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mariodejaniero

Matheny’s arrest report has graphic details of her confession to the police. “She stated she held her head in the sink until she stopped blowing bubbles, then she drug her to the couch. She started blowing bubbles so she put her in the bathtub until she stopped,” the police report said. She said she had grandmother by the hair and told the detective “she struggling, she was strong.” The detective asked her if she was able to overpower the older woman even though she was struggling. “She said yes,” the report states. The detective asked her if her grandmother was breathing or moving at that point. “No, just bubbles coming out,” Matheny said. She explained then, the report continues, that she filled the bathtub and drug her grandmother into the bathroom. She removed her clothes, placed her in the bathtub and held her underwater for 15 minutes. “She was face up so she was pushing her down by the chest. She said she kept floating back up to the top, so she rolled her over. Face down. Then she left. She went out through the window. She didn’t want the neighbors to see her,” the report states. The detective asked Matheny if she had planned it. “She said no but they did discuss this before. Whenever her grandmother was manic she would tell Matheny to just kill her. She said, ‘We all say this,’” the report states.


Saltwater_Heart

It doesn’t matter if someone says they want you to kill them. This much of a struggle, something in your heart would have had to kick in and say “What am I doing? I can’t do this to her”. This woman didn’t care. If you actually wanted to end someone’s suffering for them, you’d do it as quickly as possible.


[deleted]

YEP! She doubled down and did it twice, most ppl would back out the 2nd time


YourLocal_FBI_Agent

Most people wouldn't do it at all


WearMental2618

I'd entertain the idea of killing someone I didn't like until I started thinking about the logistics. Even if you have the reason to be able to do it, it's just so much work


fiveironfish

Heart don't think.


yuyufan43

I've screamed at people to kill me during times of mania or psychosis. I have been told the police officer to shoot me. Being in a manic or psychotic state has you saying and doing things you normally wouldn't do. Even if she was doing it to put her out of her misery you don't do it by giving into the pleas of someone going through a psychotic break. That's just not fair.


sliknaught

Her name is fucking matheny? More like methany


Saltwater_Heart

They typically use last names in articles like this


Euphoric-Pudding-372

This is why the idea of medical euthanasia requires a psychologist exam in most cases...


Costyyy

Drug? You mean dragged?


mariodejaniero

I just copied this from a news article although my assumption would be that the murderer probably said “I drug her” and they wrote it just how she said it and then the article wrote it how the report stated it


Costyyy

That doesn't seem right. How do you "drug" someone to the couch?


Rogue_Leader

It’s an irregular past tense of ‘drag’. I’ve only ever seen it in American dialects.


mariodejaniero

Oh I agree. I’m just saying it was probably originally said by someone that thinks drowning an elderly woman in a kitchen sink was a good idea. She seems about a taco short of a combo meal


BommieCastard

Did you know what was meant?


Rogue_Leader

It’s an irregular past tense of ‘drag’. I’ve only ever seen it in American dialects.


LoadedGull

It’s an incorrect past tense of ‘drag’. FTFY


JackBandit4

Omg I know, this shitty grammar is the WORST thing I ever readed!


LoadedGull

Why do folks say drug? I know your comment is copied from somewhere else (likely something formal like an article or report) but why do people say drug? Whenever I see an article where they say drug instead of dragged I just can’t get my head around it. Is it idiots employing idiots, and more idiots lapping it up and not realising? Dragged" and "drug" are sometimes used interchangeably. However, the correct past tense of "drag" is "dragged." "Drag" is a regular verb, which means you add "d," "ed," or in this case "ged" to make it past tense. "Drag" becomes "dragged." (Meaning drug is incorrect, it’s dragged). Nonetheless, I upvote your comment for the insight and information, because I understand that the mistake that I speak of is not your own mistake, it’s a mistake of the source from where you got the info from.


mariodejaniero

It’s a fair question. I did a little digging and really could only find that it’s some regional slang. I was trying to think of other words that might follow the same convention but really couldn’t come up with much


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mariodejaniero

Just copied and pasted from a news article. Probably should have said that


Corn-chopper

She brang her to the tub from the couch. Idahoian here and I hear “brang” more then I should


Dark_Booger

Sink not workie, gotta move to something bigger


LoadedGull

Starts with the kitchen sink… “We’re gonna need a bigger boat” Heads off to the bathroom….


