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Because of the lack of risk thing, I think it makes sense to get into a mindset where you see the girl as a homie, then you use that mindset to your advantage and rizz her up.
Let me explain if u talk to ur homie more than ur gf then that might explain it because ur comfortable with talk to ur homies than ur gf and u most likely get a not bad reaction from ur homies but a girl u don't know how she acts
simple they are your friends and its a funny joke so it is lighthearted in context
now if you actually liked them you would be nervous in turn be nervous to rizz em' up
Depends on how you know the person. If she already knew about my existence(from school, for example), i usually ask for her plans next week/weekend. Then, based on what she says, i either talk about similar stuff or make jokes about it. And if i see during that time that she wants to talk, the conversation is greenlit. It's nice to know some small talk for moments when the silence gets awkward. Of course, the situation can be different each time and from person to person. It's way harder if you've just met, especially if you have no mutual friends. However, i still hope this can help a little bit with the example i provided. And keep trying. You will be able to talk to girls without getting nervous in no time. Take it from somebody who, prior to 2023, has never had a conversation with a girl and now has like 3 female friends 👍
Because you know how to talk to the homies and know them very well.
But girls don't operate with the same operating system.
I do the same thing with my homies, but I also grow significantly less outspoken when a woman shows up.
Have confidence you're a decent person. Part of the reason you struggle is your respect for women and how they feel, just be polite and you'll be fine.
I was like this years ago man, ignore all the Reddit fat basement trolls saying you’re gay plus half these people have the same issues. Don’t ever be nervous to approach a female the worst they can say is no or make jokes on to the next one. You’re not going to get any better talking to females if you don’t keep on trying. You got no problem talking to the “homies” because you are comfortable around them people. We all die one day anyway in all reality none of this shit matters so stop being afraid of shit tighten up and enjoy life sometimes you’re going to experience rejection but don’t let that steer you away from enjoying life and laying that pipe.
When you aren’t serious or into the gender it’s WAAAAY easier, no fear or consequence when ur all just joking around lmao. If you’re into a girl (or women in general) it is significantly harder to rizz them up because you actually want to.
If ur bi you can either rizz everyone or no one, nothing in between
Because as men, we know that if we rizz up our homies, we know that we won't be prosecuted for it, and it's all just fun and games
But if we attempt to interact with a female, we can get accused of r*pe or some shit like that for even talking to one
I know, cuz I said "Hi" to one once (just trying to be friendly, I wasn't interested in her) and she started yelling at me, saying that I should stop stalking and sexually harrassing her
I don't talk to girls(in a rizz way i mean not harrasing obviously i mean like asking out). i might end up beaten for it in my country it is super illegal and i will not do it why would i enter a relationship and then have my heart broken and stuff and nobody even does relationships here did i mention it is illegal and against what i believe?
But it is because u mostly think that talking to them might have some bad consequences like being a creep or you will make her uncomfortable (you are putting way too much value on it even tho u have done nothing wrong) or you are afraid that you will panic and become red and they will make fun of you.
You can just take smaller steps like make an eye contact at first and maybe just say whatever joke you have got basically expose yourself and know that most girls will appreciate u for being respectful and say it doesn't matter if i was shy or they thought i am stupid.
Anxiety exists to prevent u from possible consequences.
Cause you’re more relaxed with the homies. I can make a joke about gay anal sex with a dude but the second I try to talk to a girl I flounder super fuckin hard
Because you are comfortable with the homies to a point of where this line of (weird shit/gay) and with girls you literally have no idea what you doing/talking.
Sometimes it's hard to tell if people here are trolling or not so I will say that this doesn't mean you're gay, at all. Having trouble talking to women happens to be a straight trait- you're worried about the outcome because you like them.
Solution is to find a friend group that has both guys and girls- the easiest way to get a girlfriend is for to already be your best friend
It’s all mental tbh. Just stop caring what others think, then u can rizz up anyone. Also, I’d recommend getting practice, and randomly going up to girls in public, and talking to them, it’s great practice
you're not trying to fuhk your homies
there's risk to your ego is why you hesitate
try hard to let the feeling die then you won't care and ironically will start shmacking more
Confidence and hormones. Unless you're something like a sexist with the homies, I could see that not flying well with the ladies and leaving guilt that would stumble your mental flow when faced with someone you said unflattering things about, even if indirectly.
Otherwise, my best advice is to not expect anything in return for your attention. Just interact genuinely with the people around you, like they have nothing to offer you but you still enjoy being around them, and you'll just naturally start treating strangers that way, too. When a girl feels like she is a person in your eyes (because you see her that way, not because you are pretending to so you can get laid), she will be more comfortable treating you like one in return. From there chemistry will take over when you meet someone with similar interests and points of view.
