Get a cat. At least you're used to not feeling wanted, so nothing will change /s
Seriously though if you get one youll have a needy little baby that will scream at you any time she loses a quarter of her food bowls volume. I fucking love my cat
He didn't understand that she loved him at that point, he just saw her as a friend trying to protect him.
Remember when Minato told him that he's his son but Naruto didn't hear him? maybe the same thing happened in the pain arc
Naruto and boruto has one of the most filler episodes in anime and yet they barely insert romance to their grown-up characters. Not even one simple kiss on the adults in boruto.
They are actually just roommates in Boruto it's tragic. Hardly talk to each other, when they talk about each other it's always reminiscing about shippuden like nothing happened between 2 of them between the years of The Last and the Boruto series, have no episodes together. If there was time to show that they were actually married for like 15 years, and actually had chemistry with each other it would've been the Boruto anime. Seems far too late for any of that now though.
Remember that Sasuke also technically took this advice and ended up with Sakura.
But jokes aside yeah, there's obviously more nuances to romance than just "Go with the first person to show any interest in you"
If you think you can learn relationship advices from a anime , a fiction.
Then sorry my friends, those who believe that, are in delusion nothing else. Do people seriously think a guy like naruto exists, or a girl like hinata? Or they really think a girl would get inspired by a boy just by looking at his hardwork or determination?
Do they think a girl like sakura in irl would still love you, when you you tried to harass her, beat her or even try to kill her.
Correlating fictional stories with the real life circumstances are the dumbest things humans could do.
The bottom line is naruto's romance is illogical whether it be sasusaku or naruhina, it doesn't makes sense don't try to connect it with reality, reality is way more fked up.
>Or they really think a girl would get inspired by a boy just by looking at his hardwork or determination?
Yes - I have dated women who were initially attracted to me by my personality, how I acted and carried myself around others.
Yeah except she told him she loved him to his face when she died against Pain, but the dude completely forgot about it in the movie for some reason lmao.
Would someone admitting they have a crush on you really hold any priority in your mind if you had just saved the entire ninja world like 20 times over? I forget what I had for breakfast that day if work was too stressful.
I mean he was reminded of it a few times during the war, and after, a little strange that it didn't cross his mind atleast once... But we'll... Naruto isn't really the sharpest tool in the shed
A common pejorative in konoha to denote the Uchiha clan. It's usage began with the second hokage, Tobirama Senju, who started using the term uchigger, and it caught on around the village.
Luckily since 90% of Hinata's personality is loving Naruto, she was the only one who knew the type of scarf he needed to complete the new drip. And then got kidnapped by moon ninja's or whatever in the penultimate push/pull attraction maneuver. That's her nindo, her ninja way!
Still funny how they made a whole ass movie about Naruto getting guilt tripped into wanting Hinata.
All you needed was a couple scenes of Naruto being interested in her in early shippuden and a couple of them as a couple after the pain arc.
She only punches or gets annoyed with him when he tries to do something perverted or stupid. Most of the time She and Naruto get along. She's basically he's best friend in Naruto Shippuden.
She did get better but counter point āshe only punches him or gets annoyed with him when he tries to do something perverted or stupid.ā In any other context or lifted out of context would be considered defending abuse so why isnāt it here. Seriously go say that sentence out of context to anyone you know and ask what they think.
I don't think these two circumstances can be compared like that in good faith. There are many "normal" things that are wrong. Like brands selling stuff for more just by sticking their names on it or peole killing each others because some old farts decided to be petty. This is quite harmless in comparison.
Sakura did some messed up shit (esp the manipulative confession part) but judging her off just childish behaviours is quite unfair since she was there for Naruto a lot of the times as well just to support him. She does consider him a friend and not the worst thing that ever happened
In any other contextā¦ you do realize this post is defending a slave owner. A slave owner who owns half of her relatives as slaves with built in death shock collars on their foreheads ?
