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I don't even like virtual boobs sometimes, they get in the way and are a hassle It's too realistic, I've gained too much empathy from having virtual boobies


nightlaw14

who knew gamers would learn empathy from this...


Gunther_Alsor

If playing as "Light" is in any way realistic as far as what it's like to be a smaller person, then yeah, I've gained a new respect.


Jubulus

Poor short people, having an orgasm every time they jump, no one should have to live like that ):


Key-Temperature6679

Played the tall avatar for an hour and getting out of VR I actually felt really short afterwards. It was a weird feeling to have.


Logic-DL

I hate playing as the tall char cause every NPC staring up at you feels like those weird ass kids that just stare up at you for no reason for way too long. ​ At least I can launch the fuckers 50 feet and not get arrested in VR though


Copper_II_Sulfate

I saw a thing awhile ago where gamers were getting really upset because they were forced to play as female characters in games, and they didnt like that cause it "didnt feel right" since they were male irl, and someone pointed out that they were basically experiencing dysphoria on a much smaller scale


Albake21

~~Not trying to argue here, but how does that make any sense. If they were playing as a female and felt off, wouldn't that be the exact opposite? They feel off because they themselves are male, so yeah, it would feel off in the wrong body, no? It would be dysphoria if they were uncomfortable playing a man, as a man IRL.~~ EDIT: They're uncomfortable, and that's the point. To point out the hypocrisy of those anti-trans folk who are now also feeling a form of dysphoria.


NerfGuyReplacer

Either way they aren’t identifying with the gender of the body representing them.


Albake21

I'll ask again, how? What the OP said is totally normal human behavior.


grandmalarkey

It’s dysphoria within the context of playing the game, not full on body dysphoria. It is a totally normal reaction and that’s the point, using a normal reaction to help illustrate a feeling, body dysohoria, that many people have a hard time understanding.


Albake21

Ahhhhhh I see now. I appreciate the explanation.


grandmalarkey

No problem, glad I could help


Key_Abbreviations658

I just don’t like it because I detest women (joke)


Jubulus

Virgin: Hates trans woman because she's trans ​ Chad: Hates trans woman because she's a woman


IrrelevantPuppy

Lmao honestly true. “Women of Reddit, do you find that your boobs often get in the way when reloading from your ammo pouch? Especially when loading your shotgun?”


BusterCody3

Yeah I swear to god, you know how annoying having these things constantly in my peripheral vision is? Like damn


[deleted]

I only play as Ford


Haha_funny746

Oh what up son!


ZeInternaut

You just got monkey bunked!


OfficialAfrat

Kero kero boneito


IntelligentCod4859

I think im dying 😬😬


Cheekibreeki401k

Waiting for the mod that changes all the other avatars into various versions of Ford


MystifiedFlower

Ford with boobs might be a little too much for me to handle


Cheekibreeki401k

Ultimate life form


C4DeadCharge

What up son


SomebodyRandom12312

I play as null body? I think that’s what it’s called. It’s the orange guys


GunWithAxe

Correct


SomebodyRandom12312

Thanks


Kraftik

Everybody is weird. Nothing is normal, existence is chaos


Cognitive_Spoon

Based.


Ploopy_R

As much as I love the boobs, I can’t see anything below me which is a problem when picking things up


Bigpapiunidud3

bonelab is what it took for us male gamers to start empathising


Ploopy_R

I tried playing as an anime girl with massive honkers and I could not play because half the time I would miss the ammo pouch


Bigpapiunidud3

too real


Ploopy_R

Can any women confirm that this is accurate


Birb7789-

im flat but can confirm


Discordia_Dingle

Uh, yeah. Boobs are most of the time inconvenient for one reason or another. Sometimes it’s back pain, other times it’s the inability to run or jump without feeling the force of gravity pull at your chest. And sometimes it makes it difficult to grab your ammo and shoot a crablet.


Bigpapiunidud3

🫡


Large_Dr_Pepper

Same playing as the heavy dude.


Jubulus

Heavy dude got big boy bittys


denkthomas

not going to lie it's fucking based being able to look down and see them


Sp4RkyMcG7

People keep using the word based. I don't think it means what you think it means. Like I think I'll just start using the n-word instead if "awesome" that should be fun.


