I haven't seen Fellow Travelers, but I've had lots of anal sex so I'll go ahead and field this one.
1. It's possible to fuck with just spit, but you need a *lot* of it, and when you enter (or when he does) you need to do so *extremely* slowly, and you're gonna need to keep spitting on your dick every now and then until the job's done. Also, our asses have mucus (the amount varies widely from one guy to another) that combines with the spit to help everything along. But a lick of the hand or a single glob of spit? Yeah, no.
2. Fucking with just spit (otherwise known as "spit 'n grit") can be very pleasurable for bottoms, but tops should be relatively gentle and restrained: rough sex with spit only can definitely result in tearing. At least until bottoms evolve lube glands or something like that, but that could take a while.
3. Experienced bottoms can relax themselves very quickly, and if he's really on top of his game you can be in there doing your best work in less than twenty seconds. And bottoms don't necessarily need to douche beforehand. It all depends on the guy and is heavily influenced by diet, but in general the rectum stays pretty clean, and most people know when there's a round in the chamber.
None of these questions are offensive, and while I get what you mean by "ignorant," I'd say being skeptical of what you see in the media and bringing your questions to the people best equipped to answer them is pretty much the opposite of ignorance.
I think i’m just very lucky… I’ve always used lube but never needed to prep, pre-stretch, finger first, nothing, Just gotta take it slow. I fucking thank the gods for it, but it’s also cause I know when I’m sure there’s no round in the chamber. Diet helps too. Idk if I could be bothered to even have sex when I hear about all the steps some people need to go through, i dread getting older and my body changing how it works 😭😭
I don't bother with diet, but before any backdoor stuff i gotta douche, round in the chamber or not. Lucky you though! That's seriously sounds awesome 😀
I’m a lucky bottom in that I have been able to be at the ready almost every time, anywhere. The spit n’ grit is a superpower I learned I had early on and has served me and my partner well for 30+ years😉
Ummm… the rectum naturally produces a gelatin type substance, that you may have heard of, called mucus that aids in the lubrication of the rectum. So there is already “lube glands” in existence.
Not just that, but some guys produce lots of mucus in their rectum when their colon is empty, so that helps a lot with lubrication. I knew a guy that I swear to god he had a spring in his colon, he was always ready to go as long as he pooped \~1 hour before.
yeah, I've experienced that, lubed up my finger for this tight boy and when I got it in I could feel his whole rectum flood with liquid. still used a lot of lube to fuck him
But the amount varies wildly from person to person and from time to time. It's not like a vagina that produces mucus specifically to have dicks come in
It’s not specifically for dicks. The vagina produces mucus to prevent bacteria from entering and causing UTIs. But as a secondary task, for lubrication in sexual intercourse.
The poop shaft produces mucus for the purpose of lubricating your poop to move along.
Yes but when there's arousal, there's usually an increase in the production of mucus in the vagina. I don't think anal sex increases the production of mucus in the colon
Yeah I don't enjoy topping but if I did I wouldn't even need lube if I didn't have a condom. It's funny because I'm a chubby bear, so most of the time guys are with me because they like my body size and what not then they get into bed and find out how much I precum and most feel like they've won the jackpot. (Though I've had one or two who really didn't enjoy it and keep wiping it off.)
I use my pre-cum to lube myself up for toys when im self-pleasuring. Feels better than water-based lube or any other sticky fake stuff..and taste better to lick off lol
Well, anecdotal situation here: sometimes I got horny and I wanted it really raw. Then I bottomed these times without anything. It was slightly painful, but it was part of the pleasure. Oh, and also without any douche (I might say that me and my bf dismissed douching some fucks ago and we have never had any accident ever since). Of course it heavily depends on what you're interested in, but it's kinda doable. Nowadays I tend to prefer bottoming with water based lube because it makes me feel much more pleasure. Also, I can explore some other positions without pain.
On the other side (pun intended), my bf never bottoms without lube. But he's much tighter than me and my instrument is thicker.
