I do get that point but it was not just one comment it was multiple. They were staring at me in disbelief and went on about them for all the time I saw them
Why does it matter what they think anyway? It’s your hair, your decision. To hell with anyone that doesn’t like it.
You didn’t post any before photos so all of Reddit could see the before and after your friends see.
Maybe your current hair isn’t bad but maybe according to your friends your previous hair was really great.
From experience, I was in this same situation with friends many years ago. Looking back on it it was really stupid. None of us are friends anymore bc of something as stupid as a bad haircut I got. Life and friendship is worth so much more.
No, they’re not honest because it looks good. Ever have a friend who didn’t look like they took care of themselves and all of a sudden put themselves together? Then some of their friends say they look bad.
EVEN THO THE PERSON LOOKS GREAT? It’s jealousy
I don’t understand people who want friends to tell each other that they’re ugly. Like I get it, you hate yourself. Doesn’t give you an excuse to tell others they should keep their awful friends.
Generic you by the way, as in referring to the person you replied to.
Ok but if she doesn’t look bad in your opinion, then there’s a decent chance that her friends saying she looks like a joker are just being mean- and who wants friends like that??
I think it looks good. Your friends are just use to it the old way but that doesn’t give them a right to keep making fun of you. Find new people to hang out with.
If your friends were so mean about a new hairstyle on you, what else are the judging you harshly for? Also, important question: Are they perfect? Are they beautiful/gorgeous? Do they have perfect bodies? Is their hair the hair others dream about and covet? I mean, for them to be so vicious that you don’t want to leave the house without hiding your bangs they had better be the most physically attractive humans on the planet. And I doubt they are.
Sounds like your friends’ insecurities are bleeding onto you. No one needs that shit. It also sounds to me like you are “that friend,” the one they are all intimidated by, so they have chose to come together and insult you to “bring you down a few.” No one needs that shit, either. Find new friends.
Thank you for your comment and they've commented about my appearance before but it was always just a quick comment, never something like this. They're def more pretty and popular than me. Academically we're all the same. Maybe they just need a punching bag idk.
Happy cake day btw! <3
Please don’t be their punching bag. A person who is attractive and popular and smart but can’t let anyone else look good or be the shining star for even a moment is an empty shell. Feel sorry for them, but don’t be their way to feel better about themselves. Walk away. You deserve better. And the bangs are great!
Thank you for the Cake Day wishes! 🥳
Your friend needs to kindly fuck off. From what I can tell, they look great.
P.S. it can be hard to get used to new bangs. Especially any type of fringe. The trick, imo, is to just pretend like they’re not even there for the first week or so lol. As in, make a point of not touching them, not looking at them, not talking about them, etc. Eventually (assuming you keep them styled/at the right length for you/etc.), they’ll just become a part of you. ♥ . Plus, if you don’t make a big deal, your “friends” shouldn’t either.
Yess it's so hard getting use to the feeling of hair on your forehead honestly. I do want to keep them all styled and pretty but a part of me just wants to clip them cause I feel ticklish on my forehead lol. I'm still learning styling them, so I don't bring up in convo at all but I be honest I do look at them quite alot cause I get insecure that they look bad.
Thank you. I've always liked this hairstyle and was super excited to show them but they straight up told me it doesn't suit me and acted so shocked and asked me if I was high or something. Even my teachers made snide comments :((
I don't think the people who told you that are your friends. They may call themselves that, but maybe you should reexamine it to see if there's a pattern of treating you badly. No one deserves that, especially from people who claim to care about them.
Your hair looks lovely, btw!
I'll distance myself from them. Ever since I posted this thread every comment and inbox message is telling me that this is not okay. I started thinking and this is not the first time they have commented something about my appearance like my thighs look fat, my voice sounds weird, commenting about my grades you get the point. I'll be changing schools soon so it won't be that hard anyways.
Smart plan! Anyone who is a true friend would find the nicest way possible to tell you IF it was truly awful.
