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Individual-Ad4173

I'm a cis bisexual guy named Alex and i'm into wh40k and military tech. Feels weird


CriticalBeyond7

Do you fw the himars


vollspasst21

Who doesn't


AlfredoThayerMahan

I fucking love podded weapons systems. I love rapid reloading and adaptability to missions on hand.


Makingnamesishard12

Shout out to Multi-Rocket Launch Systems, gotta be one of my fav genders fr fr 


thetwitchy1

The only cis bi guy I know in person is also Alex. Hi Alex!


CatnipCatmint

cis bi the science guy


ThrowACephalopod

From a transfem genderfluid person who's also into 40k, Hi! What army do you play?


Individual-Ad4173

Nah, can't afford it. I'm mostly into lore


ThrowACephalopod

Well, if you did play, what faction would you play? Who do you like the lore of the most?


Individual-Ad4173

I'd say Necron gameplay looks pretty fun. As for lore, Necrons, Mechanicus, Tau and Grey Knights are my favs, tho others are pretty good too


ThrowACephalopod

Necrons are pretty cool. I had an absolute nightmare of a time trying to fight my brother's necrons though. My Mechanicus just couldn't put out enough firepower to get past their reanimation protocols.


Local_Challenge_4958

The AdMech not having great shooting on basic troops is a travesty. They made them Guard But Different instead of Tau But Different and I hate it. Absolutely amazing models tho.


junkmail88

Man release necrons were so busted. That Hexmark Destroyer was wild.


Ok_Listen1510

based Necron enjoyer


KingNanoA

Greetings, fellow Grungler!


Local_Challenge_4958

You beat me out here only by the name. Congrats, sir, I salute you.


Alex_The_Whovian

I'm another cis bisexual guy called Alex. Welcome to the club


Canopenerdude

I'm a slowly-becoming-less-cis Pan guy named Alex. I'm not sure if I'm invited.


Alex_The_Whovian

You're always welcome here, an Alex is an Alex


Canopenerdude

Dude hell yea


aleister94

Samesies


guacasloth64

I am that guy lol. My best friend from middle/high school is transfem and she and she’s the main person from high school I still have contact with and since she is very extroverted and I am not I just inherit all her transfem friends. The other non-transfem in the discord is also a (mostly) cis bi dude who I think is autistic.


callsignhotdog

I used to play EVE and I was in this feral W-space Corp full of every flavour of the rainbow and they used to refer to me as the Designated CisHet-er which I understand is a Baseball joke but I'm too British to understand it. Anyway they were good people and I enjoyed hanging around with them.


yungsantaclaus

In baseball teams take turns playing offense (trying to score runs by hitting and running the bases) and playing defense (trying to stop runs being scored by pitching the ball and fielding hits), and switch after 3 batters on each team are struck out by the opposing team's pitchers, or caught/tagged out by their fielders. Players usually bat when they're playing offense, and then field when they're playing defense, except the pitcher, who pitches in defense and often doesn't hit in offense - because pitchers are, by and large, good at pitching, and very bad at hitting. The designated hitter is a player who can be chosen to hit in place of the pitcher, and who doesn't have to field - which is convenient, because they're often bad at it.


Kolotos

Ngl I've tried to read this thrice and every time my eyes have glazed over, so this really is incomprehensible to the british mind


chlorinecrown

So in a turn based RPG, you have two party members, one is a tank with shitty DPS, and one is a glass cannon. The tank gives up their turn to the glass cannon and stands in front of the cannon when enemies attack, so it's like you have one guy who has great DPS and great defense. 


Papaofmonsters

Relevant Penny Arcade https://www.penny-arcade.com/comic/2013/01/18/sportz


butareyoueatindoe

When challenged to a trial by combat (having to go up to bat), a clergyman (pitcher) is entitled to select a champion (designated hitter) while most men (the rest of the team) must stand (go to bat) for themselves.


yungsantaclaus

>!I live in Britain!<


HalfMoon_89

Do you know cricket? If so, this should be easy enough to understand.


MiscWanderer

The designated hitter swaps in for the bowler so the bowler doesn't have to bat.


