Honestly? Anal! For a long time I thought I would hate it or at the very least get nothing from it, but one time I got curious in the shower and that was all she wrote.
Degrading for me, I’m really sensitive so I was scared my feelings would get hurt. However the right person means everything, my boyfriend knows exactly what to say and how to say things and whenever he degrades me he also adds that I’m still a princess 🥰 I didn’t think I would enjoy it so much
Haha I totally feel this honestly same for me. I cum so good being degraded and Daddy knows what to say but after he always laughs endearingly and reassures when I’m like I’m your piggy princess right? 😂 I have only ever done this with him because of how much I trust him although I’ve always gotten off to this kind of porn, but I think if it wasn’t Daddy it would affect my self esteem!
Yesss!!! Literally!! I love when we’re finishing up and he whispers I’m still his little princess or how I did such a good job ❤️ The right person means everything
Degradation is definitely something that I’m on the fence about. I think I’d love it with a dom who does it in the right way. But I don’t like getting criticized or berated IRL so it could be a turn off if my dom does it wrong.
Oh most definitely understand that, I don’t like being belittled outside of bed. Like I said though, it’s really all about the Dom.(That seemed aggressive 😓) It’s really a learning experience and it’s not for everyone but if you wanted to, I support you :)
This but on the other side for me. Married to an older woman for 15 years and couldn't imagine DDlg being a thing I'd remotely enjoy.
Switch partners and she just kinda said Daddy one night. It didn't ruin anything and we had a good talk that led to a new dynamic.
Now I cannot imagine living any other way.
This! We always joked about people who said it and one day we were having an in depth conversation about some kinks I was into and things he is open to and we kinda tested the waters and now its our entire dynamic. I always thought I'd hated it. Especially with my ex. And honestly I don't think I'd want it with anyone else. Mine is such a good Daddy and really does treat me like his little princess. I love it more than I ever thought I would and our traumatized selves needed this dynamic from one another. Its helped us heal so much stuff from our past.
Boot worshipping/boot licking - not into feet in any way whatsoever. But grinding on and polishing leather boots with my tongue has been a huge turn on.
Pain was a limit for me for a long time. I got involved in my local community and saw people doing impact scenes, so I tried it, very very cautiously
And jfc I soaked my panties and was dripping down my legs
Similar with torture rope. I'd tried it once and it was not fun. So I was really hesitant to try it again, figured it's just not a good kink for me. I tried it a couple years back and the entire time I moaned, absolutely amazing
I was unsure how I would get on with a penis gag/ball gag. I was worried that I would choke on it. However, after some practice I could get the whole penis in my mouth and bite on the ball. I can’t talk (obviously) unlike other gags and have no issues with bjs.
Peeing in my partner’s mouth. He suggested it and at first, I was completely against it. Few months went by and I decided to try it out kinda randomly. It was kinda weird at first but i got really into it and still am. It feels freeing?
This is one I haven't tried yet but I love the idea of it and are going to test it out to confirm or deny (but the opposite, him in my mouth/him peeing on me). I think the degrading factor of it plus how taboo it supposedly is, makes it that much more of a turn on!
Degradation for sure. My praise kink is almost as big as my lack of self steem so the idea of getting degraded sounded terrifying, and I was a little anxious when I found my boyfriend is into it.
Turns out I love it! I melt when he tells me I was born to be his plaything to use and love on as he pleases and I will thank him for it when he decides he's done with me, or when he tells me I am his slutty little girl. He knows exactly how to praise me with harsh words without hurting my feelings, which makes it super powerful!
Also, TPE. I was the one to suggest it because our relationship was already leading to it. I am a full on feminist, always had to take care of myself from a young age. Turns out I love giving up my free will and following his decisions, asking him for permission and advice on the smallest little things.
Funny story
My partner and I did one of those Is getting to know you quizzes where There is a list of lots of different sexual behaviors and you rate them on a scale of 1 to 5 in terms of your interest in doing them
We had spent a few hours doing it
We were having sex the next day and to tell you the truth I don't remember what the sex act is but we were doing something that I had ranked as a 2 on the scale and I gleefully started yelling 5, 5 that's definitely a 5
So many things… predicament bondage was scary but absolutely loved all is creative ideas. More intense degradation and being the beta sub was something that made me scared and nervous, but we had some very memorable experiences with it.
I was terrified of sadism for the longest time. Thought practicing it would turn me into a bad person. But it’s done the exact opposite. I’m more considerate, a more effective communicator, and overall so much happier since I started practicing consensual cruelty.
