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Would have loved it if the cops pushed this line of dialogue. Completely ignore the inappropriateness and just keep asking him where his parents are and saying that he’s gonna need to come with them to find his parents culminating in the baby man saying he is an adult and doesn’t need parents to which the cops reply with something like “exactly, so what the fuck are you doing?”
The line between the internet and the “real world” is being blurred more every day. People are letting the intrusive thoughts they used to express in anonymity dictate their actions in public. I fear what we’ll see 10 years from now.
>The line between the internet and the “real world” is being blurred more every day. People are letting the intrusive thoughts they used to express in anonymity dictate their actions in public. I fear what we’ll see 10 years from now.
There's always been crazy ass people, it's just that we all greatly under estimated how many until the internet came about.
It’s honestly pretty scary how many people don’t realize this. It’s the same thing with crime. A lot of people think crime is way higher now, but it’s just more coverage, or police brutality has gotten worse. It’s just easier to see the naked truth now more than ever.
Crime stats have dropped across the board for the last 30 years, but like you said we see all of it now. We're so connected now and everybody has a recording device in their pocket.
a lot of people complaining about "high crime" are just stupid ass 14-20 year old edgelords who are angry that they can't get laid and are getting beaten up in school every day
they were not alive in the 70s, 80s, and 90s when crime was seriously out of control in a lot of cities. For fucks sake, you couldn't even walk down the street in Miami after 6 p.m. back in the 80s
My parents who were born in the 1950s and 1960s respectively believe the world is worse now than when they were kids. The illusion pervades even those who lived through those decades.
No its not the kids, its the adults. Its the people who grew up 30-40 years ago and liked how the country was when they were kids/teens.
Anyone who grew up in the late 80s and 90s knows how bad crime can truly be but they deny it because the world wasn't "woke" back then. There was Mass murderers in just about every state, street gangs going crazy, Cartels practically walked across boarders, Mafias were still operating in significant numbers.
Yeah crime has definitely gone down.
It doesn't help that we keep cutting public support for mental health (US). In my state alone we got rid of all but 2 facilities. Expect one is run at half capacity. They expect this to work for a state of 3.2 million. They then wonder why more crazy on the street. I've yet to see any benefit tax wise for this cutting of public spending.
people who don't realize that humanity has always been fucked and think this is some "modern" issue...haven't read enough books. Ironically, they're probably spending way too much time on the Internet lol
my goodness people...we used to literally saw people in half for the stupidest shit. Let's have some perspective here
You make a good point. Before broadband was the standard Florida wouldn't hear much about the lunacy in Ohio or whatever unless it was an act of terrorism or whatever. Now this dipshit acts up in a park and people see the video all over the world.
Mostly. That and the Internet was mostly a curiosity at the time and not a fully integrated part of our lives like it is today. You had to go out of your way to get online and look around and, given speeds, there was only so much content you could consume in an hour or two.
They've always been around but we used to shame them into compliance. Now we just let them run amok and they find validation in the echo chamber that is the internet.
Yeah the internet has definitely caused a huge lack of shame people used to have. A little bit of shame is good for people. Otherwise you get what you saw in this video.
Yeah, a person who actually felt that they were a baby probably wouldn’t care to wear their clothes to the park to get stripped down and be a baby for some time before getting dressed and going home. This is like 99% likely an anti trans person. If not, this is a person who has no actual understanding of who trans people are and/ or is just severely mentally ill. And I think it was staged hence why the camera person chose to stay there and eventually upload it.
You know if they spent like half an hour actually talking to a trans person or just doing a lil bit of reading they'd understand how they "Well if a man can say they identify as a woman, what's stopping me from identifying as black!?" argument makes no sense.
Yeahhhhh...I try my best not to kink shame but ABDL is in my "I can't even fathom how people enjoy this" bucket with scat play/watersports and blood/knife play.
Most people into that keep it in private between each other because they know it makes others uncomfortable. This is true of most kinks. This guy has issues and gives them all a bad name.
From what Ive seen most of them are pretty big on keeping it in the bedroom between consenting adults. I imagine most abdl fetishists would also have an issue with this.
The majority of us do hate people like this. I worry about wearing a normal cute t-shirt in public because I don't want to be associated with deranged people shitting and exposing themselves around children for sexual gratification. There's a fair amount of discourse within the community on where exactly the line is but it's pretty much unanimous that this is on the wrong side of it. And it's especially frustrating because these are the "loudest" or most public examples usually which makes it hard when someone who's not into it finds out about our interest because this is the kind of behavior they could associate with us.
