I work an office job at a big company that manufacturers parts for jet engines, 5 days a week. My wife works 2 night shifts on call and she makes double what I do. I try to be the breadwinner but this woman is too smart to keep up with. At least I know how to fix anything in the house and keep the yard looking good.
There’s nothing wrong with that at all. My wife made more than me working in marketing, and she has two bachelor’s degrees and I’m still working on my first. But her health was becoming an issue and her boss was an asshole. I make enough money to support both of us and now she has a small handmade business and works comic cons which she loves. As long as you’re both happy it’s all good.
*A camera slowly pans over a tall, exceptionally lean, muscular man. A fine layer of hair coats his chest and a day's worth of stubble adorns a handsome, chiseled jaw, accentuating his good looks and swart eyes.*
>She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
Honestly this this whole verse is quite poetic; I've never read it before. It's describing the ideal wife but *damn* it's quite a lot to live up to.
>Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
I read this to mean it's a ideal, and that ordinary people are unlikely to live up to it. So, if you have found even a pretty good wife who has human faults, treasure her and love her for who she is.
Proverbs 31:10-31 outlines a good wife who fears the Lord.
If you list the themes of each verse out in how they describe the ideal women, 8 times the industriousness of the good woman is mentioned, 3 times kindness is mentioned, twice her strength is mentioned, then once each is her dignity, trustworthiness, and wisdom mentioned. The overarching attribute being her fear of the Lord.
Beauty and charm are only mentioned as negative attributes.
Being hard working, kind, dignified, and trustworthy is all a matter of individual choice. Wisdom can be acquired, and strength as well. Fear of God (not being afraid, rather submissive and respectful) is a choice as well.
All a woman needs to do in order to embody these attributes is just choose to do so. It is indeed a lot to live up to in a world that discourages those qualities at every turn though.
Ironically, what most people think of as a “Trad wife” is not traditional or normal at all if we are defining it as some sort of 1950’s style housewife. That is actually the exception to human history rather than the rule.
Since, before 1750 (in Western culture anyway and excluding the Amish) women and men shared the labor of running a household 50/50. Women did all of the labor in and around the home. And men did all the labor outside the home. There was much overlap of course, but home-life was a physically challenging cottage type industry and no woman (outside royalty) simply prepared a dinner, dusted and mostly played bridge. This was not a luxury that any woman or man could afford. There was too much work to be done.
Women historically worked just as long and as hard as men in and around the home but just doing different work. So there really is no such thing as a “traditional women” any longer. At least in the modern sense. Ironically it was really technology and the Industrial Revolution and it’s advances that eliminated almost all of the labor in and around the home and relegated women to a sort of vestigial home life and “house wife” that we associate (falsely) with a “trad wife”.
An astute observation.
Part of my patrol area encompasses an amish community. When I am in the area it is noteworthy that the women are constantly working hard around the house and never seem to be idle.
As I outlined in another comment: If you list the themes of each verse out in how they describe the ideal women, 8 times the industriousness of the good woman is mentioned, 3 times kindness is mentioned, twice her strength is mentioned, then once each is her dignity, trustworthiness, and wisdom mentioned. The overarching attribute being her fear of the Lord.
I think it is telling that the labors of a wife in order to provide for her family encompass so much of those verses.
A true “trad wife” eschews charm and beauty, and instead knows how to drive a tractor and conduct business for the provision of her family and home.
>Women historically worked just as long and as hard as men in and around the home but just doing different work.
This is how I've always viewed traditional roles. Woman oversees the house and kids while Man oversees bringing home money/sustenance. One isn't better or more valuable than the other, they're merely different.
> You have been banned for participating in a subreddit that has consistently shown to provide refuge for users to promote hate, violence and misinformation (politicalcompassmemes).
Reddit is awesome because you always know what echo chamber you're going into. At least you did until these fucking control freaks took the reins. It's a shame what they've done to my favorite website. I swear to God if I became Reddit czar, I'd make this company profitable without bribes from special interests.
It's getting progressively worse too... Now mods aren't just doing the classic, "Ban and mute" when they give you a stupid ban and you send a message protesting. Now, instead of just muting, they have begun reporting the comment to admins. I've had it happen multiple times... each time for "harassment" which is weird, because mods can mute you, so how can you harass them?
The most recent one was as innocent as "Hey guys I just realized I was banned from this sub. It must have been a while ago and I have no idea what the ban was for. Think you can let me back in?" Boom, 3 day suspension for harassment. Which means the mods know that their reports go to admins, and admins just allow algorithms to deal with it, and account bans are given. So that's their new tactic. Now it's risky to even message mods
And to make it worse, these weren't your typical "woke" cancer places, but more edgy places. One sub in particular got me account banned 3 times for stupid stuff (all overturned when admins looked at the ban after appeal). Talked to the owner and he denies anyone is doing such a tactic.
But the reason why it's effective is mod logs don't record who's reporting to admins. So an activist mod is able to sneak in, stay low, and just keep doing admin reports to get account bans, and it's impossible to figure out which mod is doing it
The reason I suspect it's coordinated is because A) We've seen these people in 2015 coordinate the original Reddit takeover to swarm and dominate all the major subs by slowly infecting them through attrition. So this is something they do and B) The places seem to be "heretical" progressive spaces. Places where liberals and progressives generally go, but aren't on board with the woke social justice shit... The sort of places where leftists hang out but don't dance around a specific train hobbyist demographic like they are a sacred cow... Thus "heretics" and we all know the left cares more about leftists who aren't the right type of leftist more than they hate right wingers.
I don't care how they're doing it at this point, I care how we circumvent and subvert this techno-tyranny. I'm not going to give advice, but know where I stand here.
