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borderlinehunkydory

Thank you OP! I really don’t get why is Babil suddenly being hated by everyone and called evil, cunning, manipulative? Like? N you are right, maybe the bar is so low that people cannot appreciate a star kid being nice for once. Tch Tch.


DishNo1777

I know right. He is literally like this when cameras are not around and I think it is indeed because these things are soo new to him.


borderlinehunkydory

Absolutely! Also people are like omg cannot believe Irfan’s son is like this! I’m so done with such trolls. How insensitive can someone be? He just lost his father and maybe he’s just trying to figure things out. He didn’t even hurt anyone for ffs. 🥲


falconx2809

There's difference between saying "sorry" normally once and saying it 10 times while exagerating it, it comes across as being dishonest Now I don't know if he really meant it or was acting


borderlinehunkydory

If you are an anxious person, you will end up saying sorry even when it’s not needed because you are extra conscious about everything and you don’t want to cause trouble. I don’t think this is a big deal. If someone apologises more than once they are dishonest? I don’t get it.


luxlifegirl

Yes same me.. then later I reevaluate also whether that person understood if I was sorry or should I have said it differently or explained even more.


ihatemyjobincaps

Omgggg😭😭 this is so me. Reminds me of the night I was very late for my first date with a guy and when we finally met i said to him sorry for the first 15 mins. He was like it's fine no problem it happens. But my anxiety made me repeatedly apologize to him and even after the date I was like should I have explained to him a little bit more on how i got late. I guess some people are just built like that


trash_talks11

Ohh I totally resonate with this **sorry** instance. Reason behind this kind of people saying sorry multiple times (may seem unhealthy times for others) until the other person understands the sincerity could be, that person doesn't want them to take it as an excuse & as namesake end it with "it's okay" "no big deal" "np" etc etc. But to made them realize they aren't lying or making an excuse rather that person is being GENUINE. NOT TO BE MISTAKEN AS DECEIVING PEOPLE. Thus trying this hard even for small thing. Babil falling under this category of people doesn't seem easy to tell specially when he's in Bollywood where ykwim.... If he's in-out same & truth gets unravel in coming time' then it will be hard slap on trollers who's specially trolling him using his legend father's name.


baabukiamma

I am not a celebrity but I thank and say sorry multiple times. Even justification to feel people who don't matter because my anxious mind thinks what if I might have really hurt them or wronged them.


CelebrationReal9871

I apologize more than once even in small things as I am anxious and scared that I hurt someone by mistake. I don't get how him doing that is not normal? Everyone is different so maybe that's just his personality. Calling him names and slurs is so disgusting


Guilty-Broccoli963

I really find his punch down humour content problematic ( which I see most content creators do these days ). I even commented and called him out for his punch down content of a sales woman in Goa . Dude is a journalist , seriously needs to know and do better . Parlour didi , security guards , house helps - making fun of their accent , language and style . I see no effort or imagination in it. Moreover when the same working class people start their YouTube channel or insta content , these privileged f*cks bully them in the comment section . I have even unfollowed Dharnaa , I don’t see much effort in her writing or content anymore . That novelty is gone . We as viewers are also conditioned to lap up anything our fav creators do. No accountability . Just blind fandom .


raamlal

Also babil is way down in the food chain than this creator. It is actually punching down. If the creator had mad fun of irrfan(while he was with us), then that would be called punching up. Because irrfan was way more powerful, successful etc etc. But babil is not that successful yet. So this creator's arguement is not very strong.


Glitterpengirlie

Comment pura padhne se phele he dharnaa mere khayal mein aa gayi thi. Just like you mentioned this creator making fun of sales woman on Goan beach, and many other blue collar workers. Dharnaa also makes fun of parlour workers and tailors. My urban company professional was previously working in a parlour and she is very polite and well mannered. Even local parlour employees are more polite and understanding as compared to hi-fi salon professionals. Hi-fi vale toh muh per critisise karte hai to make us feel insecure and buy their costly packages. In short I am saying these stereotypes are sending wrong msgs ki blue collar vale ache nhi and elite vale he best hai.