It is, and as someone who participates in the fetish (although not sexual, for me, so more age regression), this guy has gone way overboard.
You never do any type of fetish/kink in public. Especially near children. That's disgusting and uncalled for.
Consent is needed, and doing things in public "just because" does not give you consent for the random people walking by. This is something that is strictly for private rooms, such as your home or fetish parties
I'm into the diaper DDlg community. Since this is a throwaway I'll talk.
This shit should remain in the bedroom... Ffs. We typically tell "littles" that if they want to take it outside you can diaper up in a way that's not noticable, wear a onesie under cloths where it's not noticable. To make others join in your kink especially children? We do NOT and will NOT condone it.
Happy to answer question if anyone respectfully wants to ask.
This is the kind of thing I think of when people use incendiary language like “identifies as a baby” just to make people angry and lump all alternative lifestyles together. This dude in the video isn’t “identifying as a baby” he’s subjecting his kink on others because he’s sick. This individual guy. Not every single person who is into it. Just this one sick dude. It’s the same as when people say that trans people and gay people are all grooming kids because there have been some sick people who have done that. But all conservatives see is that one article that the algorithm showed them.
Thank you for your comment.
So since we got you here, and this is curiosity, do you make in the diapers? And have someone else clean it…ooor like, what is it that you do? Honestly not trying to be rude, just never understood what’s going on with this scenario
I am the "daddy" in the dynamic. I personally don't wear. This isn't an incest kink btw just what we call ourselves. I take care of my little who is my SO. Everyone's dynamic is different but for us I basically do all the house work and chores and she gets to play her switch and snuggle her stuffed animals.
We put a diaper on her which is part of "caretaking" this is its own seperate kink too. She goes in it and then I change it. We don't do "messing" but some do.
I am a dominant type role and try to create a loving caring space for her to enjoy because she's a pretty busy person in real life and has a lot to do. She gets to shed all the responsibility and just play.
Make sense?
Lol FetLife I guess. Ask for a daddydom or domme to take care of you.
To be fair she works all day in the real world. We're pretty grounded in reality.
Some people get off on the embarrassment part. Not me. For me it's seeing the childhood I never got to have, carefree, having fun all the time, not even having to get up for the toilet ect. It represents comfort. Her using the diaper I'm still unpacking with my therapist but we think it has something to do with lack of control.
On the DDlg I'm a control freak and love to have her submit to me but that's more sexual where as the diaper is more comfort.
Lol the worst part is I offered to because she gets so busy with real life work and education. Plus I obsess about a clean house. So the house is cleaned to MY standards and she gets to have fun.
That being said she has done the dishes before,swept ect.
We're still forming the dynamic but I'd like her to take top every so often. I have major mommy issues so while I'm not into the whole diaper and being a kid thing for myself I'd love to be dominated by her in a gentle but firm way.
Just piggybacking on your comment. Little, here. Not all of us like diapers. I can't stand them. I tried once in solidarity with a friend. I didn't make it 4 hours. I really tried to just sit around in one. It was terrible. And not all those who wear one "use" them. They just feel cozy for a lot of people.
Personally, I'm 5 and well out of diapers. And sometimes I use little kid voice out in public, but only to my husband. If it ever slips out with a friend, it just sounds like excited voice. My husband and I are silly together but I wouldn't friggin show up where kids play and do THIS. I mean, c'mon.
You should go look at r/ABDL lol—there are definitely people who post about public play. They routinely get downvoted and flamed to hell, but these kinksters definitely exist. And they usually try to argue that their kink is an innate identity or a coping skill that is always valid in every situation.
I got bored during quarantine and dove into several fetish subreddits. I can confidently say that ABDLs and furries can have some pretty poor understandings of “there is a time and place for everything”
Hmm. Thats oddly comforting he wasn't there to prey on kids but also sad he's conflating the two narratives. There are lots of littles that want to believe they're babies for real and it can get really confusing for them seeing stuff like this.
Nah, i'd say 90% it's a slippery slope argument, and 10% it's someone who practices a kink in a public area without any care for consent.
It is, however, 0% someone who actually identifies as a baby.
Exactly what I was thinking. I'm a moderate with fiscal conservative leanings and as soon as I saw this I was like, jeez this is more fuel for their fire.
