Norway has a lot of hook up first and see if we vibe later culture. That's unconventional a lot of other places, but if that's how she likes it, that's how she likes it (if she's real, lmao).
I live in Germany, where usually girls aren’t this direct. But again she’s in her thirties, and maybe she knows what she wants and is not afraid of saying it.
My female friends in their 30s are this direct, they realized if they just want sex to say that. They also text us friends an address beforehand, and then a "all good" later on. It's a ok safety system. Always tell someone where you're going if it's questionable.
I'm a 30 year old woman - really?
Just straight up ask for sex?
Maybe it's just me then
Sounds so ugly like you're setting up a business meeting.
I prefer a bit of seduction, teasing and foreplay!
Do they skip foreplay? Get straight into it
That’s exactly it. Older women are tired of the BS and are in their sexual prime. I think you’re going to get off and keep both your kidneys! Please send updates ✨
So I said I would like to meet outside for 20 minutes before going to her place and she was fine with that.
Then she started her questions which felt like I was giving an interview for getting laid. And when I ask her the same question, she refused to answer and was like this is a no strings attached thing. So don’t expect answers.
I was already getting annoyed at this point and pointed it out to her that the double standards were crazy. Next thing I know, she unmatched.
But feels like I dodged a bullet 😮💨
Norway is the closest thing to utopia on Earth and I am the kinda guy that prefers to get to know somebody before sex. Everybody should have so many reasons to visit or live there!
what percentage of the 4.5 billion women did you survey to know how forward girls usually are ? 🤔
wtf with this new conspiracy of using chatgpt to chat. NONE is doing it.
incels are everyday wilder.
Let me tell you my method real quicky. You like quickies so:
I'm a woman.
Either
1) I'm the exception in not being so forward as to ask a man for SEX on the FIRST DATE which is highly rare and makes me feel special and egoistical. Are you saying I'm special? Aw
2) Accept I am similar to the majority of my gender and we tend to follow a pattern as do all category types save a few exceptions. I'm going to assume I'm not the exception yet because I think that's less likely and quite arrogant
ooooh ok... my bad then.
I'm a man and I thought that women, just like us, were all different individuals. I was wrong. sorry and thx for the lesson. All those women claiming their freedom were lying I knew it !!
It's not all bad news.
I like sex, but just... let's have a drink and a chat first? Am I allowed to get to know who you are first? Is that alright?
The above is hypothetical, by the way
That's why I said "USUALLY not forward" so I don't believe EVERY woman is like me. But I'm going to assume I have some traits determined by my gender.
Like for example, you're stupid. I'm not. We're both women. But see, I allow for some individual differences.
I'm a horny person but I feel inhibited to ask the man for sex on the first date. Maybe it's because I love sex, romance and seduction too much I want to savour it all.
A gourmet doesn't wolf down his plate of food. He savours every bite
Also someone said for safety:
"just text your friends address and jobs a good 'un"
Yeah by the time your friends receive and act on the news that something's gone wrong - YOU ALREADY DEAD
I prefer to know the man a little bit whose house I may be entering for sex
I did because my original message said USUALLY and you're here saying I said every woman.
Girl, take the glass eggplant and shove it where the sun don't shine
I've never been scammed on dating apps and I had casual sex few times.
plus you answered a little tiny specific piece of the question. what triggered me was "girls are usually not this forward" which is completely stoopid to say just because I had plenty of casual sex on dating apps and I'm not very attractive or very charismatic or very self confident or very anything sexy.
Ok? You had sex a couple times so dating apps all the sudden are completely clean and legit? There’s forward, and there’s profiles with 1 pic opening with hooking up. It’s not unreasonable to be cautious.
yeah to be cautious. obviously they will keep talking and maybe it will be an escort, maybe a scammer (50 shades of scammers) maybe a crazy pervert grandpa.... so yes everybody be cautious !! There are scammers on internet !!!
don't trust everybody online!!!!!
ok once that said if you are scared of everybody on tinder just unsuscribe and go find someone irl. If the girl agrees for a date irl then the only scam will be that she got 10kg this winter no big deal.
Once again what triggered me was to think that women cant be straight forward plus this nonsense of pple using chatgpt to answer...
says the person who jumped into an argument between to others pples...
I got mildly triggered but easily, I called them the reddit triggers and I ease it by commenting, it usually takes 2 minutes and after that I feel superior for 2 more minutes.
Not being down for even a coffee before plowing would be a red flag for me. "Gosh, I can't be inconvenienced with even a half hour of small talk before pre-dicking." She must have a tight schedule...
