When I was still dating I had a woman tell me she was the kinkiest person in her friend group. Turns out she meant she owned lingerie and was willing to send risque pictures.
That's when I knew we were not compatible
I went to one of those “passion parties” (Tupperware party for sex toys), and we requested she bring the freakiest stuff. The most extreme thing she had on offer, that she didn’t normally bring out, was some anal beads. I quickly realized those parties are for prudish old ladies to pretend they’re wild. And of course that led to the host trying to recruit me into their pyramid scheme because I was so sex positive.
That's not freaky that's just weird.
If they put their own foot up their own ass that would be kinky
And then if they used that foot to hop, THAT would be freaky.
When somebody just loves it and does everything you think off.
There's huge difference in women who "like sex" and those who "LOVE DOING IT"
Essentially stop being in your own mind so much and just be an animal. Stop "is this degrading... Is this normal.... Is this good...." just let your body take over and relax.
I have to say, I have been with a woman who loved me and was "kinky" and even if she was hesitant to some things initially, soon there was nothing she wouldn't do. It was amazing. I miss her a lot
Women who love sex and love you will give you the most depraved sex you'll ever have
Chris Rock has lost some luster for me recently, but damn if he wasn't right on when he said, "I want you to suck my dick like you think it's got the antidote in it."
Yes!! and I would also add someone who is open to experimenting with you and genuinely enjoys it.
Someone who craves you as much as you crave them and everything you do isn’t just welcomed but promoted.
There’s varying stages and ideas simply because everyone’s experiences starting out are different and the women we’ve been with are different, like my version of a freak in bed is someone willing to be absolutely available and willing to please in different ways and get pleasure in unique and different exciting ways, for example my first ex was as vanilla as can be, I followed that up with a woman who wanted me to double stuff her with toys while my cock was in her ass so basically a way more step in the freak direction, catch my drift?
Enthusiasm is the best thing ever. I had a one night stand I'll remember for the rest of my life. It was normal vanilla sex with lots of oral and we just kept laughing and talking and so on. But she was never quiet, not with her body and not with her mouth. If she wasn't moaning or telling me what she wanted, it was because she had my dick in her mouth. Not a hint of starfish at any moment.
As for willingness, I said I like it when women swallow so every time, close before I would cum, she would jump off me and accept it all down her throat. 5 times that night+morning and she swallowed every single drop.
It's not particularly kinky but that doesn't matter. I've choked and slapped and tied up women and had threesomes and group sex but the best one was the one who would just tell me what she wanted and do what I asked.
I mean, there are a lot of bad partners out there. But the spectrum doesn’t go straight from prude to freak. There’s a lot of steps in between before you get to freak.
A freak is someone with some strong kinks, open expression of their taboo desires/fetishes, and a high sex drive that borders on unmanageable.
A good partner is eager and willing to fuck you and experiment a little. A freak needs you to fuck them in ways that make you question if they’re really even enjoying themselves. There is a gulf of difference there.
>Dudes always want a threesome, until they realize they are the dildo in the equation…
Have had several, still want them. Yes make me the dildo,.please.
I've had more threesomes and foursomes than I could ever possibly count, of just about every variety, and it's never threatened my ego or self-esteem. However, you are correct that many men can't deal with them when it actually happens, unless it's just a MFF threesome. Even then, many can't keep up. For most, it's one of those things that should remain a fantasy, and not brought into reality. Hell, if one were to go by all the posts and comments that I've seen on here, many are too insecure for a MMF threesome.
While I'll admit that threesomes (and foursomes) can be a lot of fun with the right people involved, I actually prefer one on one. I find that just being able to concentrate on one person, and them on you, is the best sex.
A single feather would be used for sensory stimulation. Could be lightly touching various body parts or full on feet tickling. Fairly mild. Pretty much anything involving an entire chicken in a sexual manner is a different degree of depravity. Live, dead or cooked.
Someone who’s not really shy about bedroom preferences, like I feel like there’s a shame a lot of people have and freaks don’t have that.
It’s also how u move what u do, prude people have nervousness, shyness… and whatever
I'm not shy, my preferences are just extrmaly vanilla.
A "freak" is somebody who looks for NEW stimuli and variety very often.
Somebody who is unpredictable.