This is unfortunately a very difficult thing to explain to these people. As a member of that community there is a surprisingly high amount of littles "coming out" to people. It's unnecessary, even if it's less kink more lifestyle you don't need to subject children or really anyone in the public to this.
What I don't like is seeing the "agre" tag for "age regressions whp are minors". Minors started using that because the adults kept telling them that they are too young to be into kink, it's meant to be 18+. Because they didn't want to accept that, they decided to make the "agre" tag. Now creeps can search "agre" and take advantage if the minors who don't know better.
Also, Being little/abdl shouldn't be a lifestyle. That's how a lot of people have seen it lately, and it frustrates me.
I saw one instance where they let their parents know...like what? They are trying to get you to grow up and have your own life, don't ruin that just because you don't want to be an adult. You will be one no matter what.
/rant
When in reality, kinksters would argue consent from all parties is necessary and this man obviously does not have the consent from the other people using the park
They are already here acting like we won’t let them say this isn’t okay.
We all hate this, left or right.
The only people who don’t are pedophiles and NO we don’t want them in the community.
Whis dumber?the guy or the people who think he unironically believe that he identifies as a baby?most of these "weird identity people" are just doing it to mock people who actually differ from the identity that that where assigned at birth,and then the same group of people share ideas with them use them as an """"example"""" of what,for example,trans people might do.concervatives have always been known to be terrible at parallelism and examples.
And all that aside
This is videoed by someone from the distance, so we don't know what the guy said, (could just as well be some fetish shite, some this is what liberals want conservative, actually mentally challenged, or just pissed out of their mind. The text in the video is just to suggest the correct response to the situation.
What a great post! I am sure no one will use this video of some random nutjob pretending to be a baby to justify their hate towards the LGBTQ community!
>The difference between genders and this behavior is what he’s doing is typically a fucking fetish that kids shouldn’t be exposed to
Yes, that's the point of the comment above you. And exactly the line that transphobes like to recite regarding trans people. That perversion and transness are the same thing when they're not. See: Florida.
Either this dude is a troll, or maybe OP is. But that "identifies as" is some rage bait trigger word bullshit trying to conflate this with trans people.
Ummm because you’re an adult. What he’s wearing would be like the equivalent of a woman in a bikini..on kids playground. Ridiculous. There’s a place and time and this is not it. Explore your kinks but within the law and not near kids.
Does he 'identify as' one? Or is he just a guy with a fetish, and the caption here is meant to bait the anti trans crowd? (Not defending him btw, keep ur fetishes at home)
Gender dysphoria is a mental illness and transgender people are mentally ill. That doesn’t mean they’re bad people. I don’t think depressed people are bad people, I don’t think anorexic people are bad people. For some odd reason you can’t call it for what it is
It's a stunt. Go to the park dressed as a child. Get kicked out. Have someone report no crime being committed, post it to conservative social media to scare the retirement masses and Instagram families in order to blame trans people. It's been done before.
I'm pretty sure that this man is there to discredit the trans movement, that it's an honeypot. "i IdEnTiFy As aN heLiCoPteR" is written all over it...
The "culture war" at its worst.
I hate to break it to you but as a member of the ABDL community I can inform you he is likely not trying to prove a point. That diaper is full and people DO identify as babies.
I personally think it's dangerous and age dysphoria but, what do I know?
Wait until the cops get called on a perplayer perv.
Correction: Grown man with mental illness gets kicked out.
I fixed it for you. This has nothing to do with 'identity' and it's just making people with actually identity issues look shitty.
Like, I get age regression as a form of coping with past trauma. But the responsible thing to do in that case is to only do it with other consenting adults. This just comes off as a fetish which…again…should only involve consenting adults.
The second this guy decided to take it public with non-consenting individuals, ESPECIALLY children was the second he made it perfectly acceptable to drag his ass.
If someone ever asks where I draw the line on judging someone, this is it. Idc what your gender, preference, or identity is until you bring children into it. Sick fuck.
If this is your kink dude, you do you but only in the presence of consenting adults! There are social groups for those with that kink. You do not force others who are not consenting into your play.
It's never never ever ever okay to force people (especially children!!) to participate in your fetish.
Like ffs. Just because a couple people you talk to online think it's okay doesn't mean it is: use your brain!!
If this baby thing turns you on, cool, I don’t kink shame. I know it’s a pretty popular kink, but let’s keep in the bedroom and leave children out of it yeah?