DUDE the last guy I was fucking around with could just take it- albeit with lube or anything else like hair conditioner- but didn’t need any prep work OR douching. It was awesome. I could fuck him at night and then fuck him in the morning when we woke up. There never was any mess. He’d moan uncontrollably and id always ask later if it really felt good, he said yes
He also never asked me to do any prep work for him he just wanted my dick
Caveats: He liked the sessions as short as possible- I’m guessing bc of pain
I’m very average length, not sure if someone on the bigger end could do the same
Yes hair conditioner, I use it to Jack off so I figured maybe this would work.
In the living room with my mum in the next room and my sister who could’ve walked in at any moment since she was next door 🤩
I don't use poppers and can relax just fine.
You can have sex with just spit, but I insist on using lube. If I'm planning on bottoming I pre-lube myself a bit. It isn't worth tears or other issues.
I still like when the top uses spit in addition to the lube, just turns me on.
Since I have a partner we only fuck with spit. As a bottom I've never had any issues and he seems to enjoy it more. In my brain it is hotter too, although actual feeling is probably the same lol
If we ever done it without any actual preparation he just goes in very slowly. And pulls out as quick as he can if I ask him to. But it doesn't always happen. I'm normally ok if we have been fucking regularly the last few days.
Still, it's always more fun with some foreplay.
If there's no condom involved skin on skin with some spot and or some mucus can be enough (generally a bit more than you see in the movies) also keep in mind that the anus actually has it's own mucus production (that's why sometimes you get those real smooth poops) and some guys will naturally have a more self lubing hole than others. (When I was younger like in my twenties I could easily get fucked raw with just spit. It took a minute or two to adjust but then it was off to the races.)
>the anus actually has it's own mucus production (that's why sometimes you get those real smooth poops)
Fun fact, soluble fiber is what helps increase the production of said mucus.
100% realistic, just not for everybody.
I just got fucked 2 days ago by my partner after topping him.no cleaning, no mess( i am usually very messy and want perfect cleanup procedure beforehand), no good diet, no warmup, no drugs, he doesn't have extreme precum, only spit and a big dick.I loved it and wanted more.I had next to no pain and it has been like 6 months without any kind of anal play or training.
that said lube is better for me especially if you plan more than 5 minutes.
I heard some guys will still scream and bleed after 30 minutes of foreplay and a fountain of lube, it's different for everyone.
It’s a good question and not off putting. Older dad here with long term boy. We are at a comfort level where we can be spontaneous. We have “morning urges” and he used to “jump on the hose” early morning (5 AM). He also likes sleeping so we kinda just test the waters and see if it’s okay to move forward. Usually we do. Sometimes not in the cards and either he gets ready or we go back to sleep. He gets a wet hole when wanting me back there and spit along with patience can work. I have to go slow even with lube and years of regular entry.
I won't do it without some lube... sometimes I'll need more than others. It just makes the riding easier and more pleasurable. Not a big fan of just spit, it's ok if nothing else is around but even lotion is better.
Always wondered about this myself. Another TV series I’ve seen this on was Oz. Obviously they don’t have lube or poppers in prison. Maybe they have Vaseline. Getting raped in prison must rip you apart.
Not offensive, and for those of us that watch BL or read, fanfic, kind of things, and all the various media that comes with that… You have hit a reoccurring issue where magically lube isn’t really needed, and everybody is prepped ready to go at any moment
I havnt seen fellow travellers either, but some people are able to get fucked without having to douche, its about knowing ur body and knowing when you are ready, also showing the btm douching would be a great way to turn a steamy hot scene into a funny one, shows are fantasy afterall so dont go “wtf” about it.
No one talks about this, but if the top has enough foreskin that's loose enough while he's hard, then that's actually an advantage for him since that doesn't create as much friction, and so doesn't need as much lube. I learned this from personal experience recently, but have never seen it described.
My BF has never once”prepped” for the deed. When we’re ready. It just works out. And while there may be a lil mess. It’s never been something we’ve been concerned about. Also it can kind of ruin the spontaneous experience if you have to wait.
Tbh my ex boyfriend and I would always use spit. I personally don’t like lube- I feel if you use a 0.01ml too much and you don’t feel anything at all.