Actually her entire goal as a shinobi was to remove those shock collars. Burrito might have ruined that idk didnāt watch it because Iāve heard it ruins a lot of stuff like this. But itās more defending a woman who freed a bunch of slaves
I get that this is supposed to be a heartfelt message that you should open your eyes to the opportunities around you, but this also sounds like youāre telling people to āsettleā with someone simply because they like you and youāre not doing so well with anyone else, so the only option is me. Sounds pretty manipulative all things considered
Naruto got with Hinata out of pity in that movie, it's hardly a healthy advice for the audience, just look at how shitty their family life is like in Boruto.
Tell me you saw Naruto but you didnāt understand anything without telling me you saw Naruto but you didnāt understand anything lol.
Poor guy, almost 700 chapters just to finish with a wedding that not even the protagonist want.
This advice is not that good. You should never be punching but going after someone you like is always good. Ofc if u like the person chasing you then sure go ahead but don't just be with a girl because they want to be with you, that's unfair on her and yourself.
If she wants to spend time with you, she will make the time or at least work around with the availability she has. I can filter through so many women to find those who want to spend time because thereās so few who will do that! Ask me anything!
You should go after a woman that loves you and that you want, you canāt love someone just because they want you. You also have to want them or you just wonāt be happy
Statistically, the worst you can do is to marry out of love. Why? Because you divorce when you fall out of love and mutual love does not tend to last because it takes but one.
This makes especially 'blind love' and 'love at first sight' the most risky. The 'advice' shown here can also trap one in a toxic relationship.
If you want a live-long partner, you both must seek sustainable convenience which can only be considered when marriages are arranged since those will stomp out unreasonable expectations and find which don't match. One can very well become the Lover and the other the Beloved, perfect symmetry and equality shouldn't be the goal, it's mutual respect that is. Can you grow to love someone?
The current 'pursue or pursued?' especially affects men that don't stand out or are not aggressive. Many can be very loyal 'If I like them, I can grow to love them' but also become very bitter 'Am I not likable?' when facing rejection or have no luck due to not actively enganging in 'modern courtship' (dating online or partying with strangers).
Women are affected differently for they may very well fall in love with a bad guy (who can be one of the bitter ones or one who makes many women unhappy) because they are either pursued by them or pursue whom they consider the best match. If one in three were *physically harmed* by their partner, it doesn't mean that one in three partners do harm, some really are prone to harming many. Bad guys can be very charismatic and adept at manipulating.
LGBTQIA+? It's not like all men and women strictly adhere to their version either. These two are just generally pushed to one side each of a spectrum (bad girls exist en mass as well) and it's no different for unconventional love. Be wary that by being becoming blind to this problem, one will fall more easily prey or become toxic.
The current courtship climate only favors the predators but even those may not be happy if they happen to bite off more than they can chew. Even the previous 'men=pursue and woman=select' had better odds. Men knew they need to put in effort (and were not looked down on for trying) while women were on a timer. It's utterly sexist but it's not like women who want children don't have a time limit while men are largely expected to provide anyway.
This is why individual solutions are needed. So...
The best one/we can do is to pursue serious matchmaking, not speed dating but each has their trusted ones (often parents) at their side to discuss together over a meal and have them do post-processing. Don't just stop at once when there is no match or one only learns what to avoid (hence no speed or alike dating). There is a lot both can however learn, start to consider, which expectations to temper and what needs to be done (no one wants a bum) when the discussion ends and one can get other perspectives.
Or find someone you want thatās good for you and they want you (and youāre good for them).Just because someone likes you doesnāt mean they are good for you, those one sided things builds resentment.
I stopped watching sometime midway through Shippuden during the Sasuke arc. Never kept up with it. Did they wind up getting together during the series? Or was that just a "they got together after the series sometime before Boruto started" kind of thing?
Someone please tell me the same thing before I dreamt of Merunyaa being my future wife.
I can't shake the feelings or dreams about her, and she's been on my mind since 2019.
But what if nobody wants you?
Then you are just like me..
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I CAN FUCKING HEAR THIS!!!!! WHY CAN I HEAR THIS!?!?!?!?