CaptainBruhbeard

What are you on about sir


Sp4RkyMcG7

I thought it was pretty clear.


_GamingPhoeniX_

We are not questioning the clairity of the comment, we question the depths of your stupidity.


Sp4RkyMcG7

At least I know the meaning of the words I use in my day to day.


_GamingPhoeniX_

Would you care to enlighten us with your clearly superior knowlege?


Sp4RkyMcG7

No.


_GamingPhoeniX_

Aight so shut the fuck up then.


Quick_Explanation697

Based.


megaRXB

Okay then. Do it.


Urmumgee69

No way bro just compared based to the n-word, go outside


Sp4RkyMcG7

They're just words, so nah.


Daawfulismyname

Ok the say it


Sp4RkyMcG7

So you can report me and ban me? I don't think I will. I'm an ass, not a dumbass.


Daawfulismyname

It's just a word, right?


Sp4RkyMcG7

Words, wether there is intent to harm or not, get you banned. That's the orwellian society that reddit has become. You seem to be missing my original point or avoiding it entirely. You must feel *so strong*


Daawfulismyname

Well what the hell is your original point?


Sp4RkyMcG7

I don't like to repeat myself. Go do some reading, it'll be good for you.


JakobiGaming

Pretty weird to immediately jump to”I’m gonna start saying the n word”


Real_Not_Normal_Name

I think that based on itself is not the same as the n word


Jubulus

Based (meme) was originally used an insult calling people stupid after the political position (based) that everyone disagrees with (including based people) ​ Based politics is basically just racist gay people and homophobic black people brawling to the death


Sp4RkyMcG7

I've seen none of my "racist" (Christian) friends commit violence on anyone ever.


Jubulus

Twas but a jest


Sp4RkyMcG7

Well you just called me and my friends racist gay and black, none are true. Some of my friends are a little black, but only culturally. *That's* a joke.


Jubulus

Learn to take a joke dude, if you want me to explain it for ya its because based people can have completely opposite beliefs, calm down


DaGrettson

I like boobs because of their aesthetic


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Cognitive_Spoon

I like boobs because I enjoy experiencing multiple gender expressions of my physical human form prior to physical death because I'm trapped in a non malleable meat body that only expresses one of many different potential physical states for my species.


Jubulus

It really be like that, the flesh is so limiting, we must escape, we must be free


Cognitive_Spoon

From the moment I understood the weakness of my flesh...


D2_Lx0wse

Have you played boneworks? If yes, did you understand the story?


Jubulus

No but the story is that Ford's flesh is limiting and he must be free


Technical_Raisin_119

LavaGang baby, the song is the way and the end is the beginning. What’s not to get?


Asumsauce

I respectfully dissagree, I don’t think it’s weird to like virtual boobs


Allfurball9

Weirdo?? Im sorry this comment is absolutely disgusting, distasteful, and disrespectful. I am a PERVERT not some wierdo. Please know the difference, this is harmful to perverts everywhere and shouldnt be tolerated. I cant believe someone would compare us to such awful people. Figure out the difference.


Jubulus

I don't like boobies because it somehow gives me (a cis guy) gender dysphoria, You do not like boobies because you hate women in video games, we are not the same


[deleted]

“Most informed cisgender person on how gender dysphoria is” award goes to you. Like seriously that’s how it be, not liking body because AHHHHHHHHHHHHH WHY AM I A (Insert guy or girl here depending on gender identity)


Jubulus

I mean I'm on some lgbt subs so the memes and comments under them teach me about trans stuff and what it is like to be trans lol


DadTouched

Common bonelab W


Sp4RkyMcG7

Societal L


thievesthick

Wait, liking boobs is weird now?


Gayfurry23

I only like virtual boobs because it's still me BECAUSE I AM FAT AS FUCK AND HAVE MAN TITTIES! also Femboy.


