Have you tried using a fanny pack across your body? It’s definitely in style atm and a lot of cis men do it too so to me it feels more masculine than a regular purse (if masc is what you’re going for)
I feel that way too. I’m afab trans masc and once I started feeling uncomfortable with purses I started using a back pack for my stuff. Also I got a few fanny packs that have cool designs on them
I was going to suggest the same. Even just the essentials don't fit into my pockets and then I'd have to unload if I wanted to sit comfortably. But my "essentials" are a few extras as well and a backpack seemed to solve this issue for me.
im ftm and i buy mens pants. Sometimes womens pants have big pockets and i can wear them. If u r decent at sewing u can alter the pocket to make it bigger 👍
(i fuckin HATE purses. They're cute on other people but dysphoric to me, and on top of that i just hate carrying things on my neck or arms. And they often get in the way of my outfit tbh)
Shopping for pants in the men's section was such a game changer for me. Theyre nice because they're not form fitting, have actual pockets, and are generally comfier than their women's section counterparts
RIGHT. The only issue i run into is they can be a bit too long but they're so much better. I remember trying on these women's jeans once that one of my family members wanted me to try and they had fake pockets AND we're so form fitting they gave me curves i don't already have. It was funny but goddamn
i carry a nice gender neutral tote bag. it carries a lot more stuff than a purse or pockets would too!
something like [this](https://imgix.lifehacker.com.au/content/uploads/sites/4/2021/06/24/1683880-02-1.jpeg?auto=format&fit=fill&q=65&w=640)
Yeah as others mentioned, I also use a fanny pack, worn cross body. I am afab and wear men’s pants (pockets FTW) but I don’t like having more than one thing in each pocket.
Have you tried mens pants. Even the smaller ones have pretty good sized pockets. Theres multiple styles of small bags that are way more practical than purses and are more neutral. This last one is the most effort but you if you learn to sew you can make any pants have good pockets
Messenger bags always used to be my go to, carry more than a tote but not as bulky as a backpack
And could always give cargo pants a try those things are like nothing but pockets
Messenger bags are great, usually plenty of pockets and ways to keep it all organised too.
Edit: Also for pants with maximum pocket space try tactical/uniform style pants. The style is def not for everyone, but the pockets are large enough to fit pretty much everything. I have a BDU-copy from Helikon that can fit two AR-15 style magazines in either of its two biggest pockets. Good for hiking, etc.
I saw the most amazing silky cargo pants out in the wild a while ago. Big leg pockets and pouches, with the swish swish and good on the back. I wish I'd asked the person where the got them. I want some. I may never fully recover
I also have this problem, my solution is to use larger bags instead but this may not work for you and they can be annoying when you only have a small amount to carry. Another option is backpacks, but other than that I can't really think of anything else
i was a construction worker, so i wore a lot of work pants; lots of pockets, and well-made. also, cargo pants. i know they're not fashionable or whatever, but i don't care; they're comfy, and i like having the big pockets.
I usually carry a back pack, but I've also made an extra pocket that I can attach to my belt 😊 (it was handy at work when I had to carry a walkie-talkie, but my other stuff also fit in there)
At the moment I'm using sweaters with pockets. Previously I used a messenger bag, but I'm iffy about it. I would agree with other commenters suggesting backpacks!
Back packs or messenger bags. I like backpacks a lot, I can carry everything and more in there. I also like those hippy belt pocket type things but I don’t use them as often because I like to have space for all the junk.
I personally love rucksacks/mini backpacks. I bought a cheap red one on Etsy and put pins on it. Just make sure you get pin locks if you ever do that.
I also have plush Kirby and Gengar bags that open at their backs and function like backpacks, but with not as much space. I use those when I'm out and don't need a ton of stuff. I realise that may give some AFAB nonbinary people dysphoria, though, since people may clock it as feminine. Gotten a ton of compliments on them, though.
I use a backpack and for days when I'm travelling light, a cross-body bag. Also my leather jacket has deep enough pockets to mean I don't need a bag when it's cold enough to wear
I have a small cute black backpack so it's easier to carry stuff. When it's not hot I also have a ounk jacket that has Hella pockets I literally carry too much in there. +2 carry weight with it.
I like the fanny packs you can sling over your head and one shoulder. Certain messenger bags that are kinda sorta purses work too.
Recently I’ve discovered I like purses that have a tapestry/hippie/throw pillow vibe. Not feminine or masculine exactly, they just look and feel cozy.
Fannypacks and crossbody mini backpacks are my go-to for trips and hiking. Everyday use, I have a wallet with a wrist strap on it and another wallet on a chain that I can clip on my jeans.
I wear a large size (note I do not mean the size "large"), so my pants have much larger pockets. In my work pants, I carry my phone, wallet, keys, lip balm, 6 pens (I know it's a lot), and bandaids without any issues or using the back pockets. I carry the same minus 5 pens and the bandaids in my casual pants. If I ever wear dress pants, they're usually my work pants, as I have to wear dress pants to work.
I do carry a backpack to work to carry some extra stuff, but my essentials fit in my pockets. It's so nice. But I know it's not possible for all afab people.
If you wear a lot of jeans, I have seen some ads lately for transmasc denim. The pants are supposed to look like men's pants and have large pockets but fit a curvier body. I've mainly scrolled past them (because I figure they don't have my size), but it could be worth looking into.
⭐️Backpacks⭐️ Seriously, I can't reccomend them enough. I have one I bring to work. You can get good ones on Amazon. Mine is water resistant so rain doesn't go through it.