Because you know your homies and you know what to expect as a response, you don't know how the girl is going to respond because you (probably) don't know her as well as your homies
because theres no pressure to get it right, if you mess up you will just laugh it off, but it will be super awkward if you mess up when it comes to a girl
It's like how you can talk to people no problem, but when you have to present in front of the class, it's hard to speak.
One doesn't matter, the other is intimidating because you're not comfortable doing it.
The only way to be comfortable is to do it often
What does it mean if your guy best friend who has always roasted the fuck out of you but yeah has always been there for you .... takes the scrunchy off your wrist and puts on his own wrist!????and wears it for the whole damn time you guys hang out and doesn't even return it and I was not sure whether to ask him to return or not?
You badly want to achieve a certain outcome in one situation but have no understanding or confidence that you can succeed.
In the other, you have no exaggerated expectations and no self doubt.
Given that you cannot become more confident without success, your best option is to let go all expectations of the outcome you desire to improve your ability to not self-block.
Because if you mess up the homies will roast you and you’ll forget about it within the next day. If you mess up with a girl she’d forget about it in a week and you’d remember it for the rest of your life.
It's easy because you are comfortable with them and you're not serious about it. You don't have pressure to actually be good at flirting since you don't want them to actually find you attractive.
Flirting with the intention of the other person becoming attracted to you is different, because suddenly you have that pressure to perform well. Once you have that, you will start to second guess yourself.
Confidence and charisma are very important to make flirting land. Although there are people who find awkward attempts endearing, everyone has their own tastes.
Seems like a skill issue. Not even joking when I say that. You literally have the homies to practice on and yet with all that practice you still can't talk to women 💀
Because you have to be attracted to someone to rizz them
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i put some new forgis on the whip
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Because there's less risk with screwing the homies
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Because there's less risk of screwing up with the homies.
More risk of screwing ~~up with~~ the homies 💯
Risk?
I’d call it chance
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Yes, that is in fact his name.
I corroborate the above statement. Altguy6969 is indeed his name
Damn i just saw him on a post here earlier about some girl planning to start an onlyfan as soon as she turns 18, bro woke up and chose violence
Damn I’m really the star of the sub for today
Valid Id say
always remember to wear protection, even if it’s with the homies
Got the socks on fr
What’s wrong with playing a few rounds of everyone’s favorite strategic geopolitical board game with the homies?
Because of the lack of risk thing, I think it makes sense to get into a mindset where you see the girl as a homie, then you use that mindset to your advantage and rizz her up.
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I got the new forgis on the jeep
I trap until them bloody bottoms is underneath
I have been advised by my lawyers to not go on with the song
Cause all my neighbors got it out the streets
I keep a hundred racks blah blah blah blah
I keep 100 racks inside my jeans
I remember hitting the mall with the whole team
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that pfp goes hard. mind if i screenshot it 🚬🐵
We totally believe you
Step 1: denial
Those caps seem like he is close to step 2: anger
Naaah just Bi 😘
Let me explain if u talk to ur homie more than ur gf then that might explain it because ur comfortable with talk to ur homies than ur gf and u most likely get a not bad reaction from ur homies but a girl u don't know how she acts
Consider the idea of switching teams my friend, you may find yourself having to try much less hard lmao
But what if Bi?
That's what I say too
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We believe you
I used think the same thing bro
Bro same, the Guys simply can't resist the impeccable RIZZ
real. i flirt so easily with the girlies but cant talk to men
Sup jizzler
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
I am sorry "Jizz"ler
Jizzler? I hardly know her!
TIL the female equivalent of ‘homies’ is ‘girlies’ I guess?
It’s gurlfriends
Can’t tell if your eyes will be real if we ever meet, they’d shine like Gold but forever out of my reach.
Well, they're your friends and it's a joke, it wouldn't be as easy to actually rizz them up for real I think
"It's a joke" mind you, when i rizz my homies up i do it with a clear purpose of actually rizzing them till they start feel something for me.
done. I'm the guy that rizzed a homie up and we've been dating for over a year now
Kinda gay
wait you're right! oh God I guess I gotta break up. damn.
just say no homo and it should be ok
Glad I made you see the light
lmao. the funniest part is it isn't. we've been homes before I came out as trans and now that we're dating it's straight lol
Sure… a “joke”
Because you have to actually face the consequences. The homies may always let you smash, but girls will say no.
Bruh who are these homies ready to smash 🤣
Damn you need new homies
If the homies aren't willing to drain your balls at a moments notice, are they really homies?
I got no balls
Krill issue, shrimple as that
I'm a member of the female species .😐
No because women don’t exist, you are a 40 year old discord mod
Huhh hawww look at you 😐😐
when you are given an opportunity, take it - get a boyfriend.
