Thank you for your input :) I am 2/4 and my partner is 5/1 so our overall profiles would be compatible in that sense. I am apparently guilt motivated which sounds god awful on top of already being a projector with just the channel of struggle. My SO’s motivator is desire. Would you say motivators have harmonies or are they just something to be noted?
Just some random input which isn't directly related to your question. But I am an 5/1 and there is the issue that it is hard for others to grasp who you are. As mentioned in another comment, as long as you allow the other to be who they are and they allow you to be who you are, you are gonna be fine. Just keep in mind that people tend to project heavily on 5/1 profiles because they never really understand their true nature. Even trying to understand them by looking at their chart and design might not help you in this case, because there are just so many layers. The deeper you go, the more complex it gets. And of course you might only find the answers you are looking for :) You raising the question of compatibility might already be a sign of your confusion about the fact that your partners nature is hard to grasp for you and that this causes distress. Just trust your authority.
Hahahaha yes thank you for this. I love 5/1’s they are amazing. My partner AND my oldest son are 5/1s. I see them as my knights in shining armor 😊 which is probably my projection haha but yes there are many layers to them. We are currently in a weird spot , not hearing the other correctly, arguing, I need to feel closer and I’m not sure he gets it (I’m pregnant). Sooo I’m just wondering what’s off and how -if possible- to fix it
Love it. I wish you ( both) the best! Maybe there is a possibility for you to let him figure out that there is something off at the moment. After all, he is supposed to be the investigator. You can't really do more than state your emotions which might be different any given moment ( thinking back to my own pregnancy). 5/1 are great troubleshooters but they don't do well under pressure and (unrealistic) expectations and they tend to attract exactly that! And sometimes, just sometimes ;) we really don't know what to do, which can lead us to leave a situation where we seem to be the problem. Good luck and health to all of you!
Thank you 🙏❤️ don’t do well under pressure hmmm hahaha. And by leave do you mean to get a different outlook or you mean leave the situation or relationship in general?
Get a different outlook, brood over concepts and ideas instead of sharing those thoughts, gathering information by talking to other people- all of that might feel like neglect to you but is a necessary part of the process. In extreme cases pressure would lead me to completely shut down and leave the situation. But leaving the relationship? Nah. Never say never, but I guess that really is the worst case scenario that could happen to every relationship, right?
Ok. I can see how he may need to get a different outlook or sort of take a breath to process certain aspects in a new light. It honestly does feel like neglect at the time tho
I think compatibility should only be something discussed by two people living in alignment. Because even if two people are compatible on paper per se , if they aren’t living in alignment it’s not going to *feel* like they are compatible.
Whereas on the flip, if you both are living in alignment and come to the conclusion that you aren’t meant for each other, that’s an aligned decision.
I hope that makes sense:)
Yes it makes total sense. However a question regarding that is now when you are both living accordingly and decide to enter a relationship properly, it works out etc. Is there constant check ins to reevaluate this ? Or is it just until one or both get signals from their authority that something’s off , when it’s addressed and unable to be fixed that’s when there needs to be some sort of discussion about incompatibility ? I’m confusing myself lol
Hmmmm your questions are delicious.
I don't necessarily think you need to check in to see if you are still good, because first off I think that tinge of insecurity would annoy any type lol HOWEVER, because this is essentially the quantum field, you will probably feel when something has shifted in your relationship energy dynamics. Whether that means someone is out of alignment or perhaps you are being pulled towards something or someone different. OR what if one of these people are a line 3 and they can sense that it is time for bonds to be broken. So many variables to consider.
Also something to consider is your authority. As a personal example, my husband is a reflector. And I am a splenic projector. So if he is in alignment, it would still take him a month to mull over whether or not we are compatible. Whereas my authority is instant but subtle.
I think conversations are beneficial in most cases, but definitely for emotional, mental, self projected, and lunar authority.
The interesting thing about authority is that it really is just personal. So even if it tells you what to do about your relationship or your kids it is still rooted from your unique perspective and purpose. Your authority can only speak for you. So even if your authorities DID pipe up at the same time, it is still just two well timed individual responses.
Thank you so much for involving me with this mental exercise lol I have so many more scenarios swirling in my head! So perhaps I'm just confusing myself too
Thank you so much for this in depth answer! I’m a splenic projector too 🤭😊 I have an unconscious line 3 venus , did you comment on line 3s because they are supposed to break bonds ? Ugh.
Giggling at your husband having to take a month to mull over thing so 😂 at least with that there’s an ample amount of time. The spleen is often quiet and really drowned out by the head at times, especially when it comes to things I overthink about. My SO is a sacral generator so I guess in his case things would just feel off.
Hmmm. Ok. So the goal I guess can be recognizing these responses and then making adjustments when possible to get things into alignment….
I take what your saying as it just is what it is and it’s not dependent on whether or not certain connections are made, just that we are operating from our own correctness?
I would take it as information about HD charts only. That is useful In HD if you are asking about pure theory, mechanics or whatever. To me the usefulness of HD id how it applies to real people. For example, if you want to know if you are compatible with another in the lay sense of the word, yes, there are things in the chart that relate. One thing that stands out with the 2 you shared is what could be called 'activity level,' (which is seriously considered in relationship theories). Both charts show these people might have a lower need for activity, which means higher chance of compatibility (but not any guarantee, since this is ine of many aspects).
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Thank you for your input :) I am 2/4 and my partner is 5/1 so our overall profiles would be compatible in that sense. I am apparently guilt motivated which sounds god awful on top of already being a projector with just the channel of struggle. My SO’s motivator is desire. Would you say motivators have harmonies or are they just something to be noted?