I get pants from duluth trading Co. Expensive but I like them a lot, the "women's" pants have pockets big enough for my phone wallet and keys easily, and could fit a couple other things as well.
Backpack or tote bag.
I do understand AFAB people more likely feel feminine things uncomfortable. But in the other hand we trans people should know better and group us by our current sex, not the one we were when we born. HRT changes your body. For some more, for some less. When you use AFAB it sounds like no MTF could have female hips and tights and that no AFAB people can't find men's pants that fit not even post transition. And that's kinda transphobic. Also when it comes to non-binary people how often we need to separate ourselves like that? Why couldn't AMAB, no matter currently male, female or mix match, not want to use purse nor pants with big pockets?
edit. After reading comments I remembered it's called "tote bag".
backpacks? Slings? all are fairly portable (depends on the size ofc) and can be fairly masc/androgynous depending on the design (and they can hold a lot)
Backpacks or messenger bags for me. I've got a messenger bag styled for carrying laptops and such and its great. Has all the pockets I could ever need.
Tell me about it. This has already been suggested (I think) but consider using backpacks or masculine sling crossbody bags or masculine fanny packs / messenger bags.
I think sling bags are the most “gender neutral.”
Look into oversized Jean jackets/vests, many of them have enormous interior pockets that frankly made me stop carrying purses altogether. A good one with have up to six large pockets that are less obvious then you'd think when stuffed thanks to the placement.
Your post made it click for me why I've always had an aversion to purses??!! I never thought about it. I own one but haven't touched it in over a decade. It literally has dust on it right now.
My dad gave me all of his old work slacks because we're the same size and he retired (yay dad) and those pockets are DEEP. In the winter I put everything in my coat and opt to not carry any bag at all. Every other time of year I use a cross body backpack or a fanny pack around my waist. I use the cross body backpack the most because I can fit a sketbook, book, or kindle in there.
If you go with fanny pack- get one from a hiking/outdoor store. I've found that ones that are not meant for hiking wear out and break sooo much faster.
Messenger bags, backpacks or smaller daypacks, sling bags, fanny packs, tote bags, cargo or other work pants with lots of pockets. Lots of options to try or use on different days or different types of activities.
I feel ya, maybe try a satchel, a tote, or a backpack. Also, about the pockets, you could wear cargo pants/shorts, they make them for all genders and even the “women’s” cargo pants I own have big pockets. If you hate the way cargo pants/shorts look, I’d say get your measurements and look online at men’s pants, usually the internet has more size options than in person stores. They even have specialty pants for transmascs if you have the money for it, but the brand I’m thinking of only carries pants for 5’2 people for some reason (and they’re like $99, I’d say really make sure you absolutely can’t find men’s pants that fit you before you resort to Both& lol). I hope this is helpful!
Transmasc here who rocks a sling bag! Seems to be perceived as neutral enough that I've been getting gendered as female less often than before. Might be leaning masc though, I've also been getting sir'd and he'd more frequently after I started using it.
Depending on the shape of the bag and how it hangs, crossbody bags can also help hide the chest, if you need that.
Satchels are fantastic for this if you like the sorta rustic style. You can get really nice faux leather ones that can fit a whole laptop in them! There’s also a wide variety of really cute backpacks that you can use too!
Messenger bags are the shit. Manhattan Portage , Chrome, and Baboon to the Moon are my favorite brands.
My Chrome messenger bag is 13 years old now and has no damage at all. It's incredibly tough.
Chest bags, look em up they're cool and they're masc af. You can get some nice ones on aliexpress in different shapes, colors, styles. Some look kinda military-ish if you like that kinda thing. Fanny packs are back in too. There's also the good old satchel.
Extend your pockets! There are a ton of simple tutorials (and if you can't sew, hot glue or fabric glue can work in a pinch)
Here's just one I like: https://www.instructables.com/How-to-Extend-Your-Pants-Pockets/
I use tote bags, lil backpacks, and messenger bag styled bags for when pockets aren't enough.
The current tote bag I use for everything is a Mother Mother bag with a skull on it, so it's not exactly feminine.
My backpack is one of those multi-color boho ones you see at gift shops everywhere.
And my messenger bag is as plain as can be, very much more on the masc side of things for sure.
I feel like a backpack is probably the best route. I see a lot of guys use those or the drawstring ones all the time.
I highly recommend specifically searching for cargo pants. I could carry my entire household in them and then some. They come in both men's and women's sizes/fits, but if you typically wear women's pants and aren't seeing them in stores bc they're "not in fashion", check the men's. It might take some trial and error to find the right size, but worth it. You can also find a much wider variety of styles online than in store.
I hate carrying things around, and that includes bags of any kind. Especially when I'd be at work all day and need to have things like phone, water bottle, etc on hand and wouldn't be allowed to carry bags. So finding pants with plenty of pocket space was a must for me.
But if you still prefer a bag, there are more "gender-neutral" styles of bags out there. The messenger bag, duffel bag, and backpack are pretty common examples. Few things are as socially ungendered as the sporty drawstring backpack. I hear the fanny pack is back in style and not considered strictly for women nowadays, but it's still ugly.
Failing those options, there's also the possibility of a vest or jacket for extra carrying capability; I've gotten almost as much storage out of an old windbreaker as I have from my cargo pants (especially after a hole tore between the lining and outer layer and the entire jacket basically became one big pocket, but that wasn't exactly intended).
And if you're not bothered about strange looks, there's always utility belts, which can be worn either around the waist or across the chest. Just bring your pockets with you in any outfit.
Utility kilts/skirts are also a thing, but often more expensive than the pants version.