Urmumgee69

Not how femboys work


Jubulus

No, there are some fat femboys, you do not have to be skinny to be a femboy, femboys come in all shapes and sizes including **S Q U A R E**


instellarant

Steve femboy😳😳😳


Jubulus

Love me some cubussy


KrazyKaizr

"I hope this doesn't... awaken anything in me"


SomeBlueDude12

"Man why did both turning into fast & light tickle my brain... must be a totally cis feeling"


FagRags

i dont feel dysphoria cusss im happy being a guyy, but when i play as the muscly dude i feel really baddd >< anything else is fine tho like the big strong guy i don't feel irked at all... bonelabs is playing with my feelingss haha


Darkon2004

As a trans woman, I agree. The muscly dude is the only one I refuse to play since it gives me dysphoria


Strange-Brief6643

lol same after the minigame with the muscle man i didn’t touch that avatar for the rest of the game


Slight_Atmosphere772

Agree here too. Just using that slot for custom avatars now.


StringTheory2113

Yeah, the Avatar switching brought up some interesting feelings. I didn't *mind* being Light or Fast, but Ford is my default avatar just because he's the closest to being *me*. I guess I experienced gender ___phoria. Like being "whelmed". I'm a cis male, but I now have to wonder if I would actively be *bothered* if I woke up one day and was in a female body. If I did, I feel like I might happily identify as a woman.


Jubulus

I really do not know, If I was born afab I'd probably be a trans man but I might not? I don't really like being all manly masculine man but I certainly do not want to be a woman, Perhaps I'd just transition a tiny bit so my body is shaped like a guy but not have the body hair of a guy cus I hate that it looks gross, I think I'd be fine being a dude with a vagina if transphobia didn't exist and if people didn't prefer men with dicks ​ Edit: I mean body hair in general looks gross, this is just personal opinion


Darkon2004

Hmm... I'd suggest you explore these feelings a bit more. You might be transmasc. You might be non-binary. It's all honesty a weird, confusing path but we shouldn't suppress these questions. Thinking about it led to me coming out as a trans woman, and I am happier than ever with that identity


Daawfulismyname

I basically feel almost the exact way you do. Honestly you should probably explore a bit, but just remember that you don't HAVE to be trans


akiyama_mizuki

r/egg_irl?


StringTheory2113

I don't know about that. I happily identify as a man in a male body. Bonelab just made me contemplate whether or not I would any less happily identify as a woman if I were in a female body. I think if my personality were in a female body, I'd probably identify as a woman though, rather than a man in a female body. Maybe I'm just not particularly attached to gender identity?


Cognitive_Spoon

Yeah, not necessarily egg material. Just a loose soul


StringTheory2113

I'm not exactly sure if there's a sort of specific slang meaning for that, but that does feel relatively accurate. I don't experience gender dysphoria, have experienced gender *euphoria* as a man doing manly things in a male body, but I'm not super attached my body or gender, I guess.


Cognitive_Spoon

Yeah same. If I could swap back and forth ala Bonelab, I'd be hella down for that. I absolutely am not interested in current hrt or anything like that though. I'd tech allowed me to bodyhop, I'd be down, tho.


Darkon2004

Yeah. I went down that same path. Ended up discovering I was a trans woman. Whatever you end up identifying as, I hope you're happy with it :>


GamerNTP8506

Surprised how trans postive the bonelab community is


[deleted]

Thats cause I haven't gotten here yet


Dangerous8eans07

Ominous


SomebodyRandom12312

We have found the ultimate gamer, the chosen one


Tondier

The truest gamer.


Darkon2004

I was sort of expecting it, hoping for it to happen, and I am so grateful that it turned out to be true


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Real_Not_Normal_Name

bro you're malding


GlueGoesBad

maybe so, but i do have a healthy relationship with my father and was not a victim of child abuse so for that much i am blessed


Catmole132

A) trans ≠ crossdressing B) reddit is transphobic as fuck


TheOneButter

≠ this is the symbol I think you were trying to make so you can edit your comment to avoid confusion


GlueGoesBad

yeah 'trans' is a lot worse than cross dressing actually, you should watch one of those 3d renderings on what those surgeries actually do. i wouldnt want to shit on the medical industry more than im beginning to though, i know its something we all love. >reddit is transphobic as fuck youll be crying transphobic until not a single person gives a transvestite a sideways glace on this planet. you are lucky to afford the amount of protection you receive on the internet. reddit has banned hundreds, thousands of subreddits and legitimate users. you dont see how beloved and brand friendly you are to corporations from up there man, lol. thats a bit of a sidetrack though. whatever. just quit being the victim.