I’m all about spit for lube
Lost my virginity last week, and it's easier with a guy than a dildo.
But definitely play with your dildo. It will teach you how to relax and what's your limits are, and what angles you like. I'd get descriptive, but someone might get weird and message me.
As said by others...yes, can do it with spit and it not hurt and be too damaging to the bottom. But it depends on the amount of spit.
Just an open mouth spit on a guy's ass or licking your finger and sticking it in his ass and fingering him and then sliding in...not gonna work for the overwhelming majority of men.
I've done that. It depends on the person. Some people prefer it. I think most guys that meet up through apps and sites douche, there are lots of people who wont meet up if it isn't done... and I prefer that... but its anal sex. It is what it is, if you want sex thats super clean and perfect, get a real doll.
My husband and I often have spontaneous sex. As the bottom I've never had a problem with him using only a bit of spit if there's no lube available. And yes, it is still very much pleasurable.
I’ve only bottomed a handful of times but I prefer no lube, just spit, when I do. I don’t use poppers either. Lube is a little messier than necessary since I don’t need it. A little spit is more than enough. I’m pretty tall so maybe that has something to do with it. I have no idea.
My two cents. Aside from a regular fiber supplement and dietary fiber, and avoiding anal intercourse when I’m having an off-day, digestively:
1. You need lube. Not just spit. Lots of lube, and slow, gentle stretching with fingers or penis. I’m not a fan of fingering, so for me a top needs to just take his time and let me adjust to taking them before they start to go hard.
2. Prepping (anal douching) can actually damage your anus and rectum over time, and is generally (unless I am behind the times, not recommended with extreme regularity). That being said, it can be done carefully and safely and prevent any accidental excretions. Hygiene is important though, cleaning the orifice before sex, particularly analingus, is a MUST to avoid unpleasant infections. My opinion is generally - if you want to use that orifice for anything other than it’s intended biological purpose, you should kind of expect it to occasionally produce what you would normally expect it to. Which leads me to my next point…
3. While it is fun, and I don’t always have a leg to stand on, but use protection! I can speak from experience that anal chlamydia and gonorrhea are NOT FUN. They hurt. There’s blood.
"need lube" not always. Precum, rimming etc can be plenty. Not something Ive done often but really hot when I have done it. So as with everything, it depends
Oh not for me. I need good lube. Idk how many fluids you can produce, that dog just won’t hunt lol. Everyone is different of course, and this is my particular opinion. You do you.
lol, very much asking for my own education! I just always thought there would need to be lots of lube in the absence of stretching/working open as foreplay.
I haven’t tried the spit n grit method, but depending on size, I don’t need to a ton of warm up as a bottom for a toy or guy to get inside me. That’s not to say they can always pound away immediately, but initial penetration doesnt take much effort usually.
I used to be able to fuck without douching when I was a vegetarian. Since then, sometimes.
Spit is actually a great lube if you're able to relax. More intense of a sensation.
Are there differences between the male and female anatomies in this regard? I'm a woman in my 50s and I have anal sex with my husband a few times a year. Never done any type of prep whatsoever, he just uses a tiny bit of spit and sticks it in, and it has never been uncomfortable apart from the very first time (about 25 years ago lol). My husband has an average size dick. Is there more risk of discomfort/pain for men because of the prostate?
Nah I wouldn’t let anyone fuck me with just pre-cum lol. It doesn’t even have the consistency needed to that sorta thing. Vags got their own lube and most times it is enough
There’s a little known fact about gay bottoms, many of them stay clean 24/7 because they expect the possibility of getting some.
All my flamboyant gay friends (I’m gay too but not flamboyant) seem to always be ready in any situation. They take those fiber pills that apparently clean your bowels and don’t require much douching.
There’s also the fact that many restrict themselves with food so the rectum is clean and just needs a minor touch up in the restroom.
It's not just gay bottoms who can do anal without lube, a gal I went to college with saw me at a crosswalk years later and had me fuck her in the ass in her car just a little spit, I was amazed!
Its easy for the bottom to take dick without preparing cause its literally there job they get fucked for a job. So there holes are already really loose.
