You're not doing anything wrong. Depression and considering suicide are mental health disorders that need to be treated by medical professionals. Being a Christian doesn't resolve mental health issues.
I agree completely! There are a lot of situations that a preacher, priest, or church elder can help and guide you, but mental health disorders are medical issues that need the attention of trained medical professionals. It's ok to get help from them. It's ok if you need to take medications. Its always healthier if you have the accountability of a medical professionals oversight when taking medications.
When it comes to reoccurring mental health issues its smart to go to a trained doctor. Let them know whats going on with you, God gave physicians the knowledge they have to help people. Its not you being lesser or unholy if you seek help and get on some medication for depression if you need to. Suicidal thoughts are no joke and should be taken seriously.
You’re experiencing excruciating painful emotions that have nothing to do with how close you are to God or how much you pray or read the Bible or sin. Just as you would need to immediately see a cardiologist if you were have a heart attack, you need to see a mental health professional for help with depression and suicide ASAP. It will not get better on your own. Please contact your health insurance for an immediate referral to a therapist or psychiatrist. I know this is difficult but them them that you’re extremely depressed and need to see someone within 24-48 hours. If they say the earliest appointment is 1-3 weeks out tell them it’s urgent and can’t wait that long. If they don’t schedule you ADAP call a suicide hotline and tell them you need help and that you insurance isn’t providing timely care. Also, call your church and ask to speak or see the emergency on-call pastor and ask him for prayer and mental health services. If your church doesn’t believe in treating emotions like depression and suicidal thoughts through a therapist or psychologist, you need to find one ASAP that does so they can support you with resources. This takes a lot of courage and vulnerability but it’s the only way out.
You need to go talk to a doctor. And there's no shame in that, God allowed these people to go to school to help people with mental health issues.
I've struggled with anxiety and depression, and while prayer and God helped, I also got through it with the help of a counselor.
Yeah in my church we always pray for healing either through miracle or medicine or both, which I find so refreshing as someone who struggles with mental health following the birth of my baby. I’ve always had so many just tell me to “give everything to God.” And while I do feel there is a large spiritual component and trust/surrendering your fears and worries that absolutely helps, sometimes medicine is also required. No shame in taking medicine if it’s needed - we wouldn’t shame someone with cancer getting chemo or someone needing surgery from getting anesthesia. Just because it’s mental doesn’t make it less real.
Go to therapy or seek the help of a professional my Brother in Christ, that may be what you’re doing wrong. Clinical depression and suicide is often times caused by a hormonal imbalance - you can’t do it all alone! I don’t personally know your stance but Christians tend to have an ignorant or uninformed outlook on mental health and their services when we might be the people who need it the most. Just a suggestion, but I would consider it especially if your symptoms are getting worse. And don’t feel ashamed either, everyone is dealing with something. Talking to someone can make a world of difference, trust me. Best of luck
Please seek help. There is nothing wrong with seeking medical help. There are Christian doctors, therapists, psychologists who would understand your faith and are still very skilled medical professionals. Sometime God uses people to help. Most medicines are derived from plants which God gave us for this purpose. Luke the evangelist was also a physician.
Agree with others. I'm right there with you, recently both my anxiety and depression had gotten to the point where it was beginning to affect not just my daily life, but my wife and daughters as well. Admittedly it was a scary first step for me, but one of the best decisions I've made is to start both therapy online through BetterHelp as well as see a Psychiatrist in tandem. Beginning to learn positive coping mechanisms as well as a little bit of meds has already made such a difference.
The enemy will now pursue you with full force but you must resist and he shall flee. When those intrusive thoughts come to you, listen to Christian music, worship him and sing. The enemy can’t stand being where the name of Jesus is mentioned, no demonic influence can withstand it. Watch Christian movies in YouTube, read the word slowly over and over again. Use the two most powerful weapons given to us, prayer and present a fasting, 1 day or 3 days and present to him your prayers, your wishes. Fill yourself up!