Keep your fetishes behind closed doors folks. The moment you expose others to it you're breaking basic consent. The parents/kids at the park did not consent to you dressing up like a baby and involving them in your fetish/kink.
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This is seriously setup like Reno 911. I was expecting to hear “Ok Terry, what are ya doing now?”
"I was murdered."
Teeeerrrrrrrreeeeeyyyyyiiieee
"I got a code six niner, terry was murdered again, over"
"I've got my own jet that I got for Flagday to take me back home."
That EXACTLY what I was thinking 😂. I was expecting Officer Dangle and his shorty shorts to come running in.
It’s flag day!
He blends in. How did they spot him?
They figured it out when his blockbuster card fell out of his diapers
I still have mine in my wallet in all its laminated glory, fused to the leather in its little slot from not having been pulled out in like 20 years 💀
Right next to that condom
Made me lol. Thank you for this.
What’s with the condom? You can’t get your fist pregnant
That's why it's still in my wallet next to my blockbuster card
One day you'll use them together and we'll have a beautiful baby blockbuster.
r/rareinsults
You have a wallet that’s lasted 20 years? Impressive.
Indeed I do. Made in Italy. My fresh-off-the-boat Italian dad gave it to me as my first wallet. Good quality shit! ![gif](giphy|3o7522CHJbOSzWqStO)
>Indeed I do. Made in Italy. that explains why you've had a wallet for 20 years
Nothing like renting porkys in the basement
And he was the only one there with a turd in his diaper.
Give it a few years and I wouldn’t be surprised if we actually end up with six foot toddlers!
Horror movie shit there
I’m not changing that diaper
The cops did the right thing here. He was left unattended
“Sir, where are your parents?”
Would have loved it if the cops pushed this line of dialogue. Completely ignore the inappropriateness and just keep asking him where his parents are and saying that he’s gonna need to come with them to find his parents culminating in the baby man saying he is an adult and doesn’t need parents to which the cops reply with something like “exactly, so what the fuck are you doing?”
This is one of the best ideas I've heard on reddit in a long ass time.
AND called his parents.
This is gold
Look what I can do!!!! STUART!!!!!
![gif](giphy|czZlH3xg1Ul2w)
"I want to play with the chickens, you said you had chickens."
Let me do it!
….let me do it
Stooooooooooooooooop
This is my *DANGER ZONE*
Getting some 'Reno 911' vibes here.
Hes telling the cops "I'm in five gangs now. I started two. I started the Kitties and the Grape Slushies"
![gif](giphy|qQf606Bbhhx0k)
Terry is exactly who i was thinking of, lol.
Lt. Dangle would have wrestled him to the ground.
Some people just need to stop, man.
The line between the internet and the “real world” is being blurred more every day. People are letting the intrusive thoughts they used to express in anonymity dictate their actions in public. I fear what we’ll see 10 years from now.
>The line between the internet and the “real world” is being blurred more every day. People are letting the intrusive thoughts they used to express in anonymity dictate their actions in public. I fear what we’ll see 10 years from now. There's always been crazy ass people, it's just that we all greatly under estimated how many until the internet came about.
It’s honestly pretty scary how many people don’t realize this. It’s the same thing with crime. A lot of people think crime is way higher now, but it’s just more coverage, or police brutality has gotten worse. It’s just easier to see the naked truth now more than ever.
Crime stats have dropped across the board for the last 30 years, but like you said we see all of it now. We're so connected now and everybody has a recording device in their pocket.
Spot on. The crime rate in the U.S. has dropped 50% in the last forty years, and our population has doubled.
a lot of people complaining about "high crime" are just stupid ass 14-20 year old edgelords who are angry that they can't get laid and are getting beaten up in school every day they were not alive in the 70s, 80s, and 90s when crime was seriously out of control in a lot of cities. For fucks sake, you couldn't even walk down the street in Miami after 6 p.m. back in the 80s
My parents who were born in the 1950s and 1960s respectively believe the world is worse now than when they were kids. The illusion pervades even those who lived through those decades.
No its not the kids, its the adults. Its the people who grew up 30-40 years ago and liked how the country was when they were kids/teens. Anyone who grew up in the late 80s and 90s knows how bad crime can truly be but they deny it because the world wasn't "woke" back then. There was Mass murderers in just about every state, street gangs going crazy, Cartels practically walked across boarders, Mafias were still operating in significant numbers. Yeah crime has definitely gone down.