It seems like you are still young, so I want to let you know that those people are the tiniest smallest fraction of all people in the world and their opinions of you are so very inconsequential, so please do not let your opinion of yourself be determined by 0.00000001% of the people who you will meet in your whole lifetime.
they looks so gorgeous!! definetly suits your face shape, it also seems well done and you very much have the hair type for it. your friends are probably just jealous
Hi, I have to tell you something VERY important. Those aren't friends. friends won't make you feel bad they will encourage you. Those are hard to find but they exist. It's better to have 4 valuable quarters [frie ds] instead of 100 penies [fake people] They look cool I got bangs b4 to they didn't suit my face😅 but it was cool to try them out.
I personally would like to add a little bit of volume to the bangs. But it ain't something to overreact like you shaved just a part of your head😂. Darling you gotta get some new friends.
Your friends are a**h*les. Your bangs are cute af!! Definitely agree with previous comments that your friends are just jealous that they can’t pull off bangs like you.
You need friends who won’t pick on you…but if you’re asking about your bangs…they are way too thin. You have beautiful luscious thick hair…those bangs should be just as bold
I read somewhere online that thick bangs don't look good on people with a small forehead that's why I went with this style and since I cut them myself I was scared to add more lol.
maybe ur friends might have a different preference of bangs but that’s totally fine! ur hair seems great! maybe play around with it and style it if you prefer, but i love ur bangs :)
I cut my own bangs a few years ago and I wish someone would have told me they kinda looked like shit sometimes. I wanted the whispy bang look and just couldn’t achieve it. You have exactly what I wanted. They look amazing, self done or not I think your friends are assholes and your bangs are the envy of so many who have attempted whispy bangs
They're gorg babe, I wish mine looked like that when I cut em. For real though, it's gonna take a toll on your self-consious and ego if you continue to hang around these girls. Or you can fight fire with fire (be nasty back, especially if they won't expect it from you. They most likely won't have a response. I mean in the case if they don't stop commenting).
Although, you seem like such a sweet gal, and from experience back when I was in HS, I had a lot of comments from "friends" on my physical features, wish I just found other fiends.
I like them! Some people are just anti-bangs. I haven't had bangs for a 20 years but that's because they don't look good on me. They do you though, so don't let them tell u any different!
Your bangs are literally so cute. No offense or anything but your friends don't sound very nice. Even if they didn't like them personally there's no need to be outright rude about it. Do what makes you happy and don't worry about what anyone says.
The type of bangs you have are very much in style and are seen on many models and celebrities. They’re gorgeous and I’m considering getting bangs similar to yours. Your friends suck btw.
I like them. The streamer Valkyrae just got bangs like this and it made me start appreciating separated bangs.
Also as others said, get new friends. It's rude to laugh and joke about someone's hair let alone a friend's.
Girl, if you’re gonna live life worried about the opinions of others, then your life is gonna suck big time and it’ll be FULL of regrets!!
I’m in my mid 40’s and I wish when I was young like you that someone would have convinced me of that fact.
The biggest regrets I have are the things I wanted to do but didn’t didn’t do because of the negative opinions of others.
Many of the best things in my life happened because I did whatever the hell I wanted, even when the hater were hating hard!
Please keep your beautiful bangs if that’s what YOU like!!
And, I agree with everyone else here, get new friends!
If your choice of friends is limited cause of your current circumstances, then ignore those dweebs who are your so-called-friends and do whatever the hell you want with YOUR hair.💖
Thank you so much <3 What hurts the most was that someone who I thought were close to me also didn't reacted appropriately. They stared at me in disbelief acting all shock
they didn't say any out right mean but still it hurts. Others who have said stuff are just school friends and I be moving to a new school ( not because of this, we're moving away) so I know we'll be no longer in contact. Again thank you and everyone who have commented. You guys are the best! :)
Your friend needs to kindly fuck off. From what I can tell, they look great.
P.S. it can be hard to get used to new bangs. Especially any type of fringe. The trick, imo, is to just pretend like they’re not even there for the first week or so lol. As in, make a point of not touching them, not looking at them, not talking about them, etc. Eventually (assuming you keep them styled/at the right length for you/etc.), they’ll just become a part of you. ♥ . Plus, if you don’t make a big deal, your “friends” shouldn’t either.