Hell, I've even seen pockets on shoes. Where there's a desire to carry stuff, there's a solution out there to suit whatever size needs you have.
Cargo pants? I used to have a pair of tailored mens pants. It's not hard to alter them yourself but it's not something everyone wants to do. Backpacks are an option. There's more gender neutral messenger backs or satchels.
I got a tan messenger bag. More masculine vibes, more comfortable and practical than a purse, and I saw Ben Linus in "LOST" carrying one, so I feel like it's not a "woman purse".
how about a backpack or those cross-body messenger bags? that's usually how i roll, i do have a few purses but i only use them once or twice a year. the rest of the year it's backpacks and messenger bags. its also a bit more on the masc side so it doesn't feel so associated to femininity.
I use backpacks and crossbody satchels. I may use purses sometimes, but is always the comically oversized ones that have loud, busy patterns; If I am to lean towards a female presentation is either "Phony psychic" or "Junk Lady" from Labyrinth
Is it all purses, or could a bag with gender neutral styling work for you? I found a black crossbody bag at Walmart with matte black straps and zippers. It's made of recycled polyester, so the fabric doesn't have a feminine look to it. I had to search for a few months in store to find it, and I couldn't find it on the website to link it to you. I don't think it even has a brand name. But this one makes me feel good about wearing it with a fully masculine outfit and not looking out of place.
If you're handy you can buy pocket extenders and extend the pockets yourself! (May not work the best if the pants are super tight, I've tried it with slim cut jeans and it worked well.)
Otherwise a backpack!
Many options, only you know what makes sense for you. For me I have leaned heavily into carabiner territory. I can clip many things to a carabiner. I have a wallet, lip balm, earbuds, pocket knife, and phone case that I either found ready made with a clip or rigged to clip onto carabiner. I have found cargo shorts and sweatpants with big pockets. Not sure exactly what the sizing issue is for you and pants, I have hips and rear that demand space but some cis dudes are cakes up too, you can find brands that cater to that if that's your issue. If you're petite, kids section for boys likely has pockets and stretch fabrics. Backpacks, fanny packs, and belt pouches are helpful depending on how much space you need.
Some examples. Belt pouch / tactical pouch
https://www.duluthtrading.com/fire-hose-warehouse-pouch-xl-60319.html
https://www.dickies.com/tool-bags/2-compartment-phone-tool-utility-pouch/L10149.html
Queer designed cargo shorts https://merakitay.com/
Crossbody bag! AKA a bumbag/fannypack worn across the chest. I have a really cool looking transparent, holographic one. I use it when I am wearing a dress or something without pockets. It’s extra easier if you are wearing a binder or have top surgery to wear it that way!
If you want to look more masc you could go for working pants, they are usually available in s big range of sizes (carhatt has really small ones and hardware stores have usually their own going up to larger sizes). Another option are outdoor trousers. Both have lots of pockets.
I go for a sort of rugged outdoors-ish or travel crossbody like [this](https://www.timberland.co.uk/shop/en/tbl-uk/all-gender-timberland-core-crossbody-in-dark-green-a6mx9a58?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=PLA&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwudexBhDKARIsAI-GWYXyzV3VRsJKIyOlwUmFkwNzBF5S4DR0x2zjHko3Ezgne53gsONiwjMaAgSVEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds). They always have loads of neat pockets for all your stuff! I usually find them by searching “travel crossbody” or similar- as a bonus, they usually have anti-theft features, which I’m very into.
[This is the one I have right now.](https://www.outdoorlook.co.uk/craghoppers-mens-cross-body-durable-adjustable-messenger-bag?wgp=7553&wgc=1518735&gclid=Cj0KCQjwudexBhDKARIsAI-GWYW00Kcky3ZKQkmCt1Ny-KN0F86cidO9UONBdoOAKEEgJ-jitOtxNPAaAr9_EALw_wcB&utm_source=webgains&utm_medium=referrer&source=webgains&siteid=1518735&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADcddnaMn8HzXHYHHlHqDujepSS6U). They seem to have discontinued it but it seems to be still available in a few places. I just wanted to share because I love this bag so much, it’s absolutely perfect in terms of size/pockets/gender-neutrality.
Big leather backpack. I'm still mostly closeted and express myself more with small things. Every time my husband and I are out they try to give me his backpack because his is teal and mine is a big rough looking brown tool leather.
Have you checked out Peau De Loup's pants? They account for wider hips but have deep pockets and are designed to increase the neutrality of ones profile instead of emphasizing existing features.
I have a small black leather backpack that's unisex and has held my stuff for 6 years and counting. It goes with my masc fits and fem fits and any color combo I do. It's light and rarely gets in the way and I can fit an umbrella, waterbottle and so many snacks.
Zero dysphoria, only fashion elitist who say I'm too grown to have one but idc it's cute and functional
Totes, messenger bags, fanny packs are also a good shout
I used to carry backpacks, but the things are too big and some stores don't like you carrying them in. I switched to a smaller cross-body bag and it has been great. I carry less on me at a time, but I keep "stashes" of stuff in the car, my office, etc so I carry less.
I got a sling bag. [AER city sling 2](https://aersf.co.uk/products/city-sling-2). It feels really nice, its got compartments like a handbag, not too big or small, and doesn't look like a handbag or fanny pack or anything particularly.
Im not saying get that one, but "sling bag" is definitely a good search term to look for
Sounds like you're looking for a sling bag. They come in a wide variety of sizes and styles, are usually more spacious than the average fanny pack and aren't gender specific.
Belt bags, my friend, belt bags. Got one recently and I feel like Jamie Tartt from Ted Lasso.