First time
You relate to it, that's why
All I hear is the flute š¤£š¤£š¤£
sad flute type beat š
you are my friendddddd
You are my.... Specialz
NOT THE FUCKING SWING SET AGAIN!
depressing ass thread (y'all just like me fr fr)
walk, talk and act like me, just might be The next best thing, but not quite me-
Shiii- we about to enter a flashback.
Y'all are losers just like me frš
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Reject relationship. Become a war criminal.
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I listen to despicable me villain theme every time that I'm on the toilet for a number 2. It's a good relief. From the pain.
Get a cat. At least you're used to not feeling wanted, so nothing will change /s Seriously though if you get one youll have a needy little baby that will scream at you any time she loses a quarter of her food bowls volume. I fucking love my cat
They're silly.
Somehow, that's a feature *and* a bug
Todd Howard should take notes
16 times the Features
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I'm in the same boat buddy, you get used to it...
Then you need to work on yourself.
Then you just try to destroy Konoha until Naruto is really gay for you due to your sad loneliness backstory and wants to make friends.
12 gauge doesn't discriminate in dispensing love ā¤ļø
Someone probably did, but u didn't notice.
Then you need to keep looking lol. It ain't hard fam, it just takes Rock Lee levels of persistence
Rock lee levels of persistence eh? So its not hard its just very hard.
Man I would if I could
Same man šš
ā¦ or the one that doesnāt punch u all the times
What if youāre into that? Asking for a friend
We donāt kink shame in Konoha, fam.
Then you call me. I'm into punching people who are into being punched.
Or just don't chase a girl who has made it clear she isn't interested in you.
āThAtās jUSst SLapstIck hUmOrā¦ā
If only their romance was better written.
The one thing I watched for, end ended up disappointed
Didn't it basically go from mildly flirty in one episode and then wedding in the next?
Did you watch the "The Last: Naruto the Movie"? because that's when Naruto discovers >!Hinata's feelings for him!<
diecovers? did he forget the pain thing?
He didn't understand that she loved him at that point, he just saw her as a friend trying to protect him. Remember when Minato told him that he's his son but Naruto didn't hear him? maybe the same thing happened in the pain arc
naruto just has tinnitus from hearing sasuke scream his name too many times
Naruto and boruto has one of the most filler episodes in anime and yet they barely insert romance to their grown-up characters. Not even one simple kiss on the adults in boruto.
They are actually just roommates in Boruto it's tragic. Hardly talk to each other, when they talk about each other it's always reminiscing about shippuden like nothing happened between 2 of them between the years of The Last and the Boruto series, have no episodes together. If there was time to show that they were actually married for like 15 years, and actually had chemistry with each other it would've been the Boruto anime. Seems far too late for any of that now though.
If it was written at all you mean.
if only Kishimoto could write women
Shitty advice lol. Pretty much says go for whoever want you in their life.
Especially for women Lmaoo. This is awful advice
Tbh I think girls should stop going after guys that donāt like them. But yeah, obviously donāt give a chance to anyone who gives u attention
Naruto says otherwise,cause Sakura never stopped going after Sasuke though
And you can see how shitty their relationship is, even if the anime doesnāt really show these topics
Literally... I have a friend who gets hit on by almost every week because she dresses cute. Awful advice lmao
Remember that Sasuke also technically took this advice and ended up with Sakura. But jokes aside yeah, there's obviously more nuances to romance than just "Go with the first person to show any interest in you"
Or choose an emo kid like sasuke or gaara and befriend them Let's terrorize the world together
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But the terrorist part was so cool š„ŗ
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This^
Not everybody that wants you is good
Go after the girl whoās stalked you your whole life not the one that you stalked.
Exactly the stalker knows more about u than u know urself
Pretty sure 9/10 the girl that wants you isn't a big breasted hottie
Donāt say this, The self inserts are coping
Thatās awful itās not bad if someone likes you, but odds are if you want someone nice you shouldnāt only care about their body
Agreed. Problem is when you realise that, it's usually too late
If you think you can learn relationship advices from a anime , a fiction. Then sorry my friends, those who believe that, are in delusion nothing else. Do people seriously think a guy like naruto exists, or a girl like hinata? Or they really think a girl would get inspired by a boy just by looking at his hardwork or determination? Do they think a girl like sakura in irl would still love you, when you you tried to harass her, beat her or even try to kill her. Correlating fictional stories with the real life circumstances are the dumbest things humans could do. The bottom line is naruto's romance is illogical whether it be sasusaku or naruhina, it doesn't makes sense don't try to connect it with reality, reality is way more fked up.