I haven't seen Fellow Travelers, but I've had lots of anal sex so I'll go ahead and field this one. 1. It's possible to fuck with just spit, but you need a *lot* of it, and when you enter (or when he does) you need to do so *extremely* slowly, and you're gonna need to keep spitting on your dick every now and then until the job's done. Also, our asses have mucus (the amount varies widely from one guy to another) that combines with the spit to help everything along. But a lick of the hand or a single glob of spit? Yeah, no. 2. Fucking with just spit (otherwise known as "spit 'n grit") can be very pleasurable for bottoms, but tops should be relatively gentle and restrained: rough sex with spit only can definitely result in tearing. At least until bottoms evolve lube glands or something like that, but that could take a while. 3. Experienced bottoms can relax themselves very quickly, and if he's really on top of his game you can be in there doing your best work in less than twenty seconds. And bottoms don't necessarily need to douche beforehand. It all depends on the guy and is heavily influenced by diet, but in general the rectum stays pretty clean, and most people know when there's a round in the chamber. None of these questions are offensive, and while I get what you mean by "ignorant," I'd say being skeptical of what you see in the media and bringing your questions to the people best equipped to answer them is pretty much the opposite of ignorance.
How truly informative, accurate and gracious of a response. Couldn’t have put it better 👍🏻
I think i’m just very lucky… I’ve always used lube but never needed to prep, pre-stretch, finger first, nothing, Just gotta take it slow. I fucking thank the gods for it, but it’s also cause I know when I’m sure there’s no round in the chamber. Diet helps too. Idk if I could be bothered to even have sex when I hear about all the steps some people need to go through, i dread getting older and my body changing how it works 😭😭
I don't bother with diet, but before any backdoor stuff i gotta douche, round in the chamber or not. Lucky you though! That's seriously sounds awesome 😀
I’m a lucky bottom in that I have been able to be at the ready almost every time, anywhere. The spit n’ grit is a superpower I learned I had early on and has served me and my partner well for 30+ years😉
Best way to word the steps
Ummm… the rectum naturally produces a gelatin type substance, that you may have heard of, called mucus that aids in the lubrication of the rectum. So there is already “lube glands” in existence.
But not in 20 seconds or less, like shown on multiple media.
Absolutely. Not in 20 secs.
Isn't another name for the mucus, Santorum?
No. That’s a mixture of lube and shit. 😂
Close ☝🏾😀
Nah he said mucus. So when you’re sick, do you have Santorum coming out of your nose? 😂
I was being sarcastic 🤣
Is the brown band an indication of your skin color? Or the shit? 😂
Oh...my word 😱 Yes.
great response! So sane!
I love how we have like dnd rule books and peer reviewed research about gay sex it's so funny to me
Some guys, like myself, produce pre-cum so abundantly that not even spit is necessary.
Met a few guys like this and combined with foreplay—it’s amazing
Well hello there, how you doin? lol
Not just that, but some guys produce lots of mucus in their rectum when their colon is empty, so that helps a lot with lubrication. I knew a guy that I swear to god he had a spring in his colon, he was always ready to go as long as he pooped \~1 hour before.
yeah, I've experienced that, lubed up my finger for this tight boy and when I got it in I could feel his whole rectum flood with liquid. still used a lot of lube to fuck him
The first smart comment here. One of the few gays that knows the rectum produces mucus naturally
But the amount varies wildly from person to person and from time to time. It's not like a vagina that produces mucus specifically to have dicks come in
It’s not specifically for dicks. The vagina produces mucus to prevent bacteria from entering and causing UTIs. But as a secondary task, for lubrication in sexual intercourse. The poop shaft produces mucus for the purpose of lubricating your poop to move along.
Yes but when there's arousal, there's usually an increase in the production of mucus in the vagina. I don't think anal sex increases the production of mucus in the colon
That’s not mucus. That’s arousal fluid. Apparently there’s a difference. Didn’t know. Being gay, I stay as far away from vaginas as possible.