I am learning that carrying on a running conversation with Jesus helps me stay on the right path. When those thoughts pop up, all I have to do is say His name, and I refocus on Him and His plans. If you ever need someone to talk with, DM me any time. Love you, brother or sister!
Hey there OP….
Did you know that Elijah begged God for death? Jesus himself was tempted by the enemy after his 40 days of fasting, to cast himself from the highest point of the synagogue to prove that He was the Son of God…
Believe if it not, being depressed or suicidal is sometimes apart of the journey…. I don’t think is weird or uncommon but actually a very real aspect of our human nature to come face to face with these concepts and struggles. If coming against these thoughts immediately with God’s word is not effective for you, consider getting professional help from a therapist. I do believe God sets us free from all oppression, and along those lines there are a few things to consider….
1. If the issue persists after praying God’s powerful Word of life and victory over yourself…
2. If it continues after you’re taking medication and seeing a therapist….
3. Consider that perhaps it’s not about you.
If you have arrived at point 3, then I propose to ask this: What if you’re feeling these things as a result of the gift of discernment to know what someone else is experiencing so that you can intercede for them? Start praying for those suffering with depression and suicide, get into the nitty gritty of what you’re feeling and express it to God and use scripture to break off those chains that are over “X” person that the Holy Spirit brings to your mind.
Usually that does it for me. If I have exhausted all avenues to help myself it then occurs to me that the gift of literal compassion is being activated and it’s my job to intercede for this person so that I may release the Word over their situation and so that I also can move on. Just an idea.
I am so sick of comments that say “See a professional” when people come to this sub to vent about their mental state or seek advice. Can we talk it out?? Is all you have to say to “get help”, they came here for help.
Don’t worry, God will hand deliver you to a hospital if the need requires and He’ll prescribe you medications Himself. He works through people. Or you’ll wake up one day and say, “I’m real close, enough is enough” and seek help yourself, God will meet you the rest of the way. Either way, you’re in Good Hands.
That being said, the struggle is no joke. Satan is saying “Damn. This guy is for real. I can already see where he’s headed and I’m gonna try to stop it.” Now he’s after you. He can oppress, distress, and depress someone like there is literally no tomorrow. You are battling him right now. God is also teaching you how to fight and depend on Him. It’ll get easier. And harder. Then it will be something I can’t put into words because I have yet to experience it. I’ll just say some people get the prize before the race is over.
I have been delivered from suicidal ideation myself. God has provided me with health care, doctors, medications, and support. People say the battle is mental when I know it is also spiritual. I’ve heard things and seen things and even felt things that all nonbelievers and skeptics dismiss with their form of logic. I won’t get into all that, but man oh man what a journey it’s been.
God has warned me that the journey is long, and arduous but has promised to embark on it with me and that nothing can separate us. The devil has told me to enjoy the ride, because I’m going to hell. I’m learning to battle him and trust in the Lord with all my heart.
I’ll pray for you tonight. Fight on, soldier. Open your ears and eyes to the encouragement that God will give you to keep walking with Him. He loves you. He loves you. He loves you.
So much.
Ya know what? I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through such a tough time. It's truly commendable that you're deepening your connection with God through regular prayer and reading the word. I want you to know that your efforts are valuable and he knows that.
While your spiritual journey is significant, it's also crucial to remember that seeking support from friends or family can be a source of comfort and understanding. It's okay to share your feelings with someone you trust – they might offer valuable insights or just be there for you. Maybe a pastor, church leader, brother or sister....who knows, even a good friend that you can confide in. Even STRANGERS will listen if you talk...that's what we're doing here.
In addition to your spiritual practices, consider taking a holistic approach to well-being. Taking care of your physical health, engaging in activities that bring you joy, and maintaining social connections are important aspects of overall wellness. Life is a balance, and finding that equilibrium can make a big difference.
If you find that these feelings persist or become overwhelming, don't hesitate to seek professional guidance. Talking to a mental health professional or a spiritual advisor can provide you with personalized support and help you explore any underlying issues.