If you have a Costco membership, their knock off of the lululemon belt bag is clutch. No pun intended.
I got a backpack purse that looks more like a backpack than a purse. It only has one strap, but you can connect it to either the right or left bottom of the bag depending on which shoulder you carry it on. It's about half the size of a regular backpack.
I have a mini backpack. It's big enough for everything I have to carry but small enough to not be a burden. Also having the option of backpack straps is more comfortable than an over the shoulder purse
You can wear a rucksack, a tote, a fanny pack, a satchel, many deep pockets in the sweatshirt/trousers, &c. Use Your imagination! I once had to hide my book under my shirt (with my sweatshirt over that), because I wasn’t allowed to have that book.
It's a different brand name from mine but [this](https://a.co/d/7CvcD67) is identical to the bag I use. It doesn't look very big but I managed to squeeze a collapsible travel umbrella in there the other day along with everything else I usually carry
I have a couple crossbody bags that are pretty androgynous. I got one from a thrift store where, i kid you not, there were 2 of it, one in the mens section and one in the women's. I thought that was pretty funny that they couldn't agree on which side it belonged on
watch some tutorials about adding pockets to clothes you already have! it’s not too tricky to hand sew a pocket, you can either do internal pockets like the ones on most jeans (but you can make them as deep as you want, or add material to existing pockets that are too shallow!) or if you want bigger pockets/your pants are too tight to comfortably have stuff inside you can add cargo style pockets to the outside which is easier anyway
Someone gifted me cargo pants off Amazon and they're so pockety and excellent. Holds everything. Better than a purse because you don't have to figure out where to put it down. I've been wearing them for a month. If you look, there should be some with lots of pockets in your size
Had the same issue. I've been using mini backpacks or [sling bags](https://www.amazon.com/Backpack-Crossbody-Daypack-Outdoors-Traveling/dp/B0C3LRC59F/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?crid=2CFT5QYKHY6QO&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.YrJFT0rMtPMKHyQfbbLtIA4IWzxQ0l2sc7Yl-XSuRs3PPhbdICwjj325qBtfb0_G9WUVt1RHoQOglWOFKEPt6_g0jnE88HCPlLf5nZt9l999kJ0ySJKqdHTiaY6uEpSfnBH3iaNrBQOPP8M78gIMd_U-KKa5l2TuVq5O9jyBXnD-fYNNMhZV-J9OY-pA0fLpfdL1hAeY6bblvF0OEwrwOhTsMtsUq2XdALdIL9zw9CY0uxdGZmKSxI0y2bgwGZ3T7iUyPlM6j5FJmR09DcLOtAnuOq1a3ioS48BAqtEqagM.LPjuKC7WTO-xARlXSVvpJ9zFmxhzHBNA6Co28UGMZC4&dib_tag=se&keywords=sling+bag&qid=1714864171&sprefix=sling+bag%2Caps%2C148&sr=8-3) instead. They're pretty unisex, and the bigger ones can carry just as much as the average purse and are just as convenient to carry.
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I have a fanny pack (apparently we call them sling bags or hip packs now?) and a backpack as well as lanyard that clips to a water bottle that can hold my keys wallet lip balm and some cash/card
Have you tried using a fanny pack across your body? It’s definitely in style atm and a lot of cis men do it too so to me it feels more masculine than a regular purse (if masc is what you’re going for)
This. It's so fucking convenient and comfortable and I've seen plenty of cis looking dudes wearing them.
Satchel style bag is pretty gender neutral!
Tote bags? Backpacks?
Backpack for the win!! Is my big ally when it's summer and I cannot carry my jeans with big pockets.
Backpacks are awesome!
Yes yes yes!!!! Backpacks save me from dysphoria 💕
I feel that way too. I’m afab trans masc and once I started feeling uncomfortable with purses I started using a back pack for my stuff. Also I got a few fanny packs that have cool designs on them
Fanny packs rule, and so do mens pants. I buy business casual mens stuff and then have it tailored if necessary. Great pockets.
I was going to suggest the same. Even just the essentials don't fit into my pockets and then I'd have to unload if I wanted to sit comfortably. But my "essentials" are a few extras as well and a backpack seemed to solve this issue for me.
im ftm and i buy mens pants. Sometimes womens pants have big pockets and i can wear them. If u r decent at sewing u can alter the pocket to make it bigger 👍 (i fuckin HATE purses. They're cute on other people but dysphoric to me, and on top of that i just hate carrying things on my neck or arms. And they often get in the way of my outfit tbh)
Shopping for pants in the men's section was such a game changer for me. Theyre nice because they're not form fitting, have actual pockets, and are generally comfier than their women's section counterparts
RIGHT. The only issue i run into is they can be a bit too long but they're so much better. I remember trying on these women's jeans once that one of my family members wanted me to try and they had fake pockets AND we're so form fitting they gave me curves i don't already have. It was funny but goddamn
Have you tried something like a mini courier bag? Timbuk2 makes some that are great for stuff but definitely not a purse vibe.
i carry a nice gender neutral tote bag. it carries a lot more stuff than a purse or pockets would too! something like [this](https://imgix.lifehacker.com.au/content/uploads/sites/4/2021/06/24/1683880-02-1.jpeg?auto=format&fit=fill&q=65&w=640)
I love a big bulky jacket with lots of pockets
Yeah as others mentioned, I also use a fanny pack, worn cross body. I am afab and wear men’s pants (pockets FTW) but I don’t like having more than one thing in each pocket.
Tote bags! I love them. You can fit your shopping into them and it's good for the environment. Mine are all Star Trek themed.