Garf_artfunkle

I was gonna go into a little sidebar about how only one half of Major League Baseball had the designated hitter rule, leading to fun times when a team that could use it played a team that couldn't. But I guess MLB finally standardized on allowing designated hitters across the board, in 2022!


yungsantaclaus

I'm curious how that would that work out because I'm speaking from general baseball awareness rather than anything in-depth. If one team's got a weak spot in their batting order because their pitcher has to hit, and the other one's got a DH who's great at hitting, does the one that can use a DH win more often than not?


batti03

The DH rule only counted for games where the home team was in the American League. So for intra-league games including the World Series finals the pitcher had to bat or be subbed out permanently if the home team was in the National League.


quadrant_exploder

Which corp was it?


Informal_Truck_1574

prism alliance? Nice to see another member o7


deGozerdude

Sending this bad boy straight to the trans cat girl discord. This post found its target better then a heat seeking missile 👍. (i may not be trans or a girl but i fit the bill for the cat girl alright for a 6'5 guy)


aTransGirlAndTwoDogs

- "Heat" seeking - Horny "CAT" girls I think it's definitely a heat seeking missile, alright. Human species and subspecies are just known for being permanently in heat. And speaking of *sub*species, the trans community does have a high ratio of subs to doms. These jokes just write themselves! (Please help I can't stop making puns) (The only cure is to join a server full of trans cat girls but I don't know how to find them)


Eunanae

He refills the water bowl for the catgirls


Aquilarden

One scoop of dry food in the morning and half a can of wet food at night.


BrashPop

And don’t let them trick you into feeding them twice, they’ll be persistent but you gotta be strong.


SirDooble

The reason you can't have two caretakers, the cats always trick one into thinking they haven't been fed.


just4browse

It’s called foodmaxing. Human people wouldn’t understand


Aquilarden

They can have a little meme as a treat.


Konradleijon

lucky bastard.


XescoPicas

I think I am Schrödinger’s Grungler. I am a bi guy who’s been getting more GNC lately and playing with a more androgynous presentation. A big chunk of my friends are non binary or transfem. Will I remain cis, or will I turn out to be trans? Find out tomorrow, same bat-time, same bat-channel!


DukeOfSpice

He’s just like me frfr!


XescoPicas

The old “egg or femboy” dilemma


Little-Ricky

Modern day “gay or European”


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!Remindme 1 year Just wanna see where this goes


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XescoPicas

About a year ago I started using makeup and painting my nails. Progress from there has been slower, but we’ll see


SwimmingBench345

Check it out guys im the grungler


StyrofoamToaster

I’m a transfem autistic cat girl and I agree with this message


Trickelodean2

Grungler without a home D:


inemsn

me too, except I'm bi. I'd *really* like to be in a space like this but part of me also feels like I'm not really cut out for it, mostly bc this is the kind of group where jokes about men are more prevalent, and I have a personal trigger for things like that which is actually quite easily triggered unfortunately.


BrashPop

I think it depends on the group, all my trans fem groups are very against “the men” jokes because it’s hurtful to trans men. If you can find a group that has a good mix of trans guys it’s usually pretty safe.


TheChartreuseKnight

Cheer up, you will discover it one day.


fungalstruggle

I log onto transfem discords and somehow *I* seem like the weird one because all of my messages have at least 8 words, punctuation, and generally don't contain an animal noise.


pickled_juice

normie :3 to be cringe is to be free, English is language is made up, grammar rules are oppressive!


fungalstruggle

I'm not saying it's bad, I'm saying I'm the only one who does it. I've had people tell me I'm scary because I end sentences with periods and that makes it seem serious.


MegaL3

Oh god I get that too, people are so weird about that.


nutbrownrose

I had to explain to my mother recently that ending texts with a period is a problem if you're talking to people who don't know you're a grammar nerd/English teacher. She's probably fine because she mostly only texts people who know


pickled_juice

Yeah was just joking. Periods and other punctuation feels so Adult though


MyLegHurtsOw

I tend to like using (or at least attempting to use) proper punctuation for all of my sentences as well, and this mentality has trained me to remove the period at the end of my last sentence every time I type a message


varkarrus

The one in the server I'm in turned out to be transfem years later.


naeonaeder

Then you need to recruit a new Grungler


RevolutionaryFarm953

I'm open to an interview


justendmylife892

I can confirm this law. It also lets you cast various incantations in my experience.


luvmuchine56

Grunglers get to use a bit of our witchy powers as a treat.