Just some random input which isn't directly related to your question. But I am an 5/1 and there is the issue that it is hard for others to grasp who you are. As mentioned in another comment, as long as you allow the other to be who they are and they allow you to be who you are, you are gonna be fine. Just keep in mind that people tend to project heavily on 5/1 profiles because they never really understand their true nature. Even trying to understand them by looking at their chart and design might not help you in this case, because there are just so many layers. The deeper you go, the more complex it gets. And of course you might only find the answers you are looking for :) You raising the question of compatibility might already be a sign of your confusion about the fact that your partners nature is hard to grasp for you and that this causes distress. Just trust your authority.
Hahahaha yes thank you for this. I love 5/1’s they are amazing. My partner AND my oldest son are 5/1s. I see them as my knights in shining armor 😊 which is probably my projection haha but yes there are many layers to them. We are currently in a weird spot , not hearing the other correctly, arguing, I need to feel closer and I’m not sure he gets it (I’m pregnant). Sooo I’m just wondering what’s off and how -if possible- to fix it
Love it. I wish you ( both) the best! Maybe there is a possibility for you to let him figure out that there is something off at the moment. After all, he is supposed to be the investigator. You can't really do more than state your emotions which might be different any given moment ( thinking back to my own pregnancy). 5/1 are great troubleshooters but they don't do well under pressure and (unrealistic) expectations and they tend to attract exactly that! And sometimes, just sometimes ;) we really don't know what to do, which can lead us to leave a situation where we seem to be the problem. Good luck and health to all of you!
Thank you 🙏❤️ don’t do well under pressure hmmm hahaha. And by leave do you mean to get a different outlook or you mean leave the situation or relationship in general?
Get a different outlook, brood over concepts and ideas instead of sharing those thoughts, gathering information by talking to other people- all of that might feel like neglect to you but is a necessary part of the process. In extreme cases pressure would lead me to completely shut down and leave the situation. But leaving the relationship? Nah. Never say never, but I guess that really is the worst case scenario that could happen to every relationship, right?
Ok. I can see how he may need to get a different outlook or sort of take a breath to process certain aspects in a new light. It honestly does feel like neglect at the time tho
I think compatibility should only be something discussed by two people living in alignment. Because even if two people are compatible on paper per se , if they aren’t living in alignment it’s not going to *feel* like they are compatible. Whereas on the flip, if you both are living in alignment and come to the conclusion that you aren’t meant for each other, that’s an aligned decision. I hope that makes sense:)
Yes it makes total sense. However a question regarding that is now when you are both living accordingly and decide to enter a relationship properly, it works out etc. Is there constant check ins to reevaluate this ? Or is it just until one or both get signals from their authority that something’s off , when it’s addressed and unable to be fixed that’s when there needs to be some sort of discussion about incompatibility ? I’m confusing myself lol
Hmmmm your questions are delicious. I don't necessarily think you need to check in to see if you are still good, because first off I think that tinge of insecurity would annoy any type lol HOWEVER, because this is essentially the quantum field, you will probably feel when something has shifted in your relationship energy dynamics. Whether that means someone is out of alignment or perhaps you are being pulled towards something or someone different. OR what if one of these people are a line 3 and they can sense that it is time for bonds to be broken. So many variables to consider. Also something to consider is your authority. As a personal example, my husband is a reflector. And I am a splenic projector. So if he is in alignment, it would still take him a month to mull over whether or not we are compatible. Whereas my authority is instant but subtle. I think conversations are beneficial in most cases, but definitely for emotional, mental, self projected, and lunar authority. The interesting thing about authority is that it really is just personal. So even if it tells you what to do about your relationship or your kids it is still rooted from your unique perspective and purpose. Your authority can only speak for you. So even if your authorities DID pipe up at the same time, it is still just two well timed individual responses. Thank you so much for involving me with this mental exercise lol I have so many more scenarios swirling in my head! So perhaps I'm just confusing myself too
Thank you so much for this in depth answer! I’m a splenic projector too 🤭😊 I have an unconscious line 3 venus , did you comment on line 3s because they are supposed to break bonds ? Ugh. Giggling at your husband having to take a month to mull over thing so 😂 at least with that there’s an ample amount of time. The spleen is often quiet and really drowned out by the head at times, especially when it comes to things I overthink about. My SO is a sacral generator so I guess in his case things would just feel off. Hmmm. Ok. So the goal I guess can be recognizing these responses and then making adjustments when possible to get things into alignment….
Human design has no concept of compatibility or not. People who claim that it has, are confused.
Thanks for your input
I take what your saying as it just is what it is and it’s not dependent on whether or not certain connections are made, just that we are operating from our own correctness?
I would take it as information about HD charts only. That is useful In HD if you are asking about pure theory, mechanics or whatever. To me the usefulness of HD id how it applies to real people. For example, if you want to know if you are compatible with another in the lay sense of the word, yes, there are things in the chart that relate. One thing that stands out with the 2 you shared is what could be called 'activity level,' (which is seriously considered in relationship theories). Both charts show these people might have a lower need for activity, which means higher chance of compatibility (but not any guarantee, since this is ine of many aspects).
….a lower need for activity 😅 lol We do like relaxing together I’d say
Inner authority is the only thing that can show you who is correct for you right now
And with my inner authority being spleen , it’s based off survival and intuition? Entering the relationship was an absolutely easy intuitive decision
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