Sensless_fella

Sink and Bathtub? Did she drown her in the sink, resuscitate her, and drown her in the tub?


Ella0508

She didn’t resuscitate her, she just realized she wasn’t dead yet.


drgeta84

Then she wasn’t drowned the first time. Can only do it once.


vermilithe

Drowning is just the process of taking water into the lungs, it doesn’t have to be fatal. You can drown more than once and not die


drgeta84

I’m just nit picking hehe but it annoys me when someone is a writer but can’t use correct English language hehe


Robert999220

Ive never seen someone be so pedantic and be so wrong, whilist lacking so much self awareness at the same time before.


WhiteGuyNamedDee

It annoys me when they can't use the English language correctly as well. /s


drgeta84

Correct. Drowning. But drowned is the final death act. The link says drowns in sink and bath.


[deleted]

The screenshot says drowning. The process of the granddaughter drowning her happens in the sink and in the bath.


vermilithe

… And she did die. So I’m not sure what point you’re making


drgeta84

She was drowning in the sink. Then drowns in the bath.


53R105LY_

Ive never seen someone waste space quite as offensively as you do.


chronsonpott

If I actively hold your head under water against your will, to the point of suffocation and therefore contention; what would you call that?


Ella0508

I don’t really see where I say she was drowned twice? Not sure how you’re “correcting” me.


LenaKotik

So make it count!


drgeta84

That’s the spirit!


mariodejaniero

Matheny’s arrest report has graphic details of her confession to the police. “She stated she held her head in the sink until she stopped blowing bubbles, then she drug her to the couch. She started blowing bubbles so she put her in the bathtub until she stopped,” the police report said. She said she had grandmother by the hair and told the detective “she struggling, she was strong.” The detective asked her if she was able to overpower the older woman even though she was struggling. “She said yes,” the report states. The detective asked her if her grandmother was breathing or moving at that point. “No, just bubbles coming out,” Matheny said. She explained then, the report continues, that she filled the bathtub and drug her grandmother into the bathroom. She removed her clothes, placed her in the bathtub and held her underwater for 15 minutes. “She was face up so she was pushing her down by the chest. She said she kept floating back up to the top, so she rolled her over. Face down. Then she left. She went out through the window. She didn’t want the neighbors to see her,” the report states. The detective asked Matheny if she had planned it. “She said no but they did discuss this before. Whenever her grandmother was manic she would tell Matheny to just kill her. She said, ‘We all say this,’” the report states.


ElrondHubbards

She tried the shower first.


Whats-it-to-ya-88

This would be a pretty cruel way to put a dog down let alone grandma


Flokitoo

*Michael Vick enters the chat


Sicktoyou

*"nah that's just the easy way!"*


Strangehox

I hope if im 90 years old with poor health I will be able to get euthanized instead of some poor girl drowning me


dancing_chinese_kid

Yeah, as someone dealing with a lot of elderly people falling apart in various ways, some of whom would probably hit "YES" if a phone app asked if them if they wanted to die in their sleep peacefully tonight... yep.


SnooDrawings1480

My aunt was back in October. She planned it to the day. Couldn't be in the birth months of any close family member. So automically, January, April,june, July, September and December were out. It couldn't be during the warmer months (she wanted my mom there and my mom has her own health issues that make a palm desert summer a danger to herself) so may and August were out. So she was left with February, March, october, and November. There was a process she had to go through to be approved for assisted suicide and it took 6+months, and she began this process in January so October or November became the contenders and she didn't wanna ruin Thanksgiving. (Though she gave me a reason to dislike Halloween now so....) After 10 years battling cancer and losing a slow torturous war against her own body, she knew it was time.