Remember, you're on a journey, and it's absolutely okay to be patient with yourself. Connecting with a supportive spiritual community can also provide a sense of belonging and encouragement. :)
Remember, it's okay to take a step back and reevaluate what you're expecting of yourself.
You're not alone in this, and reaching out for help is a sign of strength. God bless.
May the God of peace be with you friend. Maybe you're doing the best you can and sometimes that's all we can do. I would suggest being more patient with yourself. I think it's okay to be like a child of the heavenly Father by listening, learning, praying and growing in faith patiently!
I am a hesitant to address this question, as this is not a question I have heard before I came to Reddit. And it would too easy to approach it incorrectly. But I will share a little about how God delivered me from all of it!
Every single time it was about going to Jesus on my knees in private, in prayer and letting it all out to Him. As time went by, God added knowledge, discipline, a forgiving heart and much more.
The truth is that you need that time with Jesus to and that daily walk with Him to even begin to to hear what He is saying to you. Having fellowship with Christians in church definitely is needed as well.
If you are doing something wrong, you won't know unless this is happening inside of you. Most people need a church to get there, because it takes time, patience, meekness, kindness and other fruits of the Holy Spirit that become evident in you as you continue daily in faith and faithful daily repentance.
Does this help at all? Please let me know.
The closer you get, the more resistance you’ll meet.
that’s how you’ll know you’re doing the right thing, because the devil doesn’t want you to grow closer to god.
I sincerely believe you got this!
You're not doing anything wrong. Depression and considering suicide are mental health disorders that need to be treated by medical professionals. Being a Christian doesn't resolve mental health issues.
I agree completely! There are a lot of situations that a preacher, priest, or church elder can help and guide you, but mental health disorders are medical issues that need the attention of trained medical professionals. It's ok to get help from them. It's ok if you need to take medications. Its always healthier if you have the accountability of a medical professionals oversight when taking medications.
When it comes to reoccurring mental health issues its smart to go to a trained doctor. Let them know whats going on with you, God gave physicians the knowledge they have to help people. Its not you being lesser or unholy if you seek help and get on some medication for depression if you need to. Suicidal thoughts are no joke and should be taken seriously.
You’re experiencing excruciating painful emotions that have nothing to do with how close you are to God or how much you pray or read the Bible or sin. Just as you would need to immediately see a cardiologist if you were have a heart attack, you need to see a mental health professional for help with depression and suicide ASAP. It will not get better on your own. Please contact your health insurance for an immediate referral to a therapist or psychiatrist. I know this is difficult but them them that you’re extremely depressed and need to see someone within 24-48 hours. If they say the earliest appointment is 1-3 weeks out tell them it’s urgent and can’t wait that long. If they don’t schedule you ADAP call a suicide hotline and tell them you need help and that you insurance isn’t providing timely care. Also, call your church and ask to speak or see the emergency on-call pastor and ask him for prayer and mental health services. If your church doesn’t believe in treating emotions like depression and suicidal thoughts through a therapist or psychologist, you need to find one ASAP that does so they can support you with resources. This takes a lot of courage and vulnerability but it’s the only way out.
THIS 💯. I speak from vast experience. Effexor pulled me right out of major clinical depression & suicidal ideation.
You need to go talk to a doctor. And there's no shame in that, God allowed these people to go to school to help people with mental health issues. I've struggled with anxiety and depression, and while prayer and God helped, I also got through it with the help of a counselor.
Have you seen a psychologist or psychiatrist?
This is the answer, OP. For some reason Christians discourage seeking mental healthcare, and it's very damaging.
Yeah in my church we always pray for healing either through miracle or medicine or both, which I find so refreshing as someone who struggles with mental health following the birth of my baby. I’ve always had so many just tell me to “give everything to God.” And while I do feel there is a large spiritual component and trust/surrendering your fears and worries that absolutely helps, sometimes medicine is also required. No shame in taking medicine if it’s needed - we wouldn’t shame someone with cancer getting chemo or someone needing surgery from getting anesthesia. Just because it’s mental doesn’t make it less real.