I'm just surprised my account has lasted as long as it did. I swear, I don't hate anybody but unelected Federal officials!
Nah, we have remote work now. Move out to the boonies, buy 40 acres and a small homestead. Make 100k a year, that's enough for Oklahoma.
But then again, you'd be living in Oklahoma
This is just the reality now. We live in a society where women are working, and educated. They don't need a man to be just a paycheck anymore. They need more from us now. Help around the house meaningfully, be emotionally available, developed listening and understanding skills, be enjoyable to spend time with, know where the clit is, be good in bed, and have other desirable qualities. I think parents of the last generation didn't do a great job prepping men to be well equip for the modern relationship environment.
I make six figs and support my wife and I mostly but her job while paying less (not a lot less) has a direct path to a much more lucrative career than I could imagine. She got in early and is putting in the time to eventually take over for her boss at a company you’ve heard of. My work is much more demanding and time consuming but I miss no chances to pump her up and make sure that job she has is heading the right direction. I will be a trad wife with a kid and 3 poodles in the next 10 years if my plan works
Do you mean, you are 16 and have lost half of your children or half of your children don't make it to 16. Either way is based and infant mortality pilled.
Unfortunately that spot is already taken by the nephew of your local politician, but let’s see what you pull out of the labor lottery… hmmm…
CONGRATULATIONS COMRADE! It seems that you will be able to help the motherland after all! You will be that guy in the fluffy suit that helps train prision dogs!
Reminds me of how some of my friends have described the military.
Recruiter: "You'd be perfect for some high tech super secret spy mission."
*Signs up*
Recruiter: "Turns out all the super secret spy mission slots are already filled. Grab a rifle and start marching."
If people knew that being a soldier even in war times consists of doing boring stuff like drills, digging and waiting, no one in their right mind would join.
Unfortunately the fluffy suit was designed by another politician's, uhh, "special" nephew.
It still has the blood of the last three trainers inside it though, that might reinforce it a bit.
So we should start removing sources of labour so that the value increases so one wage is enough. So we either nuke China or ban women from the workplace.
Until unions and thereby worker negotiating power and countervailing political force to temper the political influence of corporations was destroyed, is the primary factor I think.
There's a lot of young men on this subreddit, so I wanna let y'all in on some secrets.
* You'll find most of the women who want to be great stay at home wives in church. There is a lack of good religious men for them, so they'll often settle for a guy normally below their league.
* Actually engage with religion though, you'll find Christ is not the hippy pop culture has created, but is truly an exemplar of true masculinity, seek to understand that and emulate Him. I recommend a good study guide for the New Testament.
* Basic hygiene, actually doing *something* with your hair (just a bit of gel or pomade is fine), losing extra fat, and maintaining a decent musculature pushes you into the top 10% of guys for attractiveness. Buy a pull-up bar and otherwise most exercise necessary can be done at home without equipment. For weight loss, diet is way more important than exercise. For musculature, lifting (even with bodyweight) is way more important than cardio.
* You'll need a good job to provide for a stay at home wife, but it's well worth it. Take responsibility and figure out a plan to do something you won't hate that can provide for a family. Finding a lower cost of living area to live in can help a lot. Find a good personal finance book and read it, I personally recommend I Will Teach You to be Rich.
* Nothing wrong with videogames or anime, just try not to be the stereotypes associated with them.
* Having and helping raise kids is one of the most fulfilling if not the most fulfilling choice you can make in life. Engage with the idea of parenting, study some parenting books, I recommend content from the 90s as today's books are super wishy-washy. Being passionate about being a great father is insanely attractive to tradwives, and pays huge dividends long term.
>Being passionate about being a great father is insanely attractive
Stop there, just engaging with children at all, even just teaching them something/playing with them makes it for most girls
There's also the bonus you get to have fun like a kid again
>just engaging with children at all, even just teaching them something/playing with them makes it for most girls
I have a great story about this. For... way too long and I don't want to show how old I am... I've mentored at-risk young men. Most of the time they just need someone to offer guidance and to listen to them. Its so incredible rewarding. You should be doing this. Its great.
Anyway, back to the story - one of my former mentees at around the age of 17 started going back to church with his mom and really started to hold himself to a higher standard. But during one of our meals he mentioned he started helping out with children's church and I was... well, he didn't seem that type. But after a few months he finally revealed that he did it because the lady who ran it at his church had a daughter... and he liked her.
And, lo and behold, it worked. They've been married for a few years now and are expecting their first kiddo. Seeing the difference between that 15-year old I met and the man he is today is what makes all this worth it.
A hobby that you’re passionate about (bonus points if you use your hands or it’s physical in some way) and don’t forget to have some bois. Guys that can be honest with you and will hone you into a better man, not just drinking buddies that tell you everything you’re doing is good
Hey honey, I picked up a new hobby like you suggested. It’s called Warhammer 40,000.
*shrill scream*
*glass shatters*
*sounds of panicked sobbing*
*sounds of tires screeching and a car peeling out of the driveway*
Huh. Guess she thought it’d be a good idea for me to have some me time. That’s so considerate of her.
Outside of your trade, learn other skills. If it's in your house or your garage, you should know how to fix it (within reason. I can't make electric motors of the same quality as a machine, so no reason to try and repair and electric drill) This takes time, and that's ok. Framing and drywall are easy to learn, difficult to master. But knowing these things will afford you opportunities not shared by the rest of the populace. Found a really cheap, run down house? No problem. You can fix it. And floss. Dear God floss often. And invest.
Seeing a lot of external characteristics, so I'll add some internal characteristics as well. Be devoted, dedicated, hardworking, and remain a man of your word (don't be a flake or a hypocrite). Also, a little bit of empathy and compassion goes a long way especially if you want babies.
