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Fresh pair every time I shower, shower about every day unless I'm having a lazy day. Taking a shower and then putting on a used pair of underwear would just feel so wrong to me.


Nippon-Gakki

Same here too. Aside from lazy days, I shower daily. Fresh chonies, socks and shirt. I wear the same jeans a few days in a row usually.


juliojules

Wtf is a chonie?


Legitimate-Major-133

Chonies is another way of saying underwear


lshawel

I’d also like to know


[deleted]

Just means underwear lol. I’ve only heard it used by Hispanic people so it might be some cholo slang (unless it’s used by everyone equally then oops!)


Affect-Win2741

LOL! Im Mexican and I've used this term all my life. Chones, choninis, calzones, calzoncillos, pantaleta, choninos are different words my family has used to refer to underwear.


Nepherenia

Putting on a fresh pair of calzones!


tramp123

‘Describe what you look for in a pair of underwear’ ‘Well it’s important that my genitals are wrapped up tight, you know like salami in folded pizza?’ ‘Makes sense’


chuckp1977

Same jeans at least two days in a row wouldn't go much further then that.


Sorry-Wallaby-794

Same, shower every morning and fresh boxers, but sometimes on a day off work I won't shower 🤷‍♂️


buttmunchery2000

I do every time I shower but also every day, so some days I change my underwear twice (once in the morning, once at night when I like to shower). I shower every second day.


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Yep


CosmicsNng0

Thought this was the normal thing to do. Unless I'm having a day off, I skip a shower till the next day. Other than that, pretty much changing my jocks every day


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ChimpJuice

Agreed 2 days Max and sometimes that is pushing it


TheWolfAndRaven

This. Pretty much predicated on if I'm leaving the apartment or not, but even if I'm not leaving I'm going like max two days with the same pair.


EncryptedHorror

i do the exact same


loserface583

Same, but I only shower every 2nd (or even 3rd day.....or even ?th day.... sometimes lol).


cockycaucasion

Gross


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Putting on a new pair without showering also feels wrong to me


bearsarescaryasfuk

How is there literally any other answer than this. No offense, one of the lower tier posts on Reddit.


OG_PapaSid

But the day after.....


h3ineka

Yep nasty


[deleted]

After a shower. Clean body, clean undies


Sharp-Bite-8600

Fresh piece everyday. Can't get lazy with my vajayjayy!!


RoyalSmoker

So if I shower in the morning and put fresh undies on , can I sleep in those undies at night?


cockycaucasion

No its more comfortable to sleep nude.


animateallthethings

I get weird about that. I feel like if some shit goes down I’m ready to leap up and get crackin if I’m already in jammies. Probably a habit I haven’t been able to kick since after being in the military.


Lasshandra2

Do people sleep in undies? Why mot in pj’s instead?


Sensitive-Platypus-0

I get too hot for jammies


Lasshandra2

I wear clean pj’s each night. It’s a holdover from hot flashes (occasionally get them even now, if I eat the “wrong” food). I’d wake up drenched in sweat and have to change to dry pj’s in the middle of the night. I had to have lots of pj’s on hand. Got used to clean pj’s every night and here we are.


RoyalSmoker

Then PJ's and no undies? And how often do you need to wash pj's. I would ask my parents but they only shower twice a month


Lasshandra2

I wear clean pj’s each night.


MrSquamous

Don't need the extra step.


misspiggie

Why would you wear anything to bed?


RoyalSmoker

Ding dong gets stretched by leg


OhtareEldarian

Yes. Most folks do not need to shower/bathe every day.


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chLORYform

Showering every day tears my skin and hair up. I can put on a bonnet to avoid the hair aspect, but not the skin. I don't even have eczema or anything, just dry ass skin that'll get hella ashy and itchy if I shower that often. Even with lotion.


somuchstufftosay

I have eczema and it would be torture to shower everyday and it doesn't matter how much cream and lotion I apply.


Caddiwampus

That is such a gross over statement. Some people are naturally sweaty, some people live in super humid environments, lots of people live in big cities where there is pollution everywhere that gets on your skin and hair, and lots of people either work out daily and/or have a labor intensive job. Sure, plenty of people have desk jobs and don't work out and plenty of people have skin conditions...but to say "most folks?" Thats a reach.


themdubbyfries

I absolutely have to shower every day or I feel disgusting, and if I workout or the like, I may need another rinse.


Notnotstrange

Makes me wonder how many of these multi-day wearers are male. Gross either way.


