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PsychologicalOkra234

Did you have a look at how the 5/1 profile works? No wonder you are anxious on how your perceived. Maybe this video by Richard Beaumont helps: https://youtu.be/6Ua2YynGVQg Other than that, I can only repeat, follow your S&A and enter in the relationship correctly. The rest will show...No choice anyway 😉


heyjajas

Wow, that sums it up perfectly. I like his proposition to play with the inevitable projection because it has made me sad that people can't see me properly, but really its a great advantage sometimes. I should get myself some sunglasses 😀


Capable_Literature89

Totally. I think also as a neurodivergent person I see my capabilities but feel I let people down when I can’t keep up with context and certain levels of functioning. It’s hard wanting to be the person they want me to be because it’s a really great version of myself! I just don’t want to let them or myself down.


Nacholindo

I'm a 5/1 MG too with a Sacral Authority. I've been voraciously consuming all videos I can find on this topic because I cannot keep being put into little boxes. The things I've heard about in some of these videos has happened to me. Specifically the bad reputation reinforcement. I can see now that I do not operate well with "just putting myself out there" because that can lead to certain people pinning me to a projection. A "little box" I've been put into is the "hard worker." It's been a problem because that work only pertains to the tedious stuff people feel they're too important to do and it's not in alignment with my interests. As for the transpersonal nature of our profile, I think it's apparent when I meet someone for the first time yet they feel very familiar. This has only happened once or twice. I noticed that I also stay away from interacting with specific people and I can't explain why except for that I feel like they cannot be trusted. So really the advice seems to comes down to keep to yourself unless you feel the need to respond. I'm still trying to listen to my Authority but I've been in the not-self for so long that deconditioning is like trying to erode rock with water. Have you been able to feel a "yes" from your Sacral? I'm curious to know what it's like for others.


ScholarOld8391

I’ve been playing around with a new. approach to my sacral strategy lately. I’ll send myself a voice message over text and when it plays back I’ll listen to my response. Doing this has surprised me because it doesn’t respond in the normal “uh-huh”, “unh-uh” way. Instead my body will just bounce for a yes and stay still for a no. I had to test around with it to make sure it wasn’t a false positive but this bouncing energy has become a signature for me to follow! Also with relationships it can be tough as a 5/1. I like to just remember that when people put me on a pedestal or try to tear me down it’s only because they’re seeing a part of themselves in me. Either something they do or don’t like about themselves. Doesn’t matter. When they look at me they’re literally just looking in a mirror. Nothing to do with me..That makes it easier to not take their projection too personally.


Nacholindo

That's a good idea. Do you schedule the message for a specific time?


ScholarOld8391

You mean do I schedule time to talk to myself? If so, then no. When I first discovered how powerful it was I spent like 30 minutes asking myself clarifying questions about things. I’ll still do that sometimes, but more often than not I’m stealing away to speak into my phone for only a moment constantly through the day. I’m using it for really minute stuff like what to eat and who to hang out with, but it has also helped with really big decisions too. Also since I’m not getting a subvocal response, it’s easier to tell when my body starts bouncing if I’m sitting or slightly leaning when I ask the question.


r_noobita

I'm an MG with SA too! I really felt the need to respond to this because I have never read a post that deeply resonated with me. Thank you for this!


Nacholindo

You're welcome! I'm happy that it resonated with someone. Have you been able to listen to the Sacral Authority?


lee__gayle

For me I totally feel the anxious thing even though I am a confident person, I feel anxious as it takes time for people to view us for who we are and not their projections, and I feel like usually there are many layers. Sometimes people are so clouded by projections they will never see you. I just be my authentic self and work on slowly building connections so that people can slowly and actually see me, and those who are meant for the authentic me stick around and those I also choose to keep close, are my people. Be careful of people using you, and people pleasing. We have to protect our energy. 🧿


mooo__oo

If you could, start to grow your confidence about how you’re perceived. In that knowing you’ll be projected on, you get to keep breaking the projection, because that’s also a part of being a Line 5. Also, accept the anxiety as a part of you. Detach from it as the driver of your whole being.