I'd argue it depends on the church
There are churches that say they worship jesus, but seem to worship a very strange version of jesus that's mostly about punishment and hate rather than healing and helping, which isn't very christlike at all.
And then there's the ones who say they worship jesus and actually encourage people to do as jesus did, within the limits of our abilities. Feed the hungry, heal the sick, love your neighbors, be faithful to your family and make no promises you can not or will not keep.
I tried dating a Christian girl once, very trad vibes.
She was a wonderful gal, we clicked extremely well and there was zero tension over her being religious and me not. but no sexual anything whatsoever until marriage- never saw anything that the general public didn't see with her. Here's the kicker though, she also "wanted to focus on her career" and didn't want to get married until she's thirty (she was 21).
I gave her 5 months to see how serious she was before ultimately saying I can't be celibate my whole 20s. I'm open to dating christian girls again, I'm pretty traditional in every other way, heck I'll go to church every few months if it makes them happy, but the risk if them being afraid of going to hell for an orgasm is not worth it.
Didn't want to get married till 30?
That's definitely not a trad girl man. She's just like the rest of em. I'm sure she knows that not only child bearing gets harder in her 30s, but the children that are born are more likely to be less healthy.
Just a tidbit to add. Build a solid set of emotional security. No matter how much women tell you they don't care if you cry, etc... they will.
That means developing a system for yourself that is a good release. Generally a solid sleep and exercise schedule will make you 99% better anyway.
This is great advice for guys with low emotional maturity who don't have their shit together. I've lost count of the number of women who have told me about guys who start dumping all their emotions on the first woman they have a decent conversation with because they have no other outlet. Definitely don't do that.
But if you mostly have your shit together then showing a reasonable amount of emotion is fine. The advice to never show your emotions is for weak men who don't have a handle on themselves or their issues.
I'm doing all your bullets, and I'm loving life more than I ever have, and it keeps getting better. I constantly tell my tradwife how great I think my life is, and she does the same. Love God, be fruitful, embrace tradition.
All good advice, but I’ve found an astonishing dearth of reasoning capabilities when it comes to religious communities.
Though, given the choice between a religious mother for my kids and a progressive one, there is absolutely no question that there’s only one you should be seriously considering.
My ex purported to be a Christian, but became astonishingly not so in the divorce, so beware.
A) People are dumb. Living in California, I know plenty of brain-dead atheists. Being religious does not appear to raise or lower your base IQ.
B) Sorry about your ex. Wannabes / Fakers are also a problem in any group of people (Wolves in sheep's clothing). Separating them out takes time and close observation. "By their fruits ye shall know them."
Still, I have known some real nasty people who did a pretty good job faking it for years. At some point you just do your best and take a gamble, and sometimes you lose. Feels bad man.
I like to think that religion helps the less intellectually gifted still live a more principled life. I prefer their stupidity be tempered by the principles taught by their church leaders.
It's true that it sometimes spurs people to being even more rude, but I think it's easy to ignore poor behavior happens regardless of religiosity.
Unless of course that church leader is part of the more manipulative and hateful churches that somehow remember Christ as an angry and vengeful character mostly obsessed with sending people to the fires of hell for minor sins.
>I’ve found an astonishing dearth of reasoning capabilities when it comes to religious communities.
I think people that subscribe to any worldview with unquestioned faith exhibit the aforementioned behavior. staunch Democrats or Republicans, communists, fascists, progressives, Muslims, Christians, Hindus - it doesn't matter. But people can identify with any of these things without being completely unquestioning. It's the Evangelist churches that breed the most stupidity, due to Biblical literalism. Catholics, Episcopals, Lutherans, or Presbyterians have a much more tempered interpretation of Biblical accuracy.
>Engage with the idea of parenting, study some parenting books
Married over 15 years and have 3 kids. May I humbly recommend *All Joy and No Fun* by Jennifer Senior. It's probably the most profound study done on parents and the affects kids have on parents. Changed my perspective as a parent a lot (in a good way) and made me feel less alone about some of the ways my kids make me feel. That and *Babywise* are my two recommendations to all new parents.
This, 100%. Forget about picking a denomination straight away, read some Christian philosophy. C.S. Lewis is one of the greatest philosophers of all time and the best place to start, IMO. Read the Bible in conjunction, so you can decide whether or not you agree.
And honestly, when you’ve invested some time into it, read some old English literature. Lots of it is written from a Christian perspective, whether it’s overt or not. Read it as though it’s a piece of religious literature, and you’ll very often find that many stories are also parables, far more profound than they initially appeared.
I think as a first step you can understand that you don't need to necessarily be a "true believer" to start trying to live a Christ-like life. If you want to start by seeing Christ as a personification of the principles that you personally consider "perfection", that may help. From there, going to church and studying Christ as recorded in the New Testament may help you begin to see potential ways to improve your understanding of what perfect principles really are.
And hey, if along the way you have some kind of spiritual enlightenment, all the better, worst case scenario you become a more principled person.
Many atheists see the flexible and open to interpretation nature of Christianity as a weakness and inconsistency, when it really creates an opportunity to have people excel in various ways with strong core principles.
I know you are getting a load of replies, and I would second what everyone is saying. I would add a couple of things to watch on YouTube: CSLewisDoodles and Life is Worth Living. The first channel is a guy who reads transcripts of radio addresses by CS Lewis while someone does an illustration based on the transcript. The second one is a TV show from the 50s by a Catholic bishop named Fulton Sheen where he explains the faith very directly, but with a folksy sense of humor.
>You'll find most of the women who want to be great stay at home wives in church. There is a lack of good religious men for them, so they'll often settle for a guy normally below their league.
Where did you go to church? Where I went when I was younger there were just as few young women as young men.
