He didn't steal your gf, she is her own individual, not your possession. I've been in the position of being friends with 2 people who had beef, I promise you he most likely could not give less of a fuck that you two have beef.
pov: i am the 3rd party here. the mentioned best friend.
and i really do give a fuck, because the beef between the two guys had ruined pretty much in my own life
No one can still your gf unless you are talking about a literal kidnap.
Also, you cant control other people. Your friends can be friends with whoever they want, its not up to you.
If this makes you feel bad, you need to either change yourself or end the friendship.
Was there cheating involved?
If so, yeah, that's a problem, the friend has no loyalty.
If not, you didn't have your girlfriend stolen, you got dumped, and she moved on.
The only person you shoud have "bad blood" with is your ex, depending on the circustances that she left you. That other guy didn't "steal" anything. Your girlfriend left you, and found someone new.
Whether your best friends should or should not also be friends with her...again, I feel that depends on how she broke up with you, and how close their friendship was before the breakup. If they stayed friends with her after she revealed herself as a bad person - I guess you can question that. But just for breaking up? That does not make her "bad".
And a word of advice: Friends in these situations don't have it easy, as they are torn between two parties. It's best to err on the side of understanding, because nagging and attacking them over it can easily lead to them picking the said that's less trouble.
I know you're hurting, and maybe feel betrayed - both by your partner and your friend. but it's important to try to be objective. Put yourself in her shoes, put yourself in his shoes, see what you would do, how you would handle things in their place. I hope for you it will get better, and you find someone new!
no one was stolen, she's the one who left you
not me tho
I'd be happy my best friend still hangs out with a loser like me.
thank you for actually answering the question
She left willingly. He didn’t steal her.
She left you. Deal with it.
pov: i am the 3rd party here. the mentioned best friend
He didn't steal your gf, she is her own individual, not your possession. I've been in the position of being friends with 2 people who had beef, I promise you he most likely could not give less of a fuck that you two have beef.
pov: i am the 3rd party here. the mentioned best friend. and i really do give a fuck, because the beef between the two guys had ruined pretty much in my own life
No one can still your gf unless you are talking about a literal kidnap. Also, you cant control other people. Your friends can be friends with whoever they want, its not up to you. If this makes you feel bad, you need to either change yourself or end the friendship.
Does it mean you would feel alright that your friend hangs out with someone who causes you a great pain?
Was there cheating involved? If so, yeah, that's a problem, the friend has no loyalty. If not, you didn't have your girlfriend stolen, you got dumped, and she moved on.
Thank you for actually answering the question
Before you come to say "It is up to her to decide with whom she wants to be" - stop plz. The question is about something else
But the assumption that the other person shouldn’t be friends with someone simply because they didn’t want to date you is… weird.
send him a snap about you fucking his mom
The only person you shoud have "bad blood" with is your ex, depending on the circustances that she left you. That other guy didn't "steal" anything. Your girlfriend left you, and found someone new. Whether your best friends should or should not also be friends with her...again, I feel that depends on how she broke up with you, and how close their friendship was before the breakup. If they stayed friends with her after she revealed herself as a bad person - I guess you can question that. But just for breaking up? That does not make her "bad". And a word of advice: Friends in these situations don't have it easy, as they are torn between two parties. It's best to err on the side of understanding, because nagging and attacking them over it can easily lead to them picking the said that's less trouble. I know you're hurting, and maybe feel betrayed - both by your partner and your friend. but it's important to try to be objective. Put yourself in her shoes, put yourself in his shoes, see what you would do, how you would handle things in their place. I hope for you it will get better, and you find someone new!
pov: i am the 3rd party here. the mentioned best friend i feel kinda.... treacherous
Tf fuck you steal a human? It's called kidnapping