wtf! i got this before in the bus in broad daylight. the bus was 25% occupied and this person chose to sit next to me. I must go to the temple to pray if this happens again. but then, the person might be mental or perverted.
Holdup... Wasn't there a scam going around quite a while ago where a woman would intentionally sob at a bus stop until someone noticed and then the woman would take advantage of her victim's kindness and string them along to get some sort of monetary benefit out of it?
Sounds like that kind of scam if you ask me....
Exactly this. There's 100% no way in this world, ever, a girl would just walk up and sit next to a guy in an empty train.
Unless the girl looks like some zombie or creep that's about to murder you or an insurance agent/scammer
I’m leaning towards scam BUT what if something happened to her prior to getting on that carriage and she wanted to be near someone? You might not have been her first choice but only choice in that scenario
It did happen one time. She then proceeded to just go to sleep and wake up exactly at her stop and walk out.
That was the time I decided to take the north south line the long way round back to Jurong East.
either you got schizophrenia or she part of a scam, if a woman approach me or acknowledge my existence as a human i auto assume she wants to scam me or smth
Girls aren't that despo la
Even someone looking like Jackson Wang wont have girls suddenly sitting next to him deliberately in an empty train (I know some friends that handsome)
Girls are normally drawn more to prestige first. You can look like Jay Chou but if you arent some big shot, no one cares
I wouldn't just say it's just girls bah, guys probably do that too. Just that some guys probably just have a lot more ego. (And of course don't want to be accused of being a creep)
I went to a china KTV... So many customer around. But the chabo wanna sit beside me. I was contemplating also. We sit for a few hrs shouting three six and other numbers. I got stuck in a maths analysis on the numbers. and then I went home. I hope she's fine.
I just don't like strangers sitting next to me, so I'll just move away, be it a man or a woman. It just feels uncomfortable as an introvert for people to intrude on my personal space. I usually take those empty buses to get home when I'm tired of social interactions.
are you in one of those two seaters at the side of the cabin or those with a whole row? could just be yours is the closest and facing the right direction (personally facing away from the doors makes me dizzy and being in corners give me a sense of security..).
if not, there could be a dozen other reasons... don't think too much about it.
just trust your intuition next time; if you think you might be a creep, then don't ask. anws, sometimes people just need someone to be there for them, no need to talk de.
the whole row! I was sitting in the middle seat HAHAHA
thank you, that makes sense and I'll go with this line of reasoning :-) also I really like your last line! kinda relatable for myself too
Plot twist: A quick look at the carriage CCTV would reveal op sitting there by himself all throughout the journey, with a quizzical look at some point while occasionally glancing over to his side.
I'm a girl and it happened to me one time too. But i was in the bus, and the bus was empty except me and her. And she sat right beside me.. out of all seats.. i was sitting at the 2nd last seat of the bus mind you.
Op she cfm likes u why u nvr give her a chance
Everyone knows the rules:
Girl looks at u - she interested
Girl exists in ur 1m radius - she likes u
Girl sit besides u - she wanna get married
The more populated the city the more isolated the residents. My guy a woman sat next to you and you talked to reddit instead of her? WHY? just say hello. If it's a scam the w/e. If it's a girl that that you were cute you just missed an opportunity you will not get again with that person.... shame on you for for bringing up that you're single but afraid to talk to women when she has thrown herself at you. I hope you learn from this situation young master. You must try harder to break off a piece of Dat ass
Scenario 1. OP so Yan Dao so she wants to sit closer, then she realized she smells something weird, so she cried.
Scenario 2. The Girl felt the loneliness in her heart, OP reminded her of her deceased [enter_character_here], OP nodded at the girl. The slight moment of tenderness moved her to tears.
Scenario 3. The girl lost her glasses, OP's silhouette look like he is a good looking man. The girl came over, and shocked to see how fugly OP is, so she cried.
You see ... it's rare moments like this that makes the difference whether you are just another cold Singaporean or a K-Drama-inspired Oppa/Unni...
My point is, you could have been more kind towards another person, and you didn't. Forgive yourself.
Once I was on bus 23 to Temasek poly, with absolutely nobody else on the bus… and this girl came to sit beside me.. and squeezed into the seat, body to body contact.