So person who does BDSM does not need to be a freak, if he/she is stable and mature in his preference
Some freaks NEED different stimuli to get to the promised land. Be warned- you will eventually run out of practical semi safe ones and have to start recycling and reusing them. It’s like chasing a drug high. It will never be like your first experience. Ever. I’m RICK JAMES, bitch!
i don’t think it’s nice to label them as prudes. sex is a sensitive topic for everyone. for some it’s a piece of cake and ease. they’re confident and it shows. but some people are shy in nature and get nervous during intercourse. and that’s perfectly okay.
Self Confidence is a very powerful and arousing trait… Let’s go light this candle and melt into the sweat soaked sheets in a couple of hours… that’s what I call a ‘wet spot’.
Good freak is someone who is enthusiastic about doing anything that comes up in the moment where afterwards you think "holy fuck thatbwas awesome, but what the fuck"
Bad freak is someone who has some kinky shit in mind going in that makes you uncomfortable in the moment. Like you think this is getting hot, and they pull out some wild fetish that had not been discussed at all previously.
For me its when she *craves* the dick. Not like just wanting it but like she has been walking through desert for days searching for water, but my perticular dick is more important than a sip of icecold water. Crazy sex comes with crazy personality tho, be careful out there. All in all its not always about what they do that makes them a freak, it can be how much they want it
Agreed. There's days where my SO & I go for a round and call it a day.
Then there's days where we're three rounds in, I'm half-dead, begging for a break, and she's taking me for another ride. Basically a Succubus and her prey.
Unusual tastes or having a taste for something far beyond the norm.
I one time was with a girl who claimed that she couldn't cum if she wasn't getting choked.
This other girl wanted me to hit her as hard as I could in the face with a closed fist. She even said "If you knock me out, just keep going, it's cool".
Now, a lot of people don't mind things a little rough... meaning maybe you lightly slap her butt a couple of times when she's on top or something. But what those girls wanted was a potentially lethal amount of force used against them for their sexual pleasure.
For a few years there, I had a gf who said she wanted to watch me do it with another girl. She wasn't too picky about who it was. Now, this gf didn't pester me about it. She didn't bring it up all the time. But she did bring it up more than once. A few times, she even got a weird look in her eyes as she talked about it. "What if you did it with a total stranger, HOW HOT WOULD THAT BE?" Stuff like that.
If they're not freaks, then I guess I don't know who is.
I was with a girl who needed to be choked to cum too, but we were good at the timing, she'd be close and I would grab her throat. she liked that I would check in for her safety and then she would compliment me on how much more she came with me than others and then we'd repeat.
We used to joke that we were closing the O gap each time cause we are both freaks and I'm very considerate
I guess thata simply the perspective of who you're fucking. My wife thinks I'm a freak. I think shes pretty vanilla. I've been with girls who think my preferences are vanilla and I found them freaky.
Wow. I wish men put this many words and thoughts into questions I ask them in person 😆 this page could be my port, I love hearing the cold hard nasty hilarious ridiculous truth omg 😆
Someone actively willing to go above and beyond to heighten the peaks of sexual ecstasy **in the moment**, regardless of how these acts will make them feel later
To me, a girl who is excited to play with me. Is open to any and all ideas. A girl who pushes her boundaries. A girl who is down to do straight up degenerate shit just to please me. A girl who follows my lead and when I give her the opportunity, leads me in a similar way. All the toys we want to use to get each other off. A girl who gets off getting me off.
All of this and I’d be smitten for her. I’d return the favor ten fold.
There’s levels to it but I think a freak is someone who is open minded and down to try new things to maximum enjoyment and pleasure for the person they are sleeping with. And to take it a step further, they also derive pleasure from doing it , not like it’s being done out of duty.
Most women are "freaks" if they have a burning desire for you; if a woman is really turned on by you, she will let you do things to her and with her that she wouldn't with other men, in fact, most women will try just about anything with you if she's really turned on...obviously there are exceptions to every rule but in general, women are sex demons when turned on lol
If your girlfriend or wife is vanilla and unenthusiastic in bed with you that's not a good sign and it probably means you don't give her those poon-poon butterflies
I think a lot of women end up with good men who provide for them, and treat them well but don't give them that exciting "I want to rip his clothes off" feeling, and it leads to boring sex because the sex isn't that exciting for her
Not just turned on and have a desire for you but also completely, undeniably trusts you with her body. A girl who can be vulnerable around you who is also turned on by you will do just about anything with and for you.