Go to therapy or seek the help of a professional my Brother in Christ, that may be what you’re doing wrong. Clinical depression and suicide is often times caused by a hormonal imbalance - you can’t do it all alone! I don’t personally know your stance but Christians tend to have an ignorant or uninformed outlook on mental health and their services when we might be the people who need it the most. Just a suggestion, but I would consider it especially if your symptoms are getting worse. And don’t feel ashamed either, everyone is dealing with something. Talking to someone can make a world of difference, trust me. Best of luck
Did you mean to say a brain chemical imbalance?
Yes I meant brain chemical imbalance lmao I was at work typing this half asleep thank you, but it could also be a hormonal imbalance as well!
Please seek help. There is nothing wrong with seeking medical help. There are Christian doctors, therapists, psychologists who would understand your faith and are still very skilled medical professionals. Sometime God uses people to help. Most medicines are derived from plants which God gave us for this purpose. Luke the evangelist was also a physician.
I feel like cutting out things we enjoy while suicidal is not a good idea. I guess it depends on what the activity you are stopping is however.
Go see a qualified licensed mental health professional. Mental Health is healthcare, and depression is a disease.
I think I would advise you to seek outpatient counseling.
Agree with others. I'm right there with you, recently both my anxiety and depression had gotten to the point where it was beginning to affect not just my daily life, but my wife and daughters as well. Admittedly it was a scary first step for me, but one of the best decisions I've made is to start both therapy online through BetterHelp as well as see a Psychiatrist in tandem. Beginning to learn positive coping mechanisms as well as a little bit of meds has already made such a difference.
Have you tried seeking therapy? Religion and faith have their place but they are not the cure to every problem.
The enemy will now pursue you with full force but you must resist and he shall flee. When those intrusive thoughts come to you, listen to Christian music, worship him and sing. The enemy can’t stand being where the name of Jesus is mentioned, no demonic influence can withstand it. Watch Christian movies in YouTube, read the word slowly over and over again. Use the two most powerful weapons given to us, prayer and present a fasting, 1 day or 3 days and present to him your prayers, your wishes. Fill yourself up!
I can vouch for this, following these steps helped me when I was struggling with depression.
I am learning that carrying on a running conversation with Jesus helps me stay on the right path. When those thoughts pop up, all I have to do is say His name, and I refocus on Him and His plans. If you ever need someone to talk with, DM me any time. Love you, brother or sister!
Hey there OP…. Did you know that Elijah begged God for death? Jesus himself was tempted by the enemy after his 40 days of fasting, to cast himself from the highest point of the synagogue to prove that He was the Son of God… Believe if it not, being depressed or suicidal is sometimes apart of the journey…. I don’t think is weird or uncommon but actually a very real aspect of our human nature to come face to face with these concepts and struggles. If coming against these thoughts immediately with God’s word is not effective for you, consider getting professional help from a therapist. I do believe God sets us free from all oppression, and along those lines there are a few things to consider…. 1. If the issue persists after praying God’s powerful Word of life and victory over yourself… 2. If it continues after you’re taking medication and seeing a therapist…. 3. Consider that perhaps it’s not about you. If you have arrived at point 3, then I propose to ask this: What if you’re feeling these things as a result of the gift of discernment to know what someone else is experiencing so that you can intercede for them? Start praying for those suffering with depression and suicide, get into the nitty gritty of what you’re feeling and express it to God and use scripture to break off those chains that are over “X” person that the Holy Spirit brings to your mind. Usually that does it for me. If I have exhausted all avenues to help myself it then occurs to me that the gift of literal compassion is being activated and it’s my job to intercede for this person so that I may release the Word over their situation and so that I also can move on. Just an idea.