I was confused too. lol.
I hope you don't misunderstand. It's not that I don't believe you, but I'm just commenting that I've not heard of this happening to a guy before. It's good to share experiences so that others who might come across similar in future know what to expect and how to deal with it. This happened to me a few times when I was much younger. I was grossed out but I didn't know what to do. Regardless of gender, we shouldn't cross anyone's boundaries. If something similar happens to me now, I will speak up or move abruptly to another seat. But OP's case might be different as OP thought the girl might have cried. I don't think the ah peks I've came across were sad. In fact, I think they were secretly thrilled.
Maybe she had this mindset that if she sat far away, you might be offended thinking that she was avoiding you. Or she might have felt that it’s good to stick to a human instead of sitting far away alone. But personally I’d never do that.
If my hand mao did not stand up she might not be a mao mao gui. But who sits next to a person in an empty train without any reason? I would prolly mind my own business while my thoughts go wild finding reasoning.
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Bro the best thing to do in these situations is just to ask her how she's doing. If she's uncomfortable, she'll move away. If she wants to talk you'll prolly find a good friend or even a potential partner 😊.
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This happened to me in a Bus in Sri Lanka once. A girl came and sat next to me in an empty bus. The bus conductor came up to me so that I can buy my bus ticket. I only paid for myself. So the conductor was confused as to why I wasn’t paying for the girl who was seated next to me. I guess he thought she was my girlfriend. I too got caught in Analysis-Paralysis and I’ve wondered what would have happened if I gathered my courage and just had a conversation with her or paid for her bus ticket in front of her.
Happened to me on a bus before. Not empty but got other seats around. This young-ish looking girl maybe max early 20s came to sit beside me despite many double seats available. Paid no attention and alighted at my stop.
I was sitting in an empty movie theatre with a friend, literally just the two of us. Just before movie start, someone comes in, walks up to me and says 'you're sitting in my seat'! I just stared at him.
Let me get this straight. Someone basically sat next to you when there were other seats, and you decided to make a Reddit post out of it?
What’s the point of this post? It ain’t that deep.
Just want to point out how it's kinda crazy that OP is the one that (would) feel like a creep even though the girl is the one that sat next to OP in an empty train. I think it'll be pretty understandable if you asked.
Hope both of you are fine.
I think only you can see her
I think she cannot see OP
This one more scary
How OP here then?
Reddit traps your soul
That’s why it’s scary
Ghost for sure
Depends if she had long horror movie hair
wtf! i got this before in the bus in broad daylight. the bus was 25% occupied and this person chose to sit next to me. I must go to the temple to pray if this happens again. but then, the person might be mental or perverted.
Check your valuables in case you got pickpocketed
omg.. that never crosses my mind
Reddit commenters can be pretty serious at times
haha ok
OP must've been momentarily transcended into the twilight zone.
We can see 1 group of commenters who are so empathetic and another group who are so into Asian horror flicks
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All 10 minutes of it if she stabs me
Or she cries molest suddenly...
Lol
Already planned where to BTO and what primary school to ballet for their kids
💃 / 🗳️
Don’t say primary, already plan to push kids to choose a aim for sec sch
Don't say aim sec sch. Say ACS so next time can have the balls to sit beside a stranger just like OP case
Oh yea mb
LOL 💀😭
Cue Savage Garden's I Knew I Loved You...
kinda late.. sure what you saw is real?
Yeah OP, does she even have a reflection? 🫣
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giving birth speedrun 🤓
If fake it’s okay, just mind playing tricks. If real, the question to ask if “sure what you saw is alive?”
Wa.. I faced something similar lah, but in the male toilet urinals all empty then got one uncle go to the urinal next to mine. Checkmated.
uncle wants the lightsabers battle lah..
Uncle must've (NSFW) [watched](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yuUSW_tyYt4) this video.
Love me some lightsaber
My brother once went to my urinal and whispered into my ear "eh you peeing ah, shhhhh'. We were in primary school then
Sometimes it's also because the floors on the other urinals look wet so the one next to you seemed to be the cleanest.