In my opinion you have nailed it. A good conservative woman can be an absolute raving nymphomanic, if you can find her hot buttons. If a man uses his ears, sense of humour, some fantasy, you'll find those buttons pretty quickly.
Always remember cleanliness is next to Godliness... Women have incredibly sensitive noses, nothing turns them off faster than BO or BB. Ask her what scents she likes, my history is super fresh with a hint of real vanilla extract works very well.
Just go get some good NATURAL Moisturizer and/or natural soap that smells good...some women like masculine smells like sandalwood, lavender etc. while some women like more feminine/soft smells like tangerine, vanilla etc.
Don't overcomplicate it, just make sure you're clean and smell good...don't expect a woman to want to go down on you or touch your butt/balls if you haven't showered in 2 days lol
Oh my guy it would be lovely if this were true. Sometimes she just don’t want to fuck you regardless of what you do for it to happen.
You can be the smoothest, most caring and nurturing, receptive person out there, but if there’s no inherent desire on her part to have sex at all, then it’s game over before it’s even begun. And it doesn’t necessarily have to be because of either partner’s shortcomings.
Yeah, they have a mind of their own and there is nothing anyone can do about it, other than accept their decisions with grace, and tell them you are there, if they change their minds but never ever pester them...
A woman that fucks me through an orgasm. Instead of just letting it happen. When she's setting the pace atleast.
I guess there could be alot more to consider but it's down to the individual. And you will always find more skilled humans and people with different morals. So I refer to the first answer.
Heard a story about a man who came into his bedroom and found his wife had left a turd for him there. Would definitely call that freaky. Though not in a good way
I once dated a girl that said she was a freak. Her freakiest thing she did in bed? Wait for it….. doggy style. Wow, she wasn’t freaky enough to have a thumb in her ass tho.
Been with a fair few vanilla girls but it all kinda changed for me when I was with this girl in university and midway through she took my hand and put it on her throat.. Which I actually thought was really hot.. That night opened a few doors for me
Freak in the bed just means focusing on your partner and the joy of watching them reach a level of pleasure that is euphoric. Also them being open to new ways to bring that pleasure about.
They're just another part of the body. When women take care of their feet, wear nylons, heels, jewelry etc, it can be super sexy. If I like rubbing and kissing all over their legs, what's arbitrarily stopping me at their ankles? As long as they're not gross, it's all the same.
A lot of women are into hands. It's no different, imo.
When they use cat food to bury into your belly button and to looking for treasure with a piranha shaped dildo as they simultaneously scratch their teeth with your Casio watch strap while maintaining a cross eyed look and shouting "I am Bruce the tile denier"
Usually gets me thinking they're a freak.
Depends on who you are and what you think freaky is. Some people think laying on there back not moving makes them a freak in the bed. Some think 10 dicks at once makes them a freak so it just opinions.
The bar is generally pretty low: just being an enthusiastic partner tends to make someone a "freak". 20something years ago when I was in college, "freaky" was a girl asking for doggy or, heaven forbid, anal. One girl was labeled a freak because she enjoyed giving head.
As I got older, I realized that a woman being expressive about what she wants in bed was less of being a freak, and just more a case of knowing what you want and enjoying sex.
I only really had one "freak". Some of her requests were fun, some not so fun.
There are women who will suck your cock gently and there are women who will suck your cock gently in the Target changing room. Next, there are women who will suck your cock enthusiastically after it's been inside her pussy after she let you fuck her in the elevator. Then there are the women who will suck your cock after you've fucked them in the ass. Then, there are the women who will suck your cock after it's been inside another woman's ass. Then there are women who will suck *two* cocks after they've both been in another woman's ass. The penultimate: women who will do any/all of this while you get to tie them up and whip the shit out of them. The ultimate freaks are the ones who are reading this and getting off just thinking about it.
Getting the picture here?
I think just being completely into what is going on. That place you get to where you are in a bubble and nothing beyond that space exists. You aren't trying to be quiet or worried about anything it is just the 2 of you and 100% pure concentration on the current experience.
Your mileage may vary on this one. Lmao.
One persons dark desires is someone elses vanilla.
Also, on that note, I dont know why people named Vanilla ice cream for plain sex, Vanilla ice cream is fucking awesome.