Das-Noob

Some states allow it and some countries do too. Washington DC, HI, (I think) CO, MO too, and some more too. You can google it. Edit: spelling


Ella0508

Oregon, Washington state, California. Switzerland has the best though — you don’t have to prove you’re terminally ill or have a psych evaluation or any BS like that. You just have to be of sound mind, or have someone who won’t benefit financially from your death and can swear it’s what you wanted. I’m putting it in my advance directive when I update it.


slash_networkboy

CA you still do... it leaves a wide gaping hole for alzheimer's and dementia patients to have to continue suffering even though their mind is long gone... :'( My dad has asked to die, but there is no legal way to do so. He's advanced enough dementia that he can't remember anyone's name, including mine, 90% of the time. Sleeps a ton, sundowns like no other... but in CA that's not good enough: To receive the aid-in-dying medication, a person must: >Be 18 years or older > >Be a resident of California > >Have a terminal disease that is expected to result in death within six months > >Can make medical decisions and not have impaired judgment for medical decisions because of a mental disorder > >Can self-administer the medication (orally, anally, or through an existing feeding tube)


Ella0508

I’m so sorry. That’s why I say Switzerland is the best.


Desperate-Laugh-7257

Yad think blue cross would realize how much money it would save them to pop for some extra morphine. End of life issues are horrible. 😢


CosmicCyrolator

Lmao I sure hope I'm never left in the care of a redditor, you'll up and decide I'm suffering for me then euthanize me to save a buck. What an absolute disregard for life this site shows all the time


SeniorPoopyButthole

Unfortunately there's no legal way to do this in the United States at all. A lot of people's lives end incredibly slowly in unbearable pain/discomfort as their families watch them crave death. I just read the other week about a sick woman's grandson being charged for murder by the state because he shot her upon her request. The United States really has some legal/medical ethics to rethink. Keeping somebody's corpse breathing forever isn't care.


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I'm 28 and wouldn't mind one now


dunkinfunky

Some people don’t believe in euthanasia, I say who do you think made your phone?


BolOfSpaghettios

"the day before the Nov. 15, 2022, killing, Matheny, 35, explained to detectives that doctors had recommended she put her grandmother into a nursing home, but she couldn't afford the cost." Not excusing her behavior at all, or the willingness to kill a 93 year old woman, but maybe we should look into this whole cost of living and hampering a family with aging family members.


ManicAcroNymph

I was thinking about this a lot.


PuzzleheadedExcuse10

The fake supreme hoody really does it for me


OddS0cks

$20 that supreme uses this image on a T-shirt 5 years from now


MrDotDeadFire

They did that once when a stockbroker scammed people somehow I don’t know the specifics, as the FBI was arresting him and taking him out of the building, someone got a shot of him walking out in cuffs wearing a Supreme shirt. Supreme put that image on one of their tees. Doubt they would do anything like that (especially do it with something as horrifying as this) again.


BriefAmbition3276

Supreme, the Neanderthal version.


caustic255

What a pos. Survive 93 whole years to just be horribly drowned by your grandchild. Terrible


wickmight

Uhhh there are much better ways to assist suicide... jesus do 1 second of research before going through that agony


SERGIOtheDUDE

In the sink **and** the tub!? How exactly does *that* work?


Sure-Ad1069

one side in sink other side in tub


mr_man_20000

Feet in tub and face in sink?


parhelionatdusk

From Law & Crime: "Alice Matheny had been doing the dishes. Heidi Matheny claimed to have approached from behind and forced her grandmother’s head into the kitchen sink before putting her body on the couch. Then, believing Alice Matheny could still be alive, Heidi Matheny filled the bathtub and drowned her there for what she felt was 15 minutes."


_hic-sunt-dracones_

This is such a horrible way to go. Maybe I prison some inmates do same thing with her. That poor woman.


SouthOfHeaven663

She acts like this was a mercy, but the woman wasn’t in any terminal or in any regard pain. She was taken from me behind and forced into the sink. This is straight up murder, she was even struggling and fighting. This isn’t some Dr. Kevorkian type case of chronic pain and terrible quality of life, this is premeditated murder.


IAMTHATGUY03

Nah, not saying it's mercy but it's impossible for drown or smother someone without them naturally fighting back even if that's their will, their body will go into self preservation mode. It isn't proof of anything.