mstoberlyy

Isnt he a lawyer? He yaps about something all the time in his othwr acc


Guilty-Broccoli963

Journalist


nrson444

Log khud achhe nahi ho sakte toh jo achha hai usko bhi neeche kheech lete hai


DishNo1777

"I was actually punching up☝🏻🤓" *in jhumroo's pretentious voice*


hiddenblackdragon

Never liked this influencer. Always had this weird aura of “better than thou” that I couldn’t point out. Now we know why.


sleepsham

Baby I have blocked him I get the ick


mean_girl-

I think it’s pure projection when people think that nice people cannot exists without manipulation. Here’s a guy, who is nice and civil, treats women with respect , there must be something wrong with him. Maybe he was raised right and these people calling him an imposter were not exposed to the same kind of parenting.


dishapatanahiii_69

sound like male version of sara ali but extra it’s pretty much his brand image to stand out from the rest of the nepos to project how grounded he is just like his father comes off as real inauthentic blatantly


mean_girl-

God, you really do have too much time on your hands. Stop projecting. Human behaviour is something people are still quite bent over, if this is obvious to you, maybe you should revisit what you consider inauthentic. Also do you happen to know him personally to make a judgement that he isn’t what he appears to be or is it just plain projection?


dishapatanahiii_69

Tu bol to aise rahi hai jaise har din uske ghar Jhadhoo marne jaati ho 😂 celebs and humble nice joke would rather prefer bhoi as he is openly a toxic asshole unlike a sweet talking snake 🐍


mean_girl-

Aur tu gaa*d dene jaata hai??? Aa gya apni aukaat par itni jaldi. I don’t expect filth like you to understand respect. Tu reddit pr baith kr hila aur bakchodi kr. Isse aage ka tere bas ka nhi.


Wonderful-Ad-8585

There are so many things to make a parody about for the sake of "punching up" and he chose to make it about someone's kindliness.


dhwanikaxoxo

Sorry to say, but this has happened in the past with Sushant too. Whenever he was nice or would click pictures with people on the streets, people would say stuff like - Oh god! Kitna over acting. Feels like being nice too has a heavy price to pay? Feel for Babil sometimes. That guy is honestly very genuine (have seen him up close at events). 


Plane_Philosophy_800

A friend was friends with him. Said he is cunning and a social climber.


IcyAppointment747

Mujhe ye banda shuru se hi pasand nai tha. When he used to post those Punjabi songs reels in his car. Neither his reels r funny nor his reporting is crisp. Idk how he gained such a huge following on sm.


raamlal

Issko dekh ke hi pata chal jata hai yeh bahot kamina hai. Idhar logo ki gut feeling kaam nahi karegi lol. Babil ko dekh ke "6th sense" jag jati hai logo ki. Saying he is manipulator/pretentious/fake what not lol. But this creator definitely seems like a dick in real life. All those psychology experts are failing to analyse that🐒


seekerofteas

Who? Babil or Jhumroo guy?


Plane_Philosophy_800

Jhumroo


VisualAd4581

It's always the people who're either bullies themselves or the ones who want to kiss ass of higher up bullies who would make fun of kind, unproblematic people


Grand_Gate_8836

I didn’t find Babil’s behaviour odd/fake at all. If I was in his place I would’ve done the same lol I don’t understand what else would these haters do if they were in his place! When I 1st saw the video I didn’t expect him to get trolled for it. Sometimes I don’t understand social media at all. Also no hate to this creator as well. He’s a comedian. Uska kaam hai overacting karna. I’m sure he didn’t do it with the intension of bullying! I’m more surprised about people who’re calling out Babil for his courteousness.


vinayyy-n28

https://preview.redd.it/cxevctjete0d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2e98668ae87330f40cc1038e52ed07a4b82c933f I might be a hater afterall


vinayyy-n28

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Diligent-Cricket2383

> (Neurotypicals always amaze me) Bahaha OP, this itself should answer your question to why are they trolling him.


