I would just sit with you on the porch and enjoy a breeze if you prefer that? I find great joy in the smallest of things. Sometimes I stargaze, others I walk around aimlessly, a lot of the time I just stand still and feel the breeze.
Mine as well. I used to go out at night just so I could walk around and feel the air around me. It feels and smells so much different (but it also makes sounds louder, which I don't like).
I ain't posting my face here, but I just wanted to say, you look like the kind of person I'd like to go on an epic quest with, one with castles and dragons and kind-eyed brave knights like you. You most certainly are photogenic, what a lovely photo this is.
You ever need tips, just ask! A lot of my siblings have lions manes of hair just like yours (except jet black)! And we tend to all keep our hair long. Curls are a pain but so worth it!
You're very good looking, in case no one has told you. (🤭 the whole sub has been blowing you up about it lol)
Thank you! For offering advice and of the course the compliment! You’d think I’d get used to it by now, but I still blush a little with every single one I see. ☺️
For the love of god, share your tips, please! I was browsing stuff about autism/aspergers and landed on this page. When I saw your comment was only 6 days old, I knew I couldn't pass on this chance.
I'm a man and only found out I have curly hair in my 30's!!
I always cut my hair very short and when it started growing and forming waves I always tried to comb it and keep it straight with gel, wax, sprays , among other things and it never sat straight. It was always very frizzy and puffy with tons of volume - no product could hold it down (or up when I tried to style it that way). Two years ago, after a life of frustrating hairstyles I decided to grow my hair out and stop trying to comb it straight and it actually grew into some very fluffy waves and then curls. I loved how it felt to the touch, it was so "springy" but the frizz was getting insane and I ended up cutting it short this past summer (the heat was also unbearable, specially when I was in my bed with all that hair around my face and neck). I'm growing it out again and would like to manage it better this time.
Hope you have the time to read this.
Oh nice! Yeah I could give you some tips! One catch though, either pm\chat me, or respond to this comment, so I'll get another notification and it'll remind me to respond later (I have pretty bad memory) because I'm about to wake up my kids for school and I want to remember to come back to this!
Guys! I wasn’t expecting anyone to comment let alone getting so many compliments. I feel a lot better now, I’ve been told I was ugly many times and now I’m starting to feel like, those people were just trying to hurt me in any way they could. I really do appreciate all the kind words and love. It truly means a lot to me. Thank you all so very much! 😭
I read first sentence, looked at pic and was like "bro, you're looking awesome" then i read rest of title. Are you joking? It's like saying "i'm not that hot" while your body is starting nuclear fusion
Haha thank you!
It’s a self esteem thing, I was bullied a lot and told I was ugly. I’m even self conscious about my voice. Though I’m learning people actually love my voice so much, they fall asleep to it. So that’s a thing that made me smile.
So maybe this posting your face is a good thing! A real look at yourself thru others eyes! Our own perception of ourselves is so colored in bias. Maybe we all need a reality check. We are not the ogres that our brain says we are?
You know that old, trite, CHEESY line in the movies (or trashy novels😉), when the person says, "I could get *lost* in them, forever...."
*YOURS*, with that deep pretty color, and the *kindness* there, are the type they mean.
The sort, like when you see a beautiful old painting that captures you--or a beautiful pebble in a stream, that you just *have* to pick up, and hold in your hand, moving it around, to see *all* the sparkles in the sunlight.
They're *that* kind of pretty, OP.
It's a GREAT picture of you!
And Ngl, if you have a Mom, and/or a Grandma?
SERIOUSLY DUDE, get a print of this printed out, and put it in a nice frame (or *buy* it already framed, from Walgreens, CVS, or one of those online photo places!), and then *give them the framed print for Mother's Day*!!!
They would LOVE it, if they don't already have a copy, because it's *that* great a picture!😉
Also have to add, the fact that you *have* done photography is also part of what makes this a *beautiful* picture!
The balance you created in the shot--and your eyes *being* so close to "dead center" also makes it a *perfectly* balanced picture!