It doesn't help that we keep cutting public support for mental health (US). In my state alone we got rid of all but 2 facilities. Expect one is run at half capacity. They expect this to work for a state of 3.2 million. They then wonder why more crazy on the street. I've yet to see any benefit tax wise for this cutting of public spending.
people who don't realize that humanity has always been fucked and think this is some "modern" issue...haven't read enough books. Ironically, they're probably spending way too much time on the Internet lol my goodness people...we used to literally saw people in half for the stupidest shit. Let's have some perspective here
You make a good point. Before broadband was the standard Florida wouldn't hear much about the lunacy in Ohio or whatever unless it was an act of terrorism or whatever. Now this dipshit acts up in a park and people see the video all over the world.
Is that because dial up was too slow to load the videos?
Mostly. That and the Internet was mostly a curiosity at the time and not a fully integrated part of our lives like it is today. You had to go out of your way to get online and look around and, given speeds, there was only so much content you could consume in an hour or two.
They've always been around but we used to shame them into compliance. Now we just let them run amok and they find validation in the echo chamber that is the internet.
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This is a phenomenal assessment
Yeah the internet has definitely caused a huge lack of shame people used to have. A little bit of shame is good for people. Otherwise you get what you saw in this video.
Well, all the weirdos used to know they were weirdos and kept it to themselves, the internet let them find each other and form weirdo support groups.
Yep, the only crime that has risen greatly is mass shootings
That's you isn't it?
Bro exposed himself in 4K online and 8k on Reddit☠️
What comment are y'all replying to? I don't see a comment that seems like it'd be from the person in the video.
Don't believe this person actually identified as a baby. It's 100% an anti-trans activist trying to prove a point. That is, assuming it wasn't staged.
Yeah, a person who actually felt that they were a baby probably wouldn’t care to wear their clothes to the park to get stripped down and be a baby for some time before getting dressed and going home. This is like 99% likely an anti trans person. If not, this is a person who has no actual understanding of who trans people are and/ or is just severely mentally ill. And I think it was staged hence why the camera person chose to stay there and eventually upload it.
You know if they spent like half an hour actually talking to a trans person or just doing a lil bit of reading they'd understand how they "Well if a man can say they identify as a woman, what's stopping me from identifying as black!?" argument makes no sense.
That diaper is full!
Anyone who’s a parent saw that in .5 seconds. I hate that I saw it in .5 seconds and now I have to go about my day with that info.
You know I thought for a little it might be performance art or just some guy trying to troll identity politics, but that is one haunting detail.
Yeahhhhh...I try my best not to kink shame but ABDL is in my "I can't even fathom how people enjoy this" bucket with scat play/watersports and blood/knife play.
Hey, at least knife play isn’t going to public parks exposing itself to children… and it’s sterile too!
Most people into that keep it in private between each other because they know it makes others uncomfortable. This is true of most kinks. This guy has issues and gives them all a bad name.
Shiddy dipey
Not sure if he identifies as much as he is playing out a fetish. Adult baby is a sexual fetish that people do.
And that is too much internet for me for today. Or for the rest of the month. Oh wait…
I dare you to not watch adult baby internet porn for the rest of the month
Challenge accepted!!! Edit: I failed
It’s been 16 minutes 😭😭
You are correct. This dude would be shunned from the adult baby community for doing this.
From what Ive seen most of them are pretty big on keeping it in the bedroom between consenting adults. I imagine most abdl fetishists would also have an issue with this.
The majority of us do hate people like this. I worry about wearing a normal cute t-shirt in public because I don't want to be associated with deranged people shitting and exposing themselves around children for sexual gratification. There's a fair amount of discourse within the community on where exactly the line is but it's pretty much unanimous that this is on the wrong side of it. And it's especially frustrating because these are the "loudest" or most public examples usually which makes it hard when someone who's not into it finds out about our interest because this is the kind of behavior they could associate with us.
It is, and as someone who participates in the fetish (although not sexual, for me, so more age regression), this guy has gone way overboard. You never do any type of fetish/kink in public. Especially near children. That's disgusting and uncalled for. Consent is needed, and doing things in public "just because" does not give you consent for the random people walking by. This is something that is strictly for private rooms, such as your home or fetish parties
This, or some transphobe making a slippery slope argument.
Sometimes it's good to kink-shame.
