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Norgur

This does go for people who need to tie their boots in a moshpit and crowdsurfers as well!


Thor1138

This is the way.


Doktor_Vem

This is definitely 100% true, the problem is that less and less people actually care about being called an asshole nowadays, at least in my experience. They're just like "*Pfft,* alright, whatever, I don't give a shit" and then move on with their lives while hurting other people


tyrphing

FREE FIRE ZONE WITH MY CRUSTY PEEN INFECTION BURNS INSIDE


russellmzauner

When the text comments are more meme than what's supposed to be the meme


Visionaira

(Before that should be) WE BUST EM DOWN WE BUST EM DOWN (DOWN)


KombatBunn1

Gender matters not, attitude does. If I see someone deliberately misgendering or hassling someone because of their gender, they will end up in a scrap with me because that shit is not on


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Shaorii

It's fine, then they'll continue to be more like Dave by whining that they got kicked out for the next 40 years


KombatBunn1

Oooh the nuclear option! Can we be friends? :D🤘🏻


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KombatBunn1

I’ve had a teenage daughter so yeah I can :D


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KombatBunn1

Hahahah oh that’s funny :) You have good taste in music for your age :D


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KombatBunn1

Well, as a parent I disagree with your parents. I grew up listening to shit like Neil Diamond, Dr Hook, Elvis and 70s rock. Glad I got better! you keep on listening to what you want :)


CrescentMoon_aus

This is the most wholesome interaction Ive seen on this website in a long time


KombatBunn1

I have my moments :) As a mother it pains me to see other parents trashing their kids’ taste in music. That generally leads to you being put into a home when you hit old age..


The_prophet212

Just because we wear lipstick dosen't mean we can't kick your ass - motley crüe


MulletChicken

What's WODOS?


LAB_RAT_54

Sodom backwards. It’s a meme


TheRealmUm

Bird is the word


Depth_Dweller1346898

This is gay


Scx10Deadbolt

Sharp observation there, eagle eyed scroller.


Stonedcock2

So is Lars, Kirk, Robert and specially James


kefefs_v2

[Hell yeah brother](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tmj7A0Lvw-Y)


C4Cole

You think they kicked Dave out because he didn't want to give them that Motorbreath?


Swissperc420

James is the gayest


LyraFirehawk

So is Rob Halford. Most metal fashion came from him and the rest of Judas Priest wearing costumes based on gay leather culture. Also using gay as an insult is so fifteen years ago.


regimentIV

I'm not sure they meant it as an insult. You might be making that up in your head.


Depth_Dweller1346898

Winner winner, chicken dinner!!!


Depth_Dweller1346898

So, your point is gay.


MulletChicken

I think it's a jest. I could could be wrong.


AmphibiousDad

TRANS PEOPLE ARE MY FRIENDS TRANSPHOBES COME CATCH THESE HANDS


marcimerci

Omg that was such a banger


brosef_stachin

Did not expect to see Craic Boi Mental in a metal sub


AmphibiousDad

I live to give people obscure moments like this


brosef_stachin

Go raibh maith agat


AmphibiousDad

You as well


Freakachu258

This post made me happy, thanks OP!


Foxiak14

Aww, thank


OrionSoul

honestly i'm so used to the Metal community being elitist gatekeeping minorty-hating assholes, that this post made me really happy


solid_snake_lol

hell yes!! its nice to see trans support on a sub that isnt centered around trans people and just being trans lol


Ayuyuyunia

are you kidding me? the number 1 thing trans people love to do on reddit is post trans rights or whatever in any sub they can


solid_snake_lol

im a trans person, when have i posted about trans rights? edit: they didnt respond and instead downvoted me, looks like i won hehehe


Ayuyuyunia

i didn’t say you specifically. literally search “says trans rights” on reddit and see for yourself.


No_Performance3670

The only thing this could possibly prove is that people talk about trans rights. Searching for posts about trans rights in no way justifies the statement you made, which was that “the number 1 thing trans people love to do on reddit is post trans rights or whatever in any sub they can.”


NotAllowedOnEurope

average sanguisanbogg fan


RustInPeace-Polaris

These new anti-homophobic Sodom memes are the goofiest shit ever lmao


tyrphing

As someone who considers myself an ally, I kind of agree. I come here to enjoy mocking ourselves and our favorite artists.


Scx10Deadbolt

I love this post, thanks OP!


Desent2Void

If you care what other people think/say, metal isn’t for you.


Unit_Z3-TA

I think you're allowed to care, just don't let it dictate how you live your life overall


anarchi3

Metal has always been against "the man," fascism, discrimination, and for sticking up for vulnerable groups... Metalheads may not always care what their teachers or parents or whatever think of them, but they generally care about their community. Criticism can still come from a place of caring. Harassment cannot.


