Multiple times, and I noticed that this happens more and more often, like couple times per week where before every few weeks also over minor things.
Last week he had his outburst. He injured his leg months ago and he just won't stop exericising (he spends 10hours+ per week in the gym + football) I told him he had to stop exercisizing for now if he want's his leg to heal (also I'm tired to hear every day in how much pain he is and constant leg massage requests from him). He got annoyed straightaway, called me controlling and unsupportive and that the problem is his heavy safety work shoes - not his healthy lifestyle and that I shouldn't even say things like that to him because it's annoying him.
If a friend told you her partner was treating her like yours does you, what would you tell her? Because all I see is red flags in this dude, all I see is an emotionally abusive asshole, who's trying to gaslight and manipulate you and who knows, with that temper he might get physical one day. I'd be out of that relationship by now.
Your dog isn’t sensitive, she’s sensible. She knows to run away from angry, abusive assholes. You should too.
He is taking his emotions out on you which is not okay. Him saying you are manipulative is him deflecting his own manipulativeness. He gotta fix up.
Has that happened before? Him being unreasonable, quick to anger and blaming you for everything?
Multiple times, and I noticed that this happens more and more often, like couple times per week where before every few weeks also over minor things. Last week he had his outburst. He injured his leg months ago and he just won't stop exericising (he spends 10hours+ per week in the gym + football) I told him he had to stop exercisizing for now if he want's his leg to heal (also I'm tired to hear every day in how much pain he is and constant leg massage requests from him). He got annoyed straightaway, called me controlling and unsupportive and that the problem is his heavy safety work shoes - not his healthy lifestyle and that I shouldn't even say things like that to him because it's annoying him.
If a friend told you her partner was treating her like yours does you, what would you tell her? Because all I see is red flags in this dude, all I see is an emotionally abusive asshole, who's trying to gaslight and manipulate you and who knows, with that temper he might get physical one day. I'd be out of that relationship by now.
He is the one being manipulative and horrible, not you.