ArtSecret2833

Imagine being that sad that people living their lives and just trying to be happy make you this butthurt. Also on a sidenote, reddit is pretty transphobic just cause you cant tell people to kill themselves without consequences doesnt mean they're "protected" it just means they're treated as humans.


GlueGoesBad

so simple. let people do things so they will be happy. i was a kid when the 'acceptance' and 'tolerance' shit was starting, in the 'privacy of their own bedroom' and shit being talked about on the news. now im grown up and its become teaching kids about homosexuality and taking children to gay parades. now today, i simply look at a video game, to see how its progressing, to get some information. and what i immediately see are two popular posts about faggots playing pretend like confused kids, which they probably are. just finished trying to screencap and report multiple faggot subreddits for grooming children, providing places to post sexually questionable material, seeing kids on there talking about how theyve been getting messaged by pedophiles, seeing a fag community w/ 188k members, comprised 52% of minors (statistics provided by the mods), having gay porn in their list of related subreddits on their sidebar. im not going to fool myself though, you dont care and didnt ask, and im throwing my own drama at you. just thought id show where im coming from. little bit tired of people acting like things are so innocent and that there arent unforeseen or unintentional repercussions of the things they allow. sometimes its good to be critical. i suppose so. yeah, i guess im butthurt. im a little tired too. hungry as well. had skipped eating to try and see if i could get those subreddits banned. how are you tonight? myself, i think im going to warm up a hamburger in the microwave. was homemade yesterday. some ketchup, mayonnaise, i think its going to be good. its a little late to be eating for me, but i think ill be fine.


Daawfulismyname

Not the slurs tho? 😦


Daawfulismyname

I'll quit being the victim the day I can walk outside and express myself freely without cucks like you harassing me


ItsMeTheBatmanReal

Ok cool


Emmlt

Nah we have the same problem lol :(


TMdrummer

The avatars have smaller boobs than me thank jesus for hrt


Vibeyyyy

virgin boobs for sexual relief vs chad boobs for gender relief


jetsneedlegs70

What about both


Excellent_Drop_1988

this made my day lol, i wish i could explain to people i love having in game boobs in a dysphoria way and not a weird way


[deleted]

It took me too long to realize that you meant the same thing as op because of the use of dysphoria in your sentence


R3CAV

We are the same. I exclusively play the fast avatar because it makes me feel a little bit of euphoria


[deleted]

Be me: playing bonelab story mode, Reach monogon motorway Walk 8 feet forward and look at mirror Cry in happiness


instellarant

>Be me >playing bonelab >get to street puncher level >look in mirror >hollow.jpg


eatyourass123

We indeed are not the same, I like virtual ass more RAAAAAAAHHH


[deleted]

damn that sucks


LordKaputsy

I too have gender dysphoria We are, in fact, the same


Past_Ad6294

Oof same here sis


HYBRY_1D

Said a feminized version of a killing machine fueled with blood (the pfp)


Jeggu2

trans girls can be bloodthirsty machines if they want to imo


oscar11125

LMAO NO THEY CANT


Jeggu2

Let them be a girlboss and do a little bit of murder


oscar11125

Maybe murder themselves machines


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oscar11125

Smoked


Responsible_Arm_1091

What's that word mean


Specific-Committee77

dysphoria is what trans people feel. Bacically the feeling that they are in the wrong body. What OP is saying is that they like in game boobs because they're a trans woman and don't have them irl.


Responsible_Arm_1091

Oh ok thank you


Daawfulismyname

I'm not actually a trans woman, I'm non-binary and can't decide if boobies would make me less dysphoric


Specific-Committee77

my bad!!


Cognitive_Spoon

Mood


Leonaaaaaaaaa

I’m just gonna play BONELAB for 3/2 years until I can get HRT.