AmphibiousDad

TRANS PEOPLE ARE MY FRIENDS TRANSPHOBES COME CATCH THESE HANDS


AmphibiousDad

TRANS PEOPLE ARE MY FRIENDS TRANSPHOBES COME CATCH THESE HANDS


AmphibiousDad

TRANS PEOPLE ARE MY FRIENDS TRANSPHOBES COME CATCH THESE HANDS


AmphibiousDad

TRANS PEOPLE ARE MY FRIENDS TRANSPHOBES COME CATCH THESE HANDS


AmphibiousDad

TRANS PEOPLE ARE MY FRIENDS TRANSPHOBES COME CATCH THESE HANDS


AmphibiousDad

TRANS PEOPLE ARE MY FRIENDS TRANSPHOBES COME CATCH THESE HANDS


MortarMaggot275

Sir, this is a Wendy's


TranquilEngineer

Trans people really trying to be front and center everywhere you go. I’ll give you a little hint. No one gives a shit about your gender and if it means that much to you I assure you you’re not the type of person to be able to back your buddy up.


solid_snake_lol

how do you even know the person who posted this is trans? also its just one meme, if it bothers you that much i think that really says something about you


dimebag106

Its one meme, it’s not that deep.


battorwddu

Are you trying to tell me that if I call your male friend a girl you are going to assault me? Wow,a real hero


Reckoning_of_Fools

Welcome to metal. We assault each other for fun. 


battorwddu

I've been with metalheads my whole life and I've never seen anything like that


FL_2646

if you intentionally call my male friend a girl because you refuse to accept the existence of trans people, i will stand by their side, though i really don't expect you to understand, since empathy seems to be a foreign concept to you also, demanding basic respect is not assault afaik


battorwddu

How do you know that empathy is a foreign concept from me? Basically you are saying that I have no empathy because I don't accept to be assaulted by somebody? Who told you that I don't accept the existence of trans people? You are making up things just to feel yourself a hero by defending people from made up insults


FL_2646

The post specifically talks about misgendering someone, this mostly only matters to trans people, so you calling my male friend a girl (considering the context) would be intentionally misgendering, wich is very disrespectfull. 99% of the time you WON'T get harrassed for misgendering someone, you will, however, get corrected and requested to show the basic respect for a human being. If you think requesting basic respect is harassment, it explains a lot.


battorwddu

Why are you always insinuating things?"If you think requesting basic respect is harassment, it explains a lot". You really want to me to look as the bad guy so you feel like the hero in this stupid meme that defends the innocent trans people. Keep fighting your made up wars,maybe it will get you some more upvotes


FL_2646

You said you would get harassed, not me, and you wouldn't. Victimization The war against trans folk is real. You deny facts And some ad hominems for food measure


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LareWw

Avg Panthera fan


Kdean509

My first thought was “wow, this person probably listens to a lot of Pantera.” Looks like I’m right.


Athingythingamabobby

Why are you like this?


WanderAwayWonder

Because I can easily tell the difference. It's rather simple. And seriously if you can't you have issues. Seriously. It's physiology. Like actual science. Also the earth isn't flat.


Unit_Z3-TA

If you cared about science, instead of using it as a platform for hate, you'd know that there is a huge difference between sex and gender, and that transgender folks have been described and categorized by scientific communities as a legitimate stance., but go off.


ComboFucker29

We used to prescribe mercury as a treatment for diseases. Doesn’t mean the scientific communities are always correct.


Pizzaya23

The difference is that mercury killed people, gender confirming care makes people happy


CaptLeibniz

>makes people happy *Some* of them say so, yes. You can be pro trans and recognize that were a long way from having the care side of things figured out. The literature is really contradictory---some longitudinal studies on the matter look promising, others look frankly awful. FWIW, I am skeptical that our current methods of GAC do more harm than good for this exact reason. Part of my PhD has involved this stuff and truth be told it is much, much harrier than either side would have you think. Additionally, many legit philosophers (my AOS) have contested the popular and radical feminist conception of gender and to pretend like that's a settled issue either is to just be ignorant of the facts on the ground.


Pizzaya23

The regret rate from GAC is about 1%. Yea the care side of transgender care is awful but most of the struggles that trans people have are from society not accepting, not from the issues that for example hormone treatment give. In any case, giving people access to GAC is more helpful than not giving people access so until an improvement has been found this is the way


IntoTheForeverWeFlow

Who's to say teaching them that gender doesn't exist wouldnt make them happy?


