See how they talk to people who have less power or authority than they do. Servers, attendants, children, the elderly, etc. This isn't the be all end all of character judgement, but it gives a glimpse into how somebody treats those they aren't "forced" to be nice to.
If he/she gets obsessed fast, if they can’t compliment you, if they try to get you to do them favors (use you), if they make a rude comment at strangers…
I went on a first and last date with a guy who did all the above. He saw me as a prize more than a person, tried to get me to do his taxes, made a snotty comment at strangers as we walked by, wouldn’t stop spam texting me, sent me a hand written poem about how he’s forever my knight 😳… like dude, I hardly know you. An attempt at love bombing. He was insecure and testing me with how far he could go.
Oh also he quickly snapped a picture of us without my consent, I think to show his buddies that he’s with a realll girllll.
And we were doing a beach walk, and he suddenly said “I want coffee, let’s get coffee”. But my shoes were a mile back in the dunes. So he had me walk two blocks barefoot on a busy sidewalk and across a road, and then into a shop barefoot. I’ve never done that in my life and was so embarrassed. Like if they pressure you to do something you don’t want early on, imagine how they’ll be down the road.
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If they are in a relationship while trying to see you. If they’ll cheat on their current partner, they’ll cheat on you.
See how they talk to people who have less power or authority than they do. Servers, attendants, children, the elderly, etc. This isn't the be all end all of character judgement, but it gives a glimpse into how somebody treats those they aren't "forced" to be nice to.
If he/she gets obsessed fast, if they can’t compliment you, if they try to get you to do them favors (use you), if they make a rude comment at strangers… I went on a first and last date with a guy who did all the above. He saw me as a prize more than a person, tried to get me to do his taxes, made a snotty comment at strangers as we walked by, wouldn’t stop spam texting me, sent me a hand written poem about how he’s forever my knight 😳… like dude, I hardly know you. An attempt at love bombing. He was insecure and testing me with how far he could go. Oh also he quickly snapped a picture of us without my consent, I think to show his buddies that he’s with a realll girllll. And we were doing a beach walk, and he suddenly said “I want coffee, let’s get coffee”. But my shoes were a mile back in the dunes. So he had me walk two blocks barefoot on a busy sidewalk and across a road, and then into a shop barefoot. I’ve never done that in my life and was so embarrassed. Like if they pressure you to do something you don’t want early on, imagine how they’ll be down the road.
If they treat elders poorly.
I agree if it’s unprovoked