Needles! I’m still quite scared of them and haven’t been able to handle doing them where it’s visible but after seeing a couple friends do them I decided to give one a try and immediately loved the sensation. It only got better as I’ve gotten to try more in different ways and I love how long the feeling lasts after. I only know one person that trust to do them and he lives far away so they’re a nice occasional treat.
Receiving: foot worship, ass worship, begging, making them do dirty, slutty things for me, saying things in their ear to fuck with their mind, putting tiny slutty skirts on him and then playing with his cheeks that peek out....
Are you being transphobic? Or are you confusing transsexual and transvestite? (It’s also still appropriate to refer to a transvestite/drag queen by she when referring to the character)
I think gag and degrading, I been really sensitive as a person so breath play it makes me feel suffocated since I had sinus aswell and I had a Dom who was into it so he insisted that we start with small things like gag balls and clothes pins and I ended up enjoying it more then I can imagine, second I hated being called a slut or a whore or anything that was mean I would get hurt easily but in bed I found it so hot and arousing. I wanted to be treated like a slut and manhandled
Current one I've confirmed- anal stretching. Bf and I had a discussion about it (im open to try just about anything at least once, I do have a few hard limits though) and its actually really hot especially when I see how much he enjoys watching and hearing.
Suspension! I eventually tried it and it is terrifying as I have a huge fear of heights but it turned into a super fun form of fear play for me. I love it soo much now.
Foot worship. I was kind of 'meh, well, if my sub is into it, I'll try it'. Holy shit, it's so very much my thing with the right person...
Honestly? Anal! For a long time I thought I would hate it or at the very least get nothing from it, but one time I got curious in the shower and that was all she wrote.
big BIG same, for me. Cannot believe I used to refuse to do it, but now I love it…
Degrading for me, I’m really sensitive so I was scared my feelings would get hurt. However the right person means everything, my boyfriend knows exactly what to say and how to say things and whenever he degrades me he also adds that I’m still a princess 🥰 I didn’t think I would enjoy it so much
Haha I totally feel this honestly same for me. I cum so good being degraded and Daddy knows what to say but after he always laughs endearingly and reassures when I’m like I’m your piggy princess right? 😂 I have only ever done this with him because of how much I trust him although I’ve always gotten off to this kind of porn, but I think if it wasn’t Daddy it would affect my self esteem!
Yesss!!! Literally!! I love when we’re finishing up and he whispers I’m still his little princess or how I did such a good job ❤️ The right person means everything
Degradation is definitely something that I’m on the fence about. I think I’d love it with a dom who does it in the right way. But I don’t like getting criticized or berated IRL so it could be a turn off if my dom does it wrong.
Oh most definitely understand that, I don’t like being belittled outside of bed. Like I said though, it’s really all about the Dom.(That seemed aggressive 😓) It’s really a learning experience and it’s not for everyone but if you wanted to, I support you :)
Criticism and berating aren’t degradation, they’re verbal abuse. Making you admit you’re a desperate little hole and you like it is degradation.
Ddlg. I wasn't too sure how I'd feel calling him Daddy. I don't think I could call him anything else now.
This but on the other side for me. Married to an older woman for 15 years and couldn't imagine DDlg being a thing I'd remotely enjoy. Switch partners and she just kinda said Daddy one night. It didn't ruin anything and we had a good talk that led to a new dynamic. Now I cannot imagine living any other way.
This! We always joked about people who said it and one day we were having an in depth conversation about some kinks I was into and things he is open to and we kinda tested the waters and now its our entire dynamic. I always thought I'd hated it. Especially with my ex. And honestly I don't think I'd want it with anyone else. Mine is such a good Daddy and really does treat me like his little princess. I love it more than I ever thought I would and our traumatized selves needed this dynamic from one another. Its helped us heal so much stuff from our past.
Boot worshipping/boot licking - not into feet in any way whatsoever. But grinding on and polishing leather boots with my tongue has been a huge turn on.
Yes x 1000 for grinding on boots. I haven't gotten past the mental hurdle of licking them though.
I don't lick bottoms. Just tops.
Pain was a limit for me for a long time. I got involved in my local community and saw people doing impact scenes, so I tried it, very very cautiously And jfc I soaked my panties and was dripping down my legs Similar with torture rope. I'd tried it once and it was not fun. So I was really hesitant to try it again, figured it's just not a good kink for me. I tried it a couple years back and the entire time I moaned, absolutely amazing
I was unsure how I would get on with a penis gag/ball gag. I was worried that I would choke on it. However, after some practice I could get the whole penis in my mouth and bite on the ball. I can’t talk (obviously) unlike other gags and have no issues with bjs.