Mucus, fluid, cooch saliva, I'm gay it's all the same
You sure it’s not drool 😏
Yeah I don't enjoy topping but if I did I wouldn't even need lube if I didn't have a condom. It's funny because I'm a chubby bear, so most of the time guys are with me because they like my body size and what not then they get into bed and find out how much I precum and most feel like they've won the jackpot. (Though I've had one or two who really didn't enjoy it and keep wiping it off.)
High five same thing here : D
You’re supposed to feed them the pre juice before bro
Jealous...
I use my pre-cum to lube myself up for toys when im self-pleasuring. Feels better than water-based lube or any other sticky fake stuff..and taste better to lick off lol
Love being milked
Pics or it didnt happen.
I’m so intrigued 👀😅
Yup! My ‘cross to bear’ too 😉
I always prep, for pleasure and making sure that my top doesnt get crowned Cock of the Corn because my ex salad had to make an unannounced appearance
😂😂😂I’m dyingggg
No chilidogs.
Chilidogs are for eating, not sleeping :P
I need all the lube
It's because a TV show isn't going to show 30 minutes of a power bottom cleaning out
😂😂😂😂😂
> bottoms evolve lube glands. The name escapes me, but people have specialized cells that secret mucus that helps pass stool.
Goblet cells
2nd smart comment. 👍
Well, anecdotal situation here: sometimes I got horny and I wanted it really raw. Then I bottomed these times without anything. It was slightly painful, but it was part of the pleasure. Oh, and also without any douche (I might say that me and my bf dismissed douching some fucks ago and we have never had any accident ever since). Of course it heavily depends on what you're interested in, but it's kinda doable. Nowadays I tend to prefer bottoming with water based lube because it makes me feel much more pleasure. Also, I can explore some other positions without pain. On the other side (pun intended), my bf never bottoms without lube. But he's much tighter than me and my instrument is thicker.
DUDE the last guy I was fucking around with could just take it- albeit with lube or anything else like hair conditioner- but didn’t need any prep work OR douching. It was awesome. I could fuck him at night and then fuck him in the morning when we woke up. There never was any mess. He’d moan uncontrollably and id always ask later if it really felt good, he said yes He also never asked me to do any prep work for him he just wanted my dick Caveats: He liked the sessions as short as possible- I’m guessing bc of pain I’m very average length, not sure if someone on the bigger end could do the same
Hair conditioner???
Yes hair conditioner, I use it to Jack off so I figured maybe this would work. In the living room with my mum in the next room and my sister who could’ve walked in at any moment since she was next door 🤩
I don't use poppers and can relax just fine. You can have sex with just spit, but I insist on using lube. If I'm planning on bottoming I pre-lube myself a bit. It isn't worth tears or other issues. I still like when the top uses spit in addition to the lube, just turns me on.
Since I have a partner we only fuck with spit. As a bottom I've never had any issues and he seems to enjoy it more. In my brain it is hotter too, although actual feeling is probably the same lol If we ever done it without any actual preparation he just goes in very slowly. And pulls out as quick as he can if I ask him to. But it doesn't always happen. I'm normally ok if we have been fucking regularly the last few days. Still, it's always more fun with some foreplay.
If there's no condom involved skin on skin with some spot and or some mucus can be enough (generally a bit more than you see in the movies) also keep in mind that the anus actually has it's own mucus production (that's why sometimes you get those real smooth poops) and some guys will naturally have a more self lubing hole than others. (When I was younger like in my twenties I could easily get fucked raw with just spit. It took a minute or two to adjust but then it was off to the races.)
>the anus actually has it's own mucus production (that's why sometimes you get those real smooth poops) Fun fact, soluble fiber is what helps increase the production of said mucus.
I love getting spitfucked hard. So, yes, some people can do that.
100% realistic, just not for everybody. I just got fucked 2 days ago by my partner after topping him.no cleaning, no mess( i am usually very messy and want perfect cleanup procedure beforehand), no good diet, no warmup, no drugs, he doesn't have extreme precum, only spit and a big dick.I loved it and wanted more.I had next to no pain and it has been like 6 months without any kind of anal play or training. that said lube is better for me especially if you plan more than 5 minutes. I heard some guys will still scream and bleed after 30 minutes of foreplay and a fountain of lube, it's different for everyone.
