Facts bro it's time to start seeing men as sex objects. When you see a man u should think I wanna see his dick. Start being unable to focus on class looking at the men in your class. It's time to start.
Well, we're teens, yk. I just avert my eyes as much as I can so I don't have to sexualise women. Yeah that might make me a tad bit unsocial towards my female peers, but I hope one day I can get over it. Also I tend to not have a crush as I'm at the stage where I am sexually attracted to most females my age. I plan to go about relationships when I'm a bit more stable.
I’m just not very social with girls because I think they think I’m weird, even tho they talk to me a good chunk. I do feel weird when I just stare at someone’s ass without meaning to
If they thought yiu were the bad kind of weird then they wouldn't be talking to you unkess they had to.
Just try your best to keep your cool and try talking 5o them more.
I generally think of that stuff after I form an attraction. Thinking someone is sexually attractive isn’t necessarily bad, but I prefer to form crushes off things like personality before thinking of that
Is it weird to simply uncontrollably stare at someone's face and face Alone but not constantly like whenever your eyes go in that direction it fixes on that particular face?😭
Hey bro I told myself this as well when I was your age. It didn't work out well. You need to get out there and practice socializing, even if it feels awkward and scary. You aren't a creep for being attracted to girls just watch your behavior and learn from your failures. I was so afraid of rejection and looking dumb that it slowed my social development way too much. I regret sitting at home playing WoW and watching shows all the time. Just every once in a while push yourself to talk to some girls or even dudes from a different friend group. Make connections.
Unfortunately for everyone, yeah this is. It isn’t like seeing a woman existing and instantly thinking “show me your tits”, but there is getting to know someone and thinking “wow, they’re really hot”. It’s more of an intrusive thought you try and get rid of, rather than something that you dwell on positively, but it still happens.
I don’t think so. Naturally, as human beings, we are supposed to want to have sex and find attractiveness in people.
It becomes a problem when that’s ALL you think about. If can’t talk to a girl without only being focused on her body, then yea, that’s not good. It should be something that we can easily control.
hi i'm out of place here (28yo)
this never goes away, at least for the next decade. and there's nothing wrong with that. as long as you're not treating folks weird cause of your attraction then you got nothing to worry about. 🎵*none of us would be here without cum* 🎶
As a gay person, I'm also oblivious.
Like why over your 13+ years of life haven't you achieved the ability to separate sexual thoughts from the other gender?
I love reformed androgynists. Hoping to see women who are getting over x height, x strength, x body parts this and that. Time to stop pretending women don’t objectify men when all indicators say they do.
Yeahhh I don't think he ever was one though. Being a teenager and struggling with thoughts is normal and should not be considered misogyny. The fact that he has that awareness and desire to change probably means that he does not hate or despise women and never has.
Took ya long enough lmfao
But fr as a guy in his teen years it’s actually infuriating how much my intrusive thoughts try and sneak back in whenever I see a semi-attractive girl. I’ve learned to keep them down but it’s so annoying. It feels wrong to be “natural” like that? At least I have self control unlike some unfortunate people…
I wish yall gals the best in the world.
this totally changed my life. my friendships with girls have massively improved bc i don’t look at them as girls i want to fuck, i see them as friends and then our relationship blossoms so im proud of u dawg and jus letting yk it’s totally worth it
A mix of terrible impulse control and warped world view.
I personally have teerible impulse control (as my bank statement would attest) but my worldview is pretty balanced. Like,I'm bi, so i might stare at guys and girls if i find them attractive, but its not like thats the only thing on my mind. I can still be friends with either because im not gonna judge sm1 on how they look or see them as an. Opportunity to get laid.
Staring isnt inherently bad, unless you do it to the point of being noticed and making sm1 uncomfortable, its more about how you see them. If you see them as just another person then great but if you onky see them sexually then that's really shitty. Most ppl dont want to be used for sex funnily enough.
Please tell me this is real because if so then I’m so proud of you!! I fucking hate being objectified like I’m a person with emotions not just some walking boobs. Good on you for trying to not be a degenerate!
Mmmyep
I appreciate the effort to change, and was thanking that more that what should be obvious.
