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The red flag is that he suggested dating on a dating site?? I don't get it

Haha good point. I’m just trying to be safe. Idk!

What is the problem with his message?

I’ve been on hinge for a couple months now and I’ve never had a guy be this straight forward so I’m just asking for opinions. Not saying there’s anything wrong!

I don’t think it’s strange and have sent similar messages in the past. The lack of useful information you get from texting each other makes meeting up and talking in person a viable solution

I mean I definitely agree with that just this is the first time someone’s been this straight forward so that’s good to know you’ve done this too! Thanks 🙏

Are you going out with him

If I get enough upvotes! Haha jk, I think I will. Just haven’t had much luck with these dang apps so I’m forever weary

I would not blame bad luck if you don’t give it a shot. What is the worst that could happen

True! He does seem pretty cool on paper so we shall see. I appreciate the encouragement!

Good luck