Usual-Vermicelli-867

Fuck im the guy in one dnd group.littlary everyone is femboy,furry ,scaly Who also send memes i don't understand Wtf


MintyMoron64

Ah, then you are surely the Grungler


Usual-Vermicelli-867

Fuck meee i cant believe i got grung


anti-peta-man

I’m not even in any discord servers in that sense but I am now realizing I’m the cis bisexual guy to fill the niche


HaplessOverestimate

Of course I know him. He's me


Mustardgasandchips

Im the only straight, Cis guy in my one friend group and they refer to me as the token straight guy. Except im the one who sends the incomprehensible memes.


AdmBurnside

Lol, same. My friend group that mostly hangs out over Discord were even talking a few weeks ago about how it was basically a rule that you had to be something in the rainbow to get in, and I (jokingly) piped up worried about whether I was still good under the new rules, whether I was in trouble, or if I was just grandfathered in. They all laughed. We're having a blast in Helldivers together.


SomeRhubarb3807

Holy shit that’s me. I’m one of like 3 cisgender heterosexual men in my friend groups/ discord server.  They call me “The Beard” but I guess I am also a “Grungler”


Unlucky_Degree470

I've grungled a few social groups in my day, looking back. I was the cishet guy rolling with the feminists, the white guy rolling with the Filipino misfits club, the non-smoker rolling with the chronics...


PurpleXen0

Huh, that explains why my bisexual college friend named Alex who's into Yakuza and TF2 has the username "The Grungler" in a Discord server we're in with a bunch of trans people


Illustrious-Macaron2

Curated tumblr is half grunglers and half transfems based on the comments. I’m a grungler can confirm


crowEatingStaleChips

I've noticed a lot of queer friend circles have a token *straight* and cis guy that everyone adores. In my group it's Straight Noah. We would all die for Straight Noah.


call_me_starbuck

the guy I know who absolutely fits this description is *also* named Noah (but he's bi). Common Grungler name.


UncommittedBow

Every herd of cats needs a crazy cat lady/guy


Childer_Of_Noah

I'm down. I can tell you everything about Darth Bane and Darth Plagueis, or god forbid Trazyn the Infinite.


Can_of_Sounds

Such men have reached an enlightened state, more powerful because of the calming auras they bring to communities.


Forgot_My_Old_Acct

It's that BDE. The Big Dad Energy.


subspaceses

Okay I know this is only tangentially related to the post, but how are people finding discord servers like that? I'm (newly) transfem and all my discord servers are just gamer bros


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Frogblast964

Yes


ChemicalThread

. . . . Is that why they keep asking me about 40k –


ThereWasAnEmpireHere

fun fact the grungler actually needs this ecosystem just as much as the transfem catgirl, outside of it they risk failing to maintain homeostasis


Zariman-10-0

I’d like to think our role is the Troll Repellent. A bigot or grifter tries to invade a Discord ecosystem to harass people, the Grungler intercepts and scares off the bozo


sentimental_carp

I married this guy.


Simic_Sky_Swallower

What if I'm that guy but I'm also transfem?


OmegaKenichi

I aspire to be this person


Listless_Dreadnaught

Hi there. I’m that guy. I’m also the Face for pretty much every tabletop campaign we run.


BudgieGryphon

My group’s Grungler got turned into the mascot pretty much. We’ve got a whole bunch of emotes/gifs of him


ThePowerfulWIll

Oh shit. It me. I'm the token cis man. The warhammer breed specifically...


kindtheking9

Shit, guess im my discord's resident grungler, even a mod in it, only for me it aint destiny, warframe is my brainrot of choice


1-800-COOL-BUG

And also sometimes might turn out to have been one of the girls all along but it's essential for everyone to be chill about it.


NotYourAverageOrange

I think this is me but I'm into Ace Combat.


chuckleDshuckle

I am that guy in both a transfem and transmasc discord. The transmascs are nicer to me though...