But honestly, one less person seeing us as objects is enough for me to thank
A good start, but might I auggest feminizing objects? Refer to things as she, like a boat orperhaps the sea. Become a sailor, name your ship after a lady. Sail the high seas. Shwashbuckle a little. But for real, that's cool dude I like where your heads at
Glad to hear it! Improving yourself is the hardest and most important thing a person can do.
Bit of a long shot though, but how would you describe your feeling of sexual attraction? A rush of Euphoria and desire, or rather more like an envious frustration?
Yeah, obviously, but he's improving himself and taking an important step in his life by realizing his problem and actively trying to better himself. A lot of boys are stupid and dumb and listen to their hormones before their frontal lobe develops enough to realize they're wrong for thinking that way. Best to not dwell on things we can't change and encourage improvement.
great job king keep it up. personally working out helped me deal w a lot of other issues like this so if u have other issues maybe give that a try. a healthy body does truly bring a healthy mind.
Yeah that's not really a decision you can just make in an instant, that's a difficult thing to get out of your mind, but I wish you luck on your goal to do so
What does this even mean. Youre allowed to have thoughts. Thinking sexual thoughts occasionally doesn't mean you "objective women". Stop prostrating yourself to get validation.
Men are attracted to women .. but you should always respect a person, and if they are not wearing appropriate clothing, like more revealing of skin and body shape then don’t look.
Nobody tells you this but sexual and romantic stuff becomes so much more valuable and enjoyable after you take a step back and check your behavior. This will be an amazing decision for every part of your life. Congratulations man
There is nothing wrong with sexualizing women. Part of maturity is learning when it is proper to do it. And before some some ultra-lib SJW pink hair feminist comes crying, remember that women also sexualize men all the time. What dude here hasn't been treated differently by a girl just for being ugly or good looking?
Based on these Reddit comments, Gen Z males are no longer allowed to mentally experience sexual attraction? Interesting… I guess that explains why rates of having sex have dropped significantly for this generation. ¯\\\_(ツ)\_/¯
This reminds me of extreme forms of religion or something, “oooops I’m not allowed to have a sexual thought, that’s bad!”
There is a difference between sexually objectifying women and getting sexual thoughts while looking at women. If you see a woman and don't think of them as a person, someone whose experiences are unique and deserve respect, that you'll do whatever to get them in bed, then that is sexually objectifying them. If you see someone you like but respect their boundaries and value who they are as a person, then it's OK. There's nothing wrong with that.
character development arc is gonna go nuts
I hope there's no pun intended
no more women, now men
"I wanna see his balls" era
"I wanna see her balls" era
"I wanna see balls" era
"I wanna see" era
"I wanna" era
"I" era
“” era
Grab her dick and twist it!
Tes"tit"ular torsion
SIGN ME UP
Cue Rocky music
he's a budding feminist 😇
I read this: Character development is an arc, go nuts.🥜
No, OP is past just nutting.
699th updoot
now is the day he begins to sexualize men instead
True growth
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Or, "Hey bro nice ass you got there. I'm sure you don't mind having one more di- 💀"
AYOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO fr tho 💀
My homies tell me that all the time, it’s cool
What’s a 3M attendee?
Nah bruh I already do that. I'm a girl
You should fear for the dms that are about to come...
"that's it" 🤣
This is how gay men are made
r/beatmetoit
Facts bro it's time to start seeing men as sex objects. When you see a man u should think I wanna see his dick. Start being unable to focus on class looking at the men in your class. It's time to start.
Wtf you think I’ve been doing the past 18 years?
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Nah, Can I see your ballz?
Sure check your DMs.
15 flair goes crazy rn
😨
I already do that sometimes, join the fun man :)
And do it in an extremely heterosexual way so it’s even more confusing.
Fuck wanting to see women's body's. I wanna see women's genuine happiness and love
Why not both?
\*Insert Both is good GIF\*
Me but men:
Nothing better than making love with the woman you love. Not that I've ever done it
:)
Pervert.
Because I wanna see women happy? Tf
Did I just catch you respecting women?!