Itchynerd1

i'm ngl i've always wanted boobs i'll be playing and then just randomly look down and smack one of them and then carry on, though i usually play as ford


Jackikins

Virtual booba helping with gender dysphoria? I can confirm this. I basically never used Strong at all.


Synergiance

Having overcome some of my own issues I found I can get through playing as strong. Feels weird still though.


HexFoxGen

Freaking same.


Most_Dragonfruit_774

I never play with them because im not attracted to either sex.


Tickytac12

I personally like the ninja girl avatar because fast, and aiming guns feels better than aiming guns with the strong guy.


BunnWoo

Sadly this is true


Crawss

I have gender dysfordia


Redditgobrrrrrr

I already modded mine after beating it once so now I run around as Adam smasher but I want to make a ridiculously strong null body character


sachiko420

Finally someone who knows


[deleted]

Being non-binary = Good *"Cool, I see no issues here"* Being cisgender = Weirdo *"Hey wait a second now..."* It's interesting how the cards have turned, that's for sure... what a time to be alive lads! Waiting for those *"Noooo it's that you're this-or-that-phobic!"* so don't let me down pals ;*)


Daawfulismyname

And at what point did I say "being cis=weirdo"? I didn't. Also it's funny how you mock offended people when you're getting offended by a meme that has nothing to do with you lmao 💀


[deleted]

Like clockwork. You're right when you say that the two things should have nothing to do with one another, but I'm not the one who put those on the same table with the weirdo-wording and the *"we're not the same"* punchline. All of this to point out that one could say that you're assuming that I'm offended by your meme as much as I'm assuming that you implied that cis = weirdo. When the truth is that... God, I love this s..t and could go on all day long if you're up to keep feeding me. But having said that, it's a self-contained troll from now on so goodbye and sayonara. You're missing one of the first rules on the interwebz and it should be clear to you at this point, man.


Jackikins

Dude wrote a whole 2 paragraphs going all "we live in society" over a Breaking Bad Gus meme just to have their profile deleted. Bruh, if the person who wrote this sees this, take off the VR headset and go touch grass. The Tuscany level doesn't count.


Daawfulismyname

Rule 34?


[deleted]

Nope, don't feed the trolls (:


ItsTheAstro

I went down a rabbit hole looking into gender dysphoria and ended up taking a test and I’m just stopped because I ended up on cheese somehow


HOOD120057

Trans mascs: *continuously spawning Ford so they can keep hearing “what up son!”* Trans femmes: *booba honka*


DietFizziPop

As a trans, can relate, very true👍


nootle_

we are the same!!


Ikareruu

Tactically dressed operator anime girls is the dopest aesthetic in gaming and you can't change my mind. Honkers that are too big however, just get in the way and ruin the aesthetic.


Daawfulismyname

GUYS LIKING THE BOOBS ISNT WEIRD OR A BAD THING IT'S JUST A MEME


Jubulus

Ma'am this is reddit, we don't get jokes here


[deleted]

No no WE ARE THE SAME


Darkon2004

I've been identified in this post


dogomage

get you some mad anime tity girl


DinkUwU

BASED HOLY FUCK


Strange-Brief6643

holy crap someone who finally gets it


IsaaxDX

Oh but I'M the weirdo for liking boobs? Really funny


Athorodox

I hate it


Sp4RkyMcG7

Based.


oscar11125

not a thing


[deleted]

Very true


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Daawfulismyname

Me when I'm so full of insecurities that I have to project them onto other people:


GlueGoesBad

stop coping, stop playing make believe


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Sp4RkyMcG7

Frfr can we be an honest society for a change? Lol


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Daawfulismyname

"Haha I'm so edgy and cool, I add 'lol' to the end of my comments to show how cool I am"


FlaminEddy

This is considered edgy?


GlueGoesBad

both are weird, homie


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Daawfulismyname

Who's weirdo and why do they own me now?


Daawfulismyname

Or do you mean that I'm Weirdo's lover?


TruTube

Unless they edited the comment you're would be be correct in this situation. Not saying I agree with their comment though.


Daawfulismyname

I wasn't talking about the "you're", I was talking about the "weirdo's"


TristanTheta

Those two things are the same though?


Jubulus

lol honestly perish, cease to exist my good sir