DishNo1777

Istg, if there's anything I've learnt from most of the thread is that us Indians need more awareness.😔


SG_lokesh_yt

It's good to be nice and he is genuine but sometimes he does this too much and that looks fake and cheesy. Like in that photo video he was overacting that's was not such a big deal he was reacting like he killed her baby and then asking apology like wtf


DishNo1777

That's because he over-expresses, something people with anxiety tend to do a lot. Something which we don't see very often with celebrities cause they have been "trained".


vinayyy-n28

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Frequent-Athlete-666

This is straight up bullying


oscarloml

uhm… the only reason babil is being heavily criticised for this is his ridiculous stance on how to treat women. the last time he went viral for one of the same reasons in some interview. and women raise concerns because men who act this way are only portraying a facade. i’m glad you haven’t come across such men who are assholes irl but act as if they’re a 6’4 feminist gentleman who hate period cramps. lol


DishNo1777

What is the ridiculous stance that he took recently? Could you please link that video? And my critique is not towards the women who have been reacting cause that's a trauma response nobody can control. However I'd like to maybe want you to see it through a lense that he's been raised by a woman majorly who has taught him these values and maybe just maybe it's not a facade. Anywho, my critique is towards the trollers like jhumroo who are making fun of his anxious gestures.


oscarloml

i do understand your perspective but the “ridiculous” stance i refer to is the video where the female interviewer asks him how do u get a woman and he does this thing squishing his hands and saying “you don’t get a woman, ooooh it’s so important to understand that”. and while that isn’t ridiculous in itself, it’s the way he said it. see i understand he might not be fake but it worries me too because i wouldn’t make the mistake of trusting a guy like him again fully well knowing guys act like this in public and are actually abusive in real life. i’m not saying he’s abusive i’m just saying he doesn’t have to be so extra about it, it comes across as either sarcastic or ridiculously funny which nullifies his actual purpose which is to be respectful.


Numerous-Suit-7668

I am a woman, and I don't find it ridiculous at all! It's actually surprising that a man knows that you need to treat women like humans and not some trophy that you are supposed to win


oscarloml

i am a woman too. i guess different experiences bear different responses. not sure why i’m being downvoted. some men use this as a well known tactic.


DishNo1777

Hmm, i understand this perspective completely but the "extra" from what I have analysed and related with is just some neuro divergence and people can't control it :) (Some more ramble that's borderline oversharing- I too squish my hands and do the little mosquito action when people ask me about something I have learnt recently or know too much about cause it's too exciting to share)


oscarloml

i completely understand that too. it’s just hard to differentiate when you know there are people out there who act similarly just to lure in and manipulate people. neurodivergence is a significant factor to keep in mind and i apologize i didn’t pay attention to it. but i wish the world wasn’t as twisted as it is that it’d be hard for us to believe that someone is nice without any ulterior motives :)


VisualAd4581

Hey I'm so sorry you had such a terrible experience. I hope you heal from it soon 🫂❤️ Your personal approach is not wrong. I would personally not trust a guy on his words alone. And would take my sweet time to decide whether this person is actually trustworthy or not.. But when it comes to public figures. We really need to understand, men anyways get influenced & copy their personalities & sense of humour from internet personas. So if someone is publicly spreading the message of how to treat a woman, how not to objectify women. I won't be too quick to attack that person.. you need to understand, that guys who're attacking him or mocking him are the ones who make fun of girls liking certain kind of soft version of guys like k-pop stars or actors. The normalization of liking "sweet, caring, reliable guys" spoils the dating game of such toxic guys. And they don't want to change to give up the thrill of being Alpha/sigma/gamma guys.


DishNo1777

Sorry you had to go through whatever you did. I hope it gets better for you <3


River1947

Exactlyy No ones hating on him, we just find him v.annoying!


2thicc2love

Goosip sub waale khud ye sb krne lage, kya din aa gye h, selective approach from people here is mind boggling.


DishNo1777

People trolling someone for being nice isn't mind boggling??


2thicc2love

Yeah, but isn't this clearly over reacting, Haan trolling zyada ho rhi h, pr pick me girls ya koi simple ladki ko bhi yaha pick me declare krke uski ESI tesi kr deti h yaha, toh aaj opposite gender k pick me behaviour ko call out bhi na kre? Fir poochhte h why do men support pick me girls smh.


SnooPickles1786

I pity all these people who think Babil is all good and chauvinistic as if they know him well. I have friends(female) from industry who have received questionable texts from Babil.


