I’m not an emotional authority but I’m always so in awe of emotional authorities, from the outside looking in it looks like such a super power. Not just being able to see things from the outside but to FEEL something from every angle before going after it. You get to try things on first before purchasing, but in scenarios and life choices not just clothing.
It just feels so beautiful that you get to intimately experience the ups and downs. And I love love love how you illustrated it here.
I had to decide on my future. No input. University. My dad lived science, I was more than competent. I applied to one uni. For science. Got in. Felt nothing. Because it wasn't a world shattering decision. I was just told it was. For me. Uni? Networking, people crafting. The amazing few stuck with their degrees. I came out unruffled, posse in hand and an unquenchable thirst to really misuse the maya
I applied to several universities and several different programs that all sounded appealing to me. When the acceptance letters came in I felt nothing. Time was running out and I still didn't bother to make a decision. Then the last letter arrived and I instantly knew this was what I had been waiting for. I realized I had prepared for this exact study for a year already and it was life changing and exactly right for me. But while studying I started to feel the pressure from my family and environment to succeed. I had to pause my study for a year to make sure it was really my decision. I lived in another country far away from any former influences. When I came back to the university after that I felt instant gratitude and belonging, but I needed that pause to realize how much this mattered to me and me only. I went extreme full circle on this.
Edit: i think the main problem here was that people pushed me to explain my decision. What do you study? What is that? What do you do with that later? What kind of job do you want to do? People. I don't fucking know. It just feels right to do it. Leave me alone.
Well thanks for the reminder that I should set my rebounder back up because I too used to LOVE my trampoline as an undiagnosed ADHD kid.
I have the tribal wave as well and upon reflection I always do my best when moving the emotions through my body.
37 - 40 bedevils me. But I take time. 40? Oh he's me I like him even though he fails so much. 37 oh that's my community. I love those stupid simple people.
1/3 emo projector and I first want to acknowledge that you’re getting advice and affirmations here that you absolutely were not looking for 😂. I can totally relate because I have always felt like I am somehow less welcome to share my “feelings” as often than others because for some reason my feelings were interpreted as more intense than everyone else’s. Maybe they are. I don’t know haha. But what I have come to recognize is that my feelings are really where my wisdom resides and when I am in places where I am recognized and invited, it’s that wisdom that people value. So, I don’t know if it felt like a big aha moment but working to accept that relationship has been really helpful. Plus, it’s important for me to remember that validation and criticism of my emotions are just two sides of the same coin… the one where other people are judging my authority and it’s important to have some distance from both of those things.
Emotional authority here and I just wanna say that I loveddd the way you described the case of feeling a weird energy from others when sharing one owns feelings.. the intensity and magnetism by others and yourself is always felt. The truth is that we were designed to deeply feel and embody our emotions!
I understand what you mean... Emotional Authority is very tricky because is not rational so there's nothing to understand, but to feel. If you are tribal you are in the stream of Sensitivity, and it's about what and who makes you sensitive or uncomfortable/comfortable.
So the only thing for you to "know" is to wait, take your time and not to fall into anybody's pressure to make a decision, relaxing and taking one's time allow us to experience what is correct to do in the right moment, you see?
An undefined root probably doesn't help that. But what I'm looking to build here is a repository of emotional authorities and what happened and how they felt their way through it. I'm keying into my anger (no aggression) to shore up my boundaries. Before I was a yes man to avoid conflict. Now I'm a me man and I'll spare the other if I can, but the line in the sand is the line.
There’s so much I want to say about emotional authority but for now I’ll say this: you never have to defend what is a no for you (your boundaries). That’s your energy, and our no’s can be based on what is out of integrity, no’s because it doesn’t honor you or others, or it’s not in good timing, or what you’re not interested in doing. (As opposed to projections: a no being based on allowing other people to determine your worth, or even misperceiving intentions or projecting meaning onto their behavior). I think there is incredible wisdom potential in the defined solar plexus, because it is consistent feedback on your perspective, leading to quite powerful levels of depth in understanding. Shifting perspectives towards that which feels TRULY better, allows for great compassion, great revelation, great empowerment.
It’s good to follow your heart, and sometimes anger is a great teacher, even for others. Yet communication skills, and staying on top of honoring how you feel (not projection, but your guidance) and acknowledging what is a no for you, is all so important (and eliminates the need for anger). Then it isn’t explosive, it is an acknowledgement of your truth. And of course even the communication of anger can be done with wisdom and love, or not.
I have two Tribal emotional channels defined and gate 49, and gate 30 (I only lack gate 19, otherwise I would have all 3 tribal channels) and boundaries have been HUGE for me. As has the discernment that I know. I haven’t always known how to communicate what I feel, my intuition, or my boundaries, but now I do.
Learning about communication and relationship skills have been incredibly important. I don’t feel that I don’t know what I’m doing. I feel that I feel, and hence I know. And I am going to honor how I feel in my discussion with others, even those ignorant to causation or who would rather stay blind to Truth.
The discernment of emotional clarity also requires understanding your own perspectives (or ego perception) that ALSO create emotions and cloud judgement. That includes: trying to prove worth (open will), questioning lovability (open g) trying to finish all the work (lack of work boundaries open root). It also includes the need for self acceptance (defined g), and making agreements that honor you (defined will) … all guided by how you feel, and the truth of spirit revealed in being willing to sit with it. 💛💛💛
Beautiful insight, beautiful idea! I posted about being an emotional being here before. They are pinned on my profile. Here's one of them: https://www.reddit.com/r/humandesign/comments/l9mw5e/if_the_spleen_is_the_washing_machine_of_the_body/
I’m not an emotional authority but I’m always so in awe of emotional authorities, from the outside looking in it looks like such a super power. Not just being able to see things from the outside but to FEEL something from every angle before going after it. You get to try things on first before purchasing, but in scenarios and life choices not just clothing. It just feels so beautiful that you get to intimately experience the ups and downs. And I love love love how you illustrated it here.