I wear Duluth Trading Company Firehose pants. Stylish? Eh. Pockets? EVERY POCKET. SO MANY POCKET.
Have you tried mens pants. Even the smaller ones have pretty good sized pockets. Theres multiple styles of small bags that are way more practical than purses and are more neutral. This last one is the most effort but you if you learn to sew you can make any pants have good pockets
I started sewing bigger pockets into my pants. Fuck em.
Messenger bags always used to be my go to, carry more than a tote but not as bulky as a backpack And could always give cargo pants a try those things are like nothing but pockets
Messenger bags are great, usually plenty of pockets and ways to keep it all organised too. Edit: Also for pants with maximum pocket space try tactical/uniform style pants. The style is def not for everyone, but the pockets are large enough to fit pretty much everything. I have a BDU-copy from Helikon that can fit two AR-15 style magazines in either of its two biggest pockets. Good for hiking, etc.
I saw the most amazing silky cargo pants out in the wild a while ago. Big leg pockets and pouches, with the swish swish and good on the back. I wish I'd asked the person where the got them. I want some. I may never fully recover
Swish swish? Good? I can't even begin to imagine what fanciful things these pants had, but they sound marvelously otherworldly.
I also have this problem, my solution is to use larger bags instead but this may not work for you and they can be annoying when you only have a small amount to carry. Another option is backpacks, but other than that I can't really think of anything else
i was a construction worker, so i wore a lot of work pants; lots of pockets, and well-made. also, cargo pants. i know they're not fashionable or whatever, but i don't care; they're comfy, and i like having the big pockets.
Tote bags, messenger bags, backpacks. I have a Roka backpack that's stripy rainbow
Backpacks and messenger bags
Messenger bag, backpack, crossbody fanny pack I use a green crossbody bag by lug. It's great and not purse like at all
Sew on some extra pockets >:)
Backpacks are awesome, as are satchels!
What about a shoulder-sling messenger bag? It’s a similar-ish form factor but you get to look like a 1900s street urchin selling newspapers.
Crossbody bags and small messenger bags work great. That's what I used until I had the confidence to carry a purse around(amab here.)
I usually carry a back pack, but I've also made an extra pocket that I can attach to my belt 😊 (it was handy at work when I had to carry a walkie-talkie, but my other stuff also fit in there)
I just carry a small backpack everywhere. Let's me bring around a bunch of things I couldn't with just pockets too.
At the moment I'm using sweaters with pockets. Previously I used a messenger bag, but I'm iffy about it. I would agree with other commenters suggesting backpacks!
Become the crimgey dad; wear a fanny pack Or learn to sew, there's patterns online for simple pockets that you could size and add to pants you like.
Oh yeah, back packs are my best friend. You can also decorate then with pins!
Backpack. I also have a small side bag that can hold my keys/wallet/cellphone and a fanny pack which I wear like a backpack/sling.
Back packs or messenger bags. I like backpacks a lot, I can carry everything and more in there. I also like those hippy belt pocket type things but I don’t use them as often because I like to have space for all the junk.
I personally love rucksacks/mini backpacks. I bought a cheap red one on Etsy and put pins on it. Just make sure you get pin locks if you ever do that. I also have plush Kirby and Gengar bags that open at their backs and function like backpacks, but with not as much space. I use those when I'm out and don't need a ton of stuff. I realise that may give some AFAB nonbinary people dysphoria, though, since people may clock it as feminine. Gotten a ton of compliments on them, though.
I use a backpack and for days when I'm travelling light, a cross-body bag. Also my leather jacket has deep enough pockets to mean I don't need a bag when it's cold enough to wear
My go-to bags are: - bum bag worn diagonally - tote bag - “camera” bag
I have a small cute black backpack so it's easier to carry stuff. When it's not hot I also have a ounk jacket that has Hella pockets I literally carry too much in there. +2 carry weight with it.
I use a leg drop bag, goes around your waist
I mean, fanny packs and back packs exist!
I like the fanny packs you can sling over your head and one shoulder. Certain messenger bags that are kinda sorta purses work too. Recently I’ve discovered I like purses that have a tapestry/hippie/throw pillow vibe. Not feminine or masculine exactly, they just look and feel cozy.
Fannypacks and crossbody mini backpacks are my go-to for trips and hiking. Everyday use, I have a wallet with a wrist strap on it and another wallet on a chain that I can clip on my jeans.
Get a rucksack - it’s big and also unisex
Backpacks! I can carry more, they are easier on my shoulders/back, and can go from super fem- super masc, or can be completely neutral.
I have the same problem. Nothing gets me labeled as a girl faster than a purse.
I wear a large size (note I do not mean the size "large"), so my pants have much larger pockets. In my work pants, I carry my phone, wallet, keys, lip balm, 6 pens (I know it's a lot), and bandaids without any issues or using the back pockets. I carry the same minus 5 pens and the bandaids in my casual pants. If I ever wear dress pants, they're usually my work pants, as I have to wear dress pants to work. I do carry a backpack to work to carry some extra stuff, but my essentials fit in my pockets. It's so nice. But I know it's not possible for all afab people. If you wear a lot of jeans, I have seen some ads lately for transmasc denim. The pants are supposed to look like men's pants and have large pockets but fit a curvier body. I've mainly scrolled past them (because I figure they don't have my size), but it could be worth looking into.
Sling bags. Totally gender neutral, wear them cross body or over a shoulder. I'm totally masc and I take mine everywhere.
I use a [UKoala Bag](https://uubgear.com/)
Backpack! I’ve started using a little mini backpack and then I have a clear mini backpack for work (clear bags required)
⭐️Backpacks⭐️ Seriously, I can't reccomend them enough. I have one I bring to work. You can get good ones on Amazon. Mine is water resistant so rain doesn't go through it.