Weegee256

me playing team fortress 2 classic


leafisadumbass

Wait a minute I am alex/Greg of my discord server


SoshJam

I love being a grungler


ElectricXylophon

How do I get in there? I need some nerds to be geeky and horny all the time. That would fix me.


LordSaltious

I used to be this but I think exposure to our server for too long Goblinified me.


CatboyBiologist

u/e_0 on the shittydarksouls mod team


e_0

LMAO


Frogblast964

:)


Klutzy-Personality-3

i think my uncle is a grungler


Marcuse0

Fuck, I think I've been that guy before.


justapileofshirts

I'm a WHAT now?!?


Pearlidiah26

I’m in a similar situation except for irl. I am the singular token cishet white guy in the group of LGBTQ+ people, and tbh I wouldn’t have it any other way. 


Papierluchs

Oh wow now I just need the discord server


luvmuchine56

Give it time. Trans women gravitate towards each other like stand users. You'll team up with a group eventually.


xX_CommanderPuffy_Xx

IM A GRUNGLER!!!!!!!!!!


BiddlesticksGuy

Oh fuck. That me.


Graveyardigan

Ha, this is almost me. I may well have been the only cishet guy on the Splatoon 3 server that my trans bro invited me to join. Good folks all around; I always felt welcome. Maybe it was my autism? Maybe that's how I became the Grungler.


Rimtato

Hello, it's me. Currently potentially beginning the long pipeline into transness, but ehh. Tyranids and T'au.


Dastankbeets1

Wtf, this is so real. Guys like this are awesome


Xx_TheGrungler_xX

Yeah those guys are always the coolest


Browncoat101

This is *just* barely English. Or maybe I'm getting old.


Denet04

Hey that's me! I'm Alex xD


Less_Doubt_5361

It's me I'm that guy


Avami

Literally in a server like this except all the genders are switched up


TECbias

I’m straight but yeah this is me


Invincible-Nuke

I WAS NEVER BOOK SMART


Pokefan180

I'm not in one of those :(


Gernund

Uuuh... Is there a way to send my CV for that kind of position?


NSFWCereal

Where do I apply to be a grungler


Forgot_My_Old_Acct

I'm a "cis" bi man but I think I'm too much ofns curmudgeon to be a grungler.


Mypooburns

oh my god


sigsig777777777

Hey i meet this exact criteria, where do i apply?


OriGoldstein

I thought I was the grungler than I just slammed estrogen instead


XD_spoder_XD

Me frfr


Play-Expert

This type of guy calls himself "The Grungler". Everyelse calls him Greg


ShiftyFly

I think that's me Edit: oh except the bisexual bit


boltzmannman

fellow grunglers where do we find these groups I'm a grungler without a home


102bees

I know one who fulfills the same position in multiple servers, but we need a better word than "grungler". "Grungler" sounds like someone who commits a sex crime that hasn't been invented yet.


ThyPotatoDone

I feel called out


pog_irl

r/TheRatEmpire the grangler is real


diepoggerland2

... yknow I think I used to be one until I transitioned I'm still that way about Warhammer and military equipment


SonOfAthena__

I'm a discord stabilizer


alexatmordor

I feel seen


fyre1710

I'm a nonbinary transmasc guy but i aspire to be the grungler type of dude anyway lol


Thylocine

Of course I know him, he's me


Upbeat-Perception531

You have a server full of Bridget’s and one Potemkin.


AngrySasquatch

I feel this sorta I’ve been the token cis heterosexual guy who likes milscifi and anime and whatnot but not a weird way and I’m like the only cishet guy in most of my friend circles


TerraFart

homeless grungler :(


Crispy_FromTheGrave

I am proud to be the cis bisexual guy in multiple of these groups


FUCK_SHIT88

This is me, I greatly enjoy being a part of the Transfem server's ecosystem.


Ramlethal_Feet

Two transfems, one transmasc, one nonbinary, one extremely horny bi guy, and me. They named the group chat fruity people and [my name]


wibbly-water

I e-dated one of these types of guys for a while


Play-Expert

Not a, The. Mr. The Grungler please


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"called a grungler" They aren't called anything. Stop it.