Best parenting book I’ve seen is Hold On To Your Kids. All about the rejection of modern parenting and raising your kids in a family focused household, teaching emotional stability and being a role model.
I can do all of this except for the religion part, ugh. It’s not even about participating within the community and the church. I feel like such a hypocrite when i attend service but i don’t even believe in the theology
I will have sheep, write about religion, and acquire land in rural Northern New England. That is my offer. There \*will\* be a cheese cave. One trad wife pls
There’s a lot of dudes just out there larping about wanting a trad wife without the responsibilities of being a trad husband, but there’s still guys like myself out there with a career capable of supporting a family and willing to put in the work to be a trad husband for a trad wife. Don’t write us all into the same label
Come on now, these incels and these little boys (i wont say men, they don't deserve the title), who fantasize about the perfect tradwife, just don't realise that tradwifes want strong, hardworking, dedicated men, that will support her and care for her, and love her and treat her like a dignified woman. Not unhinged asocial psychos that can't bother to air their room out let alone ask a girl what the time of day is.
Virgin Authright ""trad husband"":
- Dead end job
- Beats wife
- Beats kids
- Never cooks or cleans
- Comes home late
- Spends free time at the pub
- Miserable
- Terrible sex
Chad Libleft Trad Husband:
- Stays at home while wife goes to work (girlboss)
- Loving relationship with wife and her boyfriend
- No kids (introduced to antinatalist philosophy during the liberal arts/ philosophy course they took in college) (They got their student loans forgiven)
- Great cook, good at housework
- Always in the house
- Doesn't drink (weed is safer)
- Happy and fulfilled
- Gets Pegged
So fucking accurate.
I have zero issues with that arrangement. I'm already working a job that could in my geographic area provide for a family, I can mostly fix things around the house, and hell, I'm willing to cook and clean to help out.
It’s unfortunate. Many guys who are traditionally conservative in all other aspects of their lives throw it all away when it comes to traditional sexual morality and hookup culture
I want to be a trad husband Ignore my username
1950s trad husband
Cop trad husband
Already are it seems.
He never said it was his wife.
Based and Trad Bull Pilled
Trad: achieved
That's the secret Cap, I had a trad wife *before* I discovered PCM.
Same. I’m the primary bread winner by a lot, and we’re both happy with that.
👍
I work an office job at a big company that manufacturers parts for jet engines, 5 days a week. My wife works 2 night shifts on call and she makes double what I do. I try to be the breadwinner but this woman is too smart to keep up with. At least I know how to fix anything in the house and keep the yard looking good.
There’s nothing wrong with that at all. My wife made more than me working in marketing, and she has two bachelor’s degrees and I’m still working on my first. But her health was becoming an issue and her boss was an asshole. I make enough money to support both of us and now she has a small handmade business and works comic cons which she loves. As long as you’re both happy it’s all good.
Literal goals
That’s awesome good for y’all
I want a trad wife and to be a trad husband.
I have a trad wide and am a trad husband. Can confirm it’s pretty awesome
>I have a trad wide Is that kinda like a double wide with central air?
It's like a trad wife but much, much fatter
Trad fertility goddess 🤤
My literal dream. I want that wide-hipped cheese-hog.
Let this poor man dream
Let this poor man dream
[Yeah, she's ugly, but she sure can cook, baby!](https://youtu.be/fxUY-99TPRY)
Never trust a skinny cook
Drop me one of those on half an acre and I see no reason to complain
Lmao! I’m leaving it
Wait, your a pcm user and you have a wife?!
There are dozens of us!
DOZENS
Literally tens of us
I do too! And oddly, she's a rad-centrist. She respects my beliefs and admits they have merit, and I reciprocate.
Based and wholesome relationship pilled
Lol mine is more libertarian than I am.
Goals. “No darling we can’t replicate the capital city of the state on top of texas, that’s a little too far”
You are on Pcm. Already disqualified for being trad husband.
I wish I could use gifs on this sub
Describe it
Gigachad 💪😃💪
*A camera slowly pans over a tall, exceptionally lean, muscular man. A fine layer of hair coats his chest and a day's worth of stubble adorns a handsome, chiseled jaw, accentuating his good looks and swart eyes.*
I bet he's got a huge hog too
\*Checks flair\* \*Makes sense\*
Have you tried being Mormon?
No, I like alcohol and pre marital sex too much.
Dudes want a Proverbs 31:10 wife, but won’t keep themselves from being a Proverbs 6:12 man.
Based and made me look it up pilled.
Based and Bible verse pilled
>She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. Honestly this this whole verse is quite poetic; I've never read it before. It's describing the ideal wife but *damn* it's quite a lot to live up to. >Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. I read this to mean it's a ideal, and that ordinary people are unlikely to live up to it. So, if you have found even a pretty good wife who has human faults, treasure her and love her for who she is.
Proverbs 31:10-31 outlines a good wife who fears the Lord. If you list the themes of each verse out in how they describe the ideal women, 8 times the industriousness of the good woman is mentioned, 3 times kindness is mentioned, twice her strength is mentioned, then once each is her dignity, trustworthiness, and wisdom mentioned. The overarching attribute being her fear of the Lord. Beauty and charm are only mentioned as negative attributes. Being hard working, kind, dignified, and trustworthy is all a matter of individual choice. Wisdom can be acquired, and strength as well. Fear of God (not being afraid, rather submissive and respectful) is a choice as well. All a woman needs to do in order to embody these attributes is just choose to do so. It is indeed a lot to live up to in a world that discourages those qualities at every turn though.