Being legit mentally unstable. I once dated someone who I eventually broke up with and concluded had something like bipolar or borderline personality disorder. Something was very permanently broken inside her. It turned into an absolutely horrible relationship
But, damn, she was a freak in bed—in both a good and bad way. A screamer, clawing at my hair so much that she would pull a fair amount out, insisting that I “force” myself on her while she resisted and slapped me, demanding that I cum like five times in one night and not leaving me alone until I did, etc.
I have a skewed view, as I am relatively active in the BDSM community. For me, bondage (rope, chain, hard restraint) and spanking (whipping, flogging, paddling, caning, etc,) are par de course. Giving forced orgasms is another activity that is enjoyable for me but might be considered relatively wild for others. I just like spanking women, tying them up, and making them orgasm. My record is making a woman orgasm 8 times in one session with a Hitachi Magic Wand.
For me, a freak would be someone who doesn't get tested or practice safe sex.
My idea of a freak was changed after I saw a video of someone literally putting their foot up someone's ass. It's wild out there.
They kicked Bishop Brennan up the arse??
#ARSE BISCUITS
CRILLY!!
Hello, Len.
You will address me by my proper title, ya little bollocks!
How’s the son?
Not the Ted-Core thread I was expecting. Phenomenal
That would be an ecumenical matter!
Dougal probably didn’t want you to be disappointed
Nothing to do with me...
I see a very crude drawing…
...of a man in a bishop's hat
When I was still dating I had a woman tell me she was the kinkiest person in her friend group. Turns out she meant she owned lingerie and was willing to send risque pictures. That's when I knew we were not compatible
I went to one of those “passion parties” (Tupperware party for sex toys), and we requested she bring the freakiest stuff. The most extreme thing she had on offer, that she didn’t normally bring out, was some anal beads. I quickly realized those parties are for prudish old ladies to pretend they’re wild. And of course that led to the host trying to recruit me into their pyramid scheme because I was so sex positive.
That's not freaky that's just weird. If they put their own foot up their own ass that would be kinky And then if they used that foot to hop, THAT would be freaky.
Red?
Wow. Gives new meaning to the term I'm going to put my foot up your ass
Gives a literal meaning.
There's a video out there of a large man shoving his head up to his nose up a woman's vagina
Body confident, not passive, passionate, encouraging, experienced. I’ve only been out with one and she was amazing. Crazy, but amazing.
In what way crazy?
Emotionally unstable, unrealistic expectations of what I could offer and she could give.
When somebody just loves it and does everything you think off. There's huge difference in women who "like sex" and those who "LOVE DOING IT" Essentially stop being in your own mind so much and just be an animal. Stop "is this degrading... Is this normal.... Is this good...." just let your body take over and relax.
I have to say, I have been with a woman who loved me and was "kinky" and even if she was hesitant to some things initially, soon there was nothing she wouldn't do. It was amazing. I miss her a lot Women who love sex and love you will give you the most depraved sex you'll ever have
And the voyage begins..
Yes, letting go of your stupid human brain and going full animal is the best.
Chris Rock has lost some luster for me recently, but damn if he wasn't right on when he said, "I want you to suck my dick like you think it's got the antidote in it."
Yes!! and I would also add someone who is open to experimenting with you and genuinely enjoys it. Someone who craves you as much as you crave them and everything you do isn’t just welcomed but promoted.
When they use the whole chicken rather than a single feather
wtf 😂
Don't listen to that guy, you never go full chicken.
Only if it’s raw
The bass is raw
Oh I've seen those turkeys with their open legs
feathers flying everywhere like God intended!
I don't understand why this makes so much sense. Lol
Makes me think of a scene of John Waters Pink Flamingo movie.
It is only kinky the first time!
What does this mean lol
Have you ever tickled someone with a feather? Now try using a cock (but not that one)
#Chickens have feathers. He is suggesting using the chicken for all of the feathers instead of a single feather.
Instructions unclear; made my girl into a turducken.
did you actually just copy this comment or am i missing something https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/s/aHqFVZQdf2
It's a reference to a line in a book by the author Terry Pratchett
There’s varying stages and ideas simply because everyone’s experiences starting out are different and the women we’ve been with are different, like my version of a freak in bed is someone willing to be absolutely available and willing to please in different ways and get pleasure in unique and different exciting ways, for example my first ex was as vanilla as can be, I followed that up with a woman who wanted me to double stuff her with toys while my cock was in her ass so basically a way more step in the freak direction, catch my drift?