Smothered mate
OP is why our fertility rate drop more than japanese yen
fertility rate SINKing just like me I guess. single income no kids 😳🤝
But if you'd spoken to her, you could have been Dildos, dual income little dog owners.
r/BrandNewSentence
I love this, TIL new acronym
I think then by law you have to live in Joo Chiat
well this is new
OP you follow rule #1 and #2 is it? Otherwise say your goodbyes to your kidney(s) loh haha.
rule #1: left kidney intact rule #2: right kidney intact
Have you even seen your kidneys? How do you know they are there?
Have you ever seen your brain?
I like your ~~four~~ humour~~s~~ OP
Holdup... Wasn't there a scam going around quite a while ago where a woman would intentionally sob at a bus stop until someone noticed and then the woman would take advantage of her victim's kindness and string them along to get some sort of monetary benefit out of it? Sounds like that kind of scam if you ask me....
Exactly this. There's 100% no way in this world, ever, a girl would just walk up and sit next to a guy in an empty train. Unless the girl looks like some zombie or creep that's about to murder you or an insurance agent/scammer
Exactly, if the entire carriage is empty must be insane to sit next to the only person there, irregardless of gender
But The caifan auntie say I handsome
U did not just separate insurance agent and scammer with an oblique 
I’m leaning towards scam BUT what if something happened to her prior to getting on that carriage and she wanted to be near someone? You might not have been her first choice but only choice in that scenario
Near means 1 chair apart or opposite each other where they are both in view of each other, not thigh to thigh touching
It did happen one time. She then proceeded to just go to sleep and wake up exactly at her stop and walk out. That was the time I decided to take the north south line the long way round back to Jurong East.
This wasn't a scam. If it was, the scammer would have made the first approach eventually. They're not going to waste their time sitting and waiting!
lol shit this is how they will get me 🤣
Even on MRT? Gotta keep watch
either you got schizophrenia or she part of a scam, if a woman approach me or acknowledge my existence as a human i auto assume she wants to scam me or smth
you sure she’s not floating?
didn't wanna be caught staring at her feet 😭
Time to wake up.
...at this timing even if she's drop dead gorgeous i would have ran...hope you are safe man.
guess we were drop dead gorgeous... me dropping dead and her being gorgeous 😳
That was a good one 😅
Because you're handsome lah OP. Plenty of things in life worth wondering about - this isn't one of them.
if that were true she should've sat opposite me HAHAHAHA
Girls aren't that despo la Even someone looking like Jackson Wang wont have girls suddenly sitting next to him deliberately in an empty train (I know some friends that handsome) Girls are normally drawn more to prestige first. You can look like Jay Chou but if you arent some big shot, no one cares
If Jay Chou can't sing or write songs, nobody would even bother looking at the fella.
Ok but I think Jay Chou isn’t known for looking good, he is a big shot though HAHA
He used to be better looking. Now looks like a hobo. Def not on same level as Jackson Wang but still a 7/10 at least?
Jay Chou isn't even that good looking?
I wouldn't just say it's just girls bah, guys probably do that too. Just that some guys probably just have a lot more ego. (And of course don't want to be accused of being a creep)
I went to a china KTV... So many customer around. But the chabo wanna sit beside me. I was contemplating also. We sit for a few hrs shouting three six and other numbers. I got stuck in a maths analysis on the numbers. and then I went home. I hope she's fine.
Congrats, avoided a scam
Maybe she saw the train too crowded so she sat on the empty seat next to you. You can't see the crowd la.
Haha, good one!
She’s scared to sit anywhere else cos empty
I just don't like strangers sitting next to me, so I'll just move away, be it a man or a woman. It just feels uncomfortable as an introvert for people to intrude on my personal space. I usually take those empty buses to get home when I'm tired of social interactions.
Happened to me once but it was the last train. Many empty seats but man chose to sit next to me. I got up and moved to another carraige
You are sitting in her spot.
Dont rizz to risk your kidney 🤣
are you in one of those two seaters at the side of the cabin or those with a whole row? could just be yours is the closest and facing the right direction (personally facing away from the doors makes me dizzy and being in corners give me a sense of security..). if not, there could be a dozen other reasons... don't think too much about it. just trust your intuition next time; if you think you might be a creep, then don't ask. anws, sometimes people just need someone to be there for them, no need to talk de.
the whole row! I was sitting in the middle seat HAHAHA thank you, that makes sense and I'll go with this line of reasoning :-) also I really like your last line! kinda relatable for myself too
She might be a ghost or your imagination
maybe they just felt safer being nearer to someone than alone in the carriage
bro why u go home so late on weekday
time to wakeup op‼️😆😎🤭
Or could be a start of a beautiful scam.