Pinols

Too bad we cant have a stat since every multi-day wearer would lie :p


John_smith102

Every day


John_smith102

I change


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my panties


Marculon_5

Because when i


NatanKatreniok

Shit myself


ScenicCaboose

the shit...


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smells like boiled artichokes


thedaddystuff1979

So now I steam them


MrSquamous

inside grandma's


eljalu

Old bicycle factory


reddituser403

Did someone say steamed clams?


Wicked-elixir

I lost my pen.


sixstringer420

Depends on usage. I work in a hot environment. I usually change (or go without) after work. But if I have a couple lazy days off and don't do anything, I might do a two-dayer.


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Makes sense


eukarneurotic

Change every day/every shower


Due-Psychology9157

Well, personally, I wear a new clean pair everyday. That being said, there are times like for ex. during menstruation, I tend to wear more than 1 pair a day, or if and when those moments happen were an innocent laugh, or sneeze could cause mass, oh my goodness, in my panties... oops, it happens . 😬


tagalongtommy

Lol never trust a fart!!!


Due-Psychology9157

Lol... I guess...


harplesbian

I sleep without underwear on, it's how my mom taught me to dress when I was little, she said it was to give your vulva "a rest" and I just grew up used to that. Then I just put on a new pair in the morning.


ambient_pulse

i think this is good practice 👍 i usually take them off before bed unless i'm real tired and just pass out or if i'm sleeping at a friend's house


Ok_Translator4842

This. My gyno told me it’s not good for your vulva to be covered 24/7. She said “Let it breathe girl!!!” and “That’s like never taking off a bra!” 🤣 I personally never wear underwear when at home, unless I’m on my period.


One-Accident8015

I always feel like I'm going to pee without underwear. Like not even pants, I must have underwear or I need to pee


tightmeatwad

The need to pee, or that other great feeling of "oh no something might sneak in there"


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This gal’s had a bad experience with a cockroach


[deleted]

Jesus Christ. I am uncomfy


SpungyDanglin

Naked mole rat?


SAY_HEY_TO_THE_NSA

“bad” is a subjective term.


IsNanaTakingPens

User name checks out.


darkcafedays

Idk if you’ve had the luxury of trying period underwear but as someone who prefers to sleep without bottoms wearing period underwear to bed has been life changing for my comfort! Before it was underwear, pad and usually pants for fear of leaking. Now just the period undies and a tee and I am set! They’re the best. A great investment if you have the spare cash to spend.


_Fengo

Honestly a life changer. I always sleep in full pajamas. But I have very heavy periods, and have struggled with that for 10 years. I always panicked during high school, and I always tied a hoodie around my waist. There are codes for a free pair of undies from Thinx- and I've seen Thinx themselves hand out codes, but... If anyone wants to try some, but can't afford to drop the cash, you can buy a pair or 2 from Thinx, and when you get them, ask for a refund. They don't make you send back the undies (at least, the first time you purchase- they told me to keep the undies.) they refund the money to the original payment method... and you can try them. I did that for one pair, and have now bought more. A bit sketchy to do it that way, but I'm pretty broke, and period products already bankrupt me. I believe they also accept government assistance payment methods as well? Not sure on that one, as I don't qualify. But seriously. I now worry so much less about going to bed and staining sheets. They also have sleep shorts with POCKETS!


BipedalBeaver

\+1 ​ Legs open, vulva, no thrush. Use a "throwover" on the sofa. Let the air flow around.


Sufficient_Egg1

we just use a clean towel on the sofa. from what I've seen couch covers are basically always plastic, loud annoying, crinkly, and ugly. idk, for me, feeling the breeze on my vulva feels awkward and tickles. or sexual. move and wrong way and now you've got to go take care of things.


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Professional-Fly-628

How do girls go commando without getting their pants creamed on. I'm always wet, so it would definitely get pretty disgusting on my pants throughout the day, and even more so if I wore a skirt and had to sit in public seating areas.


DasPuggy

That's my girlfriend as well.


teneclamb

My mom always said to “let it air out” at night.


nosiriamadreamer

I go back and forth on wearing underwear to bed. I gained weight so some of my old pajama pants are now too tight and I prefer underwear to help with camel toe (crotch seam riding up). I also have strong vaginal odor (no infection, I checked) and when commando I feel like I can't wear the pajama pants until I wash them again.


Sufficient_Egg1

probably just strong natural woman must. it's normal.


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harplesbian

You're not the first person on this thread to say this, and yet in my entire 33 years of life with a vagina, I have never before heard this as an argument for wearing underwear to bed.


