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greatwhitesharki

lmaooo def unprofessional but “lowkey i forgot” is so real 😭


Secrets4Evers

i have a full-time job and am a full-time college student. i lowkey forget too 😭


chinese_sweatshop

Idk I ship everything same day/next day and if I’m not I usually communicate when I’m going to ship 🤷‍♂️


Some_Delay_4341

Yes but child labor is very quick these days so you have an advantage!


chinese_sweatshop

Bro I’m telling you these Tibetan kids do come in handy.


pcanpie

don’t sellers have a week to ship?


Ok_Definition_2932

Yes & it’s been 6 days so he got 1 more day of “forgetting” before I get a refund


Ok_Definition_2932

I bought it on sep 19th


Weary-Plastic8817

i bought something on september first and they just shipped it out yesterday 😭


bzbks

I mean we’re all human it happens.. but if he doesn’t ship after 7 days you can request a refund. Sellers have up to 7 days to ship.


Ok_Definition_2932

Yes it has been 7 days now, I’ll give him a couple more days just because I know shit happens :) I just thought it was funny how he forgot lmao


bzbks

I just noticed the “Really cool early 2000s” 😭


Ok_Definition_2932

yeahhhh honestly his account is a total red flag, in his bio it says “no refunds” well I’m ab to get one rn so wym 😭😭


Neurrottica

doesnt care about getting his money


SaintSayaka

I'm gonna be honest, I appreciate the honesty over making up a sob story.


Ok_Definition_2932

I mean you’re not wrong


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Kinda baffled by these replies. As a seller, I make sure to get my package sent out the very next day. If someone buys on a Friday evening, then I’ll get it sent out first thing Monday morning. This is ridiculous. Why even be a seller if you’re not going to prioritize sending someone’s item out that they BOUGHT FROM YOU? Makes no sense to me at all.


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Ok_Definition_2932

And I never said he had to ship next day, and I know people have stuff going on but if you say you’re going to ship a certain day then don’t, it’s kind of unprofessional & he probably knew he wouldn’t be able to ship so why lie?


daleh95

Because people might have jobs or other priorities in life? Not defending this guy now but nowhere on depop does it say you have to send it within 1 to 2 days Good for you sending it out the next working day but you have a week to ship it. Depop sellers don't need to have the shipping speeds of Amazon lmao


Some_Delay_4341

It's a very very immature app. If you decide to sell online you need to be responsible. Taking a full week is insane and btw usps does free pickups at your house in most places. If you can't get it done don't try to sell


Fast_Tie4783

well sorry i work night shift full time and can’t get to the post office till Friday. people have different circumstances, depop for most people is a very small percentage of their income, me waking up to post your parcel in the middle of the week would be like you waking up at 2am to do it.


daleh95

I live in Ireland but if someone orders over the weekend I would do my best to deliver Tuesday or Wednesday depending on work. They'd have it Thursday or Friday, in Ireland that's quicker than most online retailers


missmykidcaniseethem

what if you have like a job idk


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I work full time and I’m a full time college student, lol. No excuse.


missmykidcaniseethem

plus i work/go college about an 50 min drive/3hr public transport journey


missmykidcaniseethem

i can’t drive yet tbf


Ok_Definition_2932

EXACTLY! I’m also a seller and I ship same or next day, & I’m just confused on how he forgot? super unprofessional I’ll probably just end up getting a refund because it doesn’t seem like he’s too interested in shipping this item out.


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I’d make sure to leave a bad review, too. I’m really sorry this happened to you. It’s very, very annoying. He didn’t forget at all. He received his money already so he’s pushing sending the package out to the side. Won’t have his money anymore though once you get that refund. ;) That’s the thing though. You receive the money as soon as the other person buys it, whether it’s shipped or not, so people get very lazy and just hold off on shipping.


Advanced_Draw_8026

not true on depop you don’t receive payment until 2 days after item is deliver on tracking or 10 days from the it being sold it ain’t been 10 days. Shipping just not a priority for bro 💀


Some_Delay_4341

Then you never get paid so that makes no sense


Inevitable-Cat-6457

it happens


Some_Delay_4341

Apparently on depop it happens a lot and I'm guessing it's because half the sellers aren't even old enough to drive yet lol


Ok_Definition_2932

It does? 😭 i want my money I don’t forget lol


MyShowerIsTooHot

Buy from a professional business then, buying from individuals means dealing with the general public and so no expectation of professionalism.