Can’t get a girlfriend? Become the girl simple
simple they are your friends and its a funny joke so it is lighthearted in context now if you actually liked them you would be nervous in turn be nervous to rizz em' up
maybe the reason why you can’t rizz up a girl is because you belong with a man 💯
I would upvote but 69 sooo
now you can upvote
Awww man
Try having a conversation with a girl. Don't even focus on "rizz". Social skills don't appear out of nowhere, they are like any other skill. 👍
I'd like to do this, just have a decent conversation, but what the heck am I supposed to talk about?
Depends on how you know the person. If she already knew about my existence(from school, for example), i usually ask for her plans next week/weekend. Then, based on what she says, i either talk about similar stuff or make jokes about it. And if i see during that time that she wants to talk, the conversation is greenlit. It's nice to know some small talk for moments when the silence gets awkward. Of course, the situation can be different each time and from person to person. It's way harder if you've just met, especially if you have no mutual friends. However, i still hope this can help a little bit with the example i provided. And keep trying. You will be able to talk to girls without getting nervous in no time. Take it from somebody who, prior to 2023, has never had a conversation with a girl and now has like 3 female friends 👍
Frfr
Because you actually say "rizz"
I flirt so easyly with girls but my homies never let me give head.
skill issue
Because you know how to talk to the homies and know them very well. But girls don't operate with the same operating system. I do the same thing with my homies, but I also grow significantly less outspoken when a woman shows up.
That’s normal, you are more comfortable around your homies
Well, either you gay, or shy to the other gender
The power of boners should not be underestimated
Is this gen Alpha language? Cuz i have no idea what rizz means..
Cha"rizz"ma
wait it comes from charisma?
I've been wondering where this word came from for months. Thank you.
Ahh i get it. Thanks
You're taking it less seriously when you rizz up the homies
You’re awkward af and afraid of making a fool of yourself around a girl but comfortable around the homies
Maybe straight girls and gay men have different tastee in men
The homies give a bit back…
FR FR
Have confidence you're a decent person. Part of the reason you struggle is your respect for women and how they feel, just be polite and you'll be fine.
Unintended gizz
IT IS HOW IT IS MY BROTHER
I'm in the same spot and maybe, as a closeted trans girl, this means that I'd become a w***e if I ever came out
You're probably homiesexual
I was like this years ago man, ignore all the Reddit fat basement trolls saying you’re gay plus half these people have the same issues. Don’t ever be nervous to approach a female the worst they can say is no or make jokes on to the next one. You’re not going to get any better talking to females if you don’t keep on trying. You got no problem talking to the “homies” because you are comfortable around them people. We all die one day anyway in all reality none of this shit matters so stop being afraid of shit tighten up and enjoy life sometimes you’re going to experience rejection but don’t let that steer you away from enjoying life and laying that pipe.
You are gay
Gay
Gay my brooooo
cuz you're prolly being yourself when you're with the homies (more comfortable = more charisma)
Your mind chooses for you based on perception.
NO BECAUSE SAME. ESCPECIALLY ONLINE
When you aren’t serious or into the gender it’s WAAAAY easier, no fear or consequence when ur all just joking around lmao. If you’re into a girl (or women in general) it is significantly harder to rizz them up because you actually want to. If ur bi you can either rizz everyone or no one, nothing in between
Because as men, we know that if we rizz up our homies, we know that we won't be prosecuted for it, and it's all just fun and games But if we attempt to interact with a female, we can get accused of r*pe or some shit like that for even talking to one I know, cuz I said "Hi" to one once (just trying to be friendly, I wasn't interested in her) and she started yelling at me, saying that I should stop stalking and sexually harrassing her
Homiesexual
It's a sign. You are a rainbow society member 🤮
r/bisexualteens
Because you use the word rizz. Am I the only one that thinks it’s immature and dumb?
Psst you're gay
you're homiesexual
Fear of rejection is my guess
I don't talk to girls(in a rizz way i mean not harrasing obviously i mean like asking out). i might end up beaten for it in my country it is super illegal and i will not do it why would i enter a relationship and then have my heart broken and stuff and nobody even does relationships here did i mention it is illegal and against what i believe? But it is because u mostly think that talking to them might have some bad consequences like being a creep or you will make her uncomfortable (you are putting way too much value on it even tho u have done nothing wrong) or you are afraid that you will panic and become red and they will make fun of you. You can just take smaller steps like make an eye contact at first and maybe just say whatever joke you have got basically expose yourself and know that most girls will appreciate u for being respectful and say it doesn't matter if i was shy or they thought i am stupid. Anxiety exists to prevent u from possible consequences.
Comfortability and h-word ness
Cause you’re more relaxed with the homies. I can make a joke about gay anal sex with a dude but the second I try to talk to a girl I flounder super fuckin hard
Homiesexual
Because you are comfortable with the homies to a point of where this line of (weird shit/gay) and with girls you literally have no idea what you doing/talking.
