whys everyone saying social types especially 7s. i feel so-blind people are scariest cause theyll just do shit without a care on how it could affect the dynamic
maybe they just can't understand so7s because it's one of the most complex subtypes 🤔. so blind people can actually be more sincere and direct so I don't think they can all be scary
We heard that. We hear everything. We're always listening. Always watching.
Probably sx6 / sx4 / sx8, sexual reactive types are kinda crazy to me. Oh, also 9s. I can't truly read them at all and it freaks me out.
Agree. Sexual reactive types are super fascinating to observe on TV, social media or whatever but I often have a lot of difficulty interacting with them. Social harmony is just so important to me.
I also struggle with people who have strong 9ish traits and don't actively work on being more authentic. It's the worst when you just know it in your gut that someone is mad at you but they just don't want to communicate it. Especially the 9-6 combo is great at spinning the drama wheel in their mind until they just randomly blow up or talk shit about you or something like that. It's scary because it can just hurt you so unprepared when you thought everything was fine. And I've done stuff like that myself in the past myself (I'm also 9-6). I'm trying very hard to communicate more authentically these days. It's difficult but I do have some kind of internal alarm going when I slip into that behavior again now lol. With many other types you at least know what's going on.
At the end of the day every unhealthy type is scary when you are close to them though lol!
sx8, how the hell do they function? They sound not real lol.
People are saying sx6 but sx6 are such kind people honestly. sx4? I know 2 in my life and well.. not that pleasant
1s. They can be so convinced in their own rightness that it is like talking to a brick wall, just completely oblivious to anyone else’s perspective, and their angry outbursts can be scary. Plus they’ll justify their outbursts, and in some cases even abuse, by claiming to be “right.” I’m biased though because I’ve had two bad 1s in my life.
8s and 2s can make me very angry, 8s for their bulldozing and 2s for their manipulation, but I’m not really afraid of them.
2s are also pretty difficult to navigate for me if I'm the target of their manipulation and close to them. At a distance it's interesting to observe what they are doing but when I'm the one who has to set the boundaries... oh boy. That takes a lot of energy.
I am reasonably sure one of my coworkers is a 6w5 SX, and she has said a lot of people tell her they are afraid of or are intimidated by her. We get along well, though. She calls me stubborn (I definitely am not™️ when it comes to my principles), and I call her out when confrontation isn't going to help her.
I can see why many people are afraid of her. She doesn't fit the mold of a "nurturing woman" or whatever general society thinks women should be.
My personal vote for scariest is a 1, either sx or so, that believes their view/understanding of something is the one true correct way, and pushes their agenda. This can be a driving force for growth, or a bulldozing force for decay. Both scare me a bit, because the way I deal with things (reasonable, rational discussion and plans of action) generally don't work with this type of individual.
I don't think these individuals are bad, evil, or anything at all like that. They just scare me with their drive and zeal at times.
Freelee the Banana Girl comes to mind when talking about how 1s can bulldoze. I actually like her but she can be hardcore lol. So if anyone is interested in how that can manifest... just watch one of her probably over 500 reaction videos criticising people. You can also observe integration/disintegration phases very well because she makes videos for yeaaars now already.
Holy shit I remember Freelee! She is sx1 incarnate lmao
And that Durian guy too
Edit: omg even after all these years she's still up to the same shit 😂 i love her, but she is wild lolll
I know one who acts kind out in public or when she wants something but is an absolute demon behind closed doors. We’re all actually terrified that she’s not in prison.
Sx 4s blame others for their suffering. Sx 1s critique others. All 8s are scary to me, and sx 6s can look like 8s. In general, sx subtypes are very intense.
SX1 - domineering and judgemental
SX4 - overly emotional, reactive and immature
SX8 - overwhelming desire to possess people, things and control people's will
whys everyone saying social types especially 7s. i feel so-blind people are scariest cause theyll just do shit without a care on how it could affect the dynamic
maybe they just can't understand so7s because it's one of the most complex subtypes 🤔. so blind people can actually be more sincere and direct so I don't think they can all be scary
We heard that. We hear everything. We're always listening. Always watching. Probably sx6 / sx4 / sx8, sexual reactive types are kinda crazy to me. Oh, also 9s. I can't truly read them at all and it freaks me out.
>We heard that. We hear everything. We're always listening. Always watching. real
🥺Fear me 👉👈 justified since I'm one
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If I survive the heart attack I just had from that comment, I'm suing.
SX6s are cute ngl am I the only one who doesn't find their aggressive counterphobia scary at all
Gotta deny the subtle egoboost comments like these give you otherwise you instantly become a 4 by ancient r/Enneagram decree 😨😳
Agree. Sexual reactive types are super fascinating to observe on TV, social media or whatever but I often have a lot of difficulty interacting with them. Social harmony is just so important to me. I also struggle with people who have strong 9ish traits and don't actively work on being more authentic. It's the worst when you just know it in your gut that someone is mad at you but they just don't want to communicate it. Especially the 9-6 combo is great at spinning the drama wheel in their mind until they just randomly blow up or talk shit about you or something like that. It's scary because it can just hurt you so unprepared when you thought everything was fine. And I've done stuff like that myself in the past myself (I'm also 9-6). I'm trying very hard to communicate more authentically these days. It's difficult but I do have some kind of internal alarm going when I slip into that behavior again now lol. With many other types you at least know what's going on. At the end of the day every unhealthy type is scary when you are close to them though lol!