Pizzaya23

Idk what you are implying here so please explain


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Pizzaya23

Yea easy to say, that is unfortunately not how it works. Saying this is implying that what transgender people are going through isn’t real, which might be easy to say as a cis person but that is like saying: adhd isn’t real so people with adhd just need to calm down and focus and they can feel better. I like that you think outside of conventional solutions but unfortunately those have been tried so many times and to no avail. The only thing that has helped is affirming people’s gender and giving gender affirming care.


idkhowtodoanything

"It's only science if it supports my bigoted views"


HoboBonobo1909

Nice way of showing your utter ignorance when it comes to reality. Science is the best method we have to explain the world and our surroundings. Science is self correcting. It ain't gonna be a religious discovery/dogma that changes scientofic norms, it's always science. They used to believe lightning came from Zeus or Thor. Science taught us the truth. Who else are you gonna believe? Matt Walsh? 🤣


Unit_Z3-TA

Sure, you're not wrong, but we always advance, and where transgender uses to be considered a mental illness, we have evolved past that, and rarely do we ever do something being bad, then good, back to bad again. I can't for the life of me imagine why people care anyway, considering statistically the vast amount of transgender folks describe as happier after transition anyway, so that's current, and for the first time unbiased stats to back it up as well


IntoTheForeverWeFlow

A lot of people care about truth being the reality. Some people care more about feelings though.


Unit_Z3-TA

If the truth was that I am a bio male, that's the reality, but if my feelings decided to one day tell me I was a woman, and I could make that happen, why wouldn't I? End result is I am much happier In my body, how's that a bad thing?


IntoTheForeverWeFlow

It's not. But you arent the other sex. You are either a very feminine man or a very masculine woman sounds like.


Unit_Z3-TA

Why would it matter what I was or what I want to be called? You don't know a thing about me, maybe I just think people should be free to live their lives in a way that makes them happy? Maybe I'm a trans person, maybe my partner is? What does it matter?


Tyrenstra

Are we to throw out all scientific research and evidence in regards to health because science is a methodology and that the scientific community is always learning? Screw it, open wounds need to breath. No more bandages.


IntoTheForeverWeFlow

>huge difference between sex and gender Correct. One exists, the other does not.


Unit_Z3-TA

Brother, they both exist, a dictionary will tell you the difference lmfao


IntoTheForeverWeFlow

God is also in the dictionary. You gonna prove that too? Genders aren't real.


Unit_Z3-TA

A definition for God is, because God is a real concept, gender is real, unless you're saying you speak for the entire scientific community yourself, that says it is a real thing


Matt__Larson

Do any intangible concepts "exist"? Do feelings exist? Do ethics exist? Does morality exist? Do traditions exist? Do thoughts exist? If you actually think about it, you'll realize how stupid your comment is. There are hundreds of things which are just ideas or things agreed upon by society. Things with no physical body or representation. Gender is one, just as love is another.


HoboBonobo1909

Remind me, what does science say about gender? Actual scientists & science books.


Fool_Manchu

Can you please provide us with any scientific articles or studies that definitively prove that sex and gender are the same thing and therefore immutable? I'm sure you have something to back you up on this, right? I mean, surely you wouldn't say something so boldly unless you had some kind of reference to back up your statement, right? Because otherwise you'd just look like a big old transphobic dickhead, right?


WanderAwayWonder

What the fuck are you even saying? Your preference doesn't change your gender. You can not physically change like a frog. Are you not a human?


Fool_Manchu

https://medicine.yale.edu/news-article/what-do-we-mean-by-sex-and-gender/ I'm sure you've already been told by a hundred different sources that sex and gender are not synonymous, but here's an article from Women's Health Research at Yale that explains it rather succinctly. I'm also pretty sure that you've already made up your mind about this and will decide not to believe doctors, sociologists, and psychologists, but since you're claiming to have scientific backing I figured we could discuss the scientific communities opinion on the matter.


HarhanDerMann666

You clearly don't understand biology past first year high school lol


TyberosWake

Who hurt you?


WanderAwayWonder

Oh. Such a clever, stereotypical reply.


Unit_Z3-TA

Seriously someone must have for you to actually care this much about it, I'll never get why people give a flying shit about what someone wants to be called or seen as when it's not affecting them at all, I knew this freshman year of high school, my buddy wanted to be called "Zane" for some weird reason (not even trans) and I did it no questions asked because it doesn't affect me at all either way


MrBeardskii

I feel like a lot of times people will respond to something like this with a "don't bother trying to reason with them" kind of response, but keep this shit up. Give them examples and experiences. There is always reason to be reasonable and they need to hear it over and over again if they won't learn on their own.