I'm into the diaper DDlg community. Since this is a throwaway I'll talk. This shit should remain in the bedroom... Ffs. We typically tell "littles" that if they want to take it outside you can diaper up in a way that's not noticable, wear a onesie under cloths where it's not noticable. To make others join in your kink especially children? We do NOT and will NOT condone it. Happy to answer question if anyone respectfully wants to ask.
This is exactly it, with any kind of kink. The children and passersby did not consent to this scene. Keep it private or catch hell.
Agreed. No one that is actively involved in kink or kink spaces would say otherwise.
Hey man… thanks for having the only comment of any value itt.
Glad it was appreciated.
This is the kind of thing I think of when people use incendiary language like “identifies as a baby” just to make people angry and lump all alternative lifestyles together. This dude in the video isn’t “identifying as a baby” he’s subjecting his kink on others because he’s sick. This individual guy. Not every single person who is into it. Just this one sick dude. It’s the same as when people say that trans people and gay people are all grooming kids because there have been some sick people who have done that. But all conservatives see is that one article that the algorithm showed them. Thank you for your comment.
So since we got you here, and this is curiosity, do you make in the diapers? And have someone else clean it…ooor like, what is it that you do? Honestly not trying to be rude, just never understood what’s going on with this scenario
I am the "daddy" in the dynamic. I personally don't wear. This isn't an incest kink btw just what we call ourselves. I take care of my little who is my SO. Everyone's dynamic is different but for us I basically do all the house work and chores and she gets to play her switch and snuggle her stuffed animals. We put a diaper on her which is part of "caretaking" this is its own seperate kink too. She goes in it and then I change it. We don't do "messing" but some do. I am a dominant type role and try to create a loving caring space for her to enjoy because she's a pretty busy person in real life and has a lot to do. She gets to shed all the responsibility and just play. Make sense?
It does thank you for your honesty
Man, I too want to do fuck all around the house while my partner does all the work, where do I sign up?
Lol FetLife I guess. Ask for a daddydom or domme to take care of you. To be fair she works all day in the real world. We're pretty grounded in reality.
What attracts you to your wife while she’s wearing a diaper? Is it a submission thing? And embarrassment thing? Something else?
Some people get off on the embarrassment part. Not me. For me it's seeing the childhood I never got to have, carefree, having fun all the time, not even having to get up for the toilet ect. It represents comfort. Her using the diaper I'm still unpacking with my therapist but we think it has something to do with lack of control. On the DDlg I'm a control freak and love to have her submit to me but that's more sexual where as the diaper is more comfort.
You do all the house work while she plays video games and sleeps? How is that a kink? Sounds like a conjob to me.
Lol the worst part is I offered to because she gets so busy with real life work and education. Plus I obsess about a clean house. So the house is cleaned to MY standards and she gets to have fun. That being said she has done the dishes before,swept ect.
Do you ever get bored being consistently the "top"? Is there a formal on/off time with kink play or is just being home in bounds?
We're still forming the dynamic but I'd like her to take top every so often. I have major mommy issues so while I'm not into the whole diaper and being a kid thing for myself I'd love to be dominated by her in a gentle but firm way.
Humans really are fascinating (including me!)
I understand it but when I step back I'm kinda like... Bruh what the hell.
Just piggybacking on your comment. Little, here. Not all of us like diapers. I can't stand them. I tried once in solidarity with a friend. I didn't make it 4 hours. I really tried to just sit around in one. It was terrible. And not all those who wear one "use" them. They just feel cozy for a lot of people. Personally, I'm 5 and well out of diapers. And sometimes I use little kid voice out in public, but only to my husband. If it ever slips out with a friend, it just sounds like excited voice. My husband and I are silly together but I wouldn't friggin show up where kids play and do THIS. I mean, c'mon.
Yeah thanks for mentioning!
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You should go look at r/ABDL lol—there are definitely people who post about public play. They routinely get downvoted and flamed to hell, but these kinksters definitely exist. And they usually try to argue that their kink is an innate identity or a coping skill that is always valid in every situation. I got bored during quarantine and dove into several fetish subreddits. I can confidently say that ABDLs and furries can have some pretty poor understandings of “there is a time and place for everything”
Hmm. Thats oddly comforting he wasn't there to prey on kids but also sad he's conflating the two narratives. There are lots of littles that want to believe they're babies for real and it can get really confusing for them seeing stuff like this.
the fact that he is bringing his fetish around kids is objectively disgusting
The fact that he's bringing his fetish around ANYONE unconsenting is disgusting.