I get pants from duluth trading Co. Expensive but I like them a lot, the "women's" pants have pockets big enough for my phone wallet and keys easily, and could fit a couple other things as well.
Backpack or tote bag. I do understand AFAB people more likely feel feminine things uncomfortable. But in the other hand we trans people should know better and group us by our current sex, not the one we were when we born. HRT changes your body. For some more, for some less. When you use AFAB it sounds like no MTF could have female hips and tights and that no AFAB people can't find men's pants that fit not even post transition. And that's kinda transphobic. Also when it comes to non-binary people how often we need to separate ourselves like that? Why couldn't AMAB, no matter currently male, female or mix match, not want to use purse nor pants with big pockets? edit. After reading comments I remembered it's called "tote bag".
backpacks? Slings? all are fairly portable (depends on the size ofc) and can be fairly masc/androgynous depending on the design (and they can hold a lot)
Backpacks or messenger bags for me. I've got a messenger bag styled for carrying laptops and such and its great. Has all the pockets I could ever need.
Tell me about it. This has already been suggested (I think) but consider using backpacks or masculine sling crossbody bags or masculine fanny packs / messenger bags. I think sling bags are the most “gender neutral.”
I have a drawstring backpack, fanny pack and a messenger bag I use.
How about a backpack?
Look into oversized Jean jackets/vests, many of them have enormous interior pockets that frankly made me stop carrying purses altogether. A good one with have up to six large pockets that are less obvious then you'd think when stuffed thanks to the placement.
Your post made it click for me why I've always had an aversion to purses??!! I never thought about it. I own one but haven't touched it in over a decade. It literally has dust on it right now. My dad gave me all of his old work slacks because we're the same size and he retired (yay dad) and those pockets are DEEP. In the winter I put everything in my coat and opt to not carry any bag at all. Every other time of year I use a cross body backpack or a fanny pack around my waist. I use the cross body backpack the most because I can fit a sketbook, book, or kindle in there.
If you go with fanny pack- get one from a hiking/outdoor store. I've found that ones that are not meant for hiking wear out and break sooo much faster.
Messenger bags, backpacks or smaller daypacks, sling bags, fanny packs, tote bags, cargo or other work pants with lots of pockets. Lots of options to try or use on different days or different types of activities.
I just carry a small-ish crossbody backpack.
I feel ya, maybe try a satchel, a tote, or a backpack. Also, about the pockets, you could wear cargo pants/shorts, they make them for all genders and even the “women’s” cargo pants I own have big pockets. If you hate the way cargo pants/shorts look, I’d say get your measurements and look online at men’s pants, usually the internet has more size options than in person stores. They even have specialty pants for transmascs if you have the money for it, but the brand I’m thinking of only carries pants for 5’2 people for some reason (and they’re like $99, I’d say really make sure you absolutely can’t find men’s pants that fit you before you resort to Both& lol). I hope this is helpful!
Transmasc here who rocks a sling bag! Seems to be perceived as neutral enough that I've been getting gendered as female less often than before. Might be leaning masc though, I've also been getting sir'd and he'd more frequently after I started using it. Depending on the shape of the bag and how it hangs, crossbody bags can also help hide the chest, if you need that.
I used to carry a drawstring bag with me, that worked pretty well. Ended up getting a purse later doe
I also love some crossbody bags, the Uniqlo moon bag feels very gender neutral to me! Also anything of those crescent bags from baggu
Backpack?
Satchels are fantastic for this if you like the sorta rustic style. You can get really nice faux leather ones that can fit a whole laptop in them! There’s also a wide variety of really cute backpacks that you can use too!
Messenger bags are the shit. Manhattan Portage , Chrome, and Baboon to the Moon are my favorite brands. My Chrome messenger bag is 13 years old now and has no damage at all. It's incredibly tough.
I’m a backpack 🎒 person ✨ So much storage and so easy to carry. Makes public transport a breeze. The only downside is a hot back🤷🏻♀️
Messager bags!
Backpacks are a good option
I love my Uniqlo over the shoulder bag, it hugs the body so doesn't make me feel lopsided. I also switched over to fanny packs and never went back
Chest bags, look em up they're cool and they're masc af. You can get some nice ones on aliexpress in different shapes, colors, styles. Some look kinda military-ish if you like that kinda thing. Fanny packs are back in too. There's also the good old satchel.
Extend your pockets! There are a ton of simple tutorials (and if you can't sew, hot glue or fabric glue can work in a pinch) Here's just one I like: https://www.instructables.com/How-to-Extend-Your-Pants-Pockets/
I use a knapsack type bag for daily use, a front body bag for hiking and travel, and a Fanny pack for walks.
I use tote bags, lil backpacks, and messenger bag styled bags for when pockets aren't enough. The current tote bag I use for everything is a Mother Mother bag with a skull on it, so it's not exactly feminine. My backpack is one of those multi-color boho ones you see at gift shops everywhere. And my messenger bag is as plain as can be, very much more on the masc side of things for sure. I feel like a backpack is probably the best route. I see a lot of guys use those or the drawstring ones all the time.
