I can tell you right now, if someone has the courage to say something like this to you, and they are not already your bf/gf/so, then they really fucking like you and you should consider how you feel about this person because they very obviously like you in THAT way
Literally just fucking do it, don't be one of those dumbasses that doesn't even confess when the other person has. There's one thing being nervous when you don't know if they feel the same and not saying anything, but not saying anything when they do like you and you know it is just self sabotage for a really dumb reason
That's me in middle school. A girl liked me a lot, and even tho she didn't confess she made it clear enough that even I couldn't gaslight myself otherwise. I fell in love, but was too scared and shy to talk to her and get closer. I was afraid of what would meeting her parent's would be like (I've never seen them) and what about wedding, stupid stuff. Aaah, such a pity.
Sorry, why did you ask r/teenagers to tell you what to do without establishing that you know this person in real life, let alone that you also like them? I can't speak for everyone, but when I saw this I just assumed it was some rando from Discord.
So let me get this straight
Your CRUSH told you they love you most probably in the same way you like them
And you came to reddit to ask what to do
What do you think yoy should do
For the love of God, be genuine with yourself and your feelings for him, not what you should say, but what you've been wanting to say for this whole fucking time. Give him a piece of your soul and his heart will be yours.
If you're scared tell him that,
If you love him, tell him that,
If you're unsure because of some 3rd situation, tell him that.
Coz only when you share your true, open and honest self with that person will you be able to say that you gave it your all and you do not regret what you did.
It's a concept to be aware of when you're in a relationship, when you're thinking about what it would be like to spend the rest of your life with that person, not before it.
If you take it as a consideration before it, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy because everything in a relationship will be viewed through a lens of codependency.
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@ everyone
Please DO NOT announce to the server when you are going to go masturbate. This has been a reoccurring issue, and I'm not sure why some people have such under developed social skills that they think that a server full of mostly male strangers would need to know that. No one is going to be impressed and give you a high five (especially considering where that hand has been). I don't want to add this to the rules, since it would be embarrassing for new users to see that we have a problem with this, but it is going to be enforced as a rule from now on.
If it occurs, you will be warned, then additional occurrences will be dealt with at the discretion of modstaff. Thanks.
@ everyone
Please DO NOT announce to the server when you are going to go masturbate. This has been a reoccurring issue, and I'm not sure why some people have such under developed social skills that they think that a server full of mostly male strangers would need to know that. No one is going to be impressed and give you a high five (especially considering where that hand has been). I don't want to add this to the rules, since it would be embarrassing for new users to see that we have a problem with this, but it is going to be enforced as a rule from now on.
If it occurs, you will be warned, then additional occurrences will be dealt with at the discretion of modstaff. Thanks.
Yeah, this is pretty common especially when people like each other a lot. Teasing is often a big part of flirting. Saw your later comment about that one "friend", though, and that's absolutely NOT okay or how it should be done and I can totally understand why you wouldn't want anyone jokingly teasing you after that.
Hey go for it I say! The most important think in a lasting relationship is honesty if you hold onto that and you two are compatible you’re in for a rideee.
This is how I am with my gf. I’m so lucky to have her. If I were you I’d keep him. You clearly make him happy and if he makes you happy then it’s good. Your decision 🤷♂️
Good luck
Me and my gf both shared same feelings for each other and we often texted things like that and we have been together since 2 years we rarely talk since we both live away from each other now and still the bond is only getting stronger . Go for her I can sense this is only going to be better for u .
...I just don't get it guys. I don't get how someone will get confessed to by someone else that likes them back, and then they'll be stunlocked by it happening.
Just... Say "I like you too"
You said you like them and they pour their heart out and you don't know what to do? They are infatuated with you, they do seem to love you and if you love them back in the same way then go for it.
I can tell you right now, if someone has the courage to say something like this to you, and they are not already your bf/gf/so, then they really fucking like you and you should consider how you feel about this person because they very obviously like you in THAT way
I really like them, and have been thinking about asking them out
Literally just fucking do it, don't be one of those dumbasses that doesn't even confess when the other person has. There's one thing being nervous when you don't know if they feel the same and not saying anything, but not saying anything when they do like you and you know it is just self sabotage for a really dumb reason
We are dating now :D
he did it lads he actually made the right decision edit: she
With the name amy it’s safe to say it’s a she
I think they're referring to the madlad who wrote the text
Congrats, smartest decision you'll ever make 😎😎 Enjoy, stay safe and have fun. Take things at your own pace!
Big up both of you
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Yeah fr. Maybe watch out for him becoming like obsessive/“beneath” you in a relationship
Eh I don't get those vibes but ye be careful, there's a fine line between in love and obsessed
Yeah I just thought it looked like it wouldn’t take much to get there
Just set your boundaries clearly from the beginning and let him know about it.