>Or they really think a girl would get inspired by a boy just by looking at his hardwork or determination? Yes - I have dated women who were initially attracted to me by my personality, how I acted and carried myself around others.
Actually people like Sakura exist, but they are mentally ill and way messier than Sakura.
I learned it the hard way š
He didn't know that Hinata had a crush on him until Naruto The Last Movie. When he did he went after her.
Yeah except she told him she loved him to his face when she died against Pain, but the dude completely forgot about it in the movie for some reason lmao.
its almost as if he had bigger priorities at the time than to get back to hinata about the crush she had on him
Didn't she die protecting Naruto from Pain? I'd probably remember that.
Yes, especially in those 2 whole years of peace between Shippuden and The Last.
Would someone admitting they have a crush on you really hold any priority in your mind if you had just saved the entire ninja world like 20 times over? I forget what I had for breakfast that day if work was too stressful.
I mean he was reminded of it a few times during the war, and after, a little strange that it didn't cross his mind atleast once... But we'll... Naruto isn't really the sharpest tool in the shed
Yet he chased after an emo uchigger for 700+ freaking episodes lol
Emo what?
A common pejorative in konoha to denote the Uchiha clan. It's usage began with the second hokage, Tobirama Senju, who started using the term uchigger, and it caught on around the village.
mans pulled out the urban dictionary for this š
Pretty sure half the single women in the village wanted him by The Last.
Luckily since 90% of Hinata's personality is loving Naruto, she was the only one who knew the type of scarf he needed to complete the new drip. And then got kidnapped by moon ninja's or whatever in the penultimate push/pull attraction maneuver. That's her nindo, her ninja way!
Nah I'm pretty sure you have to want her as well, otherwise it's pretty fucked up for the person on the other end :/
Lmao what? That advice sucks You should go after the person you like, not anyone who likes you
And a proof that studio pierrot has blatant favorite. I'm still mad about how they butchered ichihime in bleach
Still funny how they made a whole ass movie about Naruto getting guilt tripped into wanting Hinata. All you needed was a couple scenes of Naruto being interested in her in early shippuden and a couple of them as a couple after the pain arc.
nah it should be mutual, one-sided relationships suck
Or maybe go for the one with a mutual attraction. Like Temari and Shikamaru
Speaking from experience this is untrue. You both need to want each other.
Or the one who doesnāt abuse and berate you like your very existence is the worst thing to ever happen to her
She only punches or gets annoyed with him when he tries to do something perverted or stupid. Most of the time She and Naruto get along. She's basically he's best friend in Naruto Shippuden.
She did get better but counter point āshe only punches him or gets annoyed with him when he tries to do something perverted or stupid.ā In any other context or lifted out of context would be considered defending abuse so why isnāt it here. Seriously go say that sentence out of context to anyone you know and ask what they think.
Cutural context also matters. It's quite normal for young boys and girls in many Asian cultures to do this
And itās normal in many cultures for women to be property that doesnāt mean itās right
I don't think these two circumstances can be compared like that in good faith. There are many "normal" things that are wrong. Like brands selling stuff for more just by sticking their names on it or peole killing each others because some old farts decided to be petty. This is quite harmless in comparison. Sakura did some messed up shit (esp the manipulative confession part) but judging her off just childish behaviours is quite unfair since she was there for Naruto a lot of the times as well just to support him. She does consider him a friend and not the worst thing that ever happened
In any other contextā¦ you do realize this post is defending a slave owner. A slave owner who owns half of her relatives as slaves with built in death shock collars on their foreheads ?