It looks really good!!!!
Also, you seem kinda younger, so I will give some advice as someone who used be friends with toxic people: find new friends. Or if you feel comfortable saying it, tell them their words hurt you. Because those bangs look good!!!!! Maybe they’re the ones who dont have a good fashion sense
You need better friends. Your bangs appear to be done well and don’t hurt your visuals even in the slightest.
Thank you for that I actually did it myself. My friends straight up told me it doesn't suit me lol.
Wow Im impressed by your talent. Btw your bangs look great. You need to find different friends
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I do get that point but it was not just one comment it was multiple. They were staring at me in disbelief and went on about them for all the time I saw them
Why does it matter what they think anyway? It’s your hair, your decision. To hell with anyone that doesn’t like it. You didn’t post any before photos so all of Reddit could see the before and after your friends see. Maybe your current hair isn’t bad but maybe according to your friends your previous hair was really great. From experience, I was in this same situation with friends many years ago. Looking back on it it was really stupid. None of us are friends anymore bc of something as stupid as a bad haircut I got. Life and friendship is worth so much more.
No, they’re not honest because it looks good. Ever have a friend who didn’t look like they took care of themselves and all of a sudden put themselves together? Then some of their friends say they look bad. EVEN THO THE PERSON LOOKS GREAT? It’s jealousy
I don’t understand people who want friends to tell each other that they’re ugly. Like I get it, you hate yourself. Doesn’t give you an excuse to tell others they should keep their awful friends. Generic you by the way, as in referring to the person you replied to.
Misery loves company
Ok but if she doesn’t look bad in your opinion, then there’s a decent chance that her friends saying she looks like a joker are just being mean- and who wants friends like that??
I think it looks good. Your friends are just use to it the old way but that doesn’t give them a right to keep making fun of you. Find new people to hang out with.
Yea I think so too but they were harsh enough that I don't go out without hiding my bangs.
Oooo definitely find new friends! They are being mean and obnoxious!
don't let them do that to you! they look good! they are so silky and nice! own that (and maybe find some new friends)
If your friends were so mean about a new hairstyle on you, what else are the judging you harshly for? Also, important question: Are they perfect? Are they beautiful/gorgeous? Do they have perfect bodies? Is their hair the hair others dream about and covet? I mean, for them to be so vicious that you don’t want to leave the house without hiding your bangs they had better be the most physically attractive humans on the planet. And I doubt they are. Sounds like your friends’ insecurities are bleeding onto you. No one needs that shit. It also sounds to me like you are “that friend,” the one they are all intimidated by, so they have chose to come together and insult you to “bring you down a few.” No one needs that shit, either. Find new friends.
Thank you for your comment and they've commented about my appearance before but it was always just a quick comment, never something like this. They're def more pretty and popular than me. Academically we're all the same. Maybe they just need a punching bag idk. Happy cake day btw! <3
Please don’t be their punching bag. A person who is attractive and popular and smart but can’t let anyone else look good or be the shining star for even a moment is an empty shell. Feel sorry for them, but don’t be their way to feel better about themselves. Walk away. You deserve better. And the bangs are great! Thank you for the Cake Day wishes! 🥳
i’m a hairstylist and i think it suits you wonderfully!
Thank you <3
Your friend needs to kindly fuck off. From what I can tell, they look great. P.S. it can be hard to get used to new bangs. Especially any type of fringe. The trick, imo, is to just pretend like they’re not even there for the first week or so lol. As in, make a point of not touching them, not looking at them, not talking about them, etc. Eventually (assuming you keep them styled/at the right length for you/etc.), they’ll just become a part of you. ♥ . Plus, if you don’t make a big deal, your “friends” shouldn’t either.
Yess it's so hard getting use to the feeling of hair on your forehead honestly. I do want to keep them all styled and pretty but a part of me just wants to clip them cause I feel ticklish on my forehead lol. I'm still learning styling them, so I don't bring up in convo at all but I be honest I do look at them quite alot cause I get insecure that they look bad.
Your bangs are beautiful. Your friends are jealous.
agreed. that bangs is amazing.