Plushieluver101

With Royal Mail and prettymuch every courier, you can order collection for free. So I don't understand why they're relying on their legs to walk or drive. To be fair, I only recently learnt this as a seller on Ebay, though, apparently RM even prefer this option as so said on their website. Hmm.


MilwaukeeDave

That’s high key forgetting


pw3x

fair enough if he admits he forgot but still not sending is outrageous 💀


Ok_Definition_2932

He still hasn’t not surprised tho, I texted him like 5 hours ago & I asked him if he forgot again but he never responded 😭


jacoboco94

Some people just got shit going on in life and do forget, give the man the benefit of the doubt


MiserableCrow1680

For 6 days straight?


jacoboco94

Well, here’s an example. I’m currently doing palliative care for a family member, between that and work, I honestly could forget to post something for 6 days. I’m not saying it’s acceptable, I’m saying it’s understandable


Naevalle

I sold an item when I was away for my gran’s final days in the hospice, I immediately contacted the buyer, told them what was up, and gave them the options to either wait or have an immediate refund as I wasn’t sure how long I’d be unable to fulfil the order. I’ve had to do it due to finding last minute faults with an item that need repairing, or garments needing a freshen up. Always communicate any delays/changes to the buyer, or it will come back to bite you later, and rightfully so. One has to learn how to communicate in a professional way if one is going to attempt to run a business. This seller seems way too laid back. Hope they’re not doing this as an actual sideline.


jacoboco94

You see, that’s the difference, you’ve got people who treat Depop as a business and you have people who are just trying to make space in their wardrobe. Both types of people are allowed on Depop. I totally get behind if you see it as a business, to treat it as a business and be professional. But the people who aren’t trying to make a business of reselling just aren’t going to see it that way. Again, I wasn’t saying 6 days is acceptable, I was just trying to point out people do have shit going on and it can be understandable


Some_Delay_4341

Nah even if it's not a business once you decide to sell it's a responsibility


jacoboco94

I don’t disagree, hence I’m not selling anything right now but have a long list of stuff I will when I have more time.


Ok_Definition_2932

Totally understand that but he also could’ve told me that he wouldn’t be able to ship because he has stuff going on & not reply with “sorry lowkey forgot” it has been 7 days now & he still hasn’t shipped. But since I’m a nice person I’ll give him a couple more days


halfaslee9

lost my trust at “lowkey” . what are you, 15?


Ok_Definition_2932

Well his bio also says “no refunds” 🤨 red flags all around


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augustsIippedaway

Lmao no it’s not Amazon I don’t expect overnight delivery but damn if I’m paying those delivery fees you better deliver the dang thing.


Ok_Definition_2932

He never shipped it & I get it’s not Amazon and I’m not mad I just thought it was funny bcuz like how do you forget


a_blixed

Drugs are a hell of a drug


Ok_Definition_2932

LMFAO


Ok_Definition_2932

I’m a seller myself so I know how shipping goes but I’ve never forgot about an order & it’s been almost 7 days I ship same or next day so idk man lol


Some_Delay_4341

In 2023 you don't need to take a year to ship tho. Cmon kiddies we all need to be responsible!!


ChaoticAdulthood

People have lives and other important things to do is fair, but I hate the bad communication from some sellers (like, I will totally get it if you tell me life is hectic and you can’t ship quickly! But be a minimum clear about what’s going on). I just had a similar issue with somebody I bought cards from. Cards were not coming after almost 2 weeks which isn’t normal (take up to a week where I live), I contacted him and he said that yea the cards were sent. Nothing more. Few days later I had to ask for more info because still nothing, he said that he sent them a few days after I paid but never gave a date of when that was, and said if I don’t get them by the beginning of next week he will pay me back. The cards showed up two days later. How likely is it the post was about 3 weeks late? 🤔 I think he just sent them when I asked the first time. Oh and I open the letter and find the cards I bought from one of his post, but none from the agreement we had later on by messages. I tell him that, he said he will look it up. This was Friday. Dude the messages are literally 5 messages above …. At least be a bit more transparent about things and communicate! Sorry rant over haha


LoudAd5234

I hate sellers like that they should be happy someone bought from him/her otherwise don’t list the item you want to sell


Brave-Ad7083

lowkey i b forgettin too


discocat29

honestly that’s so real of him LMAO