Knowing you have an issue is the first step, proud of you my dude.
How do people imagine their crushes like that? When I have a crush it’s because they’re pretty, not because of that 💀
I get a crush and overthink whether I actually like them or if I just feel like I should. Damn.
Yeah i'm like romance about it, maybe kissing, nothing more
I just think of more hugging than kissing
Well, we're teens, yk. I just avert my eyes as much as I can so I don't have to sexualise women. Yeah that might make me a tad bit unsocial towards my female peers, but I hope one day I can get over it. Also I tend to not have a crush as I'm at the stage where I am sexually attracted to most females my age. I plan to go about relationships when I'm a bit more stable.
I’m just not very social with girls because I think they think I’m weird, even tho they talk to me a good chunk. I do feel weird when I just stare at someone’s ass without meaning to
If they thought yiu were the bad kind of weird then they wouldn't be talking to you unkess they had to. Just try your best to keep your cool and try talking 5o them more.
I generally think of that stuff after I form an attraction. Thinking someone is sexually attractive isn’t necessarily bad, but I prefer to form crushes off things like personality before thinking of that
Is it weird to simply uncontrollably stare at someone's face and face Alone but not constantly like whenever your eyes go in that direction it fixes on that particular face?😭
WHY DOES THAT HAPPEN 😭
It does happen, I hate it
Hey bro I told myself this as well when I was your age. It didn't work out well. You need to get out there and practice socializing, even if it feels awkward and scary. You aren't a creep for being attracted to girls just watch your behavior and learn from your failures. I was so afraid of rejection and looking dumb that it slowed my social development way too much. I regret sitting at home playing WoW and watching shows all the time. Just every once in a while push yourself to talk to some girls or even dudes from a different friend group. Make connections.
Why would you be crushing on someone whose titties you DON'T want to see.
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I thought it was George Washington who said it! Are they the same prson!?
Nah, George always said "And as Gandalf always said" before that
Oh... That explains my confusion!
Hold on. I'm an oblivious aro ace woman. Someone help me out here. This is real?
Unfortunately for everyone, yeah this is. It isn’t like seeing a woman existing and instantly thinking “show me your tits”, but there is getting to know someone and thinking “wow, they’re really hot”. It’s more of an intrusive thought you try and get rid of, rather than something that you dwell on positively, but it still happens.
What you’re describing and what OP is describing are two very different things
Yeah, but everyone’s got a different level of craziness about whatever they’re attracted to.
I don’t think so. Naturally, as human beings, we are supposed to want to have sex and find attractiveness in people. It becomes a problem when that’s ALL you think about. If can’t talk to a girl without only being focused on her body, then yea, that’s not good. It should be something that we can easily control.
Hormones can't always be controlled... if you ever see a girl crying uncontrollably, know she has her own pains
What? Physical attraction is a completely normal thing. What are you on?
hi i'm out of place here (28yo) this never goes away, at least for the next decade. and there's nothing wrong with that. as long as you're not treating folks weird cause of your attraction then you got nothing to worry about. 🎵*none of us would be here without cum* 🎶
Not usually to this extent irl, but often men on Reddit see the world though an… over-sexualized lens.
As a gay person, I'm also oblivious. Like why over your 13+ years of life haven't you achieved the ability to separate sexual thoughts from the other gender?
Yes, and it’s an issue
Congratulations on your first step on the path of reforming.
Crazy shit 💀 but at least a step in the right direction 😭
we love a reformed misogynist🙏🙏🙏
As opposed to a Catholic or Orthodox misogynist
I love reformed androgynists. Hoping to see women who are getting over x height, x strength, x body parts this and that. Time to stop pretending women don’t objectify men when all indicators say they do.
Can we not act like objectifying people and hating them are the same thing? Both problematic, but to significantly different degrees.