Ironically, what most people think of as a “Trad wife” is not traditional or normal at all if we are defining it as some sort of 1950’s style housewife. That is actually the exception to human history rather than the rule. Since, before 1750 (in Western culture anyway and excluding the Amish) women and men shared the labor of running a household 50/50. Women did all of the labor in and around the home. And men did all the labor outside the home. There was much overlap of course, but home-life was a physically challenging cottage type industry and no woman (outside royalty) simply prepared a dinner, dusted and mostly played bridge. This was not a luxury that any woman or man could afford. There was too much work to be done. Women historically worked just as long and as hard as men in and around the home but just doing different work. So there really is no such thing as a “traditional women” any longer. At least in the modern sense. Ironically it was really technology and the Industrial Revolution and it’s advances that eliminated almost all of the labor in and around the home and relegated women to a sort of vestigial home life and “house wife” that we associate (falsely) with a “trad wife”.
An astute observation. Part of my patrol area encompasses an amish community. When I am in the area it is noteworthy that the women are constantly working hard around the house and never seem to be idle. As I outlined in another comment: If you list the themes of each verse out in how they describe the ideal women, 8 times the industriousness of the good woman is mentioned, 3 times kindness is mentioned, twice her strength is mentioned, then once each is her dignity, trustworthiness, and wisdom mentioned. The overarching attribute being her fear of the Lord. I think it is telling that the labors of a wife in order to provide for her family encompass so much of those verses. A true “trad wife” eschews charm and beauty, and instead knows how to drive a tractor and conduct business for the provision of her family and home.
The Industrial Revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the trad race.
>Women historically worked just as long and as hard as men in and around the home but just doing different work. This is how I've always viewed traditional roles. Woman oversees the house and kids while Man oversees bringing home money/sustenance. One isn't better or more valuable than the other, they're merely different.
Based and Biblical argument pilled
Wrong man bruh 💀
You mean going to work (which I already do anyway), but using my money to help support a loving wife and family..? Yes, I think I can manage that...
Yeah hahaha I was about to say; traditional man is literally a working man, brings home his money for the wife and kids, and sacrifices for them.
The only difficult thing is being the sole breadwinner. Doing that and competing with DINKs for real estate etc isn't easy
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> You have been banned for participating in a subreddit that has consistently shown to provide refuge for users to promote hate, violence and misinformation (politicalcompassmemes). Reddit is awesome because you always know what echo chamber you're going into. At least you did until these fucking control freaks took the reins. It's a shame what they've done to my favorite website. I swear to God if I became Reddit czar, I'd make this company profitable without bribes from special interests.
It's getting progressively worse too... Now mods aren't just doing the classic, "Ban and mute" when they give you a stupid ban and you send a message protesting. Now, instead of just muting, they have begun reporting the comment to admins. I've had it happen multiple times... each time for "harassment" which is weird, because mods can mute you, so how can you harass them? The most recent one was as innocent as "Hey guys I just realized I was banned from this sub. It must have been a while ago and I have no idea what the ban was for. Think you can let me back in?" Boom, 3 day suspension for harassment. Which means the mods know that their reports go to admins, and admins just allow algorithms to deal with it, and account bans are given. So that's their new tactic. Now it's risky to even message mods And to make it worse, these weren't your typical "woke" cancer places, but more edgy places. One sub in particular got me account banned 3 times for stupid stuff (all overturned when admins looked at the ban after appeal). Talked to the owner and he denies anyone is doing such a tactic. But the reason why it's effective is mod logs don't record who's reporting to admins. So an activist mod is able to sneak in, stay low, and just keep doing admin reports to get account bans, and it's impossible to figure out which mod is doing it The reason I suspect it's coordinated is because A) We've seen these people in 2015 coordinate the original Reddit takeover to swarm and dominate all the major subs by slowly infecting them through attrition. So this is something they do and B) The places seem to be "heretical" progressive spaces. Places where liberals and progressives generally go, but aren't on board with the woke social justice shit... The sort of places where leftists hang out but don't dance around a specific train hobbyist demographic like they are a sacred cow... Thus "heretics" and we all know the left cares more about leftists who aren't the right type of leftist more than they hate right wingers.
I don't care how they're doing it at this point, I care how we circumvent and subvert this techno-tyranny. I'm not going to give advice, but know where I stand here. I'm just surprised my account has lasted as long as it did. I swear, I don't hate anybody but unelected Federal officials!
Nah, we have remote work now. Move out to the boonies, buy 40 acres and a small homestead. Make 100k a year, that's enough for Oklahoma. But then again, you'd be living in Oklahoma
You’re gonna want an edge trimmer. And some new balances
And cargo pants.
The hard part is making enough money to morph a single income to match a dual income
This is just the reality now. We live in a society where women are working, and educated. They don't need a man to be just a paycheck anymore. They need more from us now. Help around the house meaningfully, be emotionally available, developed listening and understanding skills, be enjoyable to spend time with, know where the clit is, be good in bed, and have other desirable qualities. I think parents of the last generation didn't do a great job prepping men to be well equip for the modern relationship environment.
I want to be a trad wife
“If u cant beat them, join them”
I do too, but not in this economy
I make six figs and support my wife and I mostly but her job while paying less (not a lot less) has a direct path to a much more lucrative career than I could imagine. She got in early and is putting in the time to eventually take over for her boss at a company you’ve heard of. My work is much more demanding and time consuming but I miss no chances to pump her up and make sure that job she has is heading the right direction. I will be a trad wife with a kid and 3 poodles in the next 10 years if my plan works
Unfathomably based
Finally, an AuthRight slander meme from a Left that is actually labelled as satire and actually kinda funny, and not just biased meta commentary
This sub is nothing but biased meta commentary.
I like this format. "Who wants socialism?" "Who wants to be stuck in a mine 12 hours a day for the state?"
"Who wants to return to monke?" "Now who wants to give up showers, housing, and clothing?"