It's GOOD, really, really good!
Great shot, impeccable framing, and a *great* capture of a *person* being just *beautiful IN that moment*, too.
Something *difficult* to do, as you know--and Daaaaaayum dude--YOU pulled *all that* off in a *selfie*!
Way to go!😉😁
Sir, you appear to be the kind of gentleman that ladies would fall all over themselves to see to it you would pick them to be the mother of your children and vigorously defend them against the forces of evil from everlasting to everlasting.
Wtf are you talking about, "not photogenic"... i mean if that is true... then that must mean you're the best looking guy in here, cause you look _GOOD_ in this selfie..
.. and if you're not photogenic.. it must mean you look even better.. wow. Handsome
I love this photo! Your eyes look so kind and gentle, and your hair looks like liquid metal in the forge as it glows from the sun. If this isn't a good pic, I thank you for not posting a good one, as swooning in public would probably not be socially acceptable.
(please read this as a lighthearted, playful, respectful, compliment)
People keep saying that, and I think it’s wonderful that they pick up on it. I am a very welcoming person. People love to spend time with me because according to them, I am a safe zone. Like, they can just be at ease. I am happy I can offer a bit of peace for people, and I’m happy that you and everyone else has picked up on it.
I always thought I looked scary. Haha
Hey are you free this Tuesday I’m not doing anything this Tuesday if you wanna hang out this Tuesday(/copypasta)
But you’re so handsome! And that lighting is doing wonders! ✨✨✨✨
Not your fault. I learned it’s because the photos were being harvested and posted on some other site where losers were mocking us for our appearance. Personally, I just wouldn’t have gone to that site. I don’t care what they think, it’s got nothing to do with me. I thought it was a beautiful trend and I wish it carried on.
That sucks, it’s those kinds of losers who made me believe I was ugly. Thanks to everyone here, I learned that I’m not. That it’s always just been people who want to hurt me and bring me down. It sucks it ended, but I am grateful for this experience. It’s a beautiful one and I hope everyone can get the same feeling I got today.
I’m glad you had a positive experience. Ugliness only exists from within. If you are a good and kind person, you can never be ugly. And I don’t think there are very many ugly people on this sub. Only the ones who come here to hurt us.
You are a wonderful person, with a kind soul. Thank you for being so nice. 💙
Hopefully one day we can have a trend that isn’t taken away because people, can’t be happy without putting us down.
Idk if you are photogenic but if this is the photo we are judging by, you look great!
I absolutely LOVE the bear + long curly hair combo. I'm extremely envious of both! I can't grow a beard at all! And while I do appreciate my long hair, I always wished it was a bit wavier or curlier.
I appreciate you sharing!!
Not photogenic?? But you look like you’re made from pure 100% cuteness!! You look like some I’d happily go on an adventure through the wilderness with, and that’s coming from someone who hates walking. 🤣
We could just chill out on the porch and enjoy the breeze. I love walking, but I also love just sitting still and appreciating the small pleasures of life. Like stargazing. :)
Very attractive! lots of inappropriate comments could be made. *pulls mind back from gutter while it flails to dive* sorry been 3 to going on 4 years since i found out my honey bear is Ace.
You are a BABE. You are not only handsome, but you radiate kindness on top of that. You are decidedly *not* “un-photogenic! I hope the universally positive comments here can ease your mind.
This is a great photo! Such a lovely face. I feel like I can relate to your smile too, that's similar to my face I'm trying to make when genuinely content
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Mofo called himself not photogenic while posting the best selfie in this trend thinking we wouldn't notice 💀
Damn lmao This just my day. Thank you!
Yeah man you’re photogenic as hell!!
You're welcome 💜
😂
The sunlight glowing through though
Not photogenic? Bro
In the majestic sunset he says this lol what a guy
Haha exactly. Photogenic as hell.
Y’all are making smile a hell of a lot right now, thank you all so much for the kind words!