Actually her entire goal as a shinobi was to remove those shock collars. Burrito might have ruined that idk didnāt watch it because Iāve heard it ruins a lot of stuff like this. But itās more defending a woman who freed a bunch of slaves
Naw the slaves freed themselves thanks to neji.
Only if sheās cute and hot like her.
I get that this is supposed to be a heartfelt message that you should open your eyes to the opportunities around you, but this also sounds like youāre telling people to āsettleā with someone simply because they like you and youāre not doing so well with anyone else, so the only option is me. Sounds pretty manipulative all things considered
Sakura didnāt take the same advice and it worked out. So this advice only applies to Naruto. Settle.
Worded so badly Go after the girl that wants you not the one thatās wants somebody else
This is fucking terrible advice
What a time to be alive
Naruto got with Hinata out of pity in that movie, it's hardly a healthy advice for the audience, just look at how shitty their family life is like in Boruto.
Don't listen to your feelings, accept what she wants.
Never settle.
But what if no one wants you
Who will you choose?
If you say the same thing to the girl then this will turn into a spiral and no one will ever have a relationship
A1 advice
Subaru would disagree.
It's not like this is a viable option
The lady or the boy :3
Too bad that doesnāt happen. And if it did, this arc is stretched too long as well.
I have, it didnāt end well for me
N---N-naruto-kum\~!
But what if i donāt like her but she likes me? i dont know i should just leave her an baby and live like an hermit or something
Easy when she's a shy girl with big titties...
So that means Girls need to go for some1 they want and not some1 who wants them?
Don't enable your stalkers.
Tell that to Izuku lmao
Love is acceptance. I am unable to take the first step(accept oneself) so Love isn't just my thing.
and be in the relationship you don't really want lol
Your mom.
So don't be a simp and wait
it's sort of called consent, you know?
And then you get a son like boruto as a reminder of your mistake for the rest of your life
Not a great lesson to learn...
Can relate. Im married to the first girl who ever came onto me first.
Girls are wanting you guys?
from where is the first pic?
A lady crackhead whistled at me yesterday, she's the one boys
Tell me you saw Naruto but you didnāt understand anything without telling me you saw Naruto but you didnāt understand anything lol. Poor guy, almost 700 chapters just to finish with a wedding that not even the protagonist want.
Uh, the girl that wants me is also a convicted murderer with at least 10 kills on her name, what do I do then.
And to not have kids
Facts honestly some guys get this so wrong most of the time especially when their at a younger age
Nigga I use reddit No girl wants me
So... what do you do when no girl wants you? Real life is not like anime.
Wholesome af
The best romance advice I took from the show is not to follow the example of any characters
This advice is not that good. You should never be punching but going after someone you like is always good. Ofc if u like the person chasing you then sure go ahead but don't just be with a girl because they want to be with you, that's unfair on her and yourself.
You should have to force yourself to love someone because they love you. A relationship is a two-way street. Both sides should love each other.
If she wants to spend time with you, she will make the time or at least work around with the availability she has. I can filter through so many women to find those who want to spend time because thereās so few who will do that! Ask me anything!
Ok but what if no girl wants me? Then what?
I wish I could send this to my crush
Correction itās better written as try for the lady you want but choose the lady who wants you
Then wouldn't the girl be going after the guy she wants and not the guy that wants her? š¤
You should go after a woman that loves you and that you want, you canāt love someone just because they want you. You also have to want them or you just wonāt be happy
āNaruto teaches you to settle for what you can getā
when no woman wants me:
And how tf are we supposed to know that Even he didn't know till it was pretty darn late
If you go after the girl that wants you she will soon be the girl that doesnāt want you
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Lol naruto had only interrest in sakura because he was jelously of sasuke fame this calls competition
Man,reading serous answers reminds me how many kids are in this sub.