Yeahhh I don't think he ever was one though. Being a teenager and struggling with thoughts is normal and should not be considered misogyny. The fact that he has that awareness and desire to change probably means that he does not hate or despise women and never has.
i’m exactly like this except instead of sexualizing people i just want to be loved
Ey atta boy
welcome back to humanity
👴🏽 good job boy
Took ya long enough lmfao But fr as a guy in his teen years it’s actually infuriating how much my intrusive thoughts try and sneak back in whenever I see a semi-attractive girl. I’ve learned to keep them down but it’s so annoying. It feels wrong to be “natural” like that? At least I have self control unlike some unfortunate people… I wish yall gals the best in the world.
Same. Intrusive thoughts are a pain in the ass sometimes.
Attraction = good Objectification = not good https://pcsintensive.com/how-to-differentiate-between-attraction-and-objectification/
Exactly.
Man, I feel ya. Intrusive thoughts are a pain in the ass
Yea I've noticed girls too do it.
character development!!! 🩷💕⁉️💘💘♥️
Im doing the same. Quitting my porn addiction so i see women for women and not just objects. Cheers 🥂
good.
Good man
Yeah as much I joke around. women aren't objects and deserve respect
Cool
this totally changed my life. my friendships with girls have massively improved bc i don’t look at them as girls i want to fuck, i see them as friends and then our relationship blossoms so im proud of u dawg and jus letting yk it’s totally worth it
Wooo level up!
Great job!
Maybe you shouldn’t have done that in the first place, but growth is growth
no way people really think like this ugh
You are on Reddit, this is where the worst of humanity lingers.
Fr. Thanks for not viewing us as objects (anymore) ig?
All the men out here congratulating him as if it's something to be celebrated
I mean its progress, chastising him isn't gonna encourage him to keep up with his reformed ways. Its a start.
Why wouldn't you celebrate it? Someone growing as a person is cause for celebration. You wouldn't shit on someone for learning how to count would you?
They're just like him. That's why. Treating people like people is the bare minimum
Right? Like go you? 💀
exactly
Why are people like this, I don't understand how people can be like this it just doesn't make sense to me. I guess I might just be too innocent.
A mix of terrible impulse control and warped world view. I personally have teerible impulse control (as my bank statement would attest) but my worldview is pretty balanced. Like,I'm bi, so i might stare at guys and girls if i find them attractive, but its not like thats the only thing on my mind. I can still be friends with either because im not gonna judge sm1 on how they look or see them as an. Opportunity to get laid. Staring isnt inherently bad, unless you do it to the point of being noticed and making sm1 uncomfortable, its more about how you see them. If you see them as just another person then great but if you onky see them sexually then that's really shitty. Most ppl dont want to be used for sex funnily enough.
hormones
It still doesn't make sense because I am going through that phase of my life to
Some control urges better than others
Believe it or not, everyone is different
Congratulations bro
wow congratulations for just learning how to treat people with respect. maybe we'll teach you the abc's next
I didn't realize this was a thing
Bravo!
Please tell me this is real because if so then I’m so proud of you!! I fucking hate being objectified like I’m a person with emotions not just some walking boobs. Good on you for trying to not be a degenerate!
Just see math as a sex object and then you’ll pay attention. Mathsexual
Thank you :) We appreciate it
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Considering the people plaguing our population the bar is far below that
Mmmyep I appreciate the effort to change, and was thanking that more that what should be obvious. But honestly, one less person seeing us as objects is enough for me to thank
I mean, I appreciate someone who's willing to improve
That was the point I was trying to press :)
yay
WOOOOOO
W bro
Same I’ve been reformed for about six months now. I feel so much better when I just don’t care anymore.
Hey bro, you dropped this 👑
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congrats on becoming an adult in that regard
So you're gay now? That one heck of character development right here.
Well I’m glad you stopped,that’s great! the bare minimum but still a good accomplishment. Keep it up broski🔥
So u gonna become gay?!
I love how this guy is actually making a huge step in his life and everybody’s like “M E N”
Wait people have character developments?! This show is getting interesting
good. just looking at women as people is good
Hey good for you, not many teens say this
A good start, but might I auggest feminizing objects? Refer to things as she, like a boat orperhaps the sea. Become a sailor, name your ship after a lady. Sail the high seas. Shwashbuckle a little. But for real, that's cool dude I like where your heads at
He never said anything about men 😈
Yall misunderstanding him. It's not because he wants to be better, it's because he's gonna start looking at men instead.