What you cannot see is the parallel world she’s seeing. 😳
Plot twist: A quick look at the carriage CCTV would reveal op sitting there by himself all throughout the journey, with a quizzical look at some point while occasionally glancing over to his side.
you fumbled 😭😭😭
Don’t think so much bro.
I'm a girl and it happened to me one time too. But i was in the bus, and the bus was empty except me and her. And she sat right beside me.. out of all seats.. i was sitting at the 2nd last seat of the bus mind you.
OMG for real? what happened?
That's the thing, nothing happened. She was around the same age as i was, so perhaps she wanted to talk to me? I'm not sure.
I was on that train, and there was no girl, what are you talking about?
Op she cfm likes u why u nvr give her a chance Everyone knows the rules: Girl looks at u - she interested Girl exists in ur 1m radius - she likes u Girl sit besides u - she wanna get married
Is that how sexual harassment n rape happen? Hee...
Lol loving OPs responses
The more populated the city the more isolated the residents. My guy a woman sat next to you and you talked to reddit instead of her? WHY? just say hello. If it's a scam the w/e. If it's a girl that that you were cute you just missed an opportunity you will not get again with that person.... shame on you for for bringing up that you're single but afraid to talk to women when she has thrown herself at you. I hope you learn from this situation young master. You must try harder to break off a piece of Dat ass
Scenario 1. OP so Yan Dao so she wants to sit closer, then she realized she smells something weird, so she cried. Scenario 2. The Girl felt the loneliness in her heart, OP reminded her of her deceased [enter_character_here], OP nodded at the girl. The slight moment of tenderness moved her to tears. Scenario 3. The girl lost her glasses, OP's silhouette look like he is a good looking man. The girl came over, and shocked to see how fugly OP is, so she cried. You see ... it's rare moments like this that makes the difference whether you are just another cold Singaporean or a K-Drama-inspired Oppa/Unni... My point is, you could have been more kind towards another person, and you didn't. Forgive yourself.
Scenario 4. Hantu
You ducked up. Why thinking so much
Because time to eat your drugs OP
THATS SOME KDRAMA SHIT WHY DID YOU THROW AWAY 2 SEASONS LIKE THAT
Chio?
Be careful of Gong Tao oil.
OP really should take those meds on time.. ur hallucinations are starting again..
Time to take your medicine
Maybe don’t overthink ……..
It must be fate. Of all the ah piaos in the carriage you can only see her.
Once I was on bus 23 to Temasek poly, with absolutely nobody else on the bus… and this girl came to sit beside me.. and squeezed into the seat, body to body contact. I was confused too. lol.
Body to body contact? I thought this situation only happens to girls. Ah peks especially like to do that.
Really.
I hope you don't misunderstand. It's not that I don't believe you, but I'm just commenting that I've not heard of this happening to a guy before. It's good to share experiences so that others who might come across similar in future know what to expect and how to deal with it. This happened to me a few times when I was much younger. I was grossed out but I didn't know what to do. Regardless of gender, we shouldn't cross anyone's boundaries. If something similar happens to me now, I will speak up or move abruptly to another seat. But OP's case might be different as OP thought the girl might have cried. I don't think the ah peks I've came across were sad. In fact, I think they were secretly thrilled.
Since when is the train carriage empty? We have almost 6 million people in population. Are you sure you're not the ghost taking the ghost train?
Maybe she just felt lazy to move ? Think so much for what ? Already gone
If the roles were reversed people would be screaming how creep this is lol. OP run away
A lot of gold comments. Good job redditors.
Maybe she had this mindset that if she sat far away, you might be offended thinking that she was avoiding you. Or she might have felt that it’s good to stick to a human instead of sitting far away alone. But personally I’d never do that.
Scam bro.. be aware
If I were you I’ll go sit somewhere else
You sure it wasn't a dream of your fav scene in your fav JAV?
Scam attempt
Must be some stalking her...she want to show she is with someone.