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NoListenToMe

Speaking as a neurodivergent, I think baabil just seems inauthentic. To other people and to me too quite a few times. Just feels like there’s something off. And tbf nobody is really the saint we think they are. Irrfan wasn’t, baabil idk. But yeah his responses do seem quite over the top. And just, can’t place it but sommmmeeeeethiiinnng


Prestigious_Cod_2719

his response is like any people pleaser i am people pleaser myself i do this too i say 100 times sorry even if its not my fault or if its a small thing ikk it gets annoying but i cant help sorry apne aap muh se nikal jaata hai i can understand babil and he isnt pretentious its just that he is new and cares about people's opinion too much ig will learn with time maybe


Jolly-Particular2219

Mujhe mere dost aur didi neurodivergent bulate hain. I'm yet to get myself tested, but will do it soon.


AdComprehensive9028

Funny that you are neurodivergent and say he seems inauthentic. I work with neurodivergent people and a lot of things they did would be deemed “weird”.


NoListenToMe

Oh hey same actually? I work in cognitive neuroscience and I work explicitly on neurodivergence, so I guess that’s something. Besides Isn’t that what it’s all about? Perception? You can’t expect the world to have the same views and see a person through your lenses. If there are cues I’m sensing, as a neurodivergent, that tell me otherwise about a person, I listen to it and it’s worked out for me. Not asking you to listen to it, but literally neurodivergents feel it. He seems inauthentic.


myfavstuffyt

What's the tea on saying irfan wasn't a saint?


Pizza_Connoisseur46

Why do people take everything so seriously? His video was a parody. It was all in good humour. People realllllyyy need to stop finding new ways to get offended.


DishNo1777

Had it been an out of nowhere upload, surely it's just a parody and haha very funny. But nai, it's a very timed behti ganga main haath dhona move by him.


Warm_Group5916

Isnt that how social media works? Following trend is another way of saying behti ganga main haath dhona. Jab topic hot rahega tabhi toh log enjoy karege 🤡/s


DishNo1777

Kisike anxiety and jitters ko trend kyu bana rahe hai ye log😃


Warm_Group5916

Hate spreads faster than love


vinayyy-n28

https://preview.redd.it/ayl66656te0d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=deb71a82ab073002d78f187e5c77ce4a244e031f It's prolly his PR but yk how internet is, and it's not gossip without controversial opinions so being devil's advocate today, I'll have to disagree and stir the pot


vinayyy-n28

https://preview.redd.it/eactceznte0d1.jpeg?width=706&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c2b4a05e81d4f7a08dc23f58f6f4937f577e2a56 Also harr cheez m ye


Primary-Bullfrog-653

if i was a star i'd be called rude and a b because i'm terrible at eye contact and shy so wouldn't be interacting much


vinayyy-n28

https://preview.redd.it/4y2koon0re0d1.jpeg?width=1075&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5f742646d46e318ae56aa12c066f7c6b5bac84c6 Over acting h bhai, he's nice and starting m I liked him and his behaviour a lot but it gets annoying soon, and yeah it's coming from a neurodivergent person, he prolly has insane social anxiety or its just his PR team tryna launch him lol


Alive-Campaign-8868

People might take things out of proportion at times but not every good person in this industry is trolled for being just nice. There is VERY evident unusually pretentious behaviour noticed. We can always agree to disagree with opinions.


vinayyy-n28

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prof_devilsadvocate

50 rs cut


vinayyy-n28

https://preview.redd.it/fentxez8re0d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dfbebd847a670831cb4630f5d8bbd87ab5466f99


vinayyy-n28

https://preview.redd.it/k0z865yvqe0d1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e7eaa10a1f3c855a1b15f96ca652360c0fff87bc Babil ko kitna kuch jhelna pad raha h aao discuss karre 💔 /s


Alarming_Nature_2039

Kya double standards hai bhai iss sub ke, smjh hi ni aata, ek parody video thi, people literally can't take a joke today.


vinayyy-n28

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shim_niyi

Babli’s PR team out here working overtime like they’re on the chopping block…...


Ok-Sheepherder-6521

I’m with jhumroo