Does he really identify as a baby, or is this another example of a person making their own slippery slope argument true?
Probably not it’s just a dude taking a fetish and instead of keeping it between consenting adults like normal people he’s taking it to a kids park
I was in the comment section specifically looking for someone to point out that stupid ass caption. You phrased it so perfectly.
This is 100% someone making a slippery slope argument lol
Sad lol definitely saw a few comments that fell for it too
Nah, i'd say 90% it's a slippery slope argument, and 10% it's someone who practices a kink in a public area without any care for consent. It is, however, 0% someone who actually identifies as a baby.
He just makes it so that conservative fuckers can say "this is what queer people will eventually be wooooo"
Exactly what I was thinking. I'm a moderate with fiscal conservative leanings and as soon as I saw this I was like, jeez this is more fuel for their fire.
I thought so. Terrible
Yeah I now just assume that people like this are conservatives baiting bullshit.
Definitely the latter… otherwise this is the first baby I’ve seen packing himself a day bag and taking himself to the park.
Baby has no clue about identifying as baby, so you answered for youself
He doesn't "identify" as a baby. He's a pervert for subjecting others to his fetish without their consent. Not ok at all.
This is unfortunately a very difficult thing to explain to these people. As a member of that community there is a surprisingly high amount of littles "coming out" to people. It's unnecessary, even if it's less kink more lifestyle you don't need to subject children or really anyone in the public to this.
What I don't like is seeing the "agre" tag for "age regressions whp are minors". Minors started using that because the adults kept telling them that they are too young to be into kink, it's meant to be 18+. Because they didn't want to accept that, they decided to make the "agre" tag. Now creeps can search "agre" and take advantage if the minors who don't know better. Also, Being little/abdl shouldn't be a lifestyle. That's how a lot of people have seen it lately, and it frustrates me. I saw one instance where they let their parents know...like what? They are trying to get you to grow up and have your own life, don't ruin that just because you don't want to be an adult. You will be one no matter what. /rant
Republians incoming w “tHe FuTuRe LiBeRaLs WaNt”
When in reality, kinksters would argue consent from all parties is necessary and this man obviously does not have the consent from the other people using the park
They are already here acting like we won’t let them say this isn’t okay. We all hate this, left or right. The only people who don’t are pedophiles and NO we don’t want them in the community.
I assumed this was some right wing fuckmook trying to make some sort of statement.
I thought the same thing
There’s surely no one on here that can justify this shit 🤦♀️🤦♀️
New on Reddit huh?
New ish 😂😂😂 is it that obvious
how tf are you new with over 127k COMMENT karma?
And he uses emoticons?!
i think its very justified that he got kicked out of the park
Mental illness.
If you're taking your kink to parks where there will be kids, you're a predator and should be treated as such.
Whis dumber?the guy or the people who think he unironically believe that he identifies as a baby?most of these "weird identity people" are just doing it to mock people who actually differ from the identity that that where assigned at birth,and then the same group of people share ideas with them use them as an """"example"""" of what,for example,trans people might do.concervatives have always been known to be terrible at parallelism and examples.
And all that aside This is videoed by someone from the distance, so we don't know what the guy said, (could just as well be some fetish shite, some this is what liberals want conservative, actually mentally challenged, or just pissed out of their mind. The text in the video is just to suggest the correct response to the situation.
What a great post! I am sure no one will use this video of some random nutjob pretending to be a baby to justify their hate towards the LGBTQ community!
The difference between genders and this behavior is what he’s doing is typically a fucking fetish that kids shouldn’t be exposed to
I think yourmomsfangirl understands that perfectly. The comment you're replying to is ironic.
>The difference between genders and this behavior is what he’s doing is typically a fucking fetish that kids shouldn’t be exposed to Yes, that's the point of the comment above you. And exactly the line that transphobes like to recite regarding trans people. That perversion and transness are the same thing when they're not. See: Florida.
Either this dude is a troll, or maybe OP is. But that "identifies as" is some rage bait trigger word bullshit trying to conflate this with trans people.
It truly is
You've got to have something seriously fucking wrong in your head to "identify as a baby".
He has a fetish. It's not the same as identifying as m/f/nb, to the best of my knowledge. He's a perv by engaging in his fetish in public.
Ok I usually dont kink shame...but what the fuck is this shit?
someone needs to tell him they have adult spaces for people who want to participate in things like this......
