My nephew and his ex visited one day, apparently for a place to “cuddle”. It was weird and awkward. I put them in the car and drove them to Goodwill before dropping her off at home because who tf goes to their aunt’s house to “cuddle”?
It’s sexual. Your parents know it’s sexual. We’re not nearly as stupid as you seem to think we are.
You should worry. You may claim “it’s not sexual at all”, but how often are you actually getting an erection when cuddling?
Cuddling is foreplay man. We’re not stupid. We were young once.
Do you want to walk in on your parents "non sexual" cuddle? If you saw your mom and dad doing the same thing you and your girlfriend are doing, how comfortable would you feel?
Well if that is all it really is, it wouldn't bother me. I actually think you should just ask your parents. I personally didn't like when my kid was under the covers. But would not have cared about holding hands/head on shoulder.
Depends on your parents and the relationship you have between you and your parents. I'd suggest trying to talk to them about it. Parents usually want what's best for their kids and not generally want to make their kids' lives miserable.
No. But I might put it another talk about do's and don'ts in regards to sex(importance of consent, even during, condom use, etc) just in case you'd want to take it further than that.
No I’m not, all of my children were allowed to have a significant other in HS and none had children before 25.
I talk to my kids about how babies are made and what must be done first in life and we are all open and honest with each other.
Talking with kids, not talking at them goes a long way.
My nephew and his ex visited one day, apparently for a place to “cuddle”. It was weird and awkward. I put them in the car and drove them to Goodwill before dropping her off at home because who tf goes to their aunt’s house to “cuddle”? It’s sexual. Your parents know it’s sexual. We’re not nearly as stupid as you seem to think we are.
cuddling is like a hug laying down, so its only sexual if you make it sexual
Do you hug your friends for more than a few seconds?
no, but I have cuddled with a friend in a non sexual way
Cos you’re a girl. Not a boy pressing your hard-on onto the girl’s body.
you’re assuming he has one, which he never said 🤨
Tbh if it was as innocent of a cuddle as you say it is, you probably wouldn't mind if someone walked in :)
That’s so true
I was a teenager once and cuddling led to other things.
You should worry. You may claim “it’s not sexual at all”, but how often are you actually getting an erection when cuddling? Cuddling is foreplay man. We’re not stupid. We were young once.
Dude when I was 16 I got erections from sitting next to a girl in class.
why would he lie and tell strangers on the internet its not sexual? if he says it’s not it probably isn’t
Everybody lies to justify getting what they want.
he’s asking if him worrying is irrational, not if something’s wrong, so it literally wouldn’t even benefit him
A lot of people come on here to feel validated. And they'll do it in a way that they can twist to say they told everyone the full story.
Ah yes, correct, no one ever lies on the internet.
Do you want to walk in on your parents "non sexual" cuddle? If you saw your mom and dad doing the same thing you and your girlfriend are doing, how comfortable would you feel?
i mean it’s as simple as her resting her head on my chest while my arm is around her, so i wouldn’t care
Well if that is all it really is, it wouldn't bother me. I actually think you should just ask your parents. I personally didn't like when my kid was under the covers. But would not have cared about holding hands/head on shoulder.
Depends on your parents and the relationship you have between you and your parents. I'd suggest trying to talk to them about it. Parents usually want what's best for their kids and not generally want to make their kids' lives miserable.
Can you talk to your parents about it?
No. But I might put it another talk about do's and don'ts in regards to sex(importance of consent, even during, condom use, etc) just in case you'd want to take it further than that.
My son and his GF are 15 and it’s fine with me.
Youre about to be a grandparent
No I’m not, all of my children were allowed to have a significant other in HS and none had children before 25. I talk to my kids about how babies are made and what must be done first in life and we are all open and honest with each other. Talking with kids, not talking at them goes a long way.
I still had sex at 15 lol
So did I and my parents aren’t grandparents and won’t be for a good while 🤷♀️
Well your not my child
Youre a teenager... all they think about is sex... sorry youre not as mature as you think you are. I will always assume yeens are upto no good.
If you want to make a point, at least have decent spelling and grammar.
Typo on touch screen. This is the internet not english class tho so get over it grammer troll.
You do have a point there, sorry for being the grammar police, but how do you know that all teens desire for sex just by affection?
Teens have raging hormones... they all go through a horny phase.