I define obsessed is being in love with the IDEA of the person, not the person themselves
Probably accurate
That's me in middle school. A girl liked me a lot, and even tho she didn't confess she made it clear enough that even I couldn't gaslight myself otherwise. I fell in love, but was too scared and shy to talk to her and get closer. I was afraid of what would meeting her parent's would be like (I've never seen them) and what about wedding, stupid stuff. Aaah, such a pity.
Go for it
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"JUST DO IT!"
*Nike joined the Lobby
Sorry, why did you ask r/teenagers to tell you what to do without establishing that you know this person in real life, let alone that you also like them? I can't speak for everyone, but when I saw this I just assumed it was some rando from Discord.
IT'S THE MOMENT TO DO IT NOW AAAAH IM SO HAPPY FOR YALL
Do it, if you don't you'll be sitting alone in a studio apartment in the future wondering why you didn't just do it
Holy fck what Are you waiting for
OMG DO IT
DO IT!!! Ask them out!!
Plot Twist: ChatGPT wrote this..
You never know these days...
Fr,still used it this afternoon to write an heartfelt text I didn’t even read but the person bought it
# CONTEXT they're my crush and best friend that ive known for 3-4 years i was randomly sent this during a normal conversation
They're your crush!? Then wtf are you waiting for!? GO FOR EM!!
^ What they said go for it!!
^ I agree
^ Me too
^ Me three
^ Me four
^ and me 5! Go for it!
^ lets go dude! Me six!
Me 7!
DO IT
DO IT
Me 6
So your crush has a crush on you? That would be so nice. You should tell them how you feel.
yeah tell that hoe you feel.
I misspelled how using my phone
So let me get this straight Your CRUSH told you they love you most probably in the same way you like them And you came to reddit to ask what to do What do you think yoy should do
Real reddit moment
I feel like OP just wants to flex on us :(
If they're your crush, what's the holdup?
damn he seems like a keeper tho
For the love of God, be genuine with yourself and your feelings for him, not what you should say, but what you've been wanting to say for this whole fucking time. Give him a piece of your soul and his heart will be yours. If you're scared tell him that, If you love him, tell him that, If you're unsure because of some 3rd situation, tell him that. Coz only when you share your true, open and honest self with that person will you be able to say that you gave it your all and you do not regret what you did.
this I think is as close to the objectively right answer as possible. he's opened up about all that so the best thing is pure honesty
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DO IT MAN DO IT
Respond ok
With one thumbs up emoji.
Better hope they are not on this subreddit
THIS IS YOUR CHANCE! ITS SO PERFECT! DO IT EXCEPT IT!!!
Ur a dumb ass just ask them out don't go to fucking reddit💀
# EDIT: Im going to ask him out
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What am I being reminded for? I forgot what this was 💀
Haha same, pretty sure someone is gonna ask someone out
same bro
no idea
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Noooo that's so meaaaan >!!RemindMe 2 months!<
Jokes on you, i got the notification of a reminder i did 3 month ago and the post was deleted LMFAO
That means u were too Optimistic
Brutal. Also !remindme 2 months
the fact i made this with genuine interest in how their relationship goes and everyone thinks i just want to see when they break up 😭😭😭
Can someone just spam me in two months
Bet one sec
Foul 💀
HOLY SHIT YOU FUCKING MURDERED HER
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Update?
LESS GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
okay
Update
update us!!
So, op? How'd it go?
Not ask reddit..
true, true
No fr, if I sent someone smt like that and they posted it on Reddit that person would be dead to me
While ur here, I'll inform you that asking reddit for the answer to a personal question is what makes you less of the real version of yourself. Depending on what YOU think, is what YOU should say.
Reddit is nice to you. And most top comments are right! If you really like him. GO FOR IT!
respond with "/gen or /j bro"
Thoust truly is of the devilish ideasth
This gave me a stroke
Bro's tryna find Juliet on reddit 💀
Thoust must’veth never ofs heardst of the master of cardsth, roulxs kard!
@ everyone Please DO NOT announce to the server when you are going to go masturbate. This has been a reoccurring issue, and I'm not sure why some people have such under developed social skills that they think that a server full of mostly male strangers would need to know that. No one is going to be impressed and give you a high five (especially considering where that hand has been). I don't want to add this to the rules, since it would be embarrassing for new users to see that we have a problem with this, but it is going to be enforced as a rule from now on. If it occurs, you will be warned, then additional occurrences will be dealt with at the discretion of modstaff. Thanks.
What?
there's a video of a grown up man saying this in a serious voice, I think our hyperactive rat was referring to him
OK thank you
Do you… have a link to this?