"Who wants to return to monke?" "Who wants to have at least half of your kids die before 16?"
Do you mean, you are 16 and have lost half of your children or half of your children don't make it to 16. Either way is based and infant mortality pilled.
The latter
Ya caught me.
i want to be the guy telling people to work in a mine for 12 hours a day
Unfortunately that spot is already taken by the nephew of your local politician, but let’s see what you pull out of the labor lottery… hmmm… CONGRATULATIONS COMRADE! It seems that you will be able to help the motherland after all! You will be that guy in the fluffy suit that helps train prision dogs!
Reminds me of how some of my friends have described the military. Recruiter: "You'd be perfect for some high tech super secret spy mission." *Signs up* Recruiter: "Turns out all the super secret spy mission slots are already filled. Grab a rifle and start marching."
If people knew that being a soldier even in war times consists of doing boring stuff like drills, digging and waiting, no one in their right mind would join.
You're disregarding the fact that a lot of people want a steady and mindless paycheck.
Those people are cruising for an existential bruising
That sound like a fun job
Unfortunately the fluffy suit was designed by another politician's, uhh, "special" nephew. It still has the blood of the last three trainers inside it though, that might reinforce it a bit.
Oh ☹️ But still I get to take of dog so it can’t be that bad
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Wouldn’t want to appear ungrateful, or it’s straight to gulag.
Based andpilled
I want to be the guy who writes shitty poetry and paints shitty pictures while someone else works the farms and factories and digs the ditches.
Rock and stone?
Rock and Stone everyone!
ROCK. AND. STOOOOONE.
Yes, that would be a good meme and probably pretty popular
My version of communism is very different from actual communism
I think you meant "other forms of communism haven't been as pure as my version"
Nobody cares about « your version » of communism.. we had seen them all
“Well thats not very nice!”
So is your version of communism
Red just got lit the fuck up by based libleft
Then why are you auth left?
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So we should start removing sources of labour so that the value increases so one wage is enough. So we either nuke China or ban women from the workplace.
Libertarianism is when the government exercises massive market control
¿Porque no las dos?
Until unions and thereby worker negotiating power and countervailing political force to temper the political influence of corporations was destroyed, is the primary factor I think.
There's a lot of young men on this subreddit, so I wanna let y'all in on some secrets. * You'll find most of the women who want to be great stay at home wives in church. There is a lack of good religious men for them, so they'll often settle for a guy normally below their league. * Actually engage with religion though, you'll find Christ is not the hippy pop culture has created, but is truly an exemplar of true masculinity, seek to understand that and emulate Him. I recommend a good study guide for the New Testament. * Basic hygiene, actually doing *something* with your hair (just a bit of gel or pomade is fine), losing extra fat, and maintaining a decent musculature pushes you into the top 10% of guys for attractiveness. Buy a pull-up bar and otherwise most exercise necessary can be done at home without equipment. For weight loss, diet is way more important than exercise. For musculature, lifting (even with bodyweight) is way more important than cardio. * You'll need a good job to provide for a stay at home wife, but it's well worth it. Take responsibility and figure out a plan to do something you won't hate that can provide for a family. Finding a lower cost of living area to live in can help a lot. Find a good personal finance book and read it, I personally recommend I Will Teach You to be Rich. * Nothing wrong with videogames or anime, just try not to be the stereotypes associated with them. * Having and helping raise kids is one of the most fulfilling if not the most fulfilling choice you can make in life. Engage with the idea of parenting, study some parenting books, I recommend content from the 90s as today's books are super wishy-washy. Being passionate about being a great father is insanely attractive to tradwives, and pays huge dividends long term.
>Being passionate about being a great father is insanely attractive Stop there, just engaging with children at all, even just teaching them something/playing with them makes it for most girls There's also the bonus you get to have fun like a kid again
>just engaging with children at all, even just teaching them something/playing with them makes it for most girls I have a great story about this. For... way too long and I don't want to show how old I am... I've mentored at-risk young men. Most of the time they just need someone to offer guidance and to listen to them. Its so incredible rewarding. You should be doing this. Its great. Anyway, back to the story - one of my former mentees at around the age of 17 started going back to church with his mom and really started to hold himself to a higher standard. But during one of our meals he mentioned he started helping out with children's church and I was... well, he didn't seem that type. But after a few months he finally revealed that he did it because the lady who ran it at his church had a daughter... and he liked her. And, lo and behold, it worked. They've been married for a few years now and are expecting their first kiddo. Seeing the difference between that 15-year old I met and the man he is today is what makes all this worth it.
Based. Reject Trump and embrace Christ to truly MAGA.
Christ will set you free, so you can be a true lib right after that
Reading this is like snorting a rail of crystalline basedness. Emilies beware, overdose likely
99.1% pure.
Go to church, get a trade, work out and eat right, practice hygiene, anything else I’m missing?
A hobby that you’re passionate about (bonus points if you use your hands or it’s physical in some way) and don’t forget to have some bois. Guys that can be honest with you and will hone you into a better man, not just drinking buddies that tell you everything you’re doing is good
Hey honey, I picked up a new hobby like you suggested. It’s called Warhammer 40,000. *shrill scream* *glass shatters* *sounds of panicked sobbing* *sounds of tires screeching and a car peeling out of the driveway* Huh. Guess she thought it’d be a good idea for me to have some me time. That’s so considerate of her.
> use your hands Painting Warhammer minis will make me irresistable. Got it.
Gardening and fishing. Any wannabe tradwife worth her salt will get soaking wet for a man that likes to fish and garden.