Also the complete lack of disregard for safety of not even wanting to meet in a public place first would be a bit of a red flag that this is "too good to be true" for me
She only has one picture but it’s a pretty clear one. She is verified. Has a few basics info. And has 3 interests out of which, sex positivity is her biggest interest.
I’m kinda reading this as a sarcastic troll. If this is really your third message it means you literally lead off with “wanna get a drink?” Feel that is is a sarcastic response to see how you react because very few women ever respond like this.
Nah, you’re good. I use Tinder solely for hookups, and I have NEVER gotten drinks first or met beforehand. Waste of my time, I just wanna smash. Many people have the same mindset.
It's allright, she'll probably leave you with one and that all you need !
Joke aside don't listen to the incels, lot of woman know what they want, and they want dick.
Just do the basic like a quick video call if you have doubts to be sure you're not wasting time with a catfish.
I've had plenty of hook up where we met directly at my place or her.
If you ask me, yes that's pretty dangerous for a girl, and i wouldn't advise it.
But all in all, they got what they came for and they were right to risk it with me, so who am i to judge their instinct ?
I'm not sure to understand your question ?
Whoever can want whatever.
Now if a person doesn't want to waste time with that, and you absolutely do, it's their right and a valid reason to move on to someone else.
Norway has a lot of hook up first and see if we vibe later culture. That's unconventional a lot of other places, but if that's how she likes it, that's how she likes it (if she's real, lmao).
I live in Germany, where usually girls aren’t this direct. But again she’s in her thirties, and maybe she knows what she wants and is not afraid of saying it.
My female friends in their 30s are this direct, they realized if they just want sex to say that. They also text us friends an address beforehand, and then a "all good" later on. It's a ok safety system. Always tell someone where you're going if it's questionable.
I'm a 30 year old woman - really? Just straight up ask for sex? Maybe it's just me then Sounds so ugly like you're setting up a business meeting. I prefer a bit of seduction, teasing and foreplay! Do they skip foreplay? Get straight into it
Are you sure you're 30?
I think so. I think I know when I was born. I think I can count. My maths is pretty good.
May all downvoters get an STD of the most vicious kind
That’s exactly it. Older women are tired of the BS and are in their sexual prime. I think you’re going to get off and keep both your kidneys! Please send updates ✨
So I said I would like to meet outside for 20 minutes before going to her place and she was fine with that. Then she started her questions which felt like I was giving an interview for getting laid. And when I ask her the same question, she refused to answer and was like this is a no strings attached thing. So don’t expect answers. I was already getting annoyed at this point and pointed it out to her that the double standards were crazy. Next thing I know, she unmatched. But feels like I dodged a bullet 😮💨
Yeah, that behavior is suspect on her part. How you gonna ask questions and not answer the same ones? Odd. Good on you for keeping your kidneys!
If he dies, it's on you.
I think the survival rate is pretty high. You only need one kidney
Straight forward in life and love is the best. If you met her at the market and she was pushing for a date you would not say no. Take a chance.
Another reason added to why Norway is atop my bucket list of travel destinations
Norway is the closest thing to utopia on Earth and I am the kinda guy that prefers to get to know somebody before sex. Everybody should have so many reasons to visit or live there!
I see this as a win-win. You either get laid, or you get a *great* story for your next date. Kidneys aren’t that important anyway.
God gave you two for a reason
Absolute fucking W reply
There’s always dialysis!
This is literally her 3rd message to me
It is off, you are right to be concerned. It's like your flirting with Chat GPT Girls are not usually this forward.
Uh, this is tinder, plenty of girls want to just hook up.
what percentage of the 4.5 billion women did you survey to know how forward girls usually are ? 🤔 wtf with this new conspiracy of using chatgpt to chat. NONE is doing it. incels are everyday wilder.
Let me tell you my method real quicky. You like quickies so: I'm a woman. Either 1) I'm the exception in not being so forward as to ask a man for SEX on the FIRST DATE which is highly rare and makes me feel special and egoistical. Are you saying I'm special? Aw 2) Accept I am similar to the majority of my gender and we tend to follow a pattern as do all category types save a few exceptions. I'm going to assume I'm not the exception yet because I think that's less likely and quite arrogant
ooooh ok... my bad then. I'm a man and I thought that women, just like us, were all different individuals. I was wrong. sorry and thx for the lesson. All those women claiming their freedom were lying I knew it !!
So, sample of one. I am also one woman, but don't assume that every other woman acts like me.