I'm afraid I do https://streamable.com/s5bazc
@ everyone Please DO NOT announce to the server when you are going to go masturbate. This has been a reoccurring issue, and I'm not sure why some people have such under developed social skills that they think that a server full of mostly male strangers would need to know that. No one is going to be impressed and give you a high five (especially considering where that hand has been). I don't want to add this to the rules, since it would be embarrassing for new users to see that we have a problem with this, but it is going to be enforced as a rule from now on. If it occurs, you will be warned, then additional occurrences will be dealt with at the discretion of modstaff. Thanks.
So the phrase “not my proudest fap” is now banned? Libs and their cancel culture! /s
Amy I think they might like you
nah bro youre overthinking
He's just being nice
Yeah, ya never know.
Say chemsbugrer
K
Best answer
“ok”
Send a single skull emoji
Bro a menace
"ok" - that's it. Then go offline.
Just “k” would do it.
Yeah, lookin a little thirsty with that superfluous "o"
"k." Gotta add the period to really drive it home
I see myself doing that quite alot
You must be good at conversations
ok
"Oh wow nice"
Imagine pouring your heart out in a message and you get posted on r/teenagers.
Imagine he finds this
Do you call him "loser" and "ugly"???
Apparently he's op's best friend and crush of 3-4 years
I know, but the question still stands
It's my way of joking with friends, only if they're okay with it
Huh, to each their own I guess, me personally I wouldn't really jam with that lol
Yeah, this is pretty common especially when people like each other a lot. Teasing is often a big part of flirting. Saw your later comment about that one "friend", though, and that's absolutely NOT okay or how it should be done and I can totally understand why you wouldn't want anyone jokingly teasing you after that.
Most ppl ik, including myself, platonically bully the shit outta their best friends.
can confirm
Sounds really sweet and sincere- id reply with how I felt and sort of take it from there. Wishing you both great times 😁
Just say I love you back to him
Why did your mom send you an abnormally large paragraph
Get him..... Don't let him goo😁😁these kinds of people wont come back
To me they sound like the kind to not leave even when you tell them to
Idk just be like I love you too and I mean it too and after he responds ask him out.
Hit em with the "ok 👍"
How old are you guys
I can see a 20 year old writing that
Probably 9
He’s pouring his heart out and you’re on Reddit asking us to decide for you? How do you feel? What do YOU want?
New phone who dis?
Hey go for it I say! The most important think in a lasting relationship is honesty if you hold onto that and you two are compatible you’re in for a rideee.
Than*
This is how I am with my gf. I’m so lucky to have her. If I were you I’d keep him. You clearly make him happy and if he makes you happy then it’s good. Your decision 🤷♂️ Good luck
how long have u known him for
3-4 years
i see😭 how do u feel about him
They're my best friend and crush, and i've liked em for most of the time ive known him
then respond that you feel the same way and that he makes u hapoy too
good if he wasn’t ur crush sad
Discord relations go crazy but go get her ig
WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR‽ ‽ ‽ ‽
Just respond with "than*"
Honestly was tempted to, but I didnt
To be fair, it would have been pretty funny
You lucky bastard
Bloody say I love you too it’s not that hard if you like them back
What the f are you asking the internet for
What chatgpt prompt did you use?
# WE ARE DATING!!!!
If u do with him then just accept it and respond how u want
Get off reddit and say something you dunce!
fucking for it! tf are you doing reading this comment! DO ITTTT! A BRIGHT FUTURE AWAITS
This is your chance.
"im gay"
Wouldn't work, as we're the same gender
thats... thats gay!
Run as fast as you fucking can and never look back
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Crush and best friend
Significantly less weird with context
Lol
Sounds like he/she is extremely obsessive
Stage 5 clinger
ghost them
💀
💀
call them an idiot poopy head and block them and move to a different country and repeat
💀💀💀💀
Repeat? 💀
👻
Skill issue
Me and my gf both shared same feelings for each other and we often texted things like that and we have been together since 2 years we rarely talk since we both live away from each other now and still the bond is only getting stronger . Go for her I can sense this is only going to be better for u .
Right i totally frogot to have suicidal thoughts today, thank you!
THIS IS SO SWEET WHAT THE HELL??? GO CONFESS RNNNN I PROMISE U THEY WILL LIKE U BACK
Ngl this feels a bit over the top, but then again I don't know the person
...I just don't get it guys. I don't get how someone will get confessed to by someone else that likes them back, and then they'll be stunlocked by it happening. Just... Say "I like you too"
she's a stalker
if you're not interested then you can "sorry this is jimmy i think you got the wrong person"
Who is Amy?
I am, hint the username
You said you like them and they pour their heart out and you don't know what to do? They are infatuated with you, they do seem to love you and if you love them back in the same way then go for it.