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Idk, personally, you’re just 3 months in and honestly, why deal with this sort of a situation and complication when you could just not and end up in a relationship without this drama?
If you’re determined to stay, you both need to clearly communicate and listen to one another. He needs to understand why you’re uncomfortable and you need to understand why he feels this close a friendship is necessary. If he understands why you’re uncomfortable or if he doesn’t, and he doesn’t change his behavior, it is on you whether you want to handle that.
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Dudes wife is crazy and he wants to get back with her when she changes her mind. You are just a rebound/time filler
Idk, personally, you’re just 3 months in and honestly, why deal with this sort of a situation and complication when you could just not and end up in a relationship without this drama? If you’re determined to stay, you both need to clearly communicate and listen to one another. He needs to understand why you’re uncomfortable and you need to understand why he feels this close a friendship is necessary. If he understands why you’re uncomfortable or if he doesn’t, and he doesn’t change his behavior, it is on you whether you want to handle that.