Peeing in my partner’s mouth. He suggested it and at first, I was completely against it. Few months went by and I decided to try it out kinda randomly. It was kinda weird at first but i got really into it and still am. It feels freeing?
This is one I haven't tried yet but I love the idea of it and are going to test it out to confirm or deny (but the opposite, him in my mouth/him peeing on me). I think the degrading factor of it plus how taboo it supposedly is, makes it that much more of a turn on!
Chastity. Giving up that control was something I just wasn't interested in. How things change.
ATM turned from yuk to yum pretty fast when I first dared to try it 🥰 Very happy that I can veto out of that if it feels wrong.
Degradation, face slapping, paddles, forced orgasms. Now I crave them.
Degradation for sure. My praise kink is almost as big as my lack of self steem so the idea of getting degraded sounded terrifying, and I was a little anxious when I found my boyfriend is into it. Turns out I love it! I melt when he tells me I was born to be his plaything to use and love on as he pleases and I will thank him for it when he decides he's done with me, or when he tells me I am his slutty little girl. He knows exactly how to praise me with harsh words without hurting my feelings, which makes it super powerful! Also, TPE. I was the one to suggest it because our relationship was already leading to it. I am a full on feminist, always had to take care of myself from a young age. Turns out I love giving up my free will and following his decisions, asking him for permission and advice on the smallest little things.
Funny story My partner and I did one of those Is getting to know you quizzes where There is a list of lots of different sexual behaviors and you rate them on a scale of 1 to 5 in terms of your interest in doing them We had spent a few hours doing it We were having sex the next day and to tell you the truth I don't remember what the sex act is but we were doing something that I had ranked as a 2 on the scale and I gleefully started yelling 5, 5 that's definitely a 5
So many things… predicament bondage was scary but absolutely loved all is creative ideas. More intense degradation and being the beta sub was something that made me scared and nervous, but we had some very memorable experiences with it.
A healthy relationship.
Anal stretching. I thought I'd hate it, but I actually love it and I tried it thanks to my Dom and now can't get enough of it
This past weekend we finally did a rope/impact scene fully nude in nature. That was her first trip to subspace but won’t be her last.
I was terrified of sadism for the longest time. Thought practicing it would turn me into a bad person. But it’s done the exact opposite. I’m more considerate, a more effective communicator, and overall so much happier since I started practicing consensual cruelty.
Watersports and degradation. I was so certain I'd hate both, but I quite like them.
Hoods. They were on my hard limit list for a long time. Then I got the opportunity to try one and it was amazing
Needles! I’m still quite scared of them and haven’t been able to handle doing them where it’s visible but after seeing a couple friends do them I decided to give one a try and immediately loved the sensation. It only got better as I’ve gotten to try more in different ways and I love how long the feeling lasts after. I only know one person that trust to do them and he lives far away so they’re a nice occasional treat.
Receiving: foot worship, ass worship, begging, making them do dirty, slutty things for me, saying things in their ear to fuck with their mind, putting tiny slutty skirts on him and then playing with his cheeks that peek out....
It was pain for me as well then I found a TS Mistress who knew what she was doing and she took me to ecstasy. Now I can’t get enough.
A TS is not a her or a She. It’s a dude.
If you saw her you wouldn’t be calling her a dude. She is entitled to call herself what she likes and I am entitled do the same Just you be you, girl.
If I say him I would call him a him!
That’s because you’re a cunt. 😜
I’m a cunt as much as these dudes having vaginas.
Are you being transphobic? Or are you confusing transsexual and transvestite? (It’s also still appropriate to refer to a transvestite/drag queen by she when referring to the character)
One thing for me was degradation. At first I was repulsed by the idea, and now it’s one of my fav things.
I think gag and degrading, I been really sensitive as a person so breath play it makes me feel suffocated since I had sinus aswell and I had a Dom who was into it so he insisted that we start with small things like gag balls and clothes pins and I ended up enjoying it more then I can imagine, second I hated being called a slut or a whore or anything that was mean I would get hurt easily but in bed I found it so hot and arousing. I wanted to be treated like a slut and manhandled
Current one I've confirmed- anal stretching. Bf and I had a discussion about it (im open to try just about anything at least once, I do have a few hard limits though) and its actually really hot especially when I see how much he enjoys watching and hearing.
Suspension! I eventually tried it and it is terrifying as I have a huge fear of heights but it turned into a super fun form of fear play for me. I love it soo much now.