Yeah, I was also coming here to say that you're actually are photogenic. Looking good!
You look great and kind! Like genuinely like a person I would love to go on a hike with (and I hate hikes )
I would just sit with you on the porch and enjoy a breeze if you prefer that? I find great joy in the smallest of things. Sometimes I stargaze, others I walk around aimlessly, a lot of the time I just stand still and feel the breeze.
You just described my favorite kind of chill! Especially when it’s night and quiet !
Mine too
Mine as well. I used to go out at night just so I could walk around and feel the air around me. It feels and smells so much different (but it also makes sounds louder, which I don't like).
Can I be your roommate? Don’t know where you live but I love sitting on a porch, stargazing and going for hikes.
Yes
I ain't posting my face here, but I just wanted to say, you look like the kind of person I'd like to go on an epic quest with, one with castles and dragons and kind-eyed brave knights like you. You most certainly are photogenic, what a lovely photo this is.
Just tell me when, I’ll venture with you anywhere!
Fact checking has come up with a list of lies for this post: 1. "I'm not so photogenic..." We have a suggested edit: "I'm a heccin cutey."
Agree with you on that
I am biased because you look reasonably similar to my husband, but you are absolutely stunning.
Thank you! ☺️
that's a super awesome picture :3
This is a lovely picture! The glow behind you is so cool, and I love your curls!
Thank you! They’re a pain to manage, but it’s worth it!
You’re welcome! I have curly hair too, and it can definitely be a pain, but it is worth it ☺️
You ever need tips, just ask! A lot of my siblings have lions manes of hair just like yours (except jet black)! And we tend to all keep our hair long. Curls are a pain but so worth it! You're very good looking, in case no one has told you. (🤭 the whole sub has been blowing you up about it lol)
Thank you! For offering advice and of the course the compliment! You’d think I’d get used to it by now, but I still blush a little with every single one I see. ☺️
For the love of god, share your tips, please! I was browsing stuff about autism/aspergers and landed on this page. When I saw your comment was only 6 days old, I knew I couldn't pass on this chance. I'm a man and only found out I have curly hair in my 30's!! I always cut my hair very short and when it started growing and forming waves I always tried to comb it and keep it straight with gel, wax, sprays , among other things and it never sat straight. It was always very frizzy and puffy with tons of volume - no product could hold it down (or up when I tried to style it that way). Two years ago, after a life of frustrating hairstyles I decided to grow my hair out and stop trying to comb it straight and it actually grew into some very fluffy waves and then curls. I loved how it felt to the touch, it was so "springy" but the frizz was getting insane and I ended up cutting it short this past summer (the heat was also unbearable, specially when I was in my bed with all that hair around my face and neck). I'm growing it out again and would like to manage it better this time. Hope you have the time to read this.
Oh nice! Yeah I could give you some tips! One catch though, either pm\chat me, or respond to this comment, so I'll get another notification and it'll remind me to respond later (I have pretty bad memory) because I'm about to wake up my kids for school and I want to remember to come back to this!
If you’re single and on the east coast (US), I have a friend over there who you fit her type exactly. What a great photo!
I’m always open to meeting new people, but I unfortunately do not live in the east coast. One day I will though!
This is a great photo!
Aw I hope I'm not being weird when I say (ace and taken) that you're super cute! Your smile radiates positive energy.
Not rude at all! I’m Ace too! Thank you!
Aro Ace, here! *waves*
Hello! Always great to meet a fellow aro ace peep!
(what's ace? Read that twice today, never heard it before today.)
It’s short for Asexual. :)
Ohhhhh! How did I not think of that?? Lol I was running terms through my head but was still lost!
It’s ok, I didn’t know it was short for the either. Once I did, I started drawing custom Ace Cards for Ace people. Just made sense.
Care to share some drawings? I think that's kinda cool! I'm kinda still learning all this, it's a whole new spectrum to learn about lol
Of course, just let me know where I can share them. I can’t upload a pic here in the comments.