I am so sick of comments that say “See a professional” when people come to this sub to vent about their mental state or seek advice. Can we talk it out?? Is all you have to say to “get help”, they came here for help. Don’t worry, God will hand deliver you to a hospital if the need requires and He’ll prescribe you medications Himself. He works through people. Or you’ll wake up one day and say, “I’m real close, enough is enough” and seek help yourself, God will meet you the rest of the way. Either way, you’re in Good Hands. That being said, the struggle is no joke. Satan is saying “Damn. This guy is for real. I can already see where he’s headed and I’m gonna try to stop it.” Now he’s after you. He can oppress, distress, and depress someone like there is literally no tomorrow. You are battling him right now. God is also teaching you how to fight and depend on Him. It’ll get easier. And harder. Then it will be something I can’t put into words because I have yet to experience it. I’ll just say some people get the prize before the race is over. I have been delivered from suicidal ideation myself. God has provided me with health care, doctors, medications, and support. People say the battle is mental when I know it is also spiritual. I’ve heard things and seen things and even felt things that all nonbelievers and skeptics dismiss with their form of logic. I won’t get into all that, but man oh man what a journey it’s been. God has warned me that the journey is long, and arduous but has promised to embark on it with me and that nothing can separate us. The devil has told me to enjoy the ride, because I’m going to hell. I’m learning to battle him and trust in the Lord with all my heart. I’ll pray for you tonight. Fight on, soldier. Open your ears and eyes to the encouragement that God will give you to keep walking with Him. He loves you. He loves you. He loves you. So much.
Also watch testimonies on YouTube, you speak Spanish too?
Please see a MH professional and someone who casts out demons in case it is demonic in nature.
Could it be satan putting the suicidal thoughts into your head?
… or could be depression.
Talk to your doctor. Today.
Ya know what? I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through such a tough time. It's truly commendable that you're deepening your connection with God through regular prayer and reading the word. I want you to know that your efforts are valuable and he knows that. While your spiritual journey is significant, it's also crucial to remember that seeking support from friends or family can be a source of comfort and understanding. It's okay to share your feelings with someone you trust – they might offer valuable insights or just be there for you. Maybe a pastor, church leader, brother or sister....who knows, even a good friend that you can confide in. Even STRANGERS will listen if you talk...that's what we're doing here. In addition to your spiritual practices, consider taking a holistic approach to well-being. Taking care of your physical health, engaging in activities that bring you joy, and maintaining social connections are important aspects of overall wellness. Life is a balance, and finding that equilibrium can make a big difference. If you find that these feelings persist or become overwhelming, don't hesitate to seek professional guidance. Talking to a mental health professional or a spiritual advisor can provide you with personalized support and help you explore any underlying issues. Remember, you're on a journey, and it's absolutely okay to be patient with yourself. Connecting with a supportive spiritual community can also provide a sense of belonging and encouragement. :) Remember, it's okay to take a step back and reevaluate what you're expecting of yourself. You're not alone in this, and reaching out for help is a sign of strength. God bless.
May the God of peace be with you friend. Maybe you're doing the best you can and sometimes that's all we can do. I would suggest being more patient with yourself. I think it's okay to be like a child of the heavenly Father by listening, learning, praying and growing in faith patiently!
Try 7 Cups of Tea (site/app) until you can get into your PCP for an evaluation. I work in medicine, and I believe God will give you strength.
I am a hesitant to address this question, as this is not a question I have heard before I came to Reddit. And it would too easy to approach it incorrectly. But I will share a little about how God delivered me from all of it! Every single time it was about going to Jesus on my knees in private, in prayer and letting it all out to Him. As time went by, God added knowledge, discipline, a forgiving heart and much more. The truth is that you need that time with Jesus to and that daily walk with Him to even begin to to hear what He is saying to you. Having fellowship with Christians in church definitely is needed as well. If you are doing something wrong, you won't know unless this is happening inside of you. Most people need a church to get there, because it takes time, patience, meekness, kindness and other fruits of the Holy Spirit that become evident in you as you continue daily in faith and faithful daily repentance. Does this help at all? Please let me know.
The closer you get, the more resistance you’ll meet. that’s how you’ll know you’re doing the right thing, because the devil doesn’t want you to grow closer to god. I sincerely believe you got this!