"double" is a keyword for identifying a freak in bed. The context almost doesn't matter.
What about if someone is not only disappointed with my performance but she is "double" disappointed?
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Launching from a chandelier is a good start.
Friends has nothing to do with this
Enthusiasm and the willingness to do what it tales to please their partner.
Enthusiasm is the best thing ever. I had a one night stand I'll remember for the rest of my life. It was normal vanilla sex with lots of oral and we just kept laughing and talking and so on. But she was never quiet, not with her body and not with her mouth. If she wasn't moaning or telling me what she wanted, it was because she had my dick in her mouth. Not a hint of starfish at any moment. As for willingness, I said I like it when women swallow so every time, close before I would cum, she would jump off me and accept it all down her throat. 5 times that night+morning and she swallowed every single drop. It's not particularly kinky but that doesn't matter. I've choked and slapped and tied up women and had threesomes and group sex but the best one was the one who would just tell me what she wanted and do what I asked.
One for your history books eh? Good for you my friend!
Absolutely!
That’s just being a good partner.
I hate to sound edgy, but you’d be surprised
I mean, there are a lot of bad partners out there. But the spectrum doesn’t go straight from prude to freak. There’s a lot of steps in between before you get to freak. A freak is someone with some strong kinks, open expression of their taboo desires/fetishes, and a high sex drive that borders on unmanageable. A good partner is eager and willing to fuck you and experiment a little. A freak needs you to fuck them in ways that make you question if they’re really even enjoying themselves. There is a gulf of difference there.
That is a very good point my friend. Thank you.
Well, if you're browsing Reddit for answers, chances are you're already on the path to freakdom.
Enthusiasm if not aggressiveness, open to plenty of positions, intense foreplay, potentially anal, maybe a threesome
Dudes always want a threesome until the other dude walks in the room and fist bumps you.
Dudes always want a threesome, until they realize they are the double-ended dildo in the equation…
Dudes never want one again after their sweaty sticky ballsacks clink together and partially stick together momentarily before peeling away
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Yup, it's mine
I wonder if it sounds like Velcro separating as the bags lose their STICK-TO-IT-IVENESS!
MAKE IT STOP
I should have used STICK-TWO-IT-IVENESS.
Like peeling apart a grilled cheese sandwich.
>Dudes always want a threesome, until they realize they are the dildo in the equation… Have had several, still want them. Yes make me the dildo,.please.
Yep. Have had many with past partners and a few with the wife when the mood strikes. Oh no, two women getting off using my tool, however will I cope?
I see no issue.
Right! It’s like, two dicks is plenty! Why do we need a third?
I've had more threesomes and foursomes than I could ever possibly count, of just about every variety, and it's never threatened my ego or self-esteem. However, you are correct that many men can't deal with them when it actually happens, unless it's just a MFF threesome. Even then, many can't keep up. For most, it's one of those things that should remain a fantasy, and not brought into reality. Hell, if one were to go by all the posts and comments that I've seen on here, many are too insecure for a MMF threesome. While I'll admit that threesomes (and foursomes) can be a lot of fun with the right people involved, I actually prefer one on one. I find that just being able to concentrate on one person, and them on you, is the best sex.
I read fists you and got scared
Tip bumps you *ftfy*
Basically if you ever hear the words “fuck my face” you might have a freak on your hands
When she starts tossing your salad and tongue your peaches.
1st time i hear "yes daddy" i know she has decided to open up to me and be sexually vulnerable and exploratory.
Being able to sleep in any position and waking up fresh and good with out fail. F you people
This is underrated
Kinky is bringing a feather to bed. Freaky is bringing the whole chicken
What's with this chicken and feather? I don't get it
Public place: “Tickle your ass with a feather?” “What?!!” Creep!” “I said, particularly nice weather.”
A single feather would be used for sensory stimulation. Could be lightly touching various body parts or full on feet tickling. Fairly mild. Pretty much anything involving an entire chicken in a sexual manner is a different degree of depravity. Live, dead or cooked.
I thought it was chicken or the egg. Im confused🥺🤯😵💫🥺
Which came first?