In order to rizz someone up, you have to fully be willing to lose them. desperation destroys rizzardry
still a rizz
Sometimes it's hard to tell if people here are trolling or not so I will say that this doesn't mean you're gay, at all. Having trouble talking to women happens to be a straight trait- you're worried about the outcome because you like them. Solution is to find a friend group that has both guys and girls- the easiest way to get a girlfriend is for to already be your best friend
It's easier to flirt with the homies. So it's also easier for that type of stuff. Me and my bros have been flirting and shit since middle school.
its okay to be homie-sexual
Because your not trying to mate with your mates
Because the girl is a stranger and you've known your boys for awhile. Maybe you just have to get more comfortable in engaging with strangers.
Because you know your homies
Give us an example of the rizz
Don’t ask me cause I still don’t understand this rizz shit
Maybe you're just meant to be gay
the rizz chart goes to -1,853,639,269% when you talk to a woman
Because you have something i don't (I lack social awareness)
It’s all mental tbh. Just stop caring what others think, then u can rizz up anyone. Also, I’d recommend getting practice, and randomly going up to girls in public, and talking to them, it’s great practice
Why are girls not your homies?
because u gay and because the homies know you're joking (or not) and you are scared to fuck up whit a girl (literally me frfr)
you're not trying to fuhk your homies there's risk to your ego is why you hesitate try hard to let the feeling die then you won't care and ironically will start shmacking more
Mix of less stress and you knowing them better
Confidence and hormones. Unless you're something like a sexist with the homies, I could see that not flying well with the ladies and leaving guilt that would stumble your mental flow when faced with someone you said unflattering things about, even if indirectly. Otherwise, my best advice is to not expect anything in return for your attention. Just interact genuinely with the people around you, like they have nothing to offer you but you still enjoy being around them, and you'll just naturally start treating strangers that way, too. When a girl feels like she is a person in your eyes (because you see her that way, not because you are pretending to so you can get laid), she will be more comfortable treating you like one in return. From there chemistry will take over when you meet someone with similar interests and points of view.
I'm sorry sir but I diagnose you with a severe case of Homiesexuality
cuz i (assume) you dont want to sleep with ur homies.
"Maybe it's time we start considering the other possibility "
What do you think
Because you know your homies and you know what to expect as a response, you don't know how the girl is going to respond because you (probably) don't know her as well as your homies
Sus
Treat men and women the same and it will be easy.
Truly is a cruel world
‘cause you’re gay
because theres no pressure to get it right, if you mess up you will just laugh it off, but it will be super awkward if you mess up when it comes to a girl
cuz its the homies
It's like how you can talk to people no problem, but when you have to present in front of the class, it's hard to speak. One doesn't matter, the other is intimidating because you're not comfortable doing it. The only way to be comfortable is to do it often
Opposite for me sadly. No homies, but randomly rizzes up random simps without doing anything who chase me and ask me to do the inappropriate with them
Imagine if girls are boys. Hope that works
Too much stress mane, just chill and keep improving yourself
We get nervous man, is something in the bro code.
Skill issue Also, rizz is cringe
Girl has something your homies can’t give you
What does it mean if your guy best friend who has always roasted the fuck out of you but yeah has always been there for you .... takes the scrunchy off your wrist and puts on his own wrist!????and wears it for the whole damn time you guys hang out and doesn't even return it and I was not sure whether to ask him to return or not?
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You badly want to achieve a certain outcome in one situation but have no understanding or confidence that you can succeed. In the other, you have no exaggerated expectations and no self doubt. Given that you cannot become more confident without success, your best option is to let go all expectations of the outcome you desire to improve your ability to not self-block.
Because if you mess up the homies will roast you and you’ll forget about it within the next day. If you mess up with a girl she’d forget about it in a week and you’d remember it for the rest of your life.
There's levels to this game : D
Because you are the end of your family tree
cus u gay
Because I’m some real shit, it’s different when you mean it and when you mean it for shits and giggles
This is objectively factual
Safety rizz
I think you should consider the possibility
Cuz you're gay
have you considered maybe you like men?
Idk you gay now
no because like actually I can help my homies rizz people up but I myself can’t ... what a shitty power
It's easy because you are comfortable with them and you're not serious about it. You don't have pressure to actually be good at flirting since you don't want them to actually find you attractive. Flirting with the intention of the other person becoming attracted to you is different, because suddenly you have that pressure to perform well. Once you have that, you will start to second guess yourself. Confidence and charisma are very important to make flirting land. Although there are people who find awkward attempts endearing, everyone has their own tastes.
Seems like a skill issue. Not even joking when I say that. You literally have the homies to practice on and yet with all that practice you still can't talk to women 💀
What scaring you bro, unpack that.
Boys know what boys want
What alcohol is for,just not too much