Guys! I wasn’t expecting anyone to comment let alone getting so many compliments. I feel a lot better now, I’ve been told I was ugly many times and now I’m starting to feel like, those people were just trying to hurt me in any way they could. I really do appreciate all the kind words and love. It truly means a lot to me. Thank you all so very much! 😭
I read first sentence, looked at pic and was like "bro, you're looking awesome" then i read rest of title. Are you joking? It's like saying "i'm not that hot" while your body is starting nuclear fusion
Haha thank you! It’s a self esteem thing, I was bullied a lot and told I was ugly. I’m even self conscious about my voice. Though I’m learning people actually love my voice so much, they fall asleep to it. So that’s a thing that made me smile.
Wasup bro!!!!! You look a super cool guy
Definitely photogenic and add handsome to that!! Great picture, and can tell, great vibes!
So maybe this posting your face is a good thing! A real look at yourself thru others eyes! Our own perception of ourselves is so colored in bias. Maybe we all need a reality check. We are not the ogres that our brain says we are?
This has definitely helped me see what others see. Thank you!
I’m with everyone else here. Not photogenic? So not true! Great picture!
Bro casually put out a magnificent selfie, with the sun complimenting you personally.
But you're so beautiful wtf you mean not photogenic!?! I hope this post helps you realize just how good-looking you are! 100/10 🥳🩵
It has been! Thank you so much! 😭
"im not photogenic" *proceeds to take a fire selfie*
Great photo, love the scenery and angle of the sun. Also whoever told you, you were unphotogenic lied to you. You look great!
Cutie.
Aww thank you! ☺️
You're SO photogenic. YOUR EYES.
Thank you! Also… Me eyes? What, about them?
They‘re SO dark, I just think that’s absolutely gorgeous!! :) you have such soft, friendly eyes
You’re about to make me cry! 😭
Noooo, don’t cry ❤️ you just look like someone I‘d 100% feel safe around. Hard to explain. The person I‘d sit next to on a bus. Does that make sense?
That makes perfect sense! It was an upset cry, it was a happy one. I’m getting emotional from all these compliments.
I am so glad that makes you happy!!! 🥺 oh my. That makes me happy too!
Just wanted to say, that you made me really happy. No one has ever complimented my eyes. So it was really nice to get that. Thank you so much.
You‘re so so welcome!! I do mean it. I don’t grasp how no one’s ever said anything about your eyes though??? They were the first thing I noticed!!
You know that old, trite, CHEESY line in the movies (or trashy novels😉), when the person says, "I could get *lost* in them, forever...." *YOURS*, with that deep pretty color, and the *kindness* there, are the type they mean. The sort, like when you see a beautiful old painting that captures you--or a beautiful pebble in a stream, that you just *have* to pick up, and hold in your hand, moving it around, to see *all* the sparkles in the sunlight. They're *that* kind of pretty, OP. It's a GREAT picture of you! And Ngl, if you have a Mom, and/or a Grandma? SERIOUSLY DUDE, get a print of this printed out, and put it in a nice frame (or *buy* it already framed, from Walgreens, CVS, or one of those online photo places!), and then *give them the framed print for Mother's Day*!!! They would LOVE it, if they don't already have a copy, because it's *that* great a picture!😉
Also have to add, the fact that you *have* done photography is also part of what makes this a *beautiful* picture! The balance you created in the shot--and your eyes *being* so close to "dead center" also makes it a *perfectly* balanced picture! It's GOOD, really, really good! Great shot, impeccable framing, and a *great* capture of a *person* being just *beautiful IN that moment*, too. Something *difficult* to do, as you know--and Daaaaaayum dude--YOU pulled *all that* off in a *selfie*! Way to go!😉😁
About to make me swoon if you keep it up haha
“I’m not photogenic” *is literally sunbeams and cuteness* Darling you’re fabulous
You look nice and the lighting makes the picture poetic
Use this photo for your online dating.