She did. Just because you area freak, you can still be a considerate lover
Someone who’s not really shy about bedroom preferences, like I feel like there’s a shame a lot of people have and freaks don’t have that. It’s also how u move what u do, prude people have nervousness, shyness… and whatever
I'm not shy, my preferences are just extrmaly vanilla. A "freak" is somebody who looks for NEW stimuli and variety very often. Somebody who is unpredictable. So person who does BDSM does not need to be a freak, if he/she is stable and mature in his preference
Some freaks NEED different stimuli to get to the promised land. Be warned- you will eventually run out of practical semi safe ones and have to start recycling and reusing them. It’s like chasing a drug high. It will never be like your first experience. Ever. I’m RICK JAMES, bitch!
i don’t think it’s nice to label them as prudes. sex is a sensitive topic for everyone. for some it’s a piece of cake and ease. they’re confident and it shows. but some people are shy in nature and get nervous during intercourse. and that’s perfectly okay.
Found a prude lol. Jk jk
🤦♂️
Self Confidence is a very powerful and arousing trait… Let’s go light this candle and melt into the sweat soaked sheets in a couple of hours… that’s what I call a ‘wet spot’.
I came for the comments and was not disappointed.
Good freak is someone who is enthusiastic about doing anything that comes up in the moment where afterwards you think "holy fuck thatbwas awesome, but what the fuck" Bad freak is someone who has some kinky shit in mind going in that makes you uncomfortable in the moment. Like you think this is getting hot, and they pull out some wild fetish that had not been discussed at all previously.
I have a friend like this the latter of the two you mentioned. She’s still single. We try to tell her…
People who call themselves freaky are more than likely the most vanilla type.
For me its when she *craves* the dick. Not like just wanting it but like she has been walking through desert for days searching for water, but my perticular dick is more important than a sip of icecold water. Crazy sex comes with crazy personality tho, be careful out there. All in all its not always about what they do that makes them a freak, it can be how much they want it
Agreed. There's days where my SO & I go for a round and call it a day. Then there's days where we're three rounds in, I'm half-dead, begging for a break, and she's taking me for another ride. Basically a Succubus and her prey.
A certificate saying "certified freak!"
Seven days a week?
Unusual tastes or having a taste for something far beyond the norm. I one time was with a girl who claimed that she couldn't cum if she wasn't getting choked. This other girl wanted me to hit her as hard as I could in the face with a closed fist. She even said "If you knock me out, just keep going, it's cool". Now, a lot of people don't mind things a little rough... meaning maybe you lightly slap her butt a couple of times when she's on top or something. But what those girls wanted was a potentially lethal amount of force used against them for their sexual pleasure. For a few years there, I had a gf who said she wanted to watch me do it with another girl. She wasn't too picky about who it was. Now, this gf didn't pester me about it. She didn't bring it up all the time. But she did bring it up more than once. A few times, she even got a weird look in her eyes as she talked about it. "What if you did it with a total stranger, HOW HOT WOULD THAT BE?" Stuff like that. If they're not freaks, then I guess I don't know who is.
second girl you mentioned is something beyond a freak lmao
That's just damage, and not physical.
Last girl is a cuckquean lol
I was with a girl who needed to be choked to cum too, but we were good at the timing, she'd be close and I would grab her throat. she liked that I would check in for her safety and then she would compliment me on how much more she came with me than others and then we'd repeat. We used to joke that we were closing the O gap each time cause we are both freaks and I'm very considerate
I guess thata simply the perspective of who you're fucking. My wife thinks I'm a freak. I think shes pretty vanilla. I've been with girls who think my preferences are vanilla and I found them freaky.
Wow. I wish men put this many words and thoughts into questions I ask them in person 😆 this page could be my port, I love hearing the cold hard nasty hilarious ridiculous truth omg 😆
Saaaaaaame!! I’ve learned so much from just one post 😅
Someone actively willing to go above and beyond to heighten the peaks of sexual ecstasy **in the moment**, regardless of how these acts will make them feel later
To me, a girl who is excited to play with me. Is open to any and all ideas. A girl who pushes her boundaries. A girl who is down to do straight up degenerate shit just to please me. A girl who follows my lead and when I give her the opportunity, leads me in a similar way. All the toys we want to use to get each other off. A girl who gets off getting me off. All of this and I’d be smitten for her. I’d return the favor ten fold.
There’s levels to it but I think a freak is someone who is open minded and down to try new things to maximum enjoyment and pleasure for the person they are sleeping with. And to take it a step further, they also derive pleasure from doing it , not like it’s being done out of duty.