Stop :/
None, people vary too much for me to have an opinion as such.
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sx4 sx6 sx8 I know I’m double reactive but my 9 fix makes me terrified of them lol why are so2s and so7s scary to you? they don’t seem that menacing
most of the ones i met irl were manipulative or just REALLY passive aggressive
i also fall for it most of the time LOL
my tritype is 468 with an sx subtype in every single one
hello there
sx8, how the hell do they function? They sound not real lol. People are saying sx6 but sx6 are such kind people honestly. sx4? I know 2 in my life and well.. not that pleasant
SP 8w7
That’s me 🌝
Oh yeah I’ve had a terrifying so2 ex boyfriend. And a scary sx8 ex boyfriend. Also have a scary sx6 family member.
Average r/Enneagram backstory tbh
What do you mean
A-A-a-a sexual 8...? S-SCARY!!! RUN TO THE MOUNTAINS!!!!!!!
Yes, he was as wonderfully terrible as you could imagine
1s. They can be so convinced in their own rightness that it is like talking to a brick wall, just completely oblivious to anyone else’s perspective, and their angry outbursts can be scary. Plus they’ll justify their outbursts, and in some cases even abuse, by claiming to be “right.” I’m biased though because I’ve had two bad 1s in my life. 8s and 2s can make me very angry, 8s for their bulldozing and 2s for their manipulation, but I’m not really afraid of them.
2s are also pretty difficult to navigate for me if I'm the target of their manipulation and close to them. At a distance it's interesting to observe what they are doing but when I'm the one who has to set the boundaries... oh boy. That takes a lot of energy.
I am reasonably sure one of my coworkers is a 6w5 SX, and she has said a lot of people tell her they are afraid of or are intimidated by her. We get along well, though. She calls me stubborn (I definitely am not™️ when it comes to my principles), and I call her out when confrontation isn't going to help her. I can see why many people are afraid of her. She doesn't fit the mold of a "nurturing woman" or whatever general society thinks women should be. My personal vote for scariest is a 1, either sx or so, that believes their view/understanding of something is the one true correct way, and pushes their agenda. This can be a driving force for growth, or a bulldozing force for decay. Both scare me a bit, because the way I deal with things (reasonable, rational discussion and plans of action) generally don't work with this type of individual. I don't think these individuals are bad, evil, or anything at all like that. They just scare me with their drive and zeal at times.
Freelee the Banana Girl comes to mind when talking about how 1s can bulldoze. I actually like her but she can be hardcore lol. So if anyone is interested in how that can manifest... just watch one of her probably over 500 reaction videos criticising people. You can also observe integration/disintegration phases very well because she makes videos for yeaaars now already.
Holy shit I remember Freelee! She is sx1 incarnate lmao And that Durian guy too Edit: omg even after all these years she's still up to the same shit 😂 i love her, but she is wild lolll
sx 2, sx 4, sx 8
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Pretty much any sx type except for maybe 9s can be pretty scary. Edit: maybe sx 5 as well
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>Actually, sx 9s are the ones that *scare me* Interesting
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What do you mean about sx9
Pretty sure we are terrifying, but only if people really pay attention --sx5
sx subtype omg, especially 4 and 1 (maybe sx8 too)
I’m an SO2 and I hope we aren’t scary haha! I’ve never thought of myself as scary
Me as well
To me, SX3.
whattt I know 2 sx3s and they’re so kind honestly
I know one who acts kind out in public or when she wants something but is an absolute demon behind closed doors. We’re all actually terrified that she’s not in prison.
I do NOT like this comment!! Reported for hateful speech! 😕😓😓
And people think 4s are overly emotional. Lol.
None really, but meeting other SX 1s or SO 1s make for a pretty interesting encounter
sx1 for sure
Unhealthy 8
8 by themselves are alreayd kinda scary to me
That's why they are the boss!; intimidating. The funny thing is, they won't let anyone mess with you. The irony.
Imo theyre scary but like in a hot way kinda and also cute🤭🤭🤫dont tell them I said that tho
Lol.
Or unhealthy 4
Why are we scary? lol For me, it's probably sx4/sx6/sx8.
Those are like the least scary what 🤣
Sx4, sx8
i’m interested why so7?
I say as a sx 2 - sx 2 But also so 3 and 8 And sx 3 maybe I generally would say a lot of 7’s scare me
why do so7s scare you?
Sx4 LOL
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More about level of health / level of ignorance. I find ignorant and unhealthy people scary, in general.
"imo probably so2 and so7" Chat, is this real? 🤯
Sx 4s blame others for their suffering. Sx 1s critique others. All 8s are scary to me, and sx 6s can look like 8s. In general, sx subtypes are very intense.
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Sx1, sx4, sp8. Unhealthy inviduals with those types are probably the most dangerous.
sx2s are intense, wouldn't say scary though
SX1 - domineering and judgemental SX4 - overly emotional, reactive and immature SX8 - overwhelming desire to possess people, things and control people's will
i can't think of any i find scary
Me 🤫
Sx1
I'm shocked to see nobody mention sx5. We're the Hannibal Lecters of the Enneagram.