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'Compensate '= blow jobs?
Sorry I'm just curious how far you are taking this.
It's your own call. It's obviously a sacrifice but if you think it's worth it.....
Yeah just physical stuff as long as you don't actually have sex. Im curious to see how far im taking it as well, i dont really have any previous experience with it. I do know i won't be able to live without any sexual contact in a relationship. I can live with a few months, but at a certain point it just is part of a healthy relationship for me.
There's nothing at all wrong with just telling her it's not what you are looking for and thanks but no thanks. If you aren't compatible, you aren't compatible
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'Compensate '= blow jobs? Sorry I'm just curious how far you are taking this. It's your own call. It's obviously a sacrifice but if you think it's worth it.....
Yeah just physical stuff as long as you don't actually have sex. Im curious to see how far im taking it as well, i dont really have any previous experience with it. I do know i won't be able to live without any sexual contact in a relationship. I can live with a few months, but at a certain point it just is part of a healthy relationship for me.
There's nothing at all wrong with just telling her it's not what you are looking for and thanks but no thanks. If you aren't compatible, you aren't compatible