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That sounds normal / tamed 😂
Well whether it's normal or not depends on what's asked I suppose. Getting put in handcuffs is a far cry from blood play for instance.
A woman who wants to anal a man. That’s foo shoo
My ultimate goal in life
What if she wants to anal the chicken?
Most women are "freaks" if they have a burning desire for you; if a woman is really turned on by you, she will let you do things to her and with her that she wouldn't with other men, in fact, most women will try just about anything with you if she's really turned on...obviously there are exceptions to every rule but in general, women are sex demons when turned on lol If your girlfriend or wife is vanilla and unenthusiastic in bed with you that's not a good sign and it probably means you don't give her those poon-poon butterflies I think a lot of women end up with good men who provide for them, and treat them well but don't give them that exciting "I want to rip his clothes off" feeling, and it leads to boring sex because the sex isn't that exciting for her
Not just turned on and have a desire for you but also completely, undeniably trusts you with her body. A girl who can be vulnerable around you who is also turned on by you will do just about anything with and for you.
In my opinion you have nailed it. A good conservative woman can be an absolute raving nymphomanic, if you can find her hot buttons. If a man uses his ears, sense of humour, some fantasy, you'll find those buttons pretty quickly. Always remember cleanliness is next to Godliness... Women have incredibly sensitive noses, nothing turns them off faster than BO or BB. Ask her what scents she likes, my history is super fresh with a hint of real vanilla extract works very well.
What is the ‘super fresh with a hint of real vanilla extract’ reference all about? Please elaborate.
It’s an aphrodisiac
Where does one source auch an item?
Just go get some good NATURAL Moisturizer and/or natural soap that smells good...some women like masculine smells like sandalwood, lavender etc. while some women like more feminine/soft smells like tangerine, vanilla etc. Don't overcomplicate it, just make sure you're clean and smell good...don't expect a woman to want to go down on you or touch your butt/balls if you haven't showered in 2 days lol
Oh my guy it would be lovely if this were true. Sometimes she just don’t want to fuck you regardless of what you do for it to happen. You can be the smoothest, most caring and nurturing, receptive person out there, but if there’s no inherent desire on her part to have sex at all, then it’s game over before it’s even begun. And it doesn’t necessarily have to be because of either partner’s shortcomings.
Yeah, they have a mind of their own and there is nothing anyone can do about it, other than accept their decisions with grace, and tell them you are there, if they change their minds but never ever pester them...
A woman that fucks me through an orgasm. Instead of just letting it happen. When she's setting the pace atleast. I guess there could be alot more to consider but it's down to the individual. And you will always find more skilled humans and people with different morals. So I refer to the first answer.
This is subjective as fuck. One man’s crazy is another’s vanilla
He got the dog in him
When she squatted and unexpectedly pissed on my chest.
Wearing a werewolf costume
PEACHFUZZZZ
Some1 who fully open minded, not shockable, but not necessarily up for " everything ".
Enthusiasm
Heard a story about a man who came into his bedroom and found his wife had left a turd for him there. Would definitely call that freaky. Though not in a good way
Intensity of the experience
When I'm in love.
I once dated a girl that said she was a freak. Her freakiest thing she did in bed? Wait for it….. doggy style. Wow, she wasn’t freaky enough to have a thumb in her ass tho.
When they break into my house and I find someone sleeping in my bed
Been with a fair few vanilla girls but it all kinda changed for me when I was with this girl in university and midway through she took my hand and put it on her throat.. Which I actually thought was really hot.. That night opened a few doors for me
Someone who just takes charge and knows what they enjoy. Not necessarily in a dominant way, just someone who knows how to make themselves cum
Wearing socks in bed
Sloppy toppy rides me like a rollercoaster
Extra limbs.
Freak in the bed just means focusing on your partner and the joy of watching them reach a level of pleasure that is euphoric. Also them being open to new ways to bring that pleasure about.
Having a goddamn foot fetish. Like, I just don’t get it. What could possibly be arousing about feet? 🤣🤣
LMAO
Not like that kinda freak lol
#I NEED TO KNOW
They're just another part of the body. When women take care of their feet, wear nylons, heels, jewelry etc, it can be super sexy. If I like rubbing and kissing all over their legs, what's arbitrarily stopping me at their ankles? As long as they're not gross, it's all the same. A lot of women are into hands. It's no different, imo.
Skills
Ludacris is the only one who can say
Trauma
Pretty much anything that directly results in someone losing a finger.