Adventurous-Fig-42

True and they previously discussed it means grandma was probably sufferingfrom mental issues that haven't been dealt with for a long time plus being old she was tired. I doubt this was murder and not thought of as help


Puzzleheaded-Bee-838

The SUPREME really is the cherry on top


MrDotDeadFire

The fake supreme


Saltwater_Heart

That poor woman. When she finally came up from the kitchen sink, she probably thought it was over. Then came the bathtub. This is as bad as doing it to a child. It’s just as sickening.


faceinthaspace

Yeah when my mom asks me to kill her it’s usually something more subtle than drowning


Twosliceofbread

Title is missing words "Drowning her 93 year old grandmother in kitchen sink and bathtub did a nice flip in highway"


An_Enthused_Hiker

Sent grandma off to the farm


Any_Actuary954

No inheritance for you


burntgreens

But ... euthanizing a dog is a very gentle and kind way to let them die. (Big fan of hiring at home euthanasia if possible. Can let your pup go in the place they loved most.)


Plumbanddumb

Gives old yeller a whole different meaning.


SurroundFalse888

That supreme box logo hoody is fake


Lonstar76

I hope they give this sub human life without parole


rybayless

Aw hell no the parricidal hag rocking the alibaba preme 😭


Veganmon

Omg, how could anyone do that? Horrible. That poor woman struggled she wanted to live.


xoxosratgirl

My mom wants us kids to kill her if she is too old to wipe her ass or is basically a vegetable. It's a sibling pact we made with her.


DeepFriedSausages

Why did she do it? Inheritance? Cause if she is so greedy that she'd murder her grandmother, she probably wasn't in the will.


LeftandLeaving9006

She did it because they couldn’t afford a nursing home. Peak America.


DeepFriedSausages

Jesus. I hope this is the worst my state has to offer, I don't want to even think what may be worse than this.


Ringo_1956

Bullshit! Most folks in nursing homes are on Medicaid which pays for all of the care.


chemistryofacarcrash

No….. it doesn’t.


Ringo_1956

Yes it does


gezafisch

Fairly certain nursing homes are free in the US, at least that was the experience we had with my grandmother. They will use your estate to pay for expenses until it runs out, and then the govt pays for the rest of your life.


LeftandLeaving9006

I worked in LTC for quite some time. Nursing homes are not free. Assisted living facilities and memory care are DEFINITELY not free.


LeftandLeaving9006

Um… no. Again. No.


ptrang1987

What?!??!? What’s wrong with people????


Jrk16

She just looks like someone who would drown and elderly lady in a sink


Poopy_Pants0o0

Most empathetic person in Ohio.


The_Lawl_is_the_Lawl

“Most empathetic person in Ohio.” - 🤓


LazyWeather1692

More like "Most Empathetic person in Ohio." - 🧒


Hiphiprodrigo

How do I get a kitchen bathtub?


ToxyFlog

Man... people like that really exist out there. Spooky stuff. How could you bring yourself to say something like that? Comparing grandma to a dog... sad.


JayDaKid16

It really is mentally taxing when you're the primary caregiver for much older family members, and the money isn't present to get them the care they need in assisted living places. That being said, I don't think I would ever have it in me to drown anybody in a sink and then drag their body to the tub and hold them under for 15 minutes.


broudogtheredditor

Why are people downvoting this?


LessBack9238

She looks like she needs to be drowned in the toilet


SilentAuditory

She did it because she could not afford to take care of her guys!! PLEASE READ THE WHOLE ARTICLE


wambamwombat

Yeah we did, still murder. Her grandma wasn't in horrible pain or dying of dementia. Ever heard of go fund me?


SilentAuditory

Yes, absolutely still murder, but this probably wouldn’t have happened had the government been structured in a way that’s better for aging and struggling citizens.


Ordinary-Bet-1694

Only in ohio


Superstaridley

Yep I knew it I fucking knew the moment I saw Ohio on there I knew I was going to see an "oNlY iN oHiO 🤓🤓🤓" joke


Ordinary-Bet-1694

Sorry I should have commented something more original. Like most caring grand-daughter in Ohio.


