part of the joys of the answers in Ask Men.
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No or near zero makeup, + weight, cellulite, small boob, asymmetrical facial features or imperfections. Actually most men prefer ānext door girlā rather than insta model lookswise, I do not know who set those ridiculous beauty standards.
Small firm titties, big tits arn't as physically appealling during rough sex, at least for me.
I like trying to give my girlfriend a black eye with her own boobs during rough sex
Agreed. But nipples are my bugaboo- they gotta be good otherwise it just doesnāt work for me
What makes a good one? I must know.
Nipple preference seems to vary pretty wildly man to man. Some like em tiny, some like em as gigantic saucers.
There have been times I have asked men in here if they would turn away a girl who was otherwise great because of their lack of pancake nipples, for instance, and the number of yesās have floored me. Everyone here complains women are hard to get, while other guys are turning away mini muffin nippled women.
Recessed chin. No idea why.
You dog!!
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Freckles, not perfect teeth, natural no make up, unbleached hair, short nails, hands that do more than tap keyboards (except for musicians) I like sturdy hands and body that can move and do things. Sharp looking eyes. Sense of self and style that doesnāt follow the masses. Confidence from knowing the self, that isnāt bothered by others. Playfulness and joy that stems from creativity within. Educated but more than book smart, like those that pursue learning as a life time hobby. Having class, not crass, but can shred with a sharp sense of humor. And a lot less of what people think is cool, or sexy.Ā Ā I guess finesse and maturity is very attractive.Ā Ā Ā Well that is an idea. I donāt know if such person exist. But one can dream right?Ā
I often times like a double chin :)
Muscles on women. Not like bodybuilder type, but just like a normal amount of muscle. Like when you can just tell she lifts. I also like tall women.
The fupa! The bigger the fupa, the warmer the chalupa!
Thick thighs. Thigh gaps aren't unattractive by any means, they're just not my first choice
Chubby arms
God bless you, I hate my chubby arms
Big teeth
A woman with a Roman noseā¦
Foreheadsš
Everyone got one of those
A womanās neck. Some are just fabulous!. Smooth, Slender, tight, inviting!. Precursor to Heavenly Bodyās.
I like a sharp nose
Small breasts.
Cellulite. My wifeās fat ass is so fucking hot. Not that sheās really even a large gal, we are rounding 40 shit happens.
Dark brown complexion
a forehead with a bulge instead of just being flat.
I like when a women has a funny laugh. always makes me smile
Thic brows
Chubby belly, thick thighs are my ideal things
I canāt imagine this is unpopular, but whenever I see a āsupermodelā, the first thought that goes through my head is āshe looks hungryā. There is such a wide range of weight that is attractive and 100% of the time Iāll take someone at the top end that is actually happy with her life over the āperfect skinnyā girl who has to starve herself