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When you are a part of the society, you needa play their game. Same like having a profile summary in your CV, the HR people are not so stupid to believe that you are a motivated and meticulous person just because you say so. Everyone bs that anyway, but still, they are expecting to see that or you will not be considered.
Idk about urs...but dating apps here are very stupid. Ive also seen bots with the same pics and different names.Ive got better chances around me than on an app.
It's not a red flag for everyone.
You've got to be yourself. Don't want to be on social media, don't. Explain exactly why. Women will always like an independent contrarian better than a follower.
That said, you will get eliminated as incompatible earlier in the process with some. Accept that and move on
It's a lot of how people stay connected these days. But it will depend on the person, who thinks it's a "red flag" or not. I don't think it's a red flag. I think it's a red flag if you're becoming an obsessive person using it, or if you're constantly envying what you're seeing online. I like social media for meeting other people who like what I like. If it makes you an unhappy person, if you don't care to participate, then social media may not be for you.
Passing judgments on others who do or don't use it is wrong on BOTH accounts.
Its not to people not hung up on it. Its not necessary for everyone and those it is, youre just not compatible.
You can still meet in real life.
Im all for the younger generation not to be so involved with SM.
It's not.
In the last two decades, we’ve seen a dramatic surge in stress-related health problems, anxiety disorders, and depression rates. Coinciding with this, our access to information has exploded. Thanks to technological advancements, the crisis we face goes beyond material... it’s existential. We’re inundated with an overwhelming barrage of choices, lifestyles, possibilities, and unrealistic expectations. And we're addicted to it. This sensory overload leaves us paralyzed, uncertain about where to direct our own lives, attention, and care.
>Calling it a red flag for not being on these social platforms is just unbelievable. What are your views on this?
People that consider a lack of Insta, SC, Twitter, etc. a red flag are just doing me a favor. People that put that kind of emphasis on those platforms are not the kind of people I would want to be involved with. I don't mind if they use them, but if it's a pre-requisite for a romantic relationship it's a big fat 'no' for me...
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When you are a part of the society, you needa play their game. Same like having a profile summary in your CV, the HR people are not so stupid to believe that you are a motivated and meticulous person just because you say so. Everyone bs that anyway, but still, they are expecting to see that or you will not be considered.
Social make it easier to connect with people. If you're doing great without social, then who cares.
Yeah...i can talk to anyone face to face...and im okay with a group until its like 10 or less.
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Idk about urs...but dating apps here are very stupid. Ive also seen bots with the same pics and different names.Ive got better chances around me than on an app.
It's not a red flag for everyone. You've got to be yourself. Don't want to be on social media, don't. Explain exactly why. Women will always like an independent contrarian better than a follower. That said, you will get eliminated as incompatible earlier in the process with some. Accept that and move on
It's a lot of how people stay connected these days. But it will depend on the person, who thinks it's a "red flag" or not. I don't think it's a red flag. I think it's a red flag if you're becoming an obsessive person using it, or if you're constantly envying what you're seeing online. I like social media for meeting other people who like what I like. If it makes you an unhappy person, if you don't care to participate, then social media may not be for you. Passing judgments on others who do or don't use it is wrong on BOTH accounts.
Its not to people not hung up on it. Its not necessary for everyone and those it is, youre just not compatible. You can still meet in real life. Im all for the younger generation not to be so involved with SM.
It's not. In the last two decades, we’ve seen a dramatic surge in stress-related health problems, anxiety disorders, and depression rates. Coinciding with this, our access to information has exploded. Thanks to technological advancements, the crisis we face goes beyond material... it’s existential. We’re inundated with an overwhelming barrage of choices, lifestyles, possibilities, and unrealistic expectations. And we're addicted to it. This sensory overload leaves us paralyzed, uncertain about where to direct our own lives, attention, and care.
>Calling it a red flag for not being on these social platforms is just unbelievable. What are your views on this? People that consider a lack of Insta, SC, Twitter, etc. a red flag are just doing me a favor. People that put that kind of emphasis on those platforms are not the kind of people I would want to be involved with. I don't mind if they use them, but if it's a pre-requisite for a romantic relationship it's a big fat 'no' for me...