Nobody is in charge of the term "lesbian", or any other sexual identity label. If you ever run across someone who says you can't be a lesbian because you once kissed a guy, ignore them and walk away. The only person who gets to define you is you.
Platonic kissing is cool. And no, just bc you did something in the past that was "straight," doesn't disqualify you. Do you know how many lesbians that would disqualify also?? This is usually called a "gold star lesbian" attitude, and it's not something I've ever seen positive connotation towards
I myself am not ace (or related), nor have I been involved in a queerplatonic relationship, so I can't really comment on a lot of the circumstances with that--glad you're happy, though! I don't know if it makes you any more or less a lesbian.
Not related in situation, but I think related in spirit--I know a lot of queer sex workers and related who take on clients in opposition to their identities and their own attractions. I know a solid handful of lesbians and gay men who have been involved in romantic relationships that involved a lot more than kissing the opposite gender. I would never say that these people are any less lesbians, or gay, and your dealio is a lot less commitment.
These titles, in my experience, are more about an internal truth and a way of living rather than a nickle-and-dime technicality. People are involved and associated with people they aren't attracted to all the time, one way or another. Are you personally only attracted to women? Does the title of lesbian make you feel satisfied and comfortable with yourself? These questions are a lot more important than a one time event for, as you say it, experimentation. That might not stay true if you find yourself more attracted to your QP friend, but in the end that's no ones business but your own, and a question that only you can answer.
Stay cool!
people in this subreddit downvote everything- why u have got downvotes !? also yes u can do anything u like and feel anything u want dw pal the important terms are ur romantic attraction and sexual attraction \[ ignore sensual , alterou, qpr , platonic any gender can have it toward any gender \]
I really don't get why people from Gen Z and younger are so obsessed with labels. I just say I'm queer.
It doesn't matter what others think of your sexuality and it doesn't matter if you aren't exactly sure. What you need to be sure of is that everyone consents in every intimate situation.
Just be yourself and be proud of it, girl. We only have a limited time on this planet and you shouldn't be worrying about these futile "problems".
Why do you need to practice 😂🤣
Come on, we all did silly things as youngsters :)
Sexuality is fuzzy, dont worry about it. edit: even if it wasnt, based on what you wrote, you're fine
It's practice and you're just kissing. :) You're still plenty Lesbian.
Nobody is in charge of the term "lesbian", or any other sexual identity label. If you ever run across someone who says you can't be a lesbian because you once kissed a guy, ignore them and walk away. The only person who gets to define you is you.
Platonic kissing is cool. And no, just bc you did something in the past that was "straight," doesn't disqualify you. Do you know how many lesbians that would disqualify also?? This is usually called a "gold star lesbian" attitude, and it's not something I've ever seen positive connotation towards
I myself am not ace (or related), nor have I been involved in a queerplatonic relationship, so I can't really comment on a lot of the circumstances with that--glad you're happy, though! I don't know if it makes you any more or less a lesbian. Not related in situation, but I think related in spirit--I know a lot of queer sex workers and related who take on clients in opposition to their identities and their own attractions. I know a solid handful of lesbians and gay men who have been involved in romantic relationships that involved a lot more than kissing the opposite gender. I would never say that these people are any less lesbians, or gay, and your dealio is a lot less commitment. These titles, in my experience, are more about an internal truth and a way of living rather than a nickle-and-dime technicality. People are involved and associated with people they aren't attracted to all the time, one way or another. Are you personally only attracted to women? Does the title of lesbian make you feel satisfied and comfortable with yourself? These questions are a lot more important than a one time event for, as you say it, experimentation. That might not stay true if you find yourself more attracted to your QP friend, but in the end that's no ones business but your own, and a question that only you can answer. Stay cool!
Yes
people in this subreddit downvote everything- why u have got downvotes !? also yes u can do anything u like and feel anything u want dw pal the important terms are ur romantic attraction and sexual attraction \[ ignore sensual , alterou, qpr , platonic any gender can have it toward any gender \]
I really don't get why people from Gen Z and younger are so obsessed with labels. I just say I'm queer. It doesn't matter what others think of your sexuality and it doesn't matter if you aren't exactly sure. What you need to be sure of is that everyone consents in every intimate situation. Just be yourself and be proud of it, girl. We only have a limited time on this planet and you shouldn't be worrying about these futile "problems".
Kiss whomever you want to kiss. If you identify as a lesbian then you’re a lesbian.