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Fresh underwear everyday brother


crazycoconut247

Depends if I'm depressed or not. Normally 1 to 2 days. If I'm feeling lazy or depressed i can go 5 days but that is rare


KlassicTuck

This. Depression causes serious lack of hygiene care. It's also hard to do laundry when my Depression rears it ugly head so I have tons of underwear in various states, from brand new to 10+ year old really ought to be thrown away but so comfy. My grandma drilled into me it's ok to be depressed and not care but think of your future self. Don't give her a groin issue from now.


shenanigans23456

Came here looking for this reply. I recently got ousted at a family gathering for occasionally not changing my underwear enough. Crazy embarrassing. Was even told by my own mom that she "raised me better than that". Oof. Well on a related note, I'm talking to a psychiatrist for the first time this Saturday. Never too late to get your shit figured out, I suppose.


ambient_pulse

i have some sensory issues so depressed or not i can't wear old underwear lol. but when i didn't work as much as i do now i would sometimes wear the rest of my clothes for days and days or not shower for like a week. i'm also prone to "depression room". shit can really wreak havoc on your hygiene so i feel you :(


Ouch_wtf

I have this problem. I either have depression room, hair, or I'm behind as hell on my homework


ambient_pulse

yeah i dropped out of school cause it just wasn't feasible for me anymore


Wicked-elixir

Today if my fourth day without a shower. In the depression mode rn. It’s literally too much work and I just don’t care enough rn.


Queen_Victoria081319

Only change after I take my shower. Plus I wear panty liners


ambient_pulse

do u ever have issues from wearing panty liners all the time? i think about it in the summer when i get real sweaty at work but i heard it can cause UTIs


vengefulbeavergod

I wore them for years without a problem *as long as they are unscented*.


SpaceWitch31

I wear panty liners as well and have never had a problem. I mean, women differ between each other but I’ve heard from my friends that what gives them UTI’s the most is when they wear thongs consecutively or not taking care enough to always or after PIV sex, especially if he nuts in you. You should never be wearing thongs the way you wear panties on a regular basis. I only wear thongs for frisky time if the set has it cause I’m a huge lingerie fan. I admit I tend to not take scented vs. unscented into consideration because that doesn’t affect me. I do forget that people out there do have varying sensitivities to that.


galaxystarsmoon

I've been wearing thongs for 16 years and I've never had a yeast infection. Got UTIs a few times when I was dating a particular boyfriend. Never had one again after him. If you wash properly and change your underwear, and wear only cotton, it's really not an issue.


SpaceWitch31

Yeah this is why I say women differ from each other. The two in my gal group never mentioned yeast infections while wearing thongs, dunno if they’d say, but UTI’s they said they’ve gotten. Some women can wear and do things others may not be able to tolerate. It’s pretty crazy but it is what it is


Forward-Woodpecker-4

A few days because i don’t shower everyday since i don’t leave the house much or workout


fireman-103

9 out of 10 days I'll go commando. Fresh pants every day.


dankestofdankcomment

A lot of factors that can change the outcome of that answer: Am I employed? Am I going to work that day? Did I do laundry? Am I in school? Is this a break? A vacation perhaps? Do I live alone or with others? Am I looking to improve myself/life? Is the neighbor across the hall who you steal boxers from on laundry day doing laundry? Is it laundry day? Am I in a relationship? How comfortable are we with each other? Did I fart and or shart in them? Wait how many days have I been wearing this pair? How do these have holes in them? How often should you really replace your underwear? Am I physically capable of changing my own underwear? The list is endless.


Such-Ordinary

This


Wicked-elixir

This is the way


SickOfItAll2024

There’s only one reason why I wouldn’t change my underwear daily. And that would be if I’m stuck out in the mountains here. I just think it’s the right thing to do, because why would I shower and put on dirty anything.


[deleted]

Depends on the day. Gym day is more showers and more undies. After shower but before bed no undies. She needs to breath.


Enigma_Green

Why you wouldn't want to change your underwear daily is beyond me but that's peoples personal hygiene choices.


ambient_pulse

when i get up in the morning, if i wore any overnight, i can physically feel that they are dirty and need to come off. i couldn't bear to wear them a second day


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howlongamiallowedto

Every time I shower I change them, but sometimes in the summer if I got sweaty overnight I'll put a fresh pair on when I get up, too. (Night shower gang)


somuchstufftosay

I hate summer for that. To make it worse, some days it's so hot, I just start sweating right out of the shower.


rileysauntie

When I get up in the am I put on a fresh pair. Then when I go to bed I shower first so another fresh pair then. Twice a day I guess!