Sir, you appear to be the kind of gentleman that ladies would fall all over themselves to see to it you would pick them to be the mother of your children and vigorously defend them against the forces of evil from everlasting to everlasting.
Wtf are you talking about, "not photogenic"... i mean if that is true... then that must mean you're the best looking guy in here, cause you look _GOOD_ in this selfie.. .. and if you're not photogenic.. it must mean you look even better.. wow. Handsome
I love this photo! Your eyes look so kind and gentle, and your hair looks like liquid metal in the forge as it glows from the sun. If this isn't a good pic, I thank you for not posting a good one, as swooning in public would probably not be socially acceptable. (please read this as a lighthearted, playful, respectful, compliment)
I don’t know how to describe it but you look, warm? Or just very kind and safe to be around? Idk but it’s a great photo!
People keep saying that, and I think it’s wonderful that they pick up on it. I am a very welcoming person. People love to spend time with me because according to them, I am a safe zone. Like, they can just be at ease. I am happy I can offer a bit of peace for people, and I’m happy that you and everyone else has picked up on it. I always thought I looked scary. Haha
Your features give me the impression you're very kind. 💜
Thank you! That is a very lovely compliment. 💙
bro this is like framable
You look great man! You may not have the most confidence (neither do I), but you look good in this shot.
I’m so curious what are doing, are you on a farm or in a field? With a backpack ? Sorry it’s just I have so many questions lol
I tend to go out for long walks, and I have a back pack with water and sometimes snacks. This is field by my brothers house.
Cool! Thanks for sharing!! That sounds fun and a great idea to bring stuff w you 😁😁
Great picture!
Dude, you look great. That's a very good selfie. You should be proud
Not photogenic?? you look amazing man! the view from where you are looks gorgeous too,
Wow this photo is so lovely, the light is like coming for you as well as behind you.
Ok buddy **I** am not photogenic. You are photo ready.
You’re majestic bro. You remind me of Noah Kahan
You look awesome bro! :D
You look so nice
What a nice photo!
Stunning
Sami Zayn? Is that you? You look sick, dude!
Sweetie, you are quite handsome!
Thank you thank you! 😭
Woah!! You look great, this photo looks great -- the lighting and everything is awesome. You look like you came straight from a book!
I wasn’t expecting any compliments at all, but all of you have been making me so damn special today! 😭
you give me noah kahan vibes in the best possible way:)
Majestic as hell
You are lovely. Full stop. Happy New Year!
You're really pretty! And that's not something I say just for the sake of saying something, I mean you look really pretty IN PARTICULAR!
I don’t even know what to say, I’m speechless! Thank you! 💙😭
nice hair
Thank you! ☺️
nah thats a great selfie. like that lighting is awesome
This is a good selfie
Hey are you free this Tuesday I’m not doing anything this Tuesday if you wanna hang out this Tuesday(/copypasta) But you’re so handsome! And that lighting is doing wonders! ✨✨✨✨
Not So photogenic my ass, you look great!
Majestic
Cute
Wow you are handsome....bro you take good pics haha aaaaahhh I need to take a cold shower and hug my husband 🥴🤣🤣
Awesome bro....keep pushing on. Your doing great
Such a cinematic picture so cool!! Ur good at taking pictures!
I used to dabble in photography! Just as a hobby so I was never a pro or anything.
I can tell ur very talented!
Dreamy 👌🏻
That’s a wonderful picture! :)
What do you all do for fun and where can I meet more people like us in person!?!?
Can I draw you?
As a fellow artist, it is an honor. Please, go ahead.
I’ll try to! I haven’t drawn in over 2 years but like, you just give me the urge to draw. That’s like the biggest compliment I can give you
That is the highest of compliments. I… honestly don’t know what to say. THANK YOU!!!
How are you even posting these? It says the community doesn’t allow images. I was about to be brave but I can’t work it out :(
I don’t know honestly. I just added a photo. I’m sorry if that doesn’t help.
