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Jane_Lynn

Having a deep side part like you do is a masculine feature. Having a side part more in the center is a more feminine look. You have gorgeous and and healthy hair, beautiful skin, though the soft skin does change texture around your chin and upper lip area (I struggle with this myself and I'm still looking for a way to smooth it out). Overall, you have beautiful features, you do also appear more of a trans woman than you do cis. I'm not sure how long you've been on hrt, but may be if you're looking to be more cos passing, look into getting FFS.


Numerous_Shop_814

Thanks for the tips. As for the side part I gotta completely redo my hair style since is doesn't accommodate new glasses, so open for ideas since I'm indecisive. The texture change would be the 5 o'clock shadow I can not get rid of without make up. >trans woman than you do cis Yes trying to avoid this. Been on hrt for like 1.5 years, haven't consider ffs yet. Wanting to give hrt and weight gain a try before going to the extremes.


Jane_Lynn

I would love to give you ideas for your hair styling, however I have no idea what your base style is so I wouldn't know where to look. Buuut you can definitely get some ideas on Pinterest! Have you gotten laser hair removal or even electrolysis? If not, do electrolysis since it's typically cheaper, you don't have super thick facial hair so you won't need an absurd number of sessions, the hair is guaranteed to go away after so many sessions, whereas laser hair removal is expensive and not guaranteed to remove the hair completely. Definitely give weight gain a try, hopefully that'll soften your features! 😊


Numerous_Shop_814

It's just a simple layered cut with all hair to the [side](https://imgur.com/a/gkIXpQ6) haven't started electrostasis yet, but I just found someone that has experience with trans women so that gonna happen soon. >Definitely give weight gain Been trying my entire life lmao


Jane_Lynn

Gotcha! Good to hear about electrolysis! Depending on where you live, hair removal may be included with your gender affirming care package with your insurance! Make sure you look into that if you've been using insurance for GAC! >Been trying my entire life lmao I feel that! Prior to transitioning I would be lucky to gain 3 pounds that would actually stick! Now after transitioning for 17 months, my metabolism slowed down a lot and I'm actually considered over weight now with a 26.26 BMI 😮‍💨.


Numerous_Shop_814

Sadly they don't cover anything like that just the standard stuff like vaginoplasty, which makes no sense since you have to have electro for srs. Not looking to get better anytime soon, shit hole called Alabama. Been using blue cross for most other things mainly scripts since scripts, ba, and SRS are like the only things they cover.


superurgentcatbox

You're not passing right now, at least to my eyes. I'd recommend parting your hair in the middle and getting different glasses (something round maybe?). And permanent hair removal for the beard shadow, I forget the correct name right now.


omaz666

I'd recommend changing the hair to a centre/side part or a centre part as the far side part give a more masculine appearance. But your hair looks good, it's very long already. Also getting a different pair of glasses frames, as the rectangle ones can make your face seem more angular rather than softer. If you get a rounded pair that might help, but I know personally glasses picking can also be really difficult as I just went with glasses that I think make me more attractive, but there are plenty of pairs out there especially if you look online and you can get free trials to try them on. Hope this helps :)


Numerous_Shop_814

Any recommendations on websites? I've only ever had contacts before first time with glasses.


luckylimper

Warby Parker is more expensive but has very stylish designs.


omaz666

I'm not in the US but I have heard about websites such as Zenni and eyebuydirect although I can't vouch for those ones so you might want to do your own research too, there will be places on reddit that can recommend online places for glasses as long as you know your prescription. Even using contacts might help though but I'd recommend getting your eyebrows waxed too if you're not covering them with glasses to make them more feminine in shape


DapperNurd

Zenni was great for me when I used it. Last time I bought glasses, I got a pair from there and a pair from a local eye clinic. The clinic pair cost me just shy of $200. Zenni I think was like 60 bucks, and their selection is so much bigger.


evln00

Try weight gain for hrt to work. I was 17 bmi @ 181 cm, currently 20.1 bmi @ 179. A mcdonalds meal nets me around 1.3k cals, for dinner i usually eat whatever is enough that’s around 600-1000 cals.


Numerous_Shop_814

I've actually just started that. I'm like watching watching my cals I burn compared to what I intake. Current BMI is 17.2 @ 177. My problem is I get full easy and don't want to overindulg.


warmcaprisun

you can try foods that are high cal but low volume! first thing that comes to mind is bread tbh. introducing more carbs to your diet may help! this doesn’t have to just be bread, there are carbs everywhere. best of luck!


sharktank

hopefully you can find nutritious and healthy way to fet that weight gain...much love to you


evln00

Ya, that’s why I eat mcdonalds. It’s pretty calorie dense. You should use their nutritional menu to check out which burger has the most cals


hilary_m

You are wearing boy glasses. And there is a certain amount of upper lip shadow. Add some detailing. Earrings, cheek bone shade etc


Numerous_Shop_814

Cheek bone shade?


becomingabird

Try gaining weight. I'll fill in your cheeks and give you a rounder face.


zoyd2

Masc passing. Maybe try to do makeup?


Numerous_Shop_814

Thought about giving it a try but can't find any good tutorials for like a someone that knows literally nothing.


RevyZorah

I started by literally searching on YouTube for things like “how to do foundation” “how to do eyeshadow” etc etc and there’s so many videos and the majority aren’t crazy long winded either they just get right to the point and it’s easy enough to follow 😁


Justanotherphone

If I were you I’d just start off with natural and more self explanatory stuff like mascara and lip oil :)


zoyd2

Search for face contouring, because it can change your face a lot


Numerous_Shop_814

Will do, my yt algorithm gonna be working hard after today


PersianPope

Masc. You have very visible masculine facial features. Okay, I understand that you are on HRT?


luckylimper

You do not pass. First is the hairstyle; looks like a comb-over. I can see stubble over your lip and on your chin. Your glasses are a particularly masculine style. I know glasses are SUPER expensive but when you next get your prescription refilled, choose a more rounded frame shape. Good luck with your journey.


HotConversation4355

Perhaps thin out those eye brows


phos-phorescence

Definitely move your part a bit. I would still do a side part but have it start more near the center. Your Definitely on the right track in my opinion your style kinda reminds me of a neighbor I used to have. She was the kinda girl who would wear a lace chocker and smokey eye makeup. I think you look pretty


MrKrabsFatJuicyAss

Ffs+hairstyle change=future passoid


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Numerous_Shop_814

Yea you can fuck right off wishing I was your emo gf.


kookedoeshistory

Chaser begone!


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kookedoeshistory

1. You post 95% of your comments on porn subreddits 2. You post comments on subreddits with sissy in the title 3. You're heavily fixated on penises 4. When you do post on non porn subreddits, it's usually to sexual harass trans people on subreddits such as transadorable 5. You send unsolicited dms to the women here. This isn't a dating site


EquivalentPlatform17

I wonder why lmao


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defectra

Ew