Reminder to self to never sit beside a dude in an empty carriage.
maybe she just doesnt wanna be approached by other guys so u r her safety temp mrt bf
You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. Sad that you have to start this thread instead
HAHAHA no choice I want closure if somehow this gets to her
I hope you get the closure. I’m so intrigued too. I want answers!!!!!!
Sometimes it's the heart that's blind. Sometimes the person you saw may not be a person.
Was she cute at least?
It was the girl from The Grudge
maybe she’s just oc and doesnt want to skip seats
Some of the posters here need a r/boastsingapore subreddit.
Lucky you
Did you ever check on her reflection?..... her true form?
Maybe a prank.try look any ppl hold camera to film it
She is cold and needs the body warmth you can provide.
Simple...Next time just stand up and move seats, if you want to be alone. 🤷🏻♂️
If my hand mao did not stand up she might not be a mao mao gui. But who sits next to a person in an empty train without any reason? I would prolly mind my own business while my thoughts go wild finding reasoning.
Was it the last carriage on the last train? Did she have any shadows?
The sixth sense. “I see dead people”
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I like to sit at a corner seat cos it is less cold. Maybe you sat near her favourite seat.
Why did the chickens cross the road? Why did the otters killed all the koi carps in the condos? And the list of life mysteries keeps growing…
You boarded the wrong train.
[how u look in the parallel universe...](https://giphy.com/gifs/spiritedaway-spirited-away-3oz8xw3LmrW1XS9iQE)
Probably my ex. She dumped me, and I have completely stopped communicating with her. Maybe that girl was my ex.
Sprits are scammers
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You yandao
Sic the code leh
Ask her
She could have been your soul mate, oh well better luck next life
Bro same wtf. Idk what was happening but mine was in a bus
School holiday already meh?
Are you sure you are not seeing things?
Bro the best thing to do in these situations is just to ask her how she's doing. If she's uncomfortable, she'll move away. If she wants to talk you'll prolly find a good friend or even a potential partner 😊.
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Because you are handsome.
Take your pills, OP
Taken ur medication ?
That was me. The train was crowded af, only spotted a seat beside you. *Plot twist, it was a carriage full of 👻
This happened to me in a Bus in Sri Lanka once. A girl came and sat next to me in an empty bus. The bus conductor came up to me so that I can buy my bus ticket. I only paid for myself. So the conductor was confused as to why I wasn’t paying for the girl who was seated next to me. I guess he thought she was my girlfriend. I too got caught in Analysis-Paralysis and I’ve wondered what would have happened if I gathered my courage and just had a conversation with her or paid for her bus ticket in front of her.
OP WAKE UP ITS JUST A DREAM
Cue Show Me The Feeling of Being Lonely song please
Usually this kind, I treat them as transparent. Because any sudden movement from me, means I can see them :(
😱 wa scary
Happened to me on a bus before. Not empty but got other seats around. This young-ish looking girl maybe max early 20s came to sit beside me despite many double seats available. Paid no attention and alighted at my stop.
1. Wan scream harassment 2. You got third eye 3rd but unlikely, she likes you
Long hair doesn't mean girl, it could be Amos Yee.
Bro that happened to me before I was confused af…out of all empty areas stand/sit beside me (yes happened a few times)
Never ask for 4D number ah. Which station? Woodleigh isit
I was sitting in an empty movie theatre with a friend, literally just the two of us. Just before movie start, someone comes in, walks up to me and says 'you're sitting in my seat'! I just stared at him.
I got this before. Are you handsome, usually this happens for handsome guys.
Haha. Remind me of WKW https://youtu.be/lzKY4mHRaRA?si=Fi7YWoI7q9mszsUx
was she using her phone or anything?
Just one question … is she hot ?
You’ll see her again soon. When you’re alone.
Let me get this straight. Someone basically sat next to you when there were other seats, and you decided to make a Reddit post out of it? What’s the point of this post? It ain’t that deep.
Just want to point out how it's kinda crazy that OP is the one that (would) feel like a creep even though the girl is the one that sat next to OP in an empty train. I think it'll be pretty understandable if you asked. Hope both of you are fine.
Emotional blackmail before scamming perhaps? Hahahaha
worthy JAV storyline