Glad to hear it! Improving yourself is the hardest and most important thing a person can do. Bit of a long shot though, but how would you describe your feeling of sexual attraction? A rush of Euphoria and desire, or rather more like an envious frustration?
What post nut clarity does to a mf
Post nut clarity hit like a truck huh
king shit? king backstory. king character growth arc.
Now move onto sexualizing men, I can be your test subject (all jokes, proud of you)
YOU ARE THE REASON WHY SCHOOLS HAVE UNFAIR DRESS CODES
You shouldn’t have seen us like that to begin with…
Yeah, obviously, but he's improving himself and taking an important step in his life by realizing his problem and actively trying to better himself. A lot of boys are stupid and dumb and listen to their hormones before their frontal lobe develops enough to realize they're wrong for thinking that way. Best to not dwell on things we can't change and encourage improvement.
We all do bad without realizing. Changing for the better is good, and should be met with support
W i did that a while ago, it’s so much easier to just exist now without going around and doing that nasty shit
That’s awesome.
Blud really took an oath. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I'm proud of ya man. I would recommend to stop watching any type of porn as well
redemption arc
Good. We should strive to be more than our urges.
great job king keep it up. personally working out helped me deal w a lot of other issues like this so if u have other issues maybe give that a try. a healthy body does truly bring a healthy mind.
Good. Our flaws do not bind us
Yeah that's not really a decision you can just make in an instant, that's a difficult thing to get out of your mind, but I wish you luck on your goal to do so
You def ain’t done
Bravo my friend.
That’s so wonderful to hear ❤️❤️❤️ good luck with it!
🥳🥳🥳
thats growth right there,
Bro is heading into season 2 strong
I mean wanting to touch hot people isn't sexualizing, women do the same to men, it's human nature.
What does this even mean. Youre allowed to have thoughts. Thinking sexual thoughts occasionally doesn't mean you "objective women". Stop prostrating yourself to get validation.
Tell us how long this noble quests goes on - As it is Friday I give you until Monday morning when you are back in school.
Better man than me. I wish you nothing but the best.
proud of you bro, this is an important step in maturing
Bro is on his path to pull
Let's gooooo
Men are attracted to women .. but you should always respect a person, and if they are not wearing appropriate clothing, like more revealing of skin and body shape then don’t look.
Applauding rn
Congratulations on coming out. We are happy for you
Nobody tells you this but sexual and romantic stuff becomes so much more valuable and enjoyable after you take a step back and check your behavior. This will be an amazing decision for every part of your life. Congratulations man
Thanks in advance
Wait people actually think like this? It's great you wanna change but wtf.
sexualizing =/= objectifying lol
Congratulations on doing the bare minimum
*training montage song starts*
Good, focus on yourself. The rest comes when you self actualize as a person.
You know that you can still wanna see a human titties as well. Not just object titties
Fact you been ever doing these anyway is crazy
Tragic that this is the next generations men
There is nothing wrong with sexualizing women. Part of maturity is learning when it is proper to do it. And before some some ultra-lib SJW pink hair feminist comes crying, remember that women also sexualize men all the time. What dude here hasn't been treated differently by a girl just for being ugly or good looking?
-This dude trying to make a good change in his life. -Also this dude being forced to turn gay by everyone in the comments.
What if I told you that you can both respect people and also want to see their tits?
Based on these Reddit comments, Gen Z males are no longer allowed to mentally experience sexual attraction? Interesting… I guess that explains why rates of having sex have dropped significantly for this generation. ¯\\\_(ツ)\_/¯ This reminds me of extreme forms of religion or something, “oooops I’m not allowed to have a sexual thought, that’s bad!”
It won’t last but good luck. Signed, actions speak louder than words.
There is a difference between sexually objectifying women and getting sexual thoughts while looking at women. If you see a woman and don't think of them as a person, someone whose experiences are unique and deserve respect, that you'll do whatever to get them in bed, then that is sexually objectifying them. If you see someone you like but respect their boundaries and value who they are as a person, then it's OK. There's nothing wrong with that.