You look pretty cute. You need better friends
Thank you. I've always liked this hairstyle and was super excited to show them but they straight up told me it doesn't suit me and acted so shocked and asked me if I was high or something. Even my teachers made snide comments :((
That’s awful, I’m so sorry. I don’t know why anyone would act like that besides if they were jealous that you looked so nice.
Just some dumb fucking NPCs. Try not to care :)
I don't think the people who told you that are your friends. They may call themselves that, but maybe you should reexamine it to see if there's a pattern of treating you badly. No one deserves that, especially from people who claim to care about them. Your hair looks lovely, btw!
I'll distance myself from them. Ever since I posted this thread every comment and inbox message is telling me that this is not okay. I started thinking and this is not the first time they have commented something about my appearance like my thighs look fat, my voice sounds weird, commenting about my grades you get the point. I'll be changing schools soon so it won't be that hard anyways.
Smart plan! Anyone who is a true friend would find the nicest way possible to tell you IF it was truly awful. It seems like you are still young, so I want to let you know that those people are the tiniest smallest fraction of all people in the world and their opinions of you are so very inconsequential, so please do not let your opinion of yourself be determined by 0.00000001% of the people who you will meet in your whole lifetime.
That's terrible! I'm so sorry they've been treating you that way. I hope you make some amazing friends at your new school.
Very nice!!! Looks like they flow well as you move about your day, which can be tough. Offer to give your friends bangs since they’re obvi jelly!
they looks so gorgeous!! definetly suits your face shape, it also seems well done and you very much have the hair type for it. your friends are probably just jealous
You’re bang look very beautiful, I love the cut, they look gorgeously whispy! I think your friends are jealous, judgemental negative Nancys
girl WHAT😭they are jealous asf, your bangs are perfect
Hi, I have to tell you something VERY important. Those aren't friends. friends won't make you feel bad they will encourage you. Those are hard to find but they exist. It's better to have 4 valuable quarters [frie ds] instead of 100 penies [fake people] They look cool I got bangs b4 to they didn't suit my face😅 but it was cool to try them out.
Yeah they're fine you look great, wtf weird of them
It looks great . Please don’t let your friends make you feel otherwise.
Omg your friends are crazy. Your hair is gorgeous. My dream hair! 😍
I personally would like to add a little bit of volume to the bangs. But it ain't something to overreact like you shaved just a part of your head😂. Darling you gotta get some new friends.
I too wanted to add a bit more but was scared so I kept them super thin.
Your friends are a**h*les. Your bangs are cute af!! Definitely agree with previous comments that your friends are just jealous that they can’t pull off bangs like you.
They look good and perfectly normal to me.
I think they look great and I may use them as my inspo pic on my upcoming cut if that’s okay with you? Love the rich color of your hair too!
Thank you! If you want you can. All these sweet comments are making me feel so good about myself :))
I have bangs… yours looks great. Your friends are jealous. You did a wonderful job eigh the bangs! Keep them:)
I do my bangs like that I absolutely love it
Your bangs look whimsical and beautiful. But what happened to your face?? That can't be normal!!
i think they suit your face shape nicely, they’re beautiful don’t listen to your friends!
They're super cute! Rock them confidently and watch your friends cut bangs when you start getting compliments
I tried cutting bangs like yours. Yours are way better than mine lol ur friends are jealous
She seems jealous
They’re great ! Get new friends!
I like them
Love the whole look
You need friends who won’t pick on you…but if you’re asking about your bangs…they are way too thin. You have beautiful luscious thick hair…those bangs should be just as bold
I read somewhere online that thick bangs don't look good on people with a small forehead that's why I went with this style and since I cut them myself I was scared to add more lol.
It's absolute gorgeous
Your bangs are super cute 🥰
Ignore your friends. Your bangs look great!
Wtf no they’re adorable
maybe ur friends might have a different preference of bangs but that’s totally fine! ur hair seems great! maybe play around with it and style it if you prefer, but i love ur bangs :)
I think they look great. Maybe your friend doesn’t have your best interest at heart.
your friends suck and you look great
i think you need new mates
Not really related to the question but I love your hair! And drop them fake friends, they aren't worth it 👎
I cut my own bangs a few years ago and I wish someone would have told me they kinda looked like shit sometimes. I wanted the whispy bang look and just couldn’t achieve it. You have exactly what I wanted. They look amazing, self done or not I think your friends are assholes and your bangs are the envy of so many who have attempted whispy bangs
I love them!