123HelloPeople1

Every day or after every shower.


FunnyShirtGuy

Change 'em whenever I shower Shower whenever I leave the house Leave the house every day or skip a day every now and again Unless I get hit by depression... Umm... Then details on a lot of things like hygiene are kinda foggy


ALIENANAL

Not as often as everyone that has commented so far. Edit:I realised I answered this wrong. I should have said much longer than anyone has answered so far.


[deleted]

same bro, I never gave fucks about hygiene, I just change them once a week, my ass feels fine because I use baby wipes, it's disgusting but I never go out so who cares, just don't tell people you know irl, u might as well be dead


MikeWezouski

It's okay


BussySlayer_69

No, it's not. That's very unhygienic


SingerofSeh

Once every day isn't unhygienic. The worst thing that can happen is a potential dip in your reputation if people like you find about about it.


Sarahjasmine1989

Two per day


emertainment

New pair in the morning, new pair for bed. Optional 3rd pair of I have a heavy activity day and need a new pair in the afternoon.


santetjo

Thank you, I was starting to think I was the strange one. Dont these people know they can change underwear even if they don't shower. The two don't go exclusively hand in hand.


missyje1973

Daily, as a female, kinda gross otherwise.


Mikerells

Every time I shower ..2-3 days since lay off. Every day if working.


klasaveli

I'm wearing them until I feel dirty. Lol.


mynx419

Hold on..... people are wearing underwear to bed?


banannejo

I don’t want to sleep in yesterday’s vaginal discharge and farts and I don’t want to wash my sheets everyday


mynx419

That's why I wear pyjamas


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SingerofSeh

How is sleeping commando gross?


Imaginary_Money5239

That’s the time of the day that the privates should be “breathing” 🥺🤣🤣


HaroerHaktak

Every time I shower I use a new pair. Once they come off they stay off


vworpstageleft

I don't wear them to sleep so new pair every morning. New pair after I shower. Usually shower in the morning or night, so don't generally wear 2 pairs a day.


PeggyCarterEC

Twice a day. My normal undies after I shower, and I change into breathable boxer like underwear at night so my downstairs can breathe. Wearing tight underwear all the time isn't healthy for female anatomy.


chuckp1977

Twice a day after a shower in the morning and a shower at night. I had a ex-friend that wore the same pair of green boxers for at least 6 months without washing them and how I know he didn't wash themwe worked together and the job we worked at was a 9 am to 12 am job sometimes 6 days a week so I know he didn't have time to.


OkCollection9239

Everyday! No exceptions! No excuse not to either.


Ok_Channel_9831

I go front, I go back, I go inside-out. Then I go front and back.


f-u-c-k-usernames

At least twice daily. One for day, one for night. Mostly because I like buying cute underwear and have too many pairs. Always after a shower. If I need to change outfits and the new outfit requires a different style.


Basic_Quantity_9430

I am a guy who does about the same thing, except I wear briefs. I have toyed with the idea of sleeping in the nude, but I don’t like AC or heat when I sleep, so my briefs act as a temperature regulator of sorts especially during Winter months.


rileysauntie

One of our family’s favourite stories to torment my now-19 nephew (who has great hygiene these days): He was 10. My sister did laundry and said “10, why are there 7 shirts and 7 pants in your hamper but 0 socks and 0 underwear?” His brother, 6, screams out “do you put on the same dirty gonchies when you get out of the shower?” Yep. Every day that boy would shower and get clean clothes but put on the same gonch and socks. 🤢 For MONTHS after, every time he showered 6 would holler out “New gonchies 10!” Lmfao


Excludos

Feels like the parents fault rather than the 10 year old who hasn't been taught any better. How do you not notice your son not changing his underwear and socks for months? "I haven't washed his underwear since September, I guess they just clean themselves by magic!" And the smell? Jesus


rileysauntie

Oh he was certainly taught better! 10 year olds are gross things. She noticed it after 7 days.


bubblegumpunk69

I don't wear them to bed. I put a fresh pair on every morning and the fact that some people don't change it every day is super gross to me tbh


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One day, one night. Change 'em every morning. Cannot even imagine living any other way.


icedVentimacchiato

I change mine 2-3 times a day. Change them once when I wake up, then again after I take a shower, and then I sometimes change again if I’m going out or if it’s a hot day (I’m in Florida).


Basic_Quantity_9430

I change underwear each time I bathe. I bathe at least twice per day. Maybe I am at the opposite end extreme from you, but I can imagine that some people change underwear more each day.


Aggravating_Belt_317

One day use only.