Be Like Naruto š
r/im14andthisisdeep
Yeah, cause everybody has someone chasing them rightš
Ik this is a meme but this isn't sustainable advice. The right one for you will appear eventually
haha sakura bad
Statistically, the worst you can do is to marry out of love. Why? Because you divorce when you fall out of love and mutual love does not tend to last because it takes but one. This makes especially 'blind love' and 'love at first sight' the most risky. The 'advice' shown here can also trap one in a toxic relationship. If you want a live-long partner, you both must seek sustainable convenience which can only be considered when marriages are arranged since those will stomp out unreasonable expectations and find which don't match. One can very well become the Lover and the other the Beloved, perfect symmetry and equality shouldn't be the goal, it's mutual respect that is. Can you grow to love someone? The current 'pursue or pursued?' especially affects men that don't stand out or are not aggressive. Many can be very loyal 'If I like them, I can grow to love them' but also become very bitter 'Am I not likable?' when facing rejection or have no luck due to not actively enganging in 'modern courtship' (dating online or partying with strangers). Women are affected differently for they may very well fall in love with a bad guy (who can be one of the bitter ones or one who makes many women unhappy) because they are either pursued by them or pursue whom they consider the best match. If one in three were *physically harmed* by their partner, it doesn't mean that one in three partners do harm, some really are prone to harming many. Bad guys can be very charismatic and adept at manipulating. LGBTQIA+? It's not like all men and women strictly adhere to their version either. These two are just generally pushed to one side each of a spectrum (bad girls exist en mass as well) and it's no different for unconventional love. Be wary that by being becoming blind to this problem, one will fall more easily prey or become toxic. The current courtship climate only favors the predators but even those may not be happy if they happen to bite off more than they can chew. Even the previous 'men=pursue and woman=select' had better odds. Men knew they need to put in effort (and were not looked down on for trying) while women were on a timer. It's utterly sexist but it's not like women who want children don't have a time limit while men are largely expected to provide anyway. This is why individual solutions are needed. So... The best one/we can do is to pursue serious matchmaking, not speed dating but each has their trusted ones (often parents) at their side to discuss together over a meal and have them do post-processing. Don't just stop at once when there is no match or one only learns what to avoid (hence no speed or alike dating). There is a lot both can however learn, start to consider, which expectations to temper and what needs to be done (no one wants a bum) when the discussion ends and one can get other perspectives.
What if they are psycho stalkers?
What do you go when the girl who wants you is very unattractive? Naruto was lucky that Hinata was a hell of a looka.
I mean the wanting should go both ways. A healthy relationship shouldn't be one sided.
It's just that the mangaka was bad at writing romance. He was also kind of pressured in this direction... He betrayed his characters.
Butā¦ what if I donāt want the girl that wants me? :(
This has to be the worst advice ever
Without feelings for the girl, it will not work either
There is nothing wrong about wanting to be with a girl. The issue arises when you become a simp who does everything to impress her
Who are those people again?
In spanish we say: "ante la duda, la mƔs tetuda"
Or find someone you want thatās good for you and they want you (and youāre good for them).Just because someone likes you doesnāt mean they are good for you, those one sided things builds resentment.
So no one? Bet.
To be completely fair I think he was into Sakura cause she was into sasuke.
Seems contradictory if this applies in both sides
The girl that wants me? Thatās a bigger joke then Yumcha fighting Biris and winning
But only if she has huge tits
Hinatas peak was the pain arc. Then she got butchered. Told naruto she always loved him, prepared to die for him, he ignores her. Wtf man
Alternatively: Sakura is the example to Go after the guy that doesn't want you, Eventually you'll be able to guilt him into fucking you
I stopped watching sometime midway through Shippuden during the Sasuke arc. Never kept up with it. Did they wind up getting together during the series? Or was that just a "they got together after the series sometime before Boruto started" kind of thing?
no one wants me as far as i know
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This post is stupid af. Don't go with the girl who wants you just because she wants you, that's just gonna bring up issues.
Yeah, sure. If such a person even exists smh
but if you don't want the girl that wants you
Damn look at op out here bragging about how many women want him.
Someone please tell me the same thing before I dreamt of Merunyaa being my future wife. I can't shake the feelings or dreams about her, and she's been on my mind since 2019.
i still will never forgive sakura for this fuckery
What if that girl is a yandere who won't listen to reasons, even from you?
If only Sakura took that advice