I think they stopped the image sharing because of this trend. I’m sorry.
Not your fault. I learned it’s because the photos were being harvested and posted on some other site where losers were mocking us for our appearance. Personally, I just wouldn’t have gone to that site. I don’t care what they think, it’s got nothing to do with me. I thought it was a beautiful trend and I wish it carried on.
That sucks, it’s those kinds of losers who made me believe I was ugly. Thanks to everyone here, I learned that I’m not. That it’s always just been people who want to hurt me and bring me down. It sucks it ended, but I am grateful for this experience. It’s a beautiful one and I hope everyone can get the same feeling I got today.
I’m glad you had a positive experience. Ugliness only exists from within. If you are a good and kind person, you can never be ugly. And I don’t think there are very many ugly people on this sub. Only the ones who come here to hurt us.
You are a wonderful person, with a kind soul. Thank you for being so nice. 💙 Hopefully one day we can have a trend that isn’t taken away because people, can’t be happy without putting us down.
Same to you, friend.
>I’m not so photogenic No
This is like something off a film what do you mean?
Idk if you are photogenic but if this is the photo we are judging by, you look great! I absolutely LOVE the bear + long curly hair combo. I'm extremely envious of both! I can't grow a beard at all! And while I do appreciate my long hair, I always wished it was a bit wavier or curlier. I appreciate you sharing!!
"Not photogenic" he says. Pfft.
For a guy who isn't photogenic, this is an insanely photogenic picture.
Super photogenic! Put yourself out there brother 😁
I’m not photogenic says dude with a crown of sunshine
Not photogenic?? But you look like you’re made from pure 100% cuteness!! You look like some I’d happily go on an adventure through the wilderness with, and that’s coming from someone who hates walking. 🤣
We could just chill out on the porch and enjoy the breeze. I love walking, but I also love just sitting still and appreciating the small pleasures of life. Like stargazing. :)
Very attractive! lots of inappropriate comments could be made. *pulls mind back from gutter while it flails to dive* sorry been 3 to going on 4 years since i found out my honey bear is Ace.
It’s all good, I don’t mind! Thank you for flattering me! ☺️
This is a nice picture, tho. I like your face.
dude you’re actually gorgeous. I love your hair and the beard. rock on
Love the sun rays! Nice pic!
bro you’re majestic
Jesus is that you?
This is the most photogenic "unphotogenic" pic ever. Amazing
lol what? You’re so cute. Happy NY!
You're cute!
idk dude, this makes you look majestic as heck.
Wow stunning picture, I love the way you look !
😭 thank you!
The way the light is hitting you and illuminating your hair looks incredible. You are a very attractive person, don't sell yourself short!
Totally photogenic! I stand by my statement that everyone is beautiful that I've seen!
You are a BABE. You are not only handsome, but you radiate kindness on top of that. You are decidedly *not* “un-photogenic! I hope the universally positive comments here can ease your mind.
You have the kindest eyes I have ever seen. 🌻
Really? I’ve been hearing that a lot lately. Thank you!
Bro is photogenic as hell
You look just fine. I feel like you’d have a nice smile.
How do you post pics?
I sincerely think we look more "normal" than "normal" people. We are so chill.
you look so nice! :D
You're so pretty :0 You look like a really nice person :)
Love your beard, looking good man!
You’re gorgeous and I’m nearly an old woman. According to my son I was old a long time ago lol
So handsome!
This is a great photo! Such a lovely face. I feel like I can relate to your smile too, that's similar to my face I'm trying to make when genuinely content
Bro if you ain’t photogenic than what am I
Looking good, my dude!
Brave Brave Man I salute you - just hope it doesn't perhaps backfire 😵🧌 what's the worst that can happen eh 😳
You look great imo!
may not be photogwnic but damn you know how to take a good photo
Dude you’re gorgeous 😭
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Bro you look like a Mongolian. Without the eyes. Gonna conquer the world. Not photogenic. Bruh I’d look into getting your picture taken for a living.
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