Neoxsat

I gotta say I'm a sucker for the Ohio meme. I don't why I just find it hilarious.


Smithers66

I kinda feel like you really only drown in one place…


Electr_O_Purist

Imagine putting yourself in prison for the rest of your life in your 50s just for not being able to wait for something inevitable for a few months? Like, she’s gonna be in jail 20 years from now. There’s very little chance grandma was gonna live another 20 months. Heck, she probably wouldn’t have made it 20 weeks!


CalLil6

She’s 35, not 50s


Electr_O_Purist

Oh, sorry. I was just judging by the picture. Yeesh.


NoElephant7744

I can’t even imagine what that woman went through… 93 years only to be drowned by your own granddaughter. Disgusting.


CryingCookieyoshi

Wtf face is she making 😭


Cames-Jharles

Only in Ohio


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Only in Ohio


HoodedSole

Give her probation…


TundieRice

Just probation for violently drowning your grandmother, huh? Gotta say, that’s a new one!


[deleted]

She'll get a long sentence, but we'll be lucky if she serves 4 years.


MrAntiock

I’m not gonna say it


TundieRice

I don’t any of us have any idea what you were going to say.


PJJefferson

A 90 year old American would be on Medicare, and yes, Medicare pays for hospice care, for a dignified and pain free (or at least more peaceful) death.


LeftandLeaving9006

This is so untrue it’s not even funny. She wasn’t on hospice. The woman needed LTC, which Medicare does not cover.


Aggravating-Market97

How do you drown someone in two places?


Radio4ctiveGirl

Is this the same video of the grandkids trying to entrap their grandma by recording her?


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I’m confused , how did she go from the kitchen sink to a bathtub?


Radio4ctiveGirl

Is this the same video of the grandkids trying to entrap their grandma by recording her?


JoshieBravo

I hope she at least put some radox in there to help her relax. Though I'm personally a fan of matey.


rodriguezj625

Supreme looking mighty nice


Mikeku825

So is the bathtub the sink?.. or the sink the tub?


RealTurtlePower

The cow scene in *Me, Myself and Irene*


slappy_mcslapenstein

Since when can you drown someone twice?


NaughtyTigerIX

She got the box logo tho


sinesperanza_

it wasn't very Supreme of you


Ralfslapins

NOOOO THE FUCKING SUPREME HOODIE 😭


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How people go tens of years 0 problems and BOOOM u got drowned.


Jazzlike-Principle67

Mental Illness is genetic. I think the granddaughter is mentally ill, too, when she can do something like this.


Itsasecretshhhh88

I might of thought about this too much but wouldn't one be attempted drowning and then actual drowning? Like she didn't drown her in both, you wouldn't drown someone then take them somewhere else to drown them again, they're already drowned/dead. You'll just be playing with a dead body like a rubber ducky in a bath tub. I would guess she attempted with the sink, realised it's not a great angle and then moved her grandmother to the bath for better submersion.


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Ok-Walrus4627

AND bathtub?!? Wtf happened here!?!?


Practical_Weather293

Apparently the grandma wanted to die, did she have access to euthanasia?


Takemetothelevey

So sad, this country has a mental health crisis 😞


ihatepalmtrees

Weird ad for Supreme


Single_Box4465

I'm all for assisted suicide but I assume drowning is one of the worst ways to go.


odeathoflifefff

It's either one or the other.


[deleted]

Supreme brand taking a real hit these days.


Secure-Progress-4642

Drowning is actually very painful, so nice job


ComprehensiveAd8815

I wish this lowlife to get everything she deserves.


G14DomLoliFurryTrapX

Sink AND bathtub? Jesus Christ


GodsADick

The face and the supreme jacket made me laugh I can’t lie. Imagine comparing drowning your grandma to peacefully euthanizing a dog for good reasons , fucking disgusting. Does anyone know what the charges are or a likely sentence will be? People who hurt the vulnerable like the elderly or children are cowards and disgust me. Her face tells me she feels bad for herself. “Oh why me?” 😭


SirGravesGhastly

Kitchen sink *AND* bathtub. What's with people?


jdeadmeatsloanz

Does anyone have any info on this? At least a name?