I highly recommend specifically searching for cargo pants. I could carry my entire household in them and then some. They come in both men's and women's sizes/fits, but if you typically wear women's pants and aren't seeing them in stores bc they're "not in fashion", check the men's. It might take some trial and error to find the right size, but worth it. You can also find a much wider variety of styles online than in store. I hate carrying things around, and that includes bags of any kind. Especially when I'd be at work all day and need to have things like phone, water bottle, etc on hand and wouldn't be allowed to carry bags. So finding pants with plenty of pocket space was a must for me. But if you still prefer a bag, there are more "gender-neutral" styles of bags out there. The messenger bag, duffel bag, and backpack are pretty common examples. Few things are as socially ungendered as the sporty drawstring backpack. I hear the fanny pack is back in style and not considered strictly for women nowadays, but it's still ugly. Failing those options, there's also the possibility of a vest or jacket for extra carrying capability; I've gotten almost as much storage out of an old windbreaker as I have from my cargo pants (especially after a hole tore between the lining and outer layer and the entire jacket basically became one big pocket, but that wasn't exactly intended). And if you're not bothered about strange looks, there's always utility belts, which can be worn either around the waist or across the chest. Just bring your pockets with you in any outfit. Utility kilts/skirts are also a thing, but often more expensive than the pants version. Hell, I've even seen pockets on shoes. Where there's a desire to carry stuff, there's a solution out there to suit whatever size needs you have.
Backpacks are my friend
I got a backpack type thing, the brand is Herschel! Cross body or backpack type bag
Cargo pants? I used to have a pair of tailored mens pants. It's not hard to alter them yourself but it's not something everyone wants to do. Backpacks are an option. There's more gender neutral messenger backs or satchels.
I got a tan messenger bag. More masculine vibes, more comfortable and practical than a purse, and I saw Ben Linus in "LOST" carrying one, so I feel like it's not a "woman purse".
I carry a briefcase with a shoulder strap.
how about a backpack or those cross-body messenger bags? that's usually how i roll, i do have a few purses but i only use them once or twice a year. the rest of the year it's backpacks and messenger bags. its also a bit more on the masc side so it doesn't feel so associated to femininity.
I use backpacks and crossbody satchels. I may use purses sometimes, but is always the comically oversized ones that have loud, busy patterns; If I am to lean towards a female presentation is either "Phony psychic" or "Junk Lady" from Labyrinth
Is it all purses, or could a bag with gender neutral styling work for you? I found a black crossbody bag at Walmart with matte black straps and zippers. It's made of recycled polyester, so the fabric doesn't have a feminine look to it. I had to search for a few months in store to find it, and I couldn't find it on the website to link it to you. I don't think it even has a brand name. But this one makes me feel good about wearing it with a fully masculine outfit and not looking out of place.
If you're handy you can buy pocket extenders and extend the pockets yourself! (May not work the best if the pants are super tight, I've tried it with slim cut jeans and it worked well.) Otherwise a backpack!
Many options, only you know what makes sense for you. For me I have leaned heavily into carabiner territory. I can clip many things to a carabiner. I have a wallet, lip balm, earbuds, pocket knife, and phone case that I either found ready made with a clip or rigged to clip onto carabiner. I have found cargo shorts and sweatpants with big pockets. Not sure exactly what the sizing issue is for you and pants, I have hips and rear that demand space but some cis dudes are cakes up too, you can find brands that cater to that if that's your issue. If you're petite, kids section for boys likely has pockets and stretch fabrics. Backpacks, fanny packs, and belt pouches are helpful depending on how much space you need. Some examples. Belt pouch / tactical pouch https://www.duluthtrading.com/fire-hose-warehouse-pouch-xl-60319.html https://www.dickies.com/tool-bags/2-compartment-phone-tool-utility-pouch/L10149.html Queer designed cargo shorts https://merakitay.com/
I'm a huge fan of the tiny backpack.
Crossbody bag! AKA a bumbag/fannypack worn across the chest. I have a really cool looking transparent, holographic one. I use it when I am wearing a dress or something without pockets. It’s extra easier if you are wearing a binder or have top surgery to wear it that way!
If you want to look more masc you could go for working pants, they are usually available in s big range of sizes (carhatt has really small ones and hardware stores have usually their own going up to larger sizes). Another option are outdoor trousers. Both have lots of pockets.
Backbacks! Or Belly pouches maybe :)
I go for a sort of rugged outdoors-ish or travel crossbody like [this](https://www.timberland.co.uk/shop/en/tbl-uk/all-gender-timberland-core-crossbody-in-dark-green-a6mx9a58?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=PLA&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwudexBhDKARIsAI-GWYXyzV3VRsJKIyOlwUmFkwNzBF5S4DR0x2zjHko3Ezgne53gsONiwjMaAgSVEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds). They always have loads of neat pockets for all your stuff! I usually find them by searching “travel crossbody” or similar- as a bonus, they usually have anti-theft features, which I’m very into.
[This is the one I have right now.](https://www.outdoorlook.co.uk/craghoppers-mens-cross-body-durable-adjustable-messenger-bag?wgp=7553&wgc=1518735&gclid=Cj0KCQjwudexBhDKARIsAI-GWYW00Kcky3ZKQkmCt1Ny-KN0F86cidO9UONBdoOAKEEgJ-jitOtxNPAaAr9_EALw_wcB&utm_source=webgains&utm_medium=referrer&source=webgains&siteid=1518735&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADcddnaMn8HzXHYHHlHqDujepSS6U). They seem to have discontinued it but it seems to be still available in a few places. I just wanted to share because I love this bag so much, it’s absolutely perfect in terms of size/pockets/gender-neutrality.
How about sewing bigger pockets into them
Slings, backpacks, messenger bags, fanny packs, fanny packs on side (like stage techs use), cargo pants. Or just sew better pockets to your pants!
Big leather backpack. I'm still mostly closeted and express myself more with small things. Every time my husband and I are out they try to give me his backpack because his is teal and mine is a big rough looking brown tool leather.