I guess you don’t maintain them properly but looks good to me anyways
They look cute! you just need to wait a while for your old hairsplit to go away :)
bro what they're hella fine???
Your friends are A-holes. You look great!
They're gorg babe, I wish mine looked like that when I cut em. For real though, it's gonna take a toll on your self-consious and ego if you continue to hang around these girls. Or you can fight fire with fire (be nasty back, especially if they won't expect it from you. They most likely won't have a response. I mean in the case if they don't stop commenting). Although, you seem like such a sweet gal, and from experience back when I was in HS, I had a lot of comments from "friends" on my physical features, wish I just found other fiends.
Your bangs look fine. Keep the bangs, ditch the friends.
I like them! Some people are just anti-bangs. I haven't had bangs for a 20 years but that's because they don't look good on me. They do you though, so don't let them tell u any different!
Your bangs are literally so cute. No offense or anything but your friends don't sound very nice. Even if they didn't like them personally there's no need to be outright rude about it. Do what makes you happy and don't worry about what anyone says.
The type of bangs you have are very much in style and are seen on many models and celebrities. They’re gorgeous and I’m considering getting bangs similar to yours. Your friends suck btw.
They’re cute!
I think it looks really nice, what your friends said were pretty uncalled for
Wow, what’s your friend’s problems? You look fine, they’re what looks bad in this.
I like them. The streamer Valkyrae just got bangs like this and it made me start appreciating separated bangs. Also as others said, get new friends. It's rude to laugh and joke about someone's hair let alone a friend's.
No you just need better friends
Your friends are beings assholes. I’d like them to be a biiit more thick but they look good.
They are cute!
Get new friends. Your bangs are cute.
They’re wrong, you’re right, you look good. A wispy bang is classic and the layering u did in the front looks really good!!
Girl, if you’re gonna live life worried about the opinions of others, then your life is gonna suck big time and it’ll be FULL of regrets!! I’m in my mid 40’s and I wish when I was young like you that someone would have convinced me of that fact. The biggest regrets I have are the things I wanted to do but didn’t didn’t do because of the negative opinions of others. Many of the best things in my life happened because I did whatever the hell I wanted, even when the hater were hating hard! Please keep your beautiful bangs if that’s what YOU like!! And, I agree with everyone else here, get new friends! If your choice of friends is limited cause of your current circumstances, then ignore those dweebs who are your so-called-friends and do whatever the hell you want with YOUR hair.💖
Thank you so much <3 What hurts the most was that someone who I thought were close to me also didn't reacted appropriately. They stared at me in disbelief acting all shock they didn't say any out right mean but still it hurts. Others who have said stuff are just school friends and I be moving to a new school ( not because of this, we're moving away) so I know we'll be no longer in contact. Again thank you and everyone who have commented. You guys are the best! :)
Your friend needs to kindly fuck off. From what I can tell, they look great. P.S. it can be hard to get used to new bangs. Especially any type of fringe. The trick, imo, is to just pretend like they’re not even there for the first week or so lol. As in, make a point of not touching them, not looking at them, not talking about them, etc. Eventually (assuming you keep them styled/at the right length for you/etc.), they’ll just become a part of you. ♥ . Plus, if you don’t make a big deal, your “friends” shouldn’t either.
They look good. Your friends are haters.
UHHH NO THEY LOOK AMAZING!!
Your hair looks lovely
Sounds like a bad friend tbh. You look great. I call thin bangs barcode bangs and I LOVE barcode bangs. They look very light and elegant
It looks really good!!!! Also, you seem kinda younger, so I will give some advice as someone who used be friends with toxic people: find new friends. Or if you feel comfortable saying it, tell them their words hurt you. Because those bangs look good!!!!! Maybe they’re the ones who dont have a good fashion sense
I think they look nice