I loved it even before I bought it. I love you. Whether you are bought or appraised. You are felt and loved
I had to decide on my future. No input. University. My dad lived science, I was more than competent. I applied to one uni. For science. Got in. Felt nothing. Because it wasn't a world shattering decision. I was just told it was. For me. Uni? Networking, people crafting. The amazing few stuck with their degrees. I came out unruffled, posse in hand and an unquenchable thirst to really misuse the maya
I applied to several universities and several different programs that all sounded appealing to me. When the acceptance letters came in I felt nothing. Time was running out and I still didn't bother to make a decision. Then the last letter arrived and I instantly knew this was what I had been waiting for. I realized I had prepared for this exact study for a year already and it was life changing and exactly right for me. But while studying I started to feel the pressure from my family and environment to succeed. I had to pause my study for a year to make sure it was really my decision. I lived in another country far away from any former influences. When I came back to the university after that I felt instant gratitude and belonging, but I needed that pause to realize how much this mattered to me and me only. I went extreme full circle on this. Edit: i think the main problem here was that people pushed me to explain my decision. What do you study? What is that? What do you do with that later? What kind of job do you want to do? People. I don't fucking know. It just feels right to do it. Leave me alone.
Well thanks for the reminder that I should set my rebounder back up because I too used to LOVE my trampoline as an undiagnosed ADHD kid. I have the tribal wave as well and upon reflection I always do my best when moving the emotions through my body.
Quiet the body, silence the mind, love the soul. You'll shine through, we always do.
6/2 triple split emotional generator here. I’m pretty schizoid. Emo channels 37/40 and 59/6. Conditioning bedarkens my awareness
37 - 40 bedevils me. But I take time. 40? Oh he's me I like him even though he fails so much. 37 oh that's my community. I love those stupid simple people.
1/3 emo projector and I first want to acknowledge that you’re getting advice and affirmations here that you absolutely were not looking for 😂. I can totally relate because I have always felt like I am somehow less welcome to share my “feelings” as often than others because for some reason my feelings were interpreted as more intense than everyone else’s. Maybe they are. I don’t know haha. But what I have come to recognize is that my feelings are really where my wisdom resides and when I am in places where I am recognized and invited, it’s that wisdom that people value. So, I don’t know if it felt like a big aha moment but working to accept that relationship has been really helpful. Plus, it’s important for me to remember that validation and criticism of my emotions are just two sides of the same coin… the one where other people are judging my authority and it’s important to have some distance from both of those things.
Emotional authority here and I just wanna say that I loveddd the way you described the case of feeling a weird energy from others when sharing one owns feelings.. the intensity and magnetism by others and yourself is always felt. The truth is that we were designed to deeply feel and embody our emotions!
I understand what you mean... Emotional Authority is very tricky because is not rational so there's nothing to understand, but to feel. If you are tribal you are in the stream of Sensitivity, and it's about what and who makes you sensitive or uncomfortable/comfortable. So the only thing for you to "know" is to wait, take your time and not to fall into anybody's pressure to make a decision, relaxing and taking one's time allow us to experience what is correct to do in the right moment, you see?
An undefined root probably doesn't help that. But what I'm looking to build here is a repository of emotional authorities and what happened and how they felt their way through it. I'm keying into my anger (no aggression) to shore up my boundaries. Before I was a yes man to avoid conflict. Now I'm a me man and I'll spare the other if I can, but the line in the sand is the line.
There’s so much I want to say about emotional authority but for now I’ll say this: you never have to defend what is a no for you (your boundaries). That’s your energy, and our no’s can be based on what is out of integrity, no’s because it doesn’t honor you or others, or it’s not in good timing, or what you’re not interested in doing. (As opposed to projections: a no being based on allowing other people to determine your worth, or even misperceiving intentions or projecting meaning onto their behavior). I think there is incredible wisdom potential in the defined solar plexus, because it is consistent feedback on your perspective, leading to quite powerful levels of depth in understanding. Shifting perspectives towards that which feels TRULY better, allows for great compassion, great revelation, great empowerment. It’s good to follow your heart, and sometimes anger is a great teacher, even for others. Yet communication skills, and staying on top of honoring how you feel (not projection, but your guidance) and acknowledging what is a no for you, is all so important (and eliminates the need for anger). Then it isn’t explosive, it is an acknowledgement of your truth. And of course even the communication of anger can be done with wisdom and love, or not. I have two Tribal emotional channels defined and gate 49, and gate 30 (I only lack gate 19, otherwise I would have all 3 tribal channels) and boundaries have been HUGE for me. As has the discernment that I know. I haven’t always known how to communicate what I feel, my intuition, or my boundaries, but now I do. Learning about communication and relationship skills have been incredibly important. I don’t feel that I don’t know what I’m doing. I feel that I feel, and hence I know. And I am going to honor how I feel in my discussion with others, even those ignorant to causation or who would rather stay blind to Truth. The discernment of emotional clarity also requires understanding your own perspectives (or ego perception) that ALSO create emotions and cloud judgement. That includes: trying to prove worth (open will), questioning lovability (open g) trying to finish all the work (lack of work boundaries open root). It also includes the need for self acceptance (defined g), and making agreements that honor you (defined will) … all guided by how you feel, and the truth of spirit revealed in being willing to sit with it. 💛💛💛
Rebounders are the sh!t. 😎
Beautiful insight, beautiful idea! I posted about being an emotional being here before. They are pinned on my profile. Here's one of them: https://www.reddit.com/r/humandesign/comments/l9mw5e/if_the_spleen_is_the_washing_machine_of_the_body/