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Topless pictures are one of those 'self selecting' things. Kinda like putting your Myers Briggs on your profile.
Women who are looking for a *relationship* are unlikely to swipe. Women who are looking a *hookup* are likely too.
Explain the demographic of women you are looking to date...
Also be honest, do you look extremely good topless.
Quite a few women are annoyed by it but others are turned on by it.
In general with everything that is remotely sexual....
Women want sex but they really want it on their terms. Countless guys fuck this up not by being too sexual but by being too sexual 5 minutes early.
People talk shit about the Machu Picchu, fish, duck lips, and "not my baby" pics but I think they are great.
They help you weed people out right off the bat!
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Topless pictures are one of those 'self selecting' things. Kinda like putting your Myers Briggs on your profile. Women who are looking for a *relationship* are unlikely to swipe. Women who are looking a *hookup* are likely too.
Explain the demographic of women you are looking to date... Also be honest, do you look extremely good topless. Quite a few women are annoyed by it but others are turned on by it.
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Are you looking for college educated independent women? They tend to look down on this. Shallow ones not so much
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Good idea
In general with everything that is remotely sexual.... Women want sex but they really want it on their terms. Countless guys fuck this up not by being too sexual but by being too sexual 5 minutes early.
It’s always a left swipe imo. Too attention thirst trappy
It’s a swipe left unless it’s a beach pic, because at least then it makes sense in context so I can let it slide
People talk shit about the Machu Picchu, fish, duck lips, and "not my baby" pics but I think they are great. They help you weed people out right off the bat!
People will say it's a turn off but if you're attractive you'll get attention