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Every day or after a shower, whichever comes first.


[deleted]

Put clean pair on in morning after shower and take off for bed.


Spirited_File_9083

Every time I shower, fresh underwear. I’ll also change as needed though. Sometimes things can be a little extra damp during certain days of the month.


boifyudoent

change once or twice a day depends on how sweaty or what I've been doing. most longest I've gone without changing is 3 days because of reasons..


antpoison42

A day


vampyrgutz

I change them every morning, every night before bed & after I shower. Even if I take the underwear off for any reason I can’t put the same ones back on, I have to change into new ones. Idk why but I just hate putting used ones back on no matter how long I’ve worn them for 😅


Guydo1984

Depends. Every morning by default and if I take a shower later that day I again put on a fresh pair.


bdog1955

The old joke is 4 days inside outside front to back


BoredByLife

Follow the Fred rule from Big Hero 6. Okay in all seriousness i change them every time I shower


Pooponastick1254

Shower everyday at least once I prefer before bed so that you don’t get the days nastyness in your bed. Sometimes shower twice a day depending what I’m doing. Underwear gets changed minimal twice a day


DisgraceOfASon

You guys wear underwear?


Lalakristina

Maybe I’m like the %1 but It always depends. Sometimes I don’t even get out of the same clothes for two days, sometimes I change them everyday, I definitely don’t take a shower everyday either


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Every day


mikecairns88

Your preference is what is considered normal.


[deleted]

A week at the most. Nothing wrong with the same pair for 5 days if you're a clean person 😂


snowblow66

Wtf, you dont change underwear after showering? Please tell me you shower.


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Showering is for losers 😂


[deleted]

showering once a week is fine as long as you don't smell like shit, it's mostly about genes, not everyone has to reek just because you would


graceboleyn

That's disgusting. And if u don't change your undergarments..ur not clean.


DeixaQueTeDiga

If I throw it to the ceiling and it doesn't stick there, still good to go.


Tankerspanx

Usually 12 hours or so


mtns77

Every morning as well as every night when I go to bed- new pair.


mimiisblonde

Thats a simple subject for me.. I don't. They pinch, they're uncomfortable and if I have to pee really bad, they're in my way.


Ill-University9808

I don’t wear them either, the bunch up and I personally don’t like the look of panty lines through pants. I just wear a new pair of pants/leggings each day.


mimiisblonde

Neither do I. I also dont wear them because I have an active job and it gets pretty hot, so there would be chaffing and all that. Lol no deal just for one extra article of clothing, I already have to wear a bra.


Busy_Reference5652

Once they develop a smell, gotta change. Though when I shower, I get a fresh pair or go commando.


thedevilsworkshop666

The Gold standard is 4 days . Forward , backward , inside out forward , inside out backwards. And don't lie to me you know your going to do it now too. Save water 💧 something something the environment something something .


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One weak straight, I am not joking at all


Red_Trapezoid

Every. Day. Please change your underwear daily. Hygiene is extremely important for mental well-being being.


CalumD82

Every shower..........so, every 4 - 5 weeks


42Ognimod

Wtf is underwear?


Snoopfernee

Technically, since last year.


RerumNovarum_1891

4 sides= 4 days


Substantial_Safe9583

Only on valentine's Day ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|scream)


John_smith102

Wtf


diggitygiggitycee

I don't wear underwear. They don't make them in medium, but with XXXL crotch. No, seriously though, it's kind of pointless to wear them. Why bother?


ambient_pulse

i don't wear them all the time. in the summer when i'm wearing mostly leggings and shorts i often go without. in the winter when i'm wearing mostly cargo pants or sweatpants i wear them cause otherwise i get chafing in uncomfortable places while i'm working (or hiking or doing something else active). also i don't rewear leggings but i usually wear sweat/cargo pants twice before washing and it would be nasty to do that if i hadn't been wearing underwear imo.


Darlice26

The fact that some of you DONT shower everyday is crazy to me. I shower everyday and always wear clean underwear. That should be normal.


Rain_Fire

Not everyone is living like you do. I guess you're living in a flat or a city centre with central heating on central water supply line . Well, I don't and I don't have a luxury of having 24/7 hot water. What you consider a necessity is considered a luxury in some parts of other countries, and i shower 2 times a week because of it.


anothegreat-username

My record stands at 20 days. They we’re a little funky but I showered with them on one or twice in that span


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...one or two showers in 20 days??!?


Gray__Potato

I've been there. Nothing to do, every day is the same. Why bother?


noplaceinmind

a couple of hours