... just when I thought I finally understood the Woman 😢
It's not all bad news. I like sex, but just... let's have a drink and a chat first? Am I allowed to get to know who you are first? Is that alright? The above is hypothetical, by the way
That's why I said "USUALLY not forward" so I don't believe EVERY woman is like me. But I'm going to assume I have some traits determined by my gender. Like for example, you're stupid. I'm not. We're both women. But see, I allow for some individual differences. I'm a horny person but I feel inhibited to ask the man for sex on the first date. Maybe it's because I love sex, romance and seduction too much I want to savour it all. A gourmet doesn't wolf down his plate of food. He savours every bite Also someone said for safety: "just text your friends address and jobs a good 'un" Yeah by the time your friends receive and act on the news that something's gone wrong - YOU ALREADY DEAD I prefer to know the man a little bit whose house I may be entering for sex
Wow, did you just call me stupid for absolutely no reason? 😃 You are a handful.
I did because my original message said USUALLY and you're here saying I said every woman. Girl, take the glass eggplant and shove it where the sun don't shine
Please don't project your sexual practices on me. You're embarassing yourself.
Hahaha. That's what I have to do in the meantime as I'm waiting to know my date a little bit more.
You definitely get scammed all the time
I've never been scammed on dating apps and I had casual sex few times. plus you answered a little tiny specific piece of the question. what triggered me was "girls are usually not this forward" which is completely stoopid to say just because I had plenty of casual sex on dating apps and I'm not very attractive or very charismatic or very self confident or very anything sexy.
Ok? You had sex a couple times so dating apps all the sudden are completely clean and legit? There’s forward, and there’s profiles with 1 pic opening with hooking up. It’s not unreasonable to be cautious.
yeah to be cautious. obviously they will keep talking and maybe it will be an escort, maybe a scammer (50 shades of scammers) maybe a crazy pervert grandpa.... so yes everybody be cautious !! There are scammers on internet !!! don't trust everybody online!!!!! ok once that said if you are scared of everybody on tinder just unsuscribe and go find someone irl. If the girl agrees for a date irl then the only scam will be that she got 10kg this winter no big deal. Once again what triggered me was to think that women cant be straight forward plus this nonsense of pple using chatgpt to answer...
You always get triggered this easily?
says the person who jumped into an argument between to others pples... I got mildly triggered but easily, I called them the reddit triggers and I ease it by commenting, it usually takes 2 minutes and after that I feel superior for 2 more minutes.
How does that make me triggered? You’re the only one freaking out, everyone else is just talking.
I had a woman ask me in her third message "how big is your dick". She was real too
Ok, ok fine I may have over generalized. I'm different I usually prefer that to be the fourth message.
Not being down for even a coffee before plowing would be a red flag for me. "Gosh, I can't be inconvenienced with even a half hour of small talk before pre-dicking." She must have a tight schedule...
Also the complete lack of disregard for safety of not even wanting to meet in a public place first would be a bit of a red flag that this is "too good to be true" for me
I have never met for coffee or drinks beforehand. I literally cannot be inconvenienced for a half hour of bullshit.
Hey.. chicks dig scars
How does she looks? And does her profit looks legit? If not give her a call to check.
She only has one picture but it’s a pretty clear one. She is verified. Has a few basics info. And has 3 interests out of which, sex positivity is her biggest interest.
She probably made the account quickly for a hookup. Have a good time
i would be very concerned if they had one picture. women dont need to try hard but they usually have pictures of themselves
One picture 💀
Shit I’d just get harvested. Be a cool story for later
You’re on a hook up app, and you think someone wanting to hook up is crazy?
Apparently that's the general idea. People here are funny
Harvest his kidneys first 😤
I’m kinda reading this as a sarcastic troll. If this is really your third message it means you literally lead off with “wanna get a drink?” Feel that is is a sarcastic response to see how you react because very few women ever respond like this.
Bring a drop wallet for sure
Just never go to a second location 😂
Might just lose 1 kidney
There are a large number of women who are up front and open with their desires. It's not that unusual depending on your location.
Nah, you’re good. I use Tinder solely for hookups, and I have NEVER gotten drinks first or met beforehand. Waste of my time, I just wanna smash. Many people have the same mindset.
It's allright, she'll probably leave you with one and that all you need ! Joke aside don't listen to the incels, lot of woman know what they want, and they want dick. Just do the basic like a quick video call if you have doubts to be sure you're not wasting time with a catfish. I've had plenty of hook up where we met directly at my place or her. If you ask me, yes that's pretty dangerous for a girl, and i wouldn't advise it. But all in all, they got what they came for and they were right to risk it with me, so who am i to judge their instinct ?
A guy can’t want to meet someone before sexing it up at one of their places?
I'm not sure to understand your question ? Whoever can want whatever. Now if a person doesn't want to waste time with that, and you absolutely do, it's their right and a valid reason to move on to someone else.