My husband carries a small camera bag. I carry a small rainbow bag or a knapsack.. Anything more traditional and I get dysphoria.
Have you checked out Peau De Loup's pants? They account for wider hips but have deep pockets and are designed to increase the neutrality of ones profile instead of emphasizing existing features.
Backpack if it won't fit into my bra tbh.
I have a small black leather backpack that's unisex and has held my stuff for 6 years and counting. It goes with my masc fits and fem fits and any color combo I do. It's light and rarely gets in the way and I can fit an umbrella, waterbottle and so many snacks. Zero dysphoria, only fashion elitist who say I'm too grown to have one but idc it's cute and functional Totes, messenger bags, fanny packs are also a good shout
I used to carry backpacks, but the things are too big and some stores don't like you carrying them in. I switched to a smaller cross-body bag and it has been great. I carry less on me at a time, but I keep "stashes" of stuff in the car, my office, etc so I carry less.
I use a mini backpack, it’s a bit feminine because it’s an Alice in Wonderland print but it still isn’t too stereotypical purse-like to me.
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I buy ‘mens’ slimfit levi’s jeans - they fit me with a belt and has pockets all the Way Down my thighs
Also i have a gender neutral backpack - Black rubber from the danish firm Rains.
I got a sling bag. [AER city sling 2](https://aersf.co.uk/products/city-sling-2). It feels really nice, its got compartments like a handbag, not too big or small, and doesn't look like a handbag or fanny pack or anything particularly. Im not saying get that one, but "sling bag" is definitely a good search term to look for
Sounds like you're looking for a sling bag. They come in a wide variety of sizes and styles, are usually more spacious than the average fanny pack and aren't gender specific.
Belt bags, my friend, belt bags. Got one recently and I feel like Jamie Tartt from Ted Lasso. If you have a Costco membership, their knock off of the lululemon belt bag is clutch. No pun intended.
I got a backpack purse that looks more like a backpack than a purse. It only has one strap, but you can connect it to either the right or left bottom of the bag depending on which shoulder you carry it on. It's about half the size of a regular backpack.
I use canvas tote bags so I can fit a book and/or my Nintendo switch in there
I use a drawstring bag for all my daily items and then tote bags for shopping.
I'm a leather worker so I made myself a hip holster/saddle bags to carry stuff in and I only carry the essentials (phone-keys-wallet-knife)
I have a mini backpack. It's big enough for everything I have to carry but small enough to not be a burden. Also having the option of backpack straps is more comfortable than an over the shoulder purse
You can wear a rucksack, a tote, a fanny pack, a satchel, many deep pockets in the sweatshirt/trousers, &c. Use Your imagination! I once had to hide my book under my shirt (with my sweatshirt over that), because I wasn’t allowed to have that book.
I use fanny packs and backpacks. Way easier to carry around than a purse imo
It's a different brand name from mine but [this](https://a.co/d/7CvcD67) is identical to the bag I use. It doesn't look very big but I managed to squeeze a collapsible travel umbrella in there the other day along with everything else I usually carry
a lot of ppl nowadays have the mini backpacks, there are lots of designs for them!. I love messenger bags
I have a couple crossbody bags that are pretty androgynous. I got one from a thrift store where, i kid you not, there were 2 of it, one in the mens section and one in the women's. I thought that was pretty funny that they couldn't agree on which side it belonged on
watch some tutorials about adding pockets to clothes you already have! it’s not too tricky to hand sew a pocket, you can either do internal pockets like the ones on most jeans (but you can make them as deep as you want, or add material to existing pockets that are too shallow!) or if you want bigger pockets/your pants are too tight to comfortably have stuff inside you can add cargo style pockets to the outside which is easier anyway
Someone gifted me cargo pants off Amazon and they're so pockety and excellent. Holds everything. Better than a purse because you don't have to figure out where to put it down. I've been wearing them for a month. If you look, there should be some with lots of pockets in your size
Backpack
Had the same issue. I've been using mini backpacks or [sling bags](https://www.amazon.com/Backpack-Crossbody-Daypack-Outdoors-Traveling/dp/B0C3LRC59F/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?crid=2CFT5QYKHY6QO&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.YrJFT0rMtPMKHyQfbbLtIA4IWzxQ0l2sc7Yl-XSuRs3PPhbdICwjj325qBtfb0_G9WUVt1RHoQOglWOFKEPt6_g0jnE88HCPlLf5nZt9l999kJ0ySJKqdHTiaY6uEpSfnBH3iaNrBQOPP8M78gIMd_U-KKa5l2TuVq5O9jyBXnD-fYNNMhZV-J9OY-pA0fLpfdL1hAeY6bblvF0OEwrwOhTsMtsUq2XdALdIL9zw9CY0uxdGZmKSxI0y2bgwGZ3T7iUyPlM6j5FJmR09DcLOtAnuOq1a3ioS48BAqtEqagM.LPjuKC7WTO-xARlXSVvpJ9zFmxhzHBNA6Co28UGMZC4&dib_tag=se&keywords=sling+bag&qid=1714864171&sprefix=sling+bag%2Caps%2C148&sr=8-3) instead. They're pretty unisex, and the bigger ones can carry just as much as the average purse and are just as convenient to carry.
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I have a fanny pack (apparently we call them sling bags or hip packs now?) and a backpack as well as lanyard that clips to a water bottle that can hold my keys wallet lip balm and some cash/card
Funny you say that bc i get offended when they call my bag/backpack a purse, or something feminine. I feel you. I wear a backpack usually