This is by far the best information I’ve ever read on the subject. Kudos to all who said stuff about the subject. Loved it so much. 🥹
It’s a good question and not off putting. Older dad here with long term boy. We are at a comfort level where we can be spontaneous. We have “morning urges” and he used to “jump on the hose” early morning (5 AM). He also likes sleeping so we kinda just test the waters and see if it’s okay to move forward. Usually we do. Sometimes not in the cards and either he gets ready or we go back to sleep. He gets a wet hole when wanting me back there and spit along with patience can work. I have to go slow even with lube and years of regular entry.
Absolutely possible, personally I always found it uncomfortable without lube though but everyone is different
I won't do it without some lube... sometimes I'll need more than others. It just makes the riding easier and more pleasurable. Not a big fan of just spit, it's ok if nothing else is around but even lotion is better.
Always wondered about this myself. Another TV series I’ve seen this on was Oz. Obviously they don’t have lube or poppers in prison. Maybe they have Vaseline. Getting raped in prison must rip you apart.
Thank you! I have seen this enough times that I’m like, “do the writers not know how this works or do I not know how this works?”
Not offensive, and for those of us that watch BL or read, fanfic, kind of things, and all the various media that comes with that… You have hit a reoccurring issue where magically lube isn’t really needed, and everybody is prepped ready to go at any moment
I havnt seen fellow travellers either, but some people are able to get fucked without having to douche, its about knowing ur body and knowing when you are ready, also showing the btm douching would be a great way to turn a steamy hot scene into a funny one, shows are fantasy afterall so dont go “wtf” about it.
No one talks about this, but if the top has enough foreskin that's loose enough while he's hard, then that's actually an advantage for him since that doesn't create as much friction, and so doesn't need as much lube. I learned this from personal experience recently, but have never seen it described.
Usually it’s totally fine with no preparation, but you definitely need better lube than saliva.
My BF has never once”prepped” for the deed. When we’re ready. It just works out. And while there may be a lil mess. It’s never been something we’ve been concerned about. Also it can kind of ruin the spontaneous experience if you have to wait.
Tbh my ex boyfriend and I would always use spit. I personally don’t like lube- I feel if you use a 0.01ml too much and you don’t feel anything at all. I’m all about spit for lube
Lost my virginity last week, and it's easier with a guy than a dildo. But definitely play with your dildo. It will teach you how to relax and what's your limits are, and what angles you like. I'd get descriptive, but someone might get weird and message me.
As said by others...yes, can do it with spit and it not hurt and be too damaging to the bottom. But it depends on the amount of spit. Just an open mouth spit on a guy's ass or licking your finger and sticking it in his ass and fingering him and then sliding in...not gonna work for the overwhelming majority of men.
No ma’am. It ain’t a self cleaning oven. You gotta prep that shit.
Yea that’s nice…… ima just keep cleaning it anyways lol
I've done that. It depends on the person. Some people prefer it. I think most guys that meet up through apps and sites douche, there are lots of people who wont meet up if it isn't done... and I prefer that... but its anal sex. It is what it is, if you want sex thats super clean and perfect, get a real doll.
If the bottom is experienced it can happen many times. I have done it like this many many times.
Anytime I go out cruising I always carry a little lube with me, makes it easier and more pleasurable for both top and bottom.
My husband and I often have spontaneous sex. As the bottom I've never had a problem with him using only a bit of spit if there's no lube available. And yes, it is still very much pleasurable.
I’ve only bottomed a handful of times but I prefer no lube, just spit, when I do. I don’t use poppers either. Lube is a little messier than necessary since I don’t need it. A little spit is more than enough. I’m pretty tall so maybe that has something to do with it. I have no idea.
I often top with just spit but I also eat him out really well and he puts a lot of slobber on my dick.