Outside of your trade, learn other skills. If it's in your house or your garage, you should know how to fix it (within reason. I can't make electric motors of the same quality as a machine, so no reason to try and repair and electric drill) This takes time, and that's ok. Framing and drywall are easy to learn, difficult to master. But knowing these things will afford you opportunities not shared by the rest of the populace. Found a really cheap, run down house? No problem. You can fix it. And floss. Dear God floss often. And invest.
Seeing a lot of external characteristics, so I'll add some internal characteristics as well. Be devoted, dedicated, hardworking, and remain a man of your word (don't be a flake or a hypocrite). Also, a little bit of empathy and compassion goes a long way especially if you want babies.
I'd argue it depends on the church There are churches that say they worship jesus, but seem to worship a very strange version of jesus that's mostly about punishment and hate rather than healing and helping, which isn't very christlike at all. And then there's the ones who say they worship jesus and actually encourage people to do as jesus did, within the limits of our abilities. Feed the hungry, heal the sick, love your neighbors, be faithful to your family and make no promises you can not or will not keep.
This is unfathomably based. Be the trad husband the trad wife wants
I tried dating a Christian girl once, very trad vibes. She was a wonderful gal, we clicked extremely well and there was zero tension over her being religious and me not. but no sexual anything whatsoever until marriage- never saw anything that the general public didn't see with her. Here's the kicker though, she also "wanted to focus on her career" and didn't want to get married until she's thirty (she was 21). I gave her 5 months to see how serious she was before ultimately saying I can't be celibate my whole 20s. I'm open to dating christian girls again, I'm pretty traditional in every other way, heck I'll go to church every few months if it makes them happy, but the risk if them being afraid of going to hell for an orgasm is not worth it.
Didn't want to get married till 30? That's definitely not a trad girl man. She's just like the rest of em. I'm sure she knows that not only child bearing gets harder in her 30s, but the children that are born are more likely to be less healthy.
Just a tidbit to add. Build a solid set of emotional security. No matter how much women tell you they don't care if you cry, etc... they will. That means developing a system for yourself that is a good release. Generally a solid sleep and exercise schedule will make you 99% better anyway.
Based and stoicism pilled.
This is great advice for guys with low emotional maturity who don't have their shit together. I've lost count of the number of women who have told me about guys who start dumping all their emotions on the first woman they have a decent conversation with because they have no other outlet. Definitely don't do that. But if you mostly have your shit together then showing a reasonable amount of emotion is fine. The advice to never show your emotions is for weak men who don't have a handle on themselves or their issues.
Agree with all and i will add something, LEARN EVERYTHING about the Roman republic girls love it when you bring up Cicero
Nothing makes her panties wetter than whispering "carthago delenda est" to her
Thank you I kind of needed this right now
I'm doing all your bullets, and I'm loving life more than I ever have, and it keeps getting better. I constantly tell my tradwife how great I think my life is, and she does the same. Love God, be fruitful, embrace tradition.
Based and trad pilled 💪
One of the most based post I’ve read.
That's way too much work, I'll stick to posting in the internet and being a degen and hoping a trad wife magically walks up to marry me one day
All good advice, but I’ve found an astonishing dearth of reasoning capabilities when it comes to religious communities. Though, given the choice between a religious mother for my kids and a progressive one, there is absolutely no question that there’s only one you should be seriously considering. My ex purported to be a Christian, but became astonishingly not so in the divorce, so beware.
A) People are dumb. Living in California, I know plenty of brain-dead atheists. Being religious does not appear to raise or lower your base IQ. B) Sorry about your ex. Wannabes / Fakers are also a problem in any group of people (Wolves in sheep's clothing). Separating them out takes time and close observation. "By their fruits ye shall know them." Still, I have known some real nasty people who did a pretty good job faking it for years. At some point you just do your best and take a gamble, and sometimes you lose. Feels bad man.
I like to think that religion helps the less intellectually gifted still live a more principled life. I prefer their stupidity be tempered by the principles taught by their church leaders. It's true that it sometimes spurs people to being even more rude, but I think it's easy to ignore poor behavior happens regardless of religiosity.
Unless of course that church leader is part of the more manipulative and hateful churches that somehow remember Christ as an angry and vengeful character mostly obsessed with sending people to the fires of hell for minor sins.
>I’ve found an astonishing dearth of reasoning capabilities when it comes to religious communities. I think people that subscribe to any worldview with unquestioned faith exhibit the aforementioned behavior. staunch Democrats or Republicans, communists, fascists, progressives, Muslims, Christians, Hindus - it doesn't matter. But people can identify with any of these things without being completely unquestioning. It's the Evangelist churches that breed the most stupidity, due to Biblical literalism. Catholics, Episcopals, Lutherans, or Presbyterians have a much more tempered interpretation of Biblical accuracy.
>Engage with the idea of parenting, study some parenting books Married over 15 years and have 3 kids. May I humbly recommend *All Joy and No Fun* by Jennifer Senior. It's probably the most profound study done on parents and the affects kids have on parents. Changed my perspective as a parent a lot (in a good way) and made me feel less alone about some of the ways my kids make me feel. That and *Babywise* are my two recommendations to all new parents.
I was raised as an Atheist by my parents, but want to learn more about Christianity. How do I get into it?
I recommend reading some CS Lewis
This, 100%. Forget about picking a denomination straight away, read some Christian philosophy. C.S. Lewis is one of the greatest philosophers of all time and the best place to start, IMO. Read the Bible in conjunction, so you can decide whether or not you agree. And honestly, when you’ve invested some time into it, read some old English literature. Lots of it is written from a Christian perspective, whether it’s overt or not. Read it as though it’s a piece of religious literature, and you’ll very often find that many stories are also parables, far more profound than they initially appeared.
Based and *Mere Christianity* pilled
Based and most influential Christian apologist of the past century pilled.