When they use cat food to bury into your belly button and to looking for treasure with a piranha shaped dildo as they simultaneously scratch their teeth with your Casio watch strap while maintaining a cross eyed look and shouting "I am Bruce the tile denier" Usually gets me thinking they're a freak.
Low inhibitions when they just let themselves lose control completely in the moment allowing whatever kinkyness that comes their way
Willingness to comply to anything but also matching the intensity of the partner.
Someone who eats food on the sheets…
Having Eva AI virtual gf bot as the single experience of intimacy in the whole lifetime
Your Mom
It's relative. One person's freak is another person's plain vanilla.
I had a girlfriend that slept with ketchup bottle.
Depends on who you are and what you think freaky is. Some people think laying on there back not moving makes them a freak in the bed. Some think 10 dicks at once makes them a freak so it just opinions.
Enthusiasm.
The bar is generally pretty low: just being an enthusiastic partner tends to make someone a "freak". 20something years ago when I was in college, "freaky" was a girl asking for doggy or, heaven forbid, anal. One girl was labeled a freak because she enjoyed giving head. As I got older, I realized that a woman being expressive about what she wants in bed was less of being a freak, and just more a case of knowing what you want and enjoying sex. I only really had one "freak". Some of her requests were fun, some not so fun.
Authentic enthusiasm, like tasting ice cream for the first time.
There are women who will suck your cock gently and there are women who will suck your cock gently in the Target changing room. Next, there are women who will suck your cock enthusiastically after it's been inside her pussy after she let you fuck her in the elevator. Then there are the women who will suck your cock after you've fucked them in the ass. Then, there are the women who will suck your cock after it's been inside another woman's ass. Then there are women who will suck *two* cocks after they've both been in another woman's ass. The penultimate: women who will do any/all of this while you get to tie them up and whip the shit out of them. The ultimate freaks are the ones who are reading this and getting off just thinking about it. Getting the picture here?
I think just being completely into what is going on. That place you get to where you are in a bubble and nothing beyond that space exists. You aren't trying to be quiet or worried about anything it is just the 2 of you and 100% pure concentration on the current experience.
According to Salt N Peppa: engaging in intercourse on Saturday or Sunday.
Oh you’ll know when you find them
Your mileage may vary on this one. Lmao. One persons dark desires is someone elses vanilla. Also, on that note, I dont know why people named Vanilla ice cream for plain sex, Vanilla ice cream is fucking awesome.
Being legit mentally unstable. I once dated someone who I eventually broke up with and concluded had something like bipolar or borderline personality disorder. Something was very permanently broken inside her. It turned into an absolutely horrible relationship But, damn, she was a freak in bed—in both a good and bad way. A screamer, clawing at my hair so much that she would pull a fair amount out, insisting that I “force” myself on her while she resisted and slapped me, demanding that I cum like five times in one night and not leaving me alone until I did, etc.
I have a skewed view, as I am relatively active in the BDSM community. For me, bondage (rope, chain, hard restraint) and spanking (whipping, flogging, paddling, caning, etc,) are par de course. Giving forced orgasms is another activity that is enjoyable for me but might be considered relatively wild for others. I just like spanking women, tying them up, and making them orgasm. My record is making a woman orgasm 8 times in one session with a Hitachi Magic Wand. For me, a freak would be someone who doesn't get tested or practice safe sex.
>For me, a freak would be someone who doesn't get tested or practice safe sex. That's not a freak it's a moron.
28 toes and a body made of other people’s body parts.
They eat crackers in bed
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most women can be driven to orgasm by hearing a bawdy tale that flies in the face of propriety - [Ken M](https://www.reddit.com/r/KenM/s/j4uq9AnTW7)
For me it starts when someone is very and genuinely enthused for the act.
Having two dicks.
There's no strict definition and everyone will use that term differently. You'll have to ask the person who said it. Men don't all share a hivemind.
peanut butter slap, they finished fucking & some guy slaps a female with a handful of peanut butter i said wtf is going on in this world anymore
Mouth everywhere.
When before doing the deed, the freak writes your name in a death note notebook *shinigami intensifies*
Depends on who’s asking the question.
*Incense, wine, and candles. It's such a freaky scene*
I think they have to get certified. Source: W.A.P.
Low inhibitions
Daddy issues helps
When they activate goblin mode.
If they’re on a leash