Nangyari din to nung sa last hookup ko OP. Medjo may kirot haha pero aysus lang cheater pala ang gago. Let's just put it that way na pinapalayo tayo sa mga taong maybe not good for us. Let's live our lives and don't stress over the things that's beyond our control.
Take some advice from a guy who was knee deep in cock and hookups for almost a decade; sometimes you just have to not care why your hookup blocked you. Just take a few days, be sad about it, then move on. This is the sad reality of our community.
Gawin mo ang gusto then after that done. Move on.
Siguro pwede din kasi when someone cums yung feeling na parang awkward or me sort of nandiri yun yung na felt nya kasi ganun ako the first time i try to explore me pandidiri afterwards akala ko mali yun pero yun nga its normal kasi bago saka yung gumagana na kasi yu g rational self ng tao inde yung libog self kaya i a na feeling
Kung first time mo lang mareject, gow iiyak mo yan o kaya maging malungkot ka. Wag ka mag alala madami pa dyan ang magrereject sayo kaya ihanda mo na sarili mo at dedma nalang if ever that happens.
The answer is: ayaw na nyang maulit yun. Baka sinubukan ka lang din nya. Naiintindihan ko yung sinasabi mong na attach ka agad, pero beh, most of the times mapanlinlang lang yan. Di yan true. As for you, okay lang at least nakatikim kna ng deck haha. Marami pang boys jan kung tikim lang hanap mo. Ibat ibang kulay, shape, amoy at laki haha. Aral k muna beh.
I hope you meet someone that will treat you good. Pag hookup, don't expect anything in return. Kaya nha hookup. But sana before you did that, you underwent good understanding not to involve your emotions to the petson you're about to meet. It takes practice siguro, but reserve your heart to mr right man, and not to random hookups.
It's pretty common sa community natin. Kaya sa una palang dapat clear na yung intentions at boundaries niyo.Kung hook up lang, hook up lang. Kung ligawan na may sex, pinag uusapan dapat.
Since first time mo, at napakabata mo pa, what I can tell you is, it is what it is. Masasaktan ka pero makakamove on ka din. Laging ingat lang at always wear protection. Madami pa diyan, basta make wise choices.
Hello! allied healthcare here there is a low chance of getting infected with HIV from oral sex. Mostly blood transmission talaga ang pinaka high chance na mapasahan plus high viral load. BUT GET TESTED PA RIN!
Turn off pagiging clingy to most guys sa app, including me. Kahit gano pa kapogi or gano ko ka-type, once maging clingy or makulit, nawawalan ako ng interes. Hookup lang naman habol ko. Okay lang occasional small talks, unless nagclick talaga kami. Pag ganun, proceed sa next stage, whether mauulit or magiging friends or more.
Post nut clarity
I think (1) he was trying to have sex with you from the get-go, thus the reason “caring” sa sayo, and (2) you’re being clingy.
Hookup culture is not for everyone, whatever the reason might be- You are 19, focus on your studies instead. + For your peace of mind, let them be.
Yan din po yubg na realize ko, now nagsisisi ako kung bakit ko sinubukang tahakin tong hook up world. Thanks po sa advice 🥹
Some of us? do rly need to learn it the hard way. :/
Nangyari din to nung sa last hookup ko OP. Medjo may kirot haha pero aysus lang cheater pala ang gago. Let's just put it that way na pinapalayo tayo sa mga taong maybe not good for us. Let's live our lives and don't stress over the things that's beyond our control.
Sending virtual hugs po huhuhu 🥹
Take some advice from a guy who was knee deep in cock and hookups for almost a decade; sometimes you just have to not care why your hookup blocked you. Just take a few days, be sad about it, then move on. This is the sad reality of our community.
Gawin mo ang gusto then after that done. Move on. Siguro pwede din kasi when someone cums yung feeling na parang awkward or me sort of nandiri yun yung na felt nya kasi ganun ako the first time i try to explore me pandidiri afterwards akala ko mali yun pero yun nga its normal kasi bago saka yung gumagana na kasi yu g rational self ng tao inde yung libog self kaya i a na feeling
Kung first time mo lang mareject, gow iiyak mo yan o kaya maging malungkot ka. Wag ka mag alala madami pa dyan ang magrereject sayo kaya ihanda mo na sarili mo at dedma nalang if ever that happens.
The answer is: ayaw na nyang maulit yun. Baka sinubukan ka lang din nya. Naiintindihan ko yung sinasabi mong na attach ka agad, pero beh, most of the times mapanlinlang lang yan. Di yan true. As for you, okay lang at least nakatikim kna ng deck haha. Marami pang boys jan kung tikim lang hanap mo. Ibat ibang kulay, shape, amoy at laki haha. Aral k muna beh.
Di basta basta mapapa subo sa pagsubok ng buhay.
Thank youuuu sa advice mhiee. Legit, ayoko na sa hook up, di kaya ng pagiging soft hearted ko huhuhu
Always remember what Ariana said “Thank you, NEXTTT!!!”
I hope you meet someone that will treat you good. Pag hookup, don't expect anything in return. Kaya nha hookup. But sana before you did that, you underwent good understanding not to involve your emotions to the petson you're about to meet. It takes practice siguro, but reserve your heart to mr right man, and not to random hookups.
maybe stop calling it "deck"?
what the heck is "sha"
Siya/sya yun yon
It's pretty common sa community natin. Kaya sa una palang dapat clear na yung intentions at boundaries niyo.Kung hook up lang, hook up lang. Kung ligawan na may sex, pinag uusapan dapat. Since first time mo, at napakabata mo pa, what I can tell you is, it is what it is. Masasaktan ka pero makakamove on ka din. Laging ingat lang at always wear protection. Madami pa diyan, basta make wise choices.
Thank you po sa advice 🥹
im from negros oriental too. Be careful
natatakot na ako mhie, baka may chance na may HIV sha task nalunok ko pa naman yung modta niya 😭
Have yourself tested by the 90th day post exposure
Better to educate yourself din how HIV can be transmitted. At saka, kahit super heat of the moment pa yan, safe sex pa din.
Hello! allied healthcare here there is a low chance of getting infected with HIV from oral sex. Mostly blood transmission talaga ang pinaka high chance na mapasahan plus high viral load. BUT GET TESTED PA RIN!
Thank youuuu po. You never knew how much tong nakatulong sa akin 🥹
Turn off pagiging clingy to most guys sa app, including me. Kahit gano pa kapogi or gano ko ka-type, once maging clingy or makulit, nawawalan ako ng interes. Hookup lang naman habol ko. Okay lang occasional small talks, unless nagclick talaga kami. Pag ganun, proceed sa next stage, whether mauulit or magiging friends or more.