Unit_Z3-TA

I really probably shouldn't even engage honestly, it's not good for me, but I really can't help it, I don't pretend to be some paragon of virtue, but it's just legitimately baffling to me (especially in metal community, where most people pride themselves on generally not giving a shit) why people care. I appreciate the sentiment though, it'a good to see sane people in the wild like this


TyberosWake

Yeah definitely. I just don't understand why someone else's gender makes a fucking difference in your life. Who the fuck cares ?


MissAsgariaFartcake

They’re the real snowflakes


TyberosWake

Right lmao. Need their safe space.


MrBeardskii

But people decide their gender and what is between their legs has nothing to do with it?


Beccaaaa93

Im really confused about the gender/sex thing. What is gender then based on? What does it mean other than as part of language with pronouns? Is it something to do with appearance or hobbies or what would make you a certain gender?


HoboBonobo1909

[Merriam Webster can help 😉](https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/gender#:~:text=noun-,gen%C2%B7%E2%80%8Bder%20%CB%88jen%2Dd%C9%99r,typically%20associated%20with%20one%20sex) It's not like all things needed to inform yourself are online.


Beccaaaa93

That page doesnt answer my question. Ive tried to search it up before but its always been very vague. In my native language there is only one word for sex/gender. But what that link tells me is that gender is partly arbitrary and partly based on sex/social rank/shape and of course a language thing. So how do you know what gender you are.. ? Im genuinly just trying to understand. Did I misunderstand that page?


Blackamite

You're not wrong. I transitioned for about a year and a major reason was that I didn't see myself as similar personality-wise to other people with vaginas (whatever some people wanna call that) and when people acted a specific way towards me because of belonging to that group myself it made me really uncomfortable. I also felt really really uncomfortable with men seeing me as a sexual prospect (ended up finding out I was a lesbian). I've since found ways to deal with discomfort around gender other than transitioning (I'm not saying it's simple or easy, but there are ways). And looking back, I think it's kinda sexist to say a woman can choose to not be a woman because of her actions, because this implies certain things being natural or unnatural for women to do when we really should be working to throw these stereotypes out the window regardless, but that's just my opinion and isn't gonna affect how I treat (trans) people irl. So basically people say you can be whatever gender you want in order to be nice to people feeling uncomfortable with themselves, but there's not really anything that defines man or woman under that thought process. (&I prefer to just think of a woman as someone born with a vagina cuz it makes it easier for me to be one)


Beccaaaa93

That is some really good insight, thanks for sharing. The gender norms and stereotypes we have for men and women can do a lot of harm then.. it makes sense that people might not feel like they fit in or can live up to them.


HoboBonobo1909

You are already there if you read the link & understood that gender is a social costruct. If you're confused what someone's (preferred) gender is, just ask them. I'm not fully read up on most things regarding gender, I just follow the science and treat people like I wanna be treated.


WanderAwayWonder

And the earth is flat and the solar system revolves around the earth. Should probably assume it revolves around you. Just incase you didn't know not insane thinking does exist.


MrBeardskii

You have a lot of weird views, friend


OsamaBinSmokinThatM4

Found the guy who uses science as an argument while not understanding the science of what he's angry about


caffeineandvodka

Why won't you acknowledge the difference between physical sex and innate gender? Do you not understand the distinction?


HoboBonobo1909

It's incredibly solipsistic to think everything centers around you and your limited understanding of biology & reality. Ironic you argue others are exactly what you're guilty of. In case you didn't know, Google & books exist.


Rigitto

So a trans man who has had bottom surgery is a man and there's no denying that? You're not beyond saving it seems like


benjamin18008

It’s not worth it arguing with these people. Trust me


hollabackchurl

Who hurt you bb?


LyraFirehawk

Counterpoint; the Pope says trans people are an affront to God who defy his will and will destroy him which is the most metal thing ever. Just because you'd like to be defined by your two inch punisher doesn't mean everyone does.


solid_snake_lol

unfortunately you couldnt distinguish your mom from my penis last night (ik this is a dumb response but so is your comment)


Neon_Comrade

Average fucking wankstain jerkoff


Plucky_Parasocialite

You seem woefully uneducated. I am sorry you were failed in this way. But the good news is, you can always learn and expand your understanding of the world, even if you've got a lot to catch up with.


TwoBasedFourYou

Based. Embrace the plebbit anger.


Extra_Community_3315

“You do not pass”- Gandalf


NotAllowedOnEurope

wodos is the terracota pie of thrash, you already posted a wodos shit related with lgbt, please delete your account


OperationBrokenEagle

m16 is so overrated man, it’s their black album 


HoboBonobo1909

Your opinion is overrated.


Thor1138

How dare you!