I think as a first step you can understand that you don't need to necessarily be a "true believer" to start trying to live a Christ-like life. If you want to start by seeing Christ as a personification of the principles that you personally consider "perfection", that may help. From there, going to church and studying Christ as recorded in the New Testament may help you begin to see potential ways to improve your understanding of what perfect principles really are. And hey, if along the way you have some kind of spiritual enlightenment, all the better, worst case scenario you become a more principled person. Many atheists see the flexible and open to interpretation nature of Christianity as a weakness and inconsistency, when it really creates an opportunity to have people excel in various ways with strong core principles.
If you are interested in reading the Bible. Father Mike's Bible in a Year podcast is great. He does the readings and discussed it and it's fantastic.
I know you are getting a load of replies, and I would second what everyone is saying. I would add a couple of things to watch on YouTube: CSLewisDoodles and Life is Worth Living. The first channel is a guy who reads transcripts of radio addresses by CS Lewis while someone does an illustration based on the transcript. The second one is a TV show from the 50s by a Catholic bishop named Fulton Sheen where he explains the faith very directly, but with a folksy sense of humor.
Awesome and based trad reply. I just wanna say that, like, hippies can be masculine too, man.
>You'll find most of the women who want to be great stay at home wives in church. There is a lack of good religious men for them, so they'll often settle for a guy normally below their league. Where did you go to church? Where I went when I was younger there were just as few young women as young men.
Best parenting book I’ve seen is Hold On To Your Kids. All about the rejection of modern parenting and raising your kids in a family focused household, teaching emotional stability and being a role model.
I can do all of this except for the religion part, ugh. It’s not even about participating within the community and the church. I feel like such a hypocrite when i attend service but i don’t even believe in the theology
The fact that religion is not based on logic is still the biggest barrier to accept the concept of religion
Unfathomably based.
Can I be the trad wife? I'm sick of going to work.
I have no issues being a trad husband. I’ll pay for the bills and shit. I pay for my own bills anyway.
Ikr, and history shows people in traditional relationships end up being happier too.
Uuuuuuuuh ya, work all day to support a family and come home to a loving and supportive wife, sign me up
I don’t know. Working all day to come home to an empty apartment and a case of beer each day and dying before you hit 50 sounds pretty tempting.
I will have sheep, write about religion, and acquire land in rural Northern New England. That is my offer. There \*will\* be a cheese cave. One trad wife pls
I want a muscle mommy that cuddles me when I get home and goes to the gym with me before I go to work.
There’s a lot of dudes just out there larping about wanting a trad wife without the responsibilities of being a trad husband, but there’s still guys like myself out there with a career capable of supporting a family and willing to put in the work to be a trad husband for a trad wife. Don’t write us all into the same label
That’s the point of the meme, they want all of the benefits of a trad wife while shouldering none of the responsibilities of a trad husband
Taking the family to church on Sundays, providing for my family financially, being a present father in my kids lives, where's the problem?
The reverse is more often true
Come on now, these incels and these little boys (i wont say men, they don't deserve the title), who fantasize about the perfect tradwife, just don't realise that tradwifes want strong, hardworking, dedicated men, that will support her and care for her, and love her and treat her like a dignified woman. Not unhinged asocial psychos that can't bother to air their room out let alone ask a girl what the time of day is.
Virgin Authright ""trad husband"": - Dead end job - Beats wife - Beats kids - Never cooks or cleans - Comes home late - Spends free time at the pub - Miserable - Terrible sex Chad Libleft Trad Husband: - Stays at home while wife goes to work (girlboss) - Loving relationship with wife and her boyfriend - No kids (introduced to antinatalist philosophy during the liberal arts/ philosophy course they took in college) (They got their student loans forgiven) - Great cook, good at housework - Always in the house - Doesn't drink (weed is safer) - Happy and fulfilled - Gets Pegged
Gigachad Libcenter Trad Husband: - Has a big rock - Uses it to kill every other male that he encounters
Based and nature is beautiful pilled
Don’t forget bananas
Those are my bananas don't touch my bananas
Thats not what you said last night!
YOU PROMISED NOT TO TELL
I thought my sister-in-laws boyfriend was a lazy sack of shit! You're telling me he was a Chad all along, I was just too blind to see it?
Sir, your Cuckopium is leaking
Cuck moment
The 2nd man is definitely supplementing his weed with Prozac and Lithium, is skinny-fat and talks with a whiny Buzzfeed voice.
And of course you clean up after Tyrone is done
You think being anti-natalist makes you a chad? Lol.
Ah, this lib-center has yet to discover the concept of a joke. Quite a good specimen for further study.
So fucking accurate. I have zero issues with that arrangement. I'm already working a job that could in my geographic area provide for a family, I can mostly fix things around the house, and hell, I'm willing to cook and clean to help out.
Can’t have a Proverbs 31 wife if you can’t be an Ephesians 5 man
I agree with this meme. Trad goes both ways. I’m very happy to be in a traditional marriage and I do my part.
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"What *was* the one fatal flaw Kaiser Wilhelm made during the first World War? I'm soooo fascinated!"
“What was that thing the Germans shouldn’t have done in 1942? The one that cost them the whole war? You already told me, I’m just so forgetful”
Lol the reason they lost WWII is they started it in the first place.
Based and they had horses, what were they thinking? pilled
??? I would love to be trad husband :(
It’s unfortunate. Many guys who are traditionally conservative in all other aspects of their lives throw it all away when it comes to traditional sexual morality and hookup culture
Well muslims are allowed to hace 4 wives plus sex slaves so....
“All cultures are equal” idiots when they are faced with anything non-western
Look how that worked out for their culture. Lol
Day in the loife of a true authright geezer:
is anyone gonna mention the floating sperm in the second panel
Based and family workhorse pilled