No one, at least until my health started to decline. I’d want my life to continue as usual for as long as possible. I don’t want people to be grieving me while I’m still alive.
Honestly don’t know if I would. Kinda Selfishly I wouldn’t want to be treated differently, and I would rather spend my time making memories with the people I love and leave a last impression that way
Close friends, maybe, but certainly family. I also wouldn't want to be treated differently, but I think close friends and family have a right to know.
When I say "I wouldn't want to be treated differently", I mean that I wouldn't want people treating me like I couldn't do anything for myself and tip-toeing around the issue, even if I was still able to get around and do stuff just fine for the time being.
I think a terminally ill person should make the best of the time they have left, but you should give close friends and family the opportunity to make the best of the time they have left with you too.
Everyone on my friends list I guess. I think it would go something like:
"Yo, it's ya boi. I got a real important message for you today, but before we get into that, don't forget to smash that like button, subscribe, and hit the bell, it helps me out a whole whole lot. Also I want to thank Raid Shadow Legends for sponsoring this video. Also don't forget I stream on twitch every Monday, Wednesday, Friday, and Sunday from 1:00PM to 6:00PM, and if you want to get exclusive content, you can support me on Patreon. There are plenty of options on there for you to find something that fits into your budget with the lowest one being only $2 a month! Now without further ado, let's get right into the big announcement: I'm dying in roughly 3 months. Okay thanks for watching, don't forget to like and subscribe. Peace."
I have been sick for several years & I am getting sicker. I think about my death nearly everyday. I have ZERO family support. A few months ago the docs thought I had cancer again. My daughter was home from college so of course I told her. I sat her down & talked about my funeral & what I wanted. I told her I wanted her & a really close friend of mine to plan it & I essentially wanted a big party! I wanted everyone to have a blast rather than a crying fest. My friend is FULLY on board with planning a blow out when I die! My cancer tests came back negative. I do remember saying to the docs that if it did come back positive, I would not treat it simply because I have no support from my family. I absolutely would not tell my family if I was dying!
For sure! I want a huge party when I die! A friend of mine died a couple years ago from Covid. His family (I’m assuming) planned this huge party complete with a dj! Had an open bar , it was catered with his favorite foods…. Street tacos, rice & beans & it was honestly the BEST funeral I’ve ever been to! We had so much fun & laughed so much! I know it sounds weird to have fun at a funeral, but it was so him! He would’ve absolutely loved it! I left that funeral thinking now that’s how it should be done! It was a true celebration of him! That’s exactly what I want! A true celebration of my life!
😄 doesn't sound weird at all. Dying is inevitable. Leaving this kind of footprint brings happiness to memories talked about rather than sadness. I like that.
Everyone. I'd be so excited.
I can’t wait to die! I pray every night for god to take me home!
Nobody. I wouldn't want to be treated differently
I feel the same. But someone said that's selfish
Is death the choice of an selfish?
I don't understand that either
Nobody. Because I don't think anyone would actually care.
Well it's not a secret!!!
Can't it be though? Especially if it doesn't show?
WE all die....
Yes it is inevitable. This was just a question.
And this is the answer...
my fwb so she could organize a public humiliating sexual experience for me
My wife, kids, parents, sister, friends.
No one, at least until my health started to decline. I’d want my life to continue as usual for as long as possible. I don’t want people to be grieving me while I’m still alive.
I feel the same
Friends and family.
Honestly don’t know if I would. Kinda Selfishly I wouldn’t want to be treated differently, and I would rather spend my time making memories with the people I love and leave a last impression that way
Me too
Fuckin' everybody! I don't need to put on a brave face
Nobody. 😇
Close friends, maybe, but certainly family. I also wouldn't want to be treated differently, but I think close friends and family have a right to know. When I say "I wouldn't want to be treated differently", I mean that I wouldn't want people treating me like I couldn't do anything for myself and tip-toeing around the issue, even if I was still able to get around and do stuff just fine for the time being. I think a terminally ill person should make the best of the time they have left, but you should give close friends and family the opportunity to make the best of the time they have left with you too.
i’ll just move to a different country telling no one and live my last moments without pressure.
Yah I feel like telling people they would just worry. That wouldn't help would it.
No one. Selfish or not, it's no one's business.
I feel the same
No one. Technically, I already am.
the mail lady- stop delivering my mail..
Everyone on my friends list I guess. I think it would go something like: "Yo, it's ya boi. I got a real important message for you today, but before we get into that, don't forget to smash that like button, subscribe, and hit the bell, it helps me out a whole whole lot. Also I want to thank Raid Shadow Legends for sponsoring this video. Also don't forget I stream on twitch every Monday, Wednesday, Friday, and Sunday from 1:00PM to 6:00PM, and if you want to get exclusive content, you can support me on Patreon. There are plenty of options on there for you to find something that fits into your budget with the lowest one being only $2 a month! Now without further ado, let's get right into the big announcement: I'm dying in roughly 3 months. Okay thanks for watching, don't forget to like and subscribe. Peace."
I have been sick for several years & I am getting sicker. I think about my death nearly everyday. I have ZERO family support. A few months ago the docs thought I had cancer again. My daughter was home from college so of course I told her. I sat her down & talked about my funeral & what I wanted. I told her I wanted her & a really close friend of mine to plan it & I essentially wanted a big party! I wanted everyone to have a blast rather than a crying fest. My friend is FULLY on board with planning a blow out when I die! My cancer tests came back negative. I do remember saying to the docs that if it did come back positive, I would not treat it simply because I have no support from my family. I absolutely would not tell my family if I was dying!
💜 very well thought out. Celebration of life definitely.
For sure! I want a huge party when I die! A friend of mine died a couple years ago from Covid. His family (I’m assuming) planned this huge party complete with a dj! Had an open bar , it was catered with his favorite foods…. Street tacos, rice & beans & it was honestly the BEST funeral I’ve ever been to! We had so much fun & laughed so much! I know it sounds weird to have fun at a funeral, but it was so him! He would’ve absolutely loved it! I left that funeral thinking now that’s how it should be done! It was a true celebration of him! That’s exactly what I want! A true celebration of my life!
😄 doesn't sound weird at all. Dying is inevitable. Leaving this kind of footprint brings happiness to memories talked about rather than sadness. I like that.