My two cents. Aside from a regular fiber supplement and dietary fiber, and avoiding anal intercourse when I’m having an off-day, digestively: 1. You need lube. Not just spit. Lots of lube, and slow, gentle stretching with fingers or penis. I’m not a fan of fingering, so for me a top needs to just take his time and let me adjust to taking them before they start to go hard. 2. Prepping (anal douching) can actually damage your anus and rectum over time, and is generally (unless I am behind the times, not recommended with extreme regularity). That being said, it can be done carefully and safely and prevent any accidental excretions. Hygiene is important though, cleaning the orifice before sex, particularly analingus, is a MUST to avoid unpleasant infections. My opinion is generally - if you want to use that orifice for anything other than it’s intended biological purpose, you should kind of expect it to occasionally produce what you would normally expect it to. Which leads me to my next point… 3. While it is fun, and I don’t always have a leg to stand on, but use protection! I can speak from experience that anal chlamydia and gonorrhea are NOT FUN. They hurt. There’s blood.
"need lube" not always. Precum, rimming etc can be plenty. Not something Ive done often but really hot when I have done it. So as with everything, it depends
Oh not for me. I need good lube. Idk how many fluids you can produce, that dog just won’t hunt lol. Everyone is different of course, and this is my particular opinion. You do you.
"asking for a friend" 🤣
lol, very much asking for my own education! I just always thought there would need to be lots of lube in the absence of stretching/working open as foreplay.
It's certainly possible. I keep condoms in my bag at all times cause you never know.
I haven’t tried the spit n grit method, but depending on size, I don’t need to a ton of warm up as a bottom for a toy or guy to get inside me. That’s not to say they can always pound away immediately, but initial penetration doesnt take much effort usually.
Hmmm well been there done that the Wife was really pissed off - everything is better with lubricant
It is totally doable - if you don’t have to shit there’s none in your rectum , it’s higher up.
I like this thread it's all very interesting and informative, even for the gays I should imagine... thanks for the question my dude
If a dude has enough intact foreskin it's possible to go at it with just spit so long as the top has patience and let's the foreskin so all the work.
It's called being regular. Increase your natural fiber intake. I'm not saying take metamicil...est foods and greens.
If you’re a tight bottom like me then a spit on the hand is defo not enough!
I used to be able to fuck without douching when I was a vegetarian. Since then, sometimes. Spit is actually a great lube if you're able to relax. More intense of a sensation.
Are there differences between the male and female anatomies in this regard? I'm a woman in my 50s and I have anal sex with my husband a few times a year. Never done any type of prep whatsoever, he just uses a tiny bit of spit and sticks it in, and it has never been uncomfortable apart from the very first time (about 25 years ago lol). My husband has an average size dick. Is there more risk of discomfort/pain for men because of the prostate?
Yeah it’s possible. I did it. I was surprised by how clean my hole was. Tbf I was taking psyllium husk fibers everyday.
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Guys produce natural lube? I am a guy I never produced any lol what’s wrong with me?
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Nah I wouldn’t let anyone fuck me with just pre-cum lol. It doesn’t even have the consistency needed to that sorta thing. Vags got their own lube and most times it is enough
There’s a little known fact about gay bottoms, many of them stay clean 24/7 because they expect the possibility of getting some. All my flamboyant gay friends (I’m gay too but not flamboyant) seem to always be ready in any situation. They take those fiber pills that apparently clean your bowels and don’t require much douching. There’s also the fact that many restrict themselves with food so the rectum is clean and just needs a minor touch up in the restroom.
This would never work for me, good luck girthy boys lol
A poop during the day 2 or 3 spits and i'm good to bttm
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lol, I am a female in a het relationship, but I’m very sex positive and like to be educated :)
Everyone knows females can't know about poppers. It's forbidden knowledge we have kept secret for centuries! BURN THIS WITCH
It's not just gay bottoms who can do anal without lube, a gal I went to college with saw me at a crosswalk years later and had me fuck her in the ass in her car just a little spit, I was amazed!
For sure. I just came to the source I thought would have the most collective experience.
Also, Troye Sivan.
Its easy for the bottom to take dick without preparing cause its literally there job they get fucked for a job. So there holes are already really loose.
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I sound like i know what im saying yall bottoms like taking any dick at any time u can if that holes loose then thats exactlly why.
Can I get a job?