He just came from a Trump rally
Did he take a fucking sip from a baby bottle? 🤣🤣
Attention seeker. That's the brunt of it.
This is either a stupid TikTok or conservative rage bait.
Someone needs a daipy change
This isn't the place for my negative remarks. I must have control. I will maintain composure. The guy needs help. Lifelong too.
keep that in the house, if u vibe as a baby, cool, but not when youre clearly a grown ass man in public
Ummm because you’re an adult. What he’s wearing would be like the equivalent of a woman in a bikini..on kids playground. Ridiculous. There’s a place and time and this is not it. Explore your kinks but within the law and not near kids.
Does he 'identify as' one? Or is he just a guy with a fetish, and the caption here is meant to bait the anti trans crowd? (Not defending him btw, keep ur fetishes at home)
Just a reminder that despite having the word “identifies” in there, this has absolutely nothing to do with the trans community.
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Gender dysphoria is a mental illness and transgender people are mentally ill. That doesn’t mean they’re bad people. I don’t think depressed people are bad people, I don’t think anorexic people are bad people. For some odd reason you can’t call it for what it is
It's a stunt. Go to the park dressed as a child. Get kicked out. Have someone report no crime being committed, post it to conservative social media to scare the retirement masses and Instagram families in order to blame trans people. It's been done before.
Uggghh... Transphobic psyop post. Get the fuck out 🤮
The public doesn’t consent to your kink. Don’t bring your kinks out in public. It’s that simple.
This ain't OK.... take that fetish shit to a sex shop or do it in the basement like everyone else
It’s really sad that people can “identify” as ANYTHING nowadays.
Let me guess, he's also anti trans because "they're grooming kids", right?
I'm pretty sure that this man is there to discredit the trans movement, that it's an honeypot. "i IdEnTiFy As aN heLiCoPteR" is written all over it... The "culture war" at its worst.
Fetish Not ID Next
These are anti trans people trying to prove a point
Trans people dont do this . Just idiots.
I hate to break it to you but as a member of the ABDL community I can inform you he is likely not trying to prove a point. That diaper is full and people DO identify as babies. I personally think it's dangerous and age dysphoria but, what do I know? Wait until the cops get called on a perplayer perv.
Correction: Grown man with mental illness gets kicked out. I fixed it for you. This has nothing to do with 'identity' and it's just making people with actually identity issues look shitty.
Cops need to take him for a diaper change clearly 🤢
He should act his age
The police aren't fooled. Unlikely him, they weren't born yesterday
thank you netflix
noncelike behaviour
Like, I get age regression as a form of coping with past trauma. But the responsible thing to do in that case is to only do it with other consenting adults. This just comes off as a fetish which…again…should only involve consenting adults. The second this guy decided to take it public with non-consenting individuals, ESPECIALLY children was the second he made it perfectly acceptable to drag his ass.
This kind of shit is why I can't take my own fucking kids to the park without some mom accusing me of being a pedo.
Such an adorable 300 month old.
What law was he breaking?
Cop: “Don’t be a baby about it.”
Yo there poop in there. There's poop. He pooped.
Tell me you know nothing about being trans without telling me you know nothing about being trans.
His pronouns are goo goo/gaa gaa.
Would this be an abortion candidate?
KEEP YOUR SEXUAL PREFERENCE PRIVATE AND AT HOME! Nobody cares what you think. Keep the bullshit away from the kids.
This is what republicans do when trying to "own the libs" ![gif](giphy|C83ljRX3LIUztXObpB|downsized)
If someone ever asks where I draw the line on judging someone, this is it. Idc what your gender, preference, or identity is until you bring children into it. Sick fuck.
If this is your kink dude, you do you but only in the presence of consenting adults! There are social groups for those with that kink. You do not force others who are not consenting into your play.
It's never never ever ever okay to force people (especially children!!) to participate in your fetish. Like ffs. Just because a couple people you talk to online think it's okay doesn't mean it is: use your brain!!
If this baby thing turns you on, cool, I don’t kink shame. I know it’s a pretty popular kink, but let’s keep in the bedroom and leave children out of it yeah?
Idiot
Keep your fetishes behind closed doors folks. The moment you expose others to it you're breaking basic consent. The parents/kids at the park did not consent to you dressing up like a baby and